September 1, 2026

A reminder that I am human

Hello everyone,

Firstly I would like to apologize for the very different nature of this post.
It saddens me that I even have to make this post at all, but past interactions and some more recent ones have triggered this.

Please remember that I am human. I am not just some anonymous figure behind a screen with no feelings. Your words, nice or otherwise, have an impact on me emotionally.

If you ever have any concerns about anything you see in any of my mods, you are absolutely welcome and entitled to contact me either through public channels or private DMs on Tumblr/Patreon, and have a conversation with me about it.
What I do not appreciate and what is not helpful, is posting publicly about a feature and then declaring that I must be a horrific, malicious person.

I can assure you I am not secretly some evil, disgusting person attempting to trick you all into thinking I'm nice. If there is anything you see that you are unsure about, literally 100% of the time it is not born from maliciousness but simply a gap in my knowledge.
I always appreciate you guys helping me to fill those gaps in a constructive, friendly manner.

This post is not relevant for 99% of you, and I am so grateful and thankful for you guys. I read almost everything you say & you have said some truly lovely things.

Thanks, Sebbie :)

p.s. Some of you may have seen this on discord a while ago - I meant to post here too, just forgot.

Comments (43)

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JeanBug · September 20, 2026

I recently joined Patron, and for the years I have been downloading your mod before that. You are an amazing person, and it's clear from your mods you put so much effort and care into everything you put out. It's a shame there are people who are just awful at times. Edit: Sorry this happened to you; no one should have to deal with that.

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h. e. l. p. · September 16, 2026

Who is being nasty to you??? I'm so sorry, thank you for all that you do!

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Snow Flake · September 14, 2026

I apologize for my previous post with bringing up those posts on X. It was very important for me to clear up the situation, hope you understand. Sorry those youngsters didn't think of talking to you in private about that first. I'm still very grateful to you for managing the situation and clearing it up. Thank you!

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Gaby Carrillo Yamagoku · September 13, 2026

Insecure people attack good people because they need to make them feel inferior in order to feel good about themselves. Don't care about them; you are an amazing person.

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Ahelya Danglades · September 6, 2026

Thank you so much for your hard work and your kindness, Sebbie. Your mods are the first ones I add to my game everytime I must reinstall TS4. Can't play without them. You DO NOT deserve any kind of bullying, insults or mean comments. Those people can go touch some grass and create what they want on their own if they think they can do better.

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Natalie Pace · September 6, 2026

Have always loved your mods and you've always been super nice :)

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My Mid-Victorian Crisis · September 5, 2026

I am so sorry. Bullying and emotional abuse seems to be a pastime for so many trolls.

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pynksimz · September 5, 2026

Hey sorry this may sound dumb, but would the royalty mod interfere with the sims 4 royalty n legacy game pack? I'm just making sure so I am not wasting 40$ to ea lol

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Natasha Red · September 4, 2026

I am so sorry you even have to say this. Please know you are so appreciated by the community and I'm sorry some rude and entitled people have disrespected you. I hope you take good care of yourself.

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Orangelover18 · September 3, 2026

I have no idea what happened but from looking t your mods at first glance, nothing seems to be problematic so idk what is people’s problem? I’m sorry you’re having to go through this

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Sabine Scott · September 3, 2026

I am eternally grateful for your talent und that you share it with us <3 Some people are just beyond stupid and obviously forget or don't care that you have a life beyond modding and I am so sorry that you encountered some of these people and felt the need to make a post like this, which shouldn't even be neccessary if all of us humans showed common sense and stopped being so entitled just for a minute. You have MY gratitude for everything you do and also take some time for yourself, so you don't burn out! Selfcare is so important ! Take good care of yourself and have fun when you make mods, which enrich our games so much! Much <3 Bee

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Mary Beth Waters · September 2, 2026

yes you are and we all love your work

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Patricia Martinez · September 2, 2026

I’m really sorry about the hurtful words you’ve seen. I appreciate your work a lot and use your mods all the time

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Tequilababs67 · September 2, 2026

You're such a creative person and I'm sorry that you have to deal with people like that. Please keep up the amazing work, whatever you do, and be sure to remember to take lots of breaks and take care of yourself. We love you and can't lose you now. You're a friend as well as a creator!!!

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SulSulSistaa · September 2, 2026

Grateful for all the work you do for the Sims 4 community! Thank you :)

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Desiriee · September 2, 2026

Hi Seb! I think you’re amazing ❤️ I LOVE ALL YOUR MODS!! I’m so sorry you had to deal with such people. They don’t deserve a place in this community.

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littlefella · September 2, 2026

I was so sick of seeing so many modders post "please don't harass me" posts, I had to go out of my way to show you all love. Go see my cover photo. Take care!!!

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armanasims · September 2, 2026

Please, take good care of yourself... Some people do not understand that they are not entitled to the hard work of others, especially when that hard work is being done freely. I am disheartened that you have had such negative commenters. Please know, however, that there are so many of us who appreciate all that you do. Thank you for your hard work.

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valentina1988 · September 2, 2026

Don't know what had happened too but you do mods I can't live without them in my mods folder. Sorry to hear that weird things they may write or say but this 99 loving your work and appreciate.To be normal is such a valuable thing right now. Thank you for hard working!

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KsankaSims · September 2, 2026

Hi! I’m so, so sorry you had to deal with people like that. Sometimes... honestly, far too often... people just behave like complete idiots, unfortunately... You’re a wonderful creator, and I’m sure you’re a wonderful person too. I just wanted to send you a little ray of support!!! I hope you can forget that person as soon as possible. IT (no he/she/they) someone who knew absolutely nothing about you, yet still decided to throw some random nastiness your way while passing by. I suppose some people simply don’t have much else inside them to give. And yes, I completely agree with the comment saying that people like this should be called out publicly. After all, if they feel entitled to behave rudely toward others, why shouldn’t the rest of us be allowed to know who they are?

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echiax · September 2, 2026

Your talent with making mods is amazing and you should never have to hear any bullshit about you that isn't true. Listen to the rest of us who have your back because we all love and appreciate what you've done for this community, and will be sticking around for a long time to come. You have brought back my love for the game and made me able to live out my old-timey dreams of running kingdoms and living as peasants, so I can't thank you enough for all the hard work you've done. Thank you so much for being an amazing human, and just know that there are many others like me who adore your work <3

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Diamond · September 2, 2026

You are amazing! ... Your work is amazing. I honest-to the Gods feel privilege that I get to use the mods you make. You're doing great! I hope you have an amazing week! 💜

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Alita Packard · September 2, 2026

I have no idea what happened but we love and appreciate you so much!

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vio · September 2, 2026

sorry people can't be normal 😮‍💨

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Araya Garner · September 2, 2026

Its sad and concerning how I've seen many creators make this post or quit because the community disrespects them.

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Sue Michelle Koon · September 2, 2026

-hugs-

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DAVID EVANS · September 2, 2026

Sorry to hear that - most of us really appreciate you!

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Andrea Murphy · September 2, 2026

I am not entirely sure what happened...but I will convey this...you are one of the most talented mod creators I have ever seen. You do fantastic work and so detailed. I simply cannot play without your mod in my game...You do what makes you happy...

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K. Knighten · September 1, 2026

awwww.....nasty people! you are doing great! keep up the good work!

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jaredsims003louw · September 1, 2026

I also agree: You’re human too! 😸 I love all the work you put into your mods! You don’t have to rush to make or update mods because people expect you to. I love your mods so much! ❤️ - You’re a wonderful person! & an amazing creator!🤍 Thank you so much for your amazing & hard work! 🫂

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Oliver Company · September 1, 2026

You're too nice. I would've started bullying them if it was me, if I was you i'd put them on full blast and post each comment they said so they can get publically shamed. Maybe you should do that.

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Ahelya Danglades · September 6, 2026

Oh yes ! Actions have consequences. People can't hide behind their screen and think nothing will happen.

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Rissa78doll · September 1, 2026

I’m so very sorry that happened to you. people can be cruel and entitled. I appreciate all the custom creators that take time to make others lives a little more enjoyable and game time super fun! so thank you ! and don’t waste you’re energy on negative people no matter what you do they will never be happy!

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Amani Hall` · September 1, 2026

THIS. love it. sorry that people be losing their sense and start talking out the side of their neck to you😒. boo them🍅🍅. like have class. Did we all forget?? if you have nothing nice to say nothing at all!?! Thank you for all your hard-work always because without YOU we wouldn’t have any of these amazing mods🫶🏽

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Taseber66 · September 1, 2026

I LOVE your work Sebbie. Especially Royalty Mod and Heritage mod. I use them a lot in my gameplay. I think you Rock!!!! Keep up the good work!!

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llama · September 1, 2026

thank you for your hard work 🥰

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Faiz Jack · September 1, 2026

Wtf you dont deserve that what did you do to possibly make these A holes say such things? Your mods are literally one of my most favourite mods

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ZebraAirVest · September 1, 2026

You’re the best, thank you for all that you do! <3

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Jamie · September 1, 2026

🫂🫂

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Gleivis · September 1, 2026

Hello, reading your email really touched me so much that I decided to send you a warm hug and thank you for your honesty. Not all people are capable of recognizing their mistakes!

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Melek · September 1, 2026

You're a wonderful person and amazing creator! I'so sorry that you have to deal with such things. But we honestly appreciate the work you do. Thank your sososo much!

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jodi_bunni · September 1, 2026

Yess I love all the work you put into your mods so thank you for everything you do!🫶🏾🫶🏾

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krizverse · September 1, 2026

🤍🤍🤍