UpDating After Hours

This week's bonus episode we meet the legend CHOOF and hear his story. Get ready for a wild roller-coaster of a show we filmed in Westhampton Beach over the summer. Stay for the ending when we have our own mini-bodybuilder competition lol...

The end of the show was INSANE and unhinged. Enjoy this crazy extended cut...

Alyssa, a future therapist, meets David, a guy who knows how to let the ladies make the first move. But when a surprise guest from the audience turns out to be EXACTLY David’s type, all bets are off. Plus, a parade of characters & one shocking audience member reveals himself. Filmed in New York, NY.

A tale of two stories. Avery and Sophia share different sides of what happened between these two...this may have been the most toxic update yet

Broadcasting a real-time check-in with Melissa at the after party to hear about her & Pete. This is juicy!

Theresa, divorced mother, is looking for love and gets setup with the one & only Justin. When their date takes a turn, another mom & daughter crash the stage looking for their own shot at romance. Enjoy this topsy-turvy bonus episode on this Golden Week.

Welcome to Golden UpDating! Palm Beach Pete meets Melissa for a second shot at love 20 years after their divorces, while fertility expert Avery goes on a date with Sophia and the talented Erica! Will sparks fly? This feel-good episode of UpDating filmed in New York City, NY.

We can't believe what we are about to say but there is officially an UpDating marriage: Jeff & Megan! They met on stage at our Philadelphia show a few years back (pre-YouTube) and officially tied the knot. This is a monumental moment for the show and we hope it's the first of many more marriages. Wa

Nowshin gave us a great update on what happened with Ryan after the show...We also hear more about her & Jay.

Jay is a tall king who reads books. Nowshin hates podcasts. Will their love of the written word spark a romance despite a massive height difference? Or will Ryan, a pretty-boy model with confidence to spare, swoop in and steal her heart? Studs, book smarts, and one surprising twist. Filmed in New Yo

We spoke to Gem and in a shocking twist, she's going to Iceland with Frank!? One of the juicier post show updates we've ever heard...

The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives star Chase McWhorter takes the UpDating stage looking for more than just a date—he’s searching for a stepmom for his kids. Enter Gem: unfiltered, high-energy, and obsessed with chasing the unexpected corners of the world. The chemistry is immediate but it's never tha

We were not expecting to see Frank and Gem pull up to another show together...

We spoke to the bodybuilder Matt and got a juicy update on what ended up happening with Caroline. Will this be another success story worthy of a Planet Fitness partnership?

We had a real Olympian, Shane, on our show in Atlantic City and it was EPIC. Enjoy this wild ride of an uncensored bonus episode with some moments that we've never seen before on UpDating. We love AC!

Omar kicks off his dating journey with a story only fit for UpDating. Dakota says she’s ready for love—and to finally “listen” to her heart. They have instant chemistry… until Matt, the bodybuilder, jumps up on stage to steal her away. Does the more muscular guy win, or is there a fitting twist wait

In true Florida fashion, the after party was insane with a return of old & new guests.

Fort Lauderdale UpDating never disappoints. Michael and Adrianna’s confident first date takes a wild turn when two best friends from the audience deliver his dream ending. Then, in true UpDating fashion, a surprise return from Michael's past shakes the stage in this all-star episode. This episode is

We get the updates on Endy & Julia, their epic love saga that continued unexpectedly on UpDating. Is this destiny with these two? Find out what happened...

Endy and Brinley are riding into the sunset (with her dad watching)…until Julia crashes the stage and exposes a past that changes everything. This all-time classic UpDating episode was filmed in Boston at the Wilbur Theater in front of a sold out crowd of 1,500.

A little post-date recap from the daters filmed at one of the best after parties in UpDating history.

The rest of Julia's story continued on stage with a few men shooting their shot for her. Will any of them make the cut? or will Endy remain the "one that got away?"

This show was from our pre-YouTube days and still to this day had one of the bigger twists in show history. Filmed in New York.

Ladies and gentleman, this update will make you very happy. A true Miami love story.

Payton and Sheri have instant chemistry in one of the most electric dates we’ve seen on UpDating in a long time—but things take a wild turn when Olivia jumps in from the crowd to try and steal him away. Will Payton stay loyal to his first love, or will temptation win out? Filmed in Miami, Florida, t

The magic continued on stage...

Enjoy our bonus episode from Kansas City. This was a topsy turvy night of chaos and an after party that was absolutely unhinged and way too crazy to post on YouTube...

Michael and Maria: a love story. Are they still together? Is this happily ever after? Find out here...

Michael and Maria are young, hot, and looking for something real. He’s the total package — friend, partner, son — while she’s asking the kind of emotional questions that stop you in your tracks. But just when it feels like a perfect match, Quincy, a former college basketball star and Michael's child

Luke & Haley are two sweet souls looking to meet the one. Luke’s love of languages and Haley’s passion for horses make them a well-rounded pair—but will that be enough to fend off the super-stud Cam, who comes up from the audience? Cam has the entire crowd falling over themselves for a shot at his i

The ending of this show was too wild for even YouTube. Find out what happened with Cam, and Nico's surprise return appearance led to a dance for our Birthday queen...enjoy

We got the tea here on Kyra and Samuel. In shock over this...

John—one of ten siblings—and Kyra—an only child—shouldn’t make sense on paper, but from the moment they meet, it’s clear something’s there. What starts as a simple first date quickly spirals into complete chaos, as a parade of unforgettable audience characters take the stage: a Brit, a self-proclaim

There was more to the ditching his date story that unfolded...

Casey, a former twin turned carrot enthusiast, hits it off with the stunning Alex—but when the flashy finance bro, Garret, jumps in from the audience to steal her attention, everything shifts. Will Alex follow her heart…or her appetite? From there, things spiral fast. A guy in the audience abandons

Houston always brings the insanity to UpDating. This episode had everything - cowboys, fights, makeouts, divorcees, crazy after party moments, and so much more. Enjoy this crazy episode.

Alyssa and Garrett are on a steamy first date until they risk it all in order to trick Brandon and Harrison. Then the beautiful Emma hits the stage, ready to shake everything up. Will she end up with Garrett (who happens to have her dream profession), Alyssa...or a different surprise? Filmed live at

We did this show in 2020 long before we were on YouTube and it was one for the books. Filmed at a rooftop venue called the Hotel Selina in NYC, it was the first ever outdoor show of UpDating. Joseph from the crowd is one of the best underdogs in the history of the show. Enjoy!

Max, a British Harvard grad, is searching for love—but he has one very specific type: Brooke. After a series of touch, smell, and romantic tests, will he find the real connection he’s looking for? When Hanna and a Serbian contestant take the stage, unexpected twists unfold, leading to an ending you

In a shocking twist to end the show, Ashley has an identical twin sister...who was waiting in the crowd the entire time!

Ashley and Ben are two singles in Atlantic City searching for love. Ben’s a painter with a reputation for his “package,” while Ashley is still waiting for the right match to come along. But just as sparks begin to fly, Ben’s former fling appears from the audience, forcing the two to confront his pas

We got the tea on Spencer and Elizabeth. Will their fairytale ending continue for happily ever after? Find out here...

Spencer’s an animal lover trying to snap a cold streak. Geli’s over cheaters and ready for something real. On paper, it’s perfect timing—but older women, tennis stars, and hockey fans have other plans. Chaos ensues… and somehow, we land on one of the happiest endings in UpDating history. Filmed in R

We caught up with Spencer and Elizabeth right after the show. Their chemistry clearly continued off stage...

This is our Bonus Episode from our Cleveland show...it was actually insane so enjoy the wild moments here

Conner and Destiny bond over their country roots and love for animals, quickly building real chemistry in front of the live audience. But just as things heat up, two confident wild cards—Alphonso and entrepreneur Adam—step in from the audience. As Alphonso is swarmed by girls in the crowd, Destiny h

Enjoy this extended cut from the Nashville show...this show could have gone on for hours