June 6, 2024

Love Language mod v1- the intro ♡

THIS PAGE IS TO UNDERSTAND HOW THE WANTS WORK FOR LOVE LANGUAGE, BUT PLEASE DOWNLAOD HERE

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I can’t believe my first-ever mod is finally out! I wrote it out in July 2021 hoping the day it could be a mod and the fact it is out now feels so surreal. The five love language mod in The Sims 4! Yes, our sims can now have a love language as a trait. You can buy the trait from the rewards store and it costs 12 points. Once your sim has the trait, you can see it in the simology panel and then your sims will have wants surrounding their trait. I used ALL the packs to create this mod.

What are the wants I will see in the game?

Most of the instructions are already in the game on how to complete the wants

1. Words of affirmation

The charisma skill is important for words of affirmation

  • Compliment outfit *skill 2 charisma*

  • Compliment appearance

  • Brighten day *skill 2 charisma*

  • Flatter *skill 3 charisma*

  • Ask about day

  • Express admiration 

  • Whisper (any whisper social)

  • Profess undying love

  • Pickup line *for couples with high relationship, just have your couple flirt*

  • Sweet talk *skill 6 charsima*

  • Flirt

  • Declare love publicly 

  • Get to know

  • Discuss interest

  • Deep conversation

  • Tell story (any story social)

  • Tell dirty joke *skill 4 comedy and also flirty*

  • Ask a risqué question

  • Write love email *skill 4 writing/ flirty mood*

  • Flirty text *could be regular text too*

  • Heartfelt compliment *happy emotion*

  • Say affirmations

  • Write affirmations


2. Quality Time

  •  Ask about day

  • Watch movie alone or with someone

  • Play Console / PC alone or with someone *skill 4 video gaming*

  • Call someone

  • Chat on computer

  • Cook meal alone or with someone (any meals from all packs)

  • Picnic *spring/summer season*

  • Prepare drinks (any drinks from all packs)

  • Travel

  • Join in cooking

  • Workout *skill 6 fitness*

  • Dance together *skill 3 dance*

  • Pillow fight

  • Teach to knit *skill 10 knitting*

  • Play with sparkler *must be summer/fireworks must be on the property for the want to appear*

  • Video call

  • Watch TV show

  • Take a bath *any bath*

  • Play board games *all table games included*

 3. Gifts  

  • Give gift *friendly, mean, funny or romantic*

  • Give simoleons 

  • Treat yourself or any animal

  • Receive gift *open presents from seasons*

  • Buy something *retail, phone, computer purchase...etc.*

  • Offer rose *gift rose or flower arrangement in inventory/ buy from the flower stall*

  • Donate to charity *skill 3 charisma*

  • Give jewelry gift *gemology table*

  • Give a collectible as a gift *dig to find something or buy simmi capsule

4. Acts of service 

  • Call to meal

  • Be called to a meal

  • Make drinks for *use bar*

  • Prepare drinks (any drink from any pack)

  • Order drinks together / solo

  • Cheers *toast from seasons/ my wedding stories*

  • Order food from stall

  • Clean up

  • Repair

  • Give or receive massage *romantic base game social or spa day*

  • Cook (any meal)

  • Donate to charity *skill 3 charisma*

  • Order delivery 

  • Serve tea/ be served tea *object from my wedding stories*

  • Hire a service  (any service)

  • Volunteer *parenthood pack*

5. Physical touch

These wants need sims to have a first kiss to appear. For sims created in CAS as married or premades, they have to woohoo first for the want to appear.

  • Kiss

  • Kiss lover's cheek / family kiss *all sims are included in this interaction*

  • Hug / Embrace *all sims are included in this interaction*

  • Caress cheek

  • Snuggle your lover

  • Give / receive Massage 

  • Look deeply into eyes

  • Feed a bite

  • Slow dance / sweetheart dance *My wedding stories/ High school years*

  • Cozy up by the fire

  • Woohoo (any location)

  • Cuddle while watching movie

  • Make out 

  • Tickle

Credits 💕

  • Thank you, Tee (danitysimmer) for helping me and teaching me all about modding. You are so patient with me and so understanding.. I’ll never forget your kindness. I pray you receive so many blessings in life

  • Jordy, thank you for motivating me to go back and cheering me on when I sent updates

  • My family and friends who cheered me on when I sent updates

  • Zerbu’s mod constructor v5 / Lot51 tuning builder

  • Sims 4 studio / Scumbumbo’s xml injector

  • Cinnasims for the pose I used/pose player mod

  • "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman [Book]

  • Twistedmexi better exceptions

  • My amazing friends who tested this mod out thank you so much!


XML INJECTOR IS REQUIRED!!!!


Optional downloads ♥

UI Cheats Extension v1.41 | Patreon

MiniMod: Re-Roll Wants | Patreon


Video tutorial


FAQs ღ

1. Why is the mod not appearing for me?

You don't have XML injector mod.


There will be future updates such as moodlets/buffs and love language for children. If you have any issues, please contact me. I will try my best to figure it out. Thanks for downloading and being patient with me. I wish you a lovely day

Take care 🌙

For any modder who wants to translate any of my mods, I don't mind if you upload it on your Patreon or any other website that monetizes, BUT I do not want you to post it on CurseForge. I would also like it if you keep the mods up publicly for download no early access.

Comments (70)

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gugu · July 22, 2026

HHAHHAHAHH

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Sasha's Space · July 22, 2026

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miyah gxzelle · February 9, 2026

Hey, I wanted to know if this was updated by any chance?

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Sasha's Space · February 9, 2026

Hiii this mod should be fine since it’s only for wants, but I’m gonna release the update tomorrow on early access that comes with interactions. That version will be updated with the most recent patch. Then I’m going to update all the other social interaction mods to include the new update relationship details like half sibling, in-laws, relative… etc. I appreciate you for asking.

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YOURFAVNAYA · January 24, 2026

hiiiiiii

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Sasha's Space · January 27, 2026

Hiiii

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NayaMasters · November 25, 2025

hi! i love this mod so much. my sim has the physical touch trait and they got a want to “Tickle” and i see it listed here but i can’t seem to find the interaction in game.

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Sasha's Space · November 25, 2025

You have to sit with your partner and the interaction will appear💕

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OreoBaibee · November 10, 2025

Is this cleared for the recent update?

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Sasha's Space · November 25, 2025

Yes the mod is still working sorry for the late reply. All my mods are. I didn’t post a patch update since the patch was small and none of my mods have tuning errors or last exception as I’ve been working on a recent update. Only mod that sort of needs an update is take photo of food as the flirty buff should appear at restaurants only. I will go back to fix that very soon. I’m just currently working on love language update and preoccupied with that 💗💗💗 tysm for your support

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tori 🍥 · October 13, 2025

i need russian translation (((

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Sasha's Space · October 14, 2025

If you know any Russian translators, please request them to translate it and tell them to contact me. I will add their link to the post 🥹🫂🫂. If you play with some English mods sometimes, this mod does have the Russian strings on it for now (will appear as English in game), but idk if you do that just wanted to tell you this option exists for now💗

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SimMystique 💜✨ · October 9, 2025

Hi! I loved your mod and decided to translate Love Language into Portuguese so more players can enjoy it. Let me know if you'd like me to share the file with you. 💕

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Sasha's Space · October 9, 2025

Yes, please share the file with me to add the link on the post 💗💗

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Rae · September 22, 2025

does this still work with the September 18 update?

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Sasha's Space · September 22, 2025

Yes

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nevada · August 18, 2025

hii i have the injector and its in my mods folder but it doesnt come up in my mods when i load in the game.

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Sasha's Space · August 18, 2025

I have a couple of questions just to see bc I can’t see your game, but did you check the reward store? Are all your XML injector mods working? Is your XML injector updated to the most recent patch? How many folders deep is the mod in? 🩷

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Sienna Copans · July 21, 2025

Hi, I downloaded the mod and the traits are working but I can't find any of the interactions. I have two sims whos wants are frozen on kiss on cheek and cozy up by the fire. Is there a certain level of romance or another mod/pack I need for these interactions to work?

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Sasha's Space · July 21, 2025

I’m not gonna lie idk if cozy up by the bonfire needs a pack (will google it), but the interaction should appear when the bonfire is on, and your sim is in the same areas as their love interest. That is when you click on the fire and the interaction will appear** Edit: I looked it up and it is a base game interaction*

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line Fabris · July 11, 2025

Hi, I can't download the translation into Brazilian Portuguese.

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Sasha's Space · July 11, 2025

Ohhh I wonder what happened

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TyQuinsha Nelson · July 9, 2025

has this been updated yet?

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Sasha's Space · July 9, 2025

No update needed and works with the patch 🩷

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JustAlwxis · July 4, 2025

is working?

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Sasha's Space · July 5, 2025

Will update in a day 💗

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Magnolia · June 2, 2025

I tried to use this mod, and also have the xml mod on, however it seems that I can not find the love language anywhere

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Sasha's Space · June 3, 2025

Did you check the reward store? It is working with the recent patch 💕

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bookluvrforever · March 25, 2025

thank you for your wonderful mods! If not a bother, do you happen to know if your love language mod is compatible with march 20 patch 1.113? Thank you so much! :)

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Sasha's Space · March 27, 2025

It should be compatible. My mods are usually on the smaller side, so they don’t break as often. This one once had a “broken” status bc it was waiting for XML to update, so the mod can appear. Movie lover did get an update for DX11 update though 🫶🏾🫶🏾

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Little L · March 8, 2025

Hi ! are there any conflicts with other mods that use love interactions and gift-giving? ( Passionate gift from Utopya, Together on a laptop from Utopya, RPO from Lumpinou, More kisses from Maplebell etc...)

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Sasha's Space · March 9, 2025

Hi, I have never heard of this tbh. What is happening for you to feel this way, so I can try to assess this? Are the gift giving wants not appearing at all? Is the want not completing? Also, I’m not sure if Utopya’s gift giving works as a want to complete the in game one which is what I use, but this is a great idea. I’ll try to see if Utopya is open to the idea of me adding their interactions to complete the want for gifts in the mod. Overall Love Language mod is so far wants only and shouldn’t conflict with any mod that has interactions or pie menus since they work differently and use different coding

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faith · November 26, 2024

is there any way you can make this file not rar?

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Sasha's Space · November 27, 2024

I uploaded it separately on sims file share 💗

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Marie Generis · October 4, 2024

this is so cool!!!!!

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Sasha's Space · November 27, 2024

Tysm 💗💗

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🎀 · September 30, 2024

hello! just wanted to know how to download the rar file as i always have trouble with those. this mod looks great! :)

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Sasha's Space · October 1, 2024

Hey hope you’re well💗. Here’s a link for the package files separately if rar doesn’t work for you. I’ll be updating the post very soon for everyone tysm for your kind words🫶🏾 https://simfileshare.net/folder/229728/

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bookluvrforever · September 25, 2024

Thank you SO much for an incredible mod! If not a bother, do you happen to know if it is compatible with Patch 1.109? Thank you so much once again. :)

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Sasha's Space · September 25, 2024

Hey S! I’ll be honest, I haven’t updated yet 😭. The batch fix has me a bit nervous since my mods folder is 200g. I’m gonna work on updating today and batch fix to see if any of my mods need a DX11 update. Thank you for your message 🫶🏾🫶🏾

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Sophia S · September 25, 2024

hi lovely, this mod looks so exciting and I am so keen to try it. I'm unsure of how to use rar files and was wondering if you had any extractors or if there was an alternate file download method?

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Sasha's Space · September 25, 2024

If you want, I’ll release the package files separately for you. I’ll add it as a s4s link in a few hours. I hope your day is amazing Sophia 🫶🏾

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Alexandra M · July 23, 2024

Ahhhh would love to have this mod but the download won't work for me :(

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Sasha's Space · July 23, 2024

There’s an alternative link to simsfileshare 💗

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Kiara Wyatt Bradford · July 16, 2024

watching Fantayzia mod review video... I flew over here to download this! lol thank you love this mod already

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Sasha's Space · July 16, 2024

Ahhh tysm Kiara💗💗💗

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4kotyky Team · July 3, 2024

Hi Sasha, thank you sooo much for this incredible mod! ❤️‍🔥 Our team translates mods for the Ukrainian speaking community and we've translated Love Language Mod into Ukrainian, it's available for all localizations. Here is a link to our translation https://www.patreon.com/posts/love-language-by-107375145?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link. Thank you very much!❤️

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Sasha's Space · July 3, 2024

Thank you so much for translating the mod!

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Daisy1728 · June 30, 2024

Hi there. I really love your mod. I do Polish translations for TS4 mods and I have also translated your Love Language into Polish. I hope that you like it. Here is the link: https://www.patreon.com/posts/107168215?pr=true. My translator nick is Daisy1728. Have a nice day.

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Sasha's Space · July 1, 2024

Thank you so much Daisy! I will add the link to my post(s).

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IRIDYSCENZIA · June 23, 2024

Keep pushing forward! nice job 🏆

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Sasha's Space · June 23, 2024

Thank you 💕💕

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Fleur du Mal · June 19, 2024

Hi Sasha! Love it! Thank you very much for this mod 💕 Would you give me permission to make a spanish translation so I can share it with spanish speaking community? Obviously mentioning your patreon. Thanks! 🫶🏾

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Sasha's Space · June 19, 2024

Yes please translate 🥰. Thank you so much. I will add your link to my post when you’re ready 💕

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Kitt · June 15, 2024

Hi Sasha! I love the idea of this mod! I've been wanting something like this in the sims for a long time! I think I might be doing something wrong on the download. I have the XML injector and had your mod in my folder, but when I went to my main screen it doesn't show the mod in my list, nor does it show in game. Am I doing something wrong? Please help! I want this mod so bad!

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Sasha's Space · June 15, 2024

Hi Kitt! Thank you so much for the love🫶🏾. Is your wants and fears on in the game settings? That could be the reason.

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It’s so fluffy · June 12, 2024

Hi there do I need all the packs to use this mod?

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Sasha's Space · June 12, 2024

I do recommend all the packs for sure, but they should be base game compatible. Some wants may roll if you don’t own the pack ex. Knitting one from Nifty Knitting. I’m not sure honestly bc I own all the packs… what I recommend is using ui cheats to re-roll it or the re-roll wants mod if you experience this💕

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Bonnie.TheSimmer · June 8, 2024

Can't wait to try 🤍

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Sasha's Space · June 8, 2024

Yass 💞💞

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Lost in Sixam · June 8, 2024

Hell yeah! I've wanted this in the game for AGES!!!

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Sasha's Space · June 8, 2024

Same 🥰🫶🏾🫶🏾

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4Hydrolysis4 · June 7, 2024

YASS I've been wanting something like this for a long time! Can't wait to try it out <3

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Sasha's Space · June 8, 2024

Me too! I wanted this for so long💕

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Amazing Mango · June 7, 2024

I've wanted a mod like this since FOR.EVER !! This makes me so happpy !! Thank you for making !!

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Sasha's Space · June 7, 2024

You’re welcome! Your comment makes me so happy thank you💕

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Jerrielle Rutledge · June 6, 2024

I love this mod ❤️❤️

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Sasha's Space · June 7, 2024

Thank you Jerrielle 💕

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Yaz Thee Simmer · June 6, 2024

I'm so excited to try this!

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Sasha's Space · June 7, 2024

Thank you Yasmin 💕