little update
visited family this weekend, and while i was there, our 15 year old family cat passed away. it’s like he waited on me to finally let go.
im a bit of a teary eyed mess and im hoping to be rested and recovered by the weekend to be back into a cheerier state for gaming, movies, etc.
thank you for your understanding, and rest in peace to my oldest friend. ❤️
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hope eralia is okay and did'nt get sick with flu have not seen any update for 2 weeks now ? we miss your streams
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So sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace. Take your time to grieve. God bless.
I absolutely get it. My cat growing up, Patches, lived to be 18. When I was 24, she was old, stiff, deaf, and left in my care for the weekend. That weekend, she actually seemed to recover a bit of her old vigor and seemed almost her old self when mom got home on Sunday night. The next day, she was back to being old and tired, and mom spent the day with her before deciding she just couldn't put the cat through any more, so she called our vet to make the appointment for the next afternoon. Patches went quietly and peacefully, curled up and snoozing on the passenger seat of the car on the way to the vet. They know. And they do wait for you to come home, if they can. Take all the time you need, and hold those memories close. We'll be here for you. Just like they always are.
Oof big bummer. Sorry you had to go through that. Part of life... take your time 😊 Patiently excited for peak (Days of Future Past). Glad you got to be there for a member of your family's last moments at least. Silver lining and all... I know how it feels. Fam will be here when you're ready.
Sorry for your loss. That is so hard. 15 years of memories can not be erased. What a gift to have loved and continue loving. I firmly believe the tingling sensation you feel when you close your eyes and think of a love one, is their energy mixing with yours. They are always with you. May your days be filled with happiness.
no matter how many animals you have the passing never gets easier, if anything it only gets harder, im sorry for your loss Eralia i'm sure the kitty is making biscuit's for ya up there, take your time love.
I’m sorry for your loss. I lost my cat of 11 years last year/: had her since I was 14 years old. She was there when I got my first apartment. Just know he’s always with you in memories and in spirit. Take all the time you need. Wishing you wellness 🫶🙏✨
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Darling 💕 I've been there a few times and it is the worst... Cats though... do get to go to another dimension... 😉 😜 He is already searching for you there 🫂
You can always tell a wonderful human being by how they treat an love thier pets. I'm sorry and like others here we will wait. Take as long as you need. We will be here supporting you.
A few last words for Mr. Grandpa Cat, The world of Miss Eralia and her family took a devastating hit as they lost their senior cat of 15 years to the undefeated father time. In her words, "her oldest friend." A loss that is truly irreplaceable. We gather here on Patreon to not only mourn but also celebrate the life and love that was and forever will be. I didn't have the privilege of knowing you Mr. OG but your sister Miss Eralia has shown to be an absolute savage and inspiration. Thank you for waiting on Miss Eralia to have a last few moments which is as divine of a gift as any. You'd be proud and even more so as her journey to manifesting her dreams has just begun. I wish to have a pet like you one day Mr. OG. Rest easy good sir......
It truly is like losing a piece of your heart and soul 💔being able to give a creature unconditional love and home for their entire lives is one of the most rewarding and painful experiences we get to go through may your heart heal and you find peace in knowing your fur baby was loved
Sorry for your loss. The pain of losing a beloved pet is something I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. Rip to your 4 furry pawed loved one. Take as much time as you need.
Sorry for your loss. We never get enough time with them. My family is a dog family and we have lost a lot over the years, it never gets any easier.
U have my condolences 🙏🏾
Sorry for your loss, my wife passed back in May. My two kitties a couple years ago. I know how it feels.
All of the love for you, Eralia! I'm glad you got to see him one last time!
Pets love with their whole heart, and losing one feels like you've lost the light. Sorry for your loss, and I'm glad you got to see him one last time. Don't record. Feel your feelings. The 5 stages of grief aren't stages but facets, there's not really wrong way to grieve. Cinema therapy that has helped me with the life/afterlife- What Dreams May Come. Coco. Soul. City of Angels. Heart and Souls. Cloud Atlas. My Neighbor Totoro. & I've not been brave enough to watch but is most in tune with you at the moment- Marley & Me. Don't record.
Sorry for your loss, Eralia. I'm sure he lived a happy life with your family.
Pets are closer to our souls then most people in my experience. Please be easy on yourself. Thank you for all you do 🩵
It's hard to lose a furry family member. It just goes to show how important they are to us.
Lamento tu perdida, tomate el tiempo que necesite... Tu salud mental es importante. ❤️🫶
I understand better than you might think. I have always loved cats myself and after leaving the Marines then a bad marriage went back to my childhood home to stay for a while where I reconnected with my childhood friend for about 6 months before she passed away on the driveway behind my car where she would wait for me to leave for work. She was about 20 years old when she passed and for about a month afterwards I had some real problems emotionally. I didn't realize that at the time I was having problems with PTSD which made things even worse all I knew was I had lost my oldest and best friend at the time. Today I have another feline baby who is diabetic and will be 17 years old this October who I had just given his morning Insulin shot and fed breakfast. When he goes it is going to be hard on me as well and I will be left with my little girl who is going to be 10 in June. Don't ever let anyone say anything about how you feel towards this event in your life just be glad you have your other babies with you still. Most people don't understand and think of them as pets or animals but people like us understand they are family and our closest friends who always love us unconditionally and never judge us. We develop relationships of love and trust with them that stay with us our entire lives and I still sometimes think about my first friend who used to take a nap laying across my shoulders while I did homework in elementary school much to my parents confusion and dismay.
Losing a family member, even a beloved pet, hurts deeply, and it’s not easy to heal from that kind of loss. But with time, you will. Sending you lots of positive energy and a virtual hug to you and your whole family. Rest in peace, little friend ❤️
I'm sorry for your loss, take all the time you need! I'm a huge cat person and have 2 of them currently, they're such beautiful and loving animals, hopefully the rest of the family are all okay too!
Take all the time you need. My grandma(she was 102 years young) passed this morning. You are not alone in your loss.
i’m sorry for your loss 🫂
I’m very sorry for your loss. I hope everything will be fine. ❤️
Losing a pet sucks. I've been a doggy daddy my entire adult life. I've had to say goodbye to 2 dogs. My first dog lived 16 years, he was basically my kid. My second I only had for a short time and he had alot of health issues and I had to put him down. I have 3 now and one is getting old and I'm worried his time is coming to an end. One of my young ones has lyme nephritis and it will ultimately cause a early end and I hate knowing he can go at any time even though hes young and looks healthy. Adopt from your local shelters folks. Save lives!
What was his name?
I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost mine a couple years ago and still miss her, and our other cat is 14 so we're cherishing her every day. I'm sure yours is plotting chos from above now, and I hope you can feel okay whenever you're ready ❤️🩹
Terrible news, hope u feel better soon
🙏🏻 Prayers for you and your family. A pet is pretty much family and it always hurts to lose one. 🙏🏻
thank you all so much. i took today as a “remote day” because i can’t go out in public without breaking into tears 😭 it’s an honor to love something and im thankful to have known him for so long. glad i am able to have my own two furry friends in my adult life to give good lives. thank you all for your love and support.
Just checking in to see how our lady of reactions is doing today. Many of us here worry about you when you are feeling low and want to cheer you up in anyway we can...
Condolences on your loss. Just speaking for myself but please take whatever time you need to take care of yourself and to grieve without feeling like you need to rush back here to produce content. The loss of a beloved pet is no different than losing a family member and prioritizing that should come first.
i'm sure he knew he was loved. take care... it's so hard losing a pet
So sorry.... {{{hugs}}}
So sorry for your loss, sucks so much to lose an old pet 😢. Feel better soon 🙏💚
thank you. we grew up together and i’m thankful i got to have him as a pet. ❤️
Oh no, I'm so sorry, eralia. I know how much it hurts to lose a longtime furry family member. Take care and please don't show up until you're feeling up for it.
thank you, he truly was a family member. and i’m sorry for your loss! 🙏
Thoughts and prayers out to you E! Sorry for your loss! 🫂
thank you 🫂
I’m so sorry to hear that. Take as much time as you need. No rush at all.
thank you. i’m not expecting to be “good” but i’m expecting to learn to cope and feel through these emotions; never lost a pet before 😭🥲
Take all the time you need, sorry for your loss. We love youuu🙏❤️
🥲😭 thank you.
