Realistic Life & Pregnancy Mod Release 2026
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Sul sul, Simmers! 🎉
The wait is finally over! I’m so excited to share this new mod with you. It’s been a long journey of creating, testing, and making sure everything works perfectly (fingers crossed for no LE’s!).
This mod is just the beginning! I’ll keep adding fun updates and cool new features to make your game even more exciting. Get ready to play The Sims like never before and have even more reasons to fall in love with your Sims all over again!
As you know, this mod adds 7 brand new pie menus to your game! Each one is separate, so you can pick and choose what you want to use, and remove the ones you’re not interested in.
Personal Stuff was made for Sims who love a little drama! If you’ve ever struggled to find story ideas for your sim, this menu is here to help. It gives you deeper, more detailed storytelling options so you can create your own exciting sim stories.
This menu (Nights) only appears at night, perfect for realistic gameplay! After a long day of school or work, your Sim can show affection, relax together, and share sweet moments.
Morning interaction: Perfect for starting the day! Whether you want to friendzone a sim, spin a new story, enjoy a brunch with a buddy, help a couple fix their relationship, or let two siblings hang out and have fun, enjoy some time together.
Perfect for your little Sims! Let your kids or teens ask their parents to buy them new toys, instruments, sports gear, or hobby supplies. Parents might say yes, no, or under one condition, making the story feel more real and giving you exciting roleplay options beyond just buying things from Build/Buy Mode.
The parent-to-child menu will only appear from Monday to Friday to make it more realistic.
Parent to child interaction: (more cute and heartwarming moodlets in game to discover)
These are just a few moodlets, more in-game
These interactions will only be available to children
Teen's only interaction with the parent
Family pie menu:
This menu is perfect for storytelling when a child or teen has lost a parent, or even both. They can ask their other parent, caregiver, or grandparent about the parent, share memories, and keep their loved one's memories alive. Even though they might miss them deeply, these interactions help your Sims feel connected and bring heartwarming and emotional moments to your gameplay.
This feature is helpful when your Sim is sick or about to die. If they want to stop their child from going to the orphanage, they can ask a friend or family member to be the child’s guardian. After the Sim dies, the other Sim will take care of the child and adopt them.
Family pie menu:
This will be for children only, the "Ask for a new sibling" would be perfect if the child has no siblings and wishes to have one so it could be a cute storytelling moment to add in your game
Perfect for teens who want to explore their style! Your Sim can ask about tattoos, piercings, or both and see how their parents react. Will they follow the rules… or be a little rebellious and sneak it anyway? Full of teen drama, self-expression, and secret shenanigans, this menu adds personality, style, and fun to your teen Sims’ stories!
Parent to child:
Parents can ask their child how they feel about having a sibling before announcing a pregnancy, unlocking genuine reactions and adding extra depth to family gameplay
This part is for the parents only: Your Sim can talk about adopting a child or a pet and discuss expanding the family before making any big decisions. Perfect for planning the future and making family life more real!
Elder Sims can nag their Young Adult or Adult children about getting married and having kids, making family gameplay more funny and realistic.
Complicated Relationship
This can be funny because all couples argue about chores and stuff left undone around the house.
Sims can argue or discuss divorce if one Sim no longer wants to save the relationship.
(More moodlets in game)
The mod now features a Before Pregnancy pie menu, interactions for the 1st, 2nd, and 3rd trimesters, a unique Hates Children trait pie menu that appears exclusively for Sims with that trait, a Post-Pregnancy menu, and several interactions available throughout all trimesters.
1- Before pregnancy:
These interactions only appear if your Sim tries for a baby and the pregnancy test comes back negative. Depending on your Sim’s personality, the experience can feel very different.
You’ll notice separate moodlets: one for Sims with the Hates Children trait, and another for Sims without it. The interaction can be found under the new Pregnancy pie menu that is located under Friendly, and the moodlets you receive will change based on whether or not your Sim has the Hates Children trait.
It's such a fun way to tell a story! Imagine your two Sims are trying to have a baby, but things just aren't going as planned. They can sit down together, talk about their feelings, and support each other through it all. It’s a great way to make sure they don't feel alone on this journey!
These interactions appear under the Pregnancy pie menu when your Sim is pregnant but hasn’t taken a pregnancy test yet and starts feeling nauseous. This is the perfect moment to add drama and storytelling to your game.
For Teens and Sims with the Hates Children trait, you’ll unlock “Panic About Possible Pregnancy.” Teens can use this interaction to freak out with their partner, straight out of a teen pregnancy movie. Sims with the Hates Children trait can use it to confess their fears to a best friend and spiral into panic.
For Sims without the Hates Children trait, “Talk About Possible Pregnancy” will appear instead, allowing for a calmer, more hopeful conversation.
2- The 1st trimester:
Once your sim finds out they're pregnant, they'll unlock the 1st Trimester pie menu! Each interaction comes with its own special moodlet, adding to the fun. to enjoy this exciting new chapter of their life
If your pregnant Sim has a child, they get to enjoy a special interaction to announce the great news about their soon-to-arrive sibling! It’s such a heartwarming experience and joy to share those fun moments together!
And just like in real life, your little Sim may not want to share this happy moment with their parents. Instead, they might feel jealous, left out, or worried about being replaced by the new baby.
Using “Share Pregnancy Gender Preference”, your Sim can decide what they’re hoping for a boy, a girl, or even dream big and wish for twins or triplets. Or they might simply wish for a healthy baby, because for some Sims, the gender doesn’t matter at all. (Both parents will receive a trait)
Once they decide, they will receive a trait showing what they want
If you prefer not to let your Sim decide their traits on their own, you can use cheats. First, press "Shift + Ctrl + C" on your keyboard to open the cheat console. Then, type "TestingCheats on" and hit Enter. Next, hold Shift and click on the Sim for whom you want to choose a trait. You will find the option under "Cheat Sim Info..."
New interactions will be unlocked for every trait:
I’m excited to share that I’ve added some fun new interactions for teen pregnancy! Now, your teen sim will have some engaging moments with their partner and parents. The partner interactions are designed to spark a bit of drama, and you might notice that some responses could lead to a breakup. You'll be able to explore this in-game!
As a teenager, there comes a time when you can no longer hide certain things from your parents. Your stomach may start to grow, and the symptoms become increasingly obvious. It’s important for your teen character to speak up, even though it’s rarely a joyful experience. This conversation could potentially disrupt family dynamics and create distance between the parent and the teen.
3- The 2nd Trimester:
Once your Sim enters the 2nd trimester, a brand-new pie menu becomes available.
4- The 3rd Trimester:
When your sim reaches the exciting third and final trimester, a fun new pie menu will pop up! This menu includes a hilarious mischief interaction called "Fake Construction." Plus, it comes with some delightful storytelling options, like picking baby names (with the chance for some friendly disagreements), designing the nursery, and daydreaming about what your little one will look like. These sweet moments are perfect for sharing with loved ones during this special journey, making your story even more heartwarming and enjoyable!
The 3rd trimester will also unlock a new interaction with your pregnant sim and their good or best friend, asking if they can be their Pregnancy coach, you will find this interaction under "Small Talk"
5- All trimesters:
During the three trimesters, your pregnant sim will unlock new features. For example, you can select “Talk to Baby” by clicking on the pregnant sim and choosing the Friendly interaction.
Additionally, your sim will encounter a Diabetes scare, which is a real concern for pregnant sims. It’s also important to discuss check-ups, as they will become a part of your sim's new routine.
The partner also unlocks a brand-new interaction under the Affection menu, allowing them to gently rub the Sim’s pregnant belly.
For Pandasama’s Childbirth mod compatibility, I created a brand-new menu made to work smoothly with their mod. Whether you have it installed or not, these interactions bring extra fun, depth, and realism to your stories. Your Sims will chat about every little detail, making pregnancy and childbirth feel more alive, heartwarming, and truly special to play.
6- In the 2nd and 3rd trimesters, your Sim can unlock a fun new menu to help influence the gender of their baby! They can ask grandparent or a friend for a “nooboo gender trick” to get some helpful tips. If your Sim is hoping for a little girl, encourage them to munch on strawberries and enjoy plenty of pop music every day. On the flip side, if they’re wishing for a baby boy, eating carrots and listening to alternative songs is the way to go. Have fun with it!
7-Players who have chosen the "Hates Children" trait for their Sims will have access to a new pie menu that allows for more expressive storytelling. This feature is perfect for creating narratives about a Sim who regrets becoming pregnant, or for those who initially wanted a child but later changed their minds. It can lead to dramatic situations, including breakups and emotional conflicts.
8- Post Pregnancy:
Once your sim has gone through their three trimesters and given birth, they will unlock a new pie menu called "The Fourth Trimester Mood." This menu includes cute features related to the baby, milestones, and interactions that can be shared with family and loved ones. These realistic feelings may help your sim feel better after connecting with those they care about.
The "Decide how to feed baby" one will make your sim choose between bottle feeding or breastfeeding
Not all Sims are built the same; some want to breastfeed while others choose not to. Both of these choices will unlock a unique trait that provides a pie menu, allowing your Sim to express themselves more fully.
If you prefer to make the decision for your Sim instead of letting them choose, for a more interesting storytelling experience, there's a cheat for that as well. This cheat will unlock the trait as if your Sim had chosen it themselves.
9- Postpartum Depression
This unlocks after giving birth and includes realistic, meaningful conversations your Sim can have as they navigate life after pregnancy. These interactions help them process their emotions and find comfort and support from their loved ones, making the experience feel truly heartwarming and connected.
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Comments (102)
Quelqu'un serait ou on peux trouvée la traduction du mods en FR svp ?
weird how this mod is now behind a paywall when i literally have an earlier version...
is this mod getting an update? my game just made me delete all of your mods
Bonjour est-ce que il y a la traduction française pour ce mods ?
I downloaded, followed the instructions, and am having issues still with my game...
bro publish already... what is this
does this work with the latest update?
Does this MOD work with PandaSama's pregnancy MOD?
is the free download for the mod different than this one
Hi! Is this mod compatiable with the most recent patch 4/16/26? thanks!!
Does this mod conflict with LoryNa's expanded pregnancy mod?
I wondered the same thing. I can playtest it if you want
Okay, cool. What if I followed the instructions and the mod still isn't working?
I paid for the individual post to be able to download this mod because I can't do rolling payments right now, but now it's been updated, that initial post I paid for is outdated. Will you be taking this off of paywall soon?
its off
PLEASE MAKE THIS FREE ITS BEEN PAYWALLED FOR MONTHS
its off
Why has this been behind a paywall for so long
thats what im saying its been months since 'early access'
is this compatible with the pandasama realistic birth mod?
is this mod going to be free anytime soon
waiting for this to be free
will this mod be free soon? I really love this mod but can't pay T>T
perfectly working here
Are you using any other pregnancy mod with it?
Is this Mod going to be free??
is this compatible with lumpinou?
A couple of bug reports... 1) the time-of-day conversations pie menu says "mornings" until 8 pm in-game. Should it change to evening before then? and 2) Now that my female Sim is pregnant, I used the interaction to discuss gender preferences initiated by the male Sim, and after that, my male Sim is having the notification about "Having a pregnant partner means every day is another day closer to meeting the love of his life. Jonathan is more excited about being a parent than anything." spam itself and pop up over and over and over and over, even after resetting the Sim via a right click and debug, and restarting the game. I ended up removing the mod for now because it won't stop popping up no matter what I do. :( I tried giving him a gender preference manually via right click and cheat Sim Info, and that did not help either.
Additional info, I'm not using RPO, so there is no potential conflict there with the gender preferences. Only additional pregnancy mod I have is Pandasama's.
I absolutely love the mods that Persea makes—especially this one! I’d really like to add it to my Sims game for a better experience. Since I’m in Canada, the mod costs $7.50 plus GST ($0.38), so it comes to $7.88 in total. Before I pay that, I just want to make sure the mod works well. Does anyone know if Persea plans to release it to the public? They haven’t commented yet. For those who have already bought it, could you please share your honest review? I want to know if it’s worth it!
For me the mod is only half working at the minute most of the interactions don’t show up, I’d hold out until it’s fixed to pay for it.
mine is half working i think, when my sims was pregnant i got the different pie menus but the fourth pie menu is not popping up, not when i click on my sim or for her to interacrt with her husband. idk if the depression is randomized or if it happens a few days or more after giving birth. just wanted to know if its me or if i need to fix something, thank you!
Just added to my game & it kept crashing and mine literally never crashes. Took out and works fine again, this mod conflicts with something and/or is not working properly ;(
Is this compatible with lumpinou RPO mod?
yes
The mod is working well for me, thank you
I downloaded the mod in my mods folder and it shows up in my game I think people should update their other mods and cc
It doesnt work stop doing this
do you get any error?
Literally paid for a subscription for this mod and it’s broken, this should be advertised as broken until fixed
Same.... when I run the game it won't let me get past the world menu. I took her mod out of my folder and the game ran fine. Until it gets fixed, I wouldn't pay for it. Its probably due to the update.
hi is there any mods it conflicts with because my game was working fin e I've paid and dowloaded this mod its not to deep in my files but now my game isn't working I've made a family but it wont actually load into the house its just stuck on the map?
i tried using it before and the same thing happened to me
Est-ce que il y a la traduction du mod svp ?
hello bientot
soooo when will this mod be free?
No since in asking that, because it's being locked behind a paywall now and so many people have been asking when will it be available for the public? And we get no answer to our question.
Hey hey, I've deleted every possible mod and my game is still giving me a conflicting alert/ not sure whats going on :c
file:///C:/Users/aseda/Documents/Electronic%20Arts/The%20Sims%204/Mods/TMEX-Settings/BE-PatchScannerReport.html
Thank you so much ^.^
i want to use this mod but it's not free yet.
which is crazy.... lol... we've all used this mod for yeaarrrsss... what is this?!
when is it gonna be free cause im broke dude and i aint got no money to upgrade my tier mam
Nobody has been answered yet, whenever we ask them this question about it being free to the public. Which really makes me sad because I'd love to play with this new updated version of the mod like I did before it was put behind a paywall but I don't have the money to pay for a mod just to play it when it was free before. 😭😭😫
hi persea, when this will be free???
Nobody has been answered yet when asking this question.
Hi As i understood, this big and deep mod does the same (and partly more) as similar from lumpinou Did you work on compatibility with this one? Or this is fully replace for it?
so lol my sims got a text from the girl sim he woohoo'd with talking about she thinks shes pregnant and they need to talk XD i invited her over but nothing popped up for him to talk to her about LOL
when this will be free to download?
Anyone know when this will be free to download?
when is it going to be free to download ?
I downloaded the mod; it is not too deep in the mods folder, and the pie menus aren't appearing after installation. Just wanted to let you know. Nvm I got the mod to work. So what you do is copy the files out of the mod folder they are in and put the files directly into the mod folder. This mod is so amazing it was so worth it thank you so much
are these interactions autonomus?
I don’t have any of the pie menus showing after installing.
Hey is the mod too deep in the mods folder?
Does this mod conflict with pandasama child birth mod ?
No its actually compatible
yes . had to remove mod and repair my game
sie hat viele coole mods, die leider alle nicht mehr gehen, ich würde mir mehr wünschen das diese mods gefixt werden, dass sie wieder gehen, statt was neues, was man zahlen muss und dann aber auch nicht geht.
The pregnancy menu isn't showing up on mine. The personal life and morning/ night ones are, however. Does this conflict with RPO? What am I doing wrong?
Mine neither.
Does it conflict with RPO?
No
german translation? :D
Soon
hey persea! When will it be available to everyone? By the way, thanks for your work <3!!
i cant
i cant download the mod :(
now you can
Wow, this looks really amazing, Persea. I can't even begin to imagine how much time and effort went into making this mod. And it looks so seamlessly like a part of the game. Well done! I wish I knew how to mod, too. Thank you~~ 👏🏽👏🏽❤️❤️🕊
why cant i download the mod
There's really no reason to continue misleading people about the release of this mod.
just subscribed and im still not able to download the new update
hey now it's available to download
If you don't mind me asking. When will this be free to download?
The upcoming drop by PERSEA is being rescheduled Once they choose a new date, you’ll see the upcoming drop on their Patreon and will get updated when it goes live.
already had an update to it going live, why is it being rescheduled
Does this conflict with Lumpinou's RPO? This looks cool.
hey no
Hey, when i clic on download im back to the front page, there is no link
now you can download
Where is the download ? ive just paid for early access and cant find the dload ?
now it's available
Wow, I just randomly scrolled upon this and this is super in depth and really unique. Was thinking not another pregnancy mod to add to my list 😂 but you have really unique and great features that others don’t. Will definitely be sharing and trying it out! Thank you 🙏💗
there, you did it <3 then, idk how long would i wait because of i haven't got any way to subscribe unfortunately
LETSGOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
WOOOOOWWWWW
Oooou this looks soo cool! Will it conflict with lumpino’s realistic childbird mod tho?
Same question here too
is this out now or do we wait for the timer to finish? i clicked thinking it was out now? xxx soooo excited xxx
it is not out, you have to wait for the timer. I don't know why she does this.
I have NEVER clicked so fast in my life 💕
