July 27, 2024

[MOD] Lovestruck - Choose Turn Ons & Turns Offs in Live Mode + (Optional) Auto Assign Turns Ons & Turn Offs + integrates other modders' custom attraction preference traits - sims 4

Check Global Update Notes post for Latest Update notes.

 you must have the Lovestruck pack to use this mod.

1. Set Turn Ons / Offs in Live Mode for any Sim on lot

Under "actions" on your own Sim and on others.

2. (Optional) Turn Ons / Offs Auto-assignment system - for npc, played, or both

Settings under "actions".

Turning these On takes effect after a restart, turning them off takes effect immediately.

NOTE: Auto-assign: EA Default VS This Mod:

EA default: (Unmodded)

  • assigns Turn-Ons and Turn-Offs to sims of unplayed households only, and only
    WHEN they have none and need to compute attraction towards a played sim right that minute.
    - Their circumstantial npc system also recognizes only the Pack's turn ons and turn offs, NOT modded one. This EA default is 'sufficient' for many players but a might be a bit limited for others. 

This mod:

  • instead makes assignments for every npc as soon as the game loads them,

  • AND integrates other modders' custom attraction preference traits.

  • And also gives the choice to assign to Played households which EA doesn't do.

3. "Ask About" for both personality and physical preferences at once
+ INTEGRATES modded preferences (EA's answers do not)

DOWNLOAD & Installation:

1 - remove files from previous versions of Toolbox, if any

2 - REQUIRED: Lumpinou's Toolbox Library-Mod.
If you don't already have it, grab the REQUIRED "Lumpinou's Toolbox" Library-Mod here (alt: here), and put it into your mods folder or one subfolder, NO DEEPER.

3 - grab the .package file for the mod (link below), and put it into your mods folder or one subfolder.

************ NEED HELP? Check info & links in this post. If they don't answer your question, contact me on Discord, or here.

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 Lumpinou_Lovestruck_PickTurnOnOffsLiveMode_OptioAutoAssign.package

Comments (34)

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J anon · May 13, 2026

hi, i love this mod so much, it's a must-have for anyone with lovestruck imo. i just wanted to ask if you could add an option/cheat in live-mode to remove ALL turn-ons and/or ALL turn-offs from a sim? similar to an option present in heleane's prefplus mod: it's under the "Actions" menu when clicking on any sim and clears all of their likes and dislikes immediately. i just ask because i often set my played sims attractiveness preferences in live mode using wicked whims (i've adjusted my settings to prioritise wicked whims attractiveness system, but lovestruck romance styles and personality preferences are still taken into account), however, when trying to change hair colour preferences im often blocked from changing hair preferences because the proposed changes conflict with CAS turnons and turnoffs and i have to then go and change them. it would be nice if the "Remove turn on/offs" menu had bulk selection options for each subcategory of romantic preference, e.g; when removing turn ons from a sim in live mode as this mod currently allows, you could filter by Hair colour preferences > select all (instead of scrolling through and selecting them one by one as i have been doing thus far) > confirm removal > exit. and then the same for turn offs as well. just a suggestion to improve an aspect of lovestruck i've found quite tedious, as always thank you so much for your work

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Gentle Fogs · December 19, 2025

First things first, I love all of your mods and by far this is one of my faves! I was wondering if there was a possible way to have an optional package where it stops the generation of turn ons/turn offs? I understand that it may be impossible but as someone who creates all of their sims and goes out of their way to give all of their sims turn ons/turn offs and likes and dislikes. It PAINS me whenever I see that the game randomly makes them attracted to a random fashion style or outfit color. If it's impossible well then boohoo to me. But, it's just a question. Once again thank you for everything that you do!

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arcaneArtist · September 22, 2025

Is there any chance an option to adjust how many turn ons/offs are assigned during randomization could be added in a future update?

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Inde · March 18, 2025

Hi! Quick question, is your randomizing better then EA even if I don’t have custom likes and dislikes / turn on turn offs ? I hate they way EA randomize everyone so wildly lol

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Lumpinou · March 18, 2025

Hi, it is not filtered in any say so it's as random as EA in terms of what's given to whom. Honestly they are so many options and sim traits and etc, contextualizing selections would be very subjective and real work. Maybe later

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heresanameforyou · February 4, 2025

Would this also include MissyHissy's attraction categories in the ask about? Her mod has the option to also download ask about to include her turn/turn offs. Could we use this mod to include hers instead of using her addition of ask about? Hopefully what I said just made sense lol.

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Lumpinou · February 4, 2025

Hi, yes correct

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Marco Cantillo · January 15, 2025

Hi Lumpinou! I love that this mod considers custom turn-ons and offs when assigning to a Sim. However, I have one question: Would it be possible to add even more turn-ons and offs to the auto-assignment for NPCs? As far as I can see your mod auto-assigns around 3 to 4 turns-on and offs when an NPC loads, but when you have MissyHissy's preferences mod, it kinda leaves out a lot of possible options. Thank you for this and the rest of your Mods, I love them.

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Lumpinou · February 4, 2025

Hi, each sim gets a different random selection so all the available choices will be used if that makes sense

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Blair_me · August 10, 2024

Any chance you'll add your own custom turn ons?

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Lumpinou · August 10, 2024

Potentially

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DayzeeNL · August 3, 2024

Thank you Lumpinou! I love it for the randomizer :-) For picking them in-game, I do struggle to choose the right traits since it's sorted alphabetically and not by group (eg hair colours together etc).

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Lumpinou · August 3, 2024

Could potentially add some categories, we'll see

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Narvin · July 28, 2024

Is there any chance you'll add something like this to likes and dislikes? which are also not randomized

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Lumpinou · July 28, 2024

Really, they aren't? That's surprising. And nobody's done it already? If not, I'm willing

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Ravien M Mandley · July 28, 2024

hey lumpinou , whenever i am in game this mod lets me know the toolbox mod is outdated, however i am only downloading the latest one. is the toolbox mod not updated ? thank you !

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Lumpinou · July 28, 2024

Hi, If it tells you that, you don't have the latest :) Check your folder for old copies hiding somewhere

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Mallory Hall · July 28, 2024

Could you add an option when generating turn on/off to have them align with a certain sim? That way a sim's generated turn on/off will think the sim chosen is attractive physically, romantically, etc. ?

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Madison Heist · July 27, 2024

I keep trying to download this but for some reason it reloads the page and won't let me download! I'm so sad!

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Lumpinou · July 27, 2024

Hi, can you try another browser? Works here so that's probably the matter

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Simslegacy · July 27, 2024

Auto Assignment ❤️!! Appreciate you 😊

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schlasonne · July 27, 2024

Thank you

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Galaxy012 · July 27, 2024

Thank you!

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Thaaeroprincess87 · July 27, 2024

Thank you so freaking much, but please take a break for yourself to relax. I'm about to download this ASAP

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Lumpinou · July 27, 2024

Yep I need a break as I'm starting to make mistakes and my hands are dead 😂 too many VERY long days in a row. Tomorrow I need to chill. Thank you ❤️

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Lumpinou · July 27, 2024

JUST RE-UPLOADED package and Toolbox script for a problem with numbers ! Sorry for the inconvenience. UPDATE PLEASE Added a 'randomize' functionality in the add / remove menus for your trouble

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see double you · July 27, 2024

already using it in my new lovestruck save

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see double you · July 27, 2024

love it!

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True AI · July 27, 2024

How are you so fast at producing these! THANK YOU! 💕

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Lumpinou · July 27, 2024

Pulling 14 hour days 😂

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Coral Lee · July 27, 2024

this is awesome! Thank you so much :D

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MsShanelle · July 27, 2024

Is this one updated from the one you gave us earlier? Should i erase the other one?

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Lumpinou · July 27, 2024

Hi, This is a completely different mod from previous stuff, and it's new

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geena · July 27, 2024

You are seriously incredible!