July 26, 2024

[MOD] Lovestruck Auto Break-Ups Tweaks: Pop Up Choices, Moodlets, Unilaterality, Etc - Sims 4

Who can use this mod:

- you must have the "Lovestruck" expansion pack

AND

- to see its effects, you must have the " autonomous breakups" setting activated in game, since it modifies and applies to that system.

(it's FINE to have this mod file in saves where that setting is off! The mod will just sit there and do nothing, no worries!)

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 if you do not qualify, you can use my mod "BG Boundary Break-Ups".

What this mod does:

- adds pop-up choices when an autonomous breakup is happening, so that you can decide to let it go through or not (or leave it up to fate). It's autonomy without bad surprises or stories spinning out of control!

- gives autonomous breakups the usual breakup or divorce animations [or the RPO M10 separation process for those who use that mod ] (the default EA system just shows a notification).

  •  Adds special moodlets to:

    • aborted autonomous breakups related to breaking romantic boundaries

    • finalized autonomous breakups related to breaking romantic boundaries

    • finalized autonomous breakups related to mean interactions

  • Makes Sims remember offenses longer (24 and 36 hours, as opposed to the default 12 and 24 hours)

  • Makes each Sim remember offenses separately (instead of EA's default of the offense of one sim counting for both)

  •  allows autonomous breakups to happen between Sims so long as either of them is part of currently played household (the default EA system allows them only if the offender Sim is part of the currently played household) 

What else do you want from this?
Any other context you want me to add possible auto break ups to that EA didn't?
Let me know!

DOWNLOAD & Installation:

1 - remove files from previous versions of Toolbox, if any

2 - REQUIRED: Lumpinou's Toolbox Library-Mod.
If you don't already have it, grab the REQUIRED "Lumpinou's Toolbox" Library-Mod here (alt: here), and put it into your mods folder or one subfolder, NO DEEPER.

3 - grab the .package file for the mod (link below), and put it into your mods folder or one subfolder.

************ NEED HELP? Check info & links in this post. If they don't answer your question, contact me on Discord, or here.

Find Index of All Mods here.

NORMAL VERSION:
- Lumpinou_LovestruckAutoBreakUp_Tweaks&PopUpChoices.package

ALT. VERSION: With SUPPRESSED warning notifications (they happen hidden)

Comments (18)

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Charteia/Teia's Sims · February 2, 2025

is this mod still good to use

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Lumpinou · February 3, 2025

Yes

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Blair_me · August 4, 2024

You're amazing! I've just experienced this unwanted breakup and had to quit without saving! This tweak will definitely help me. Thanks so much for taking care of it!

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samantha · August 2, 2024

hi i added this + the updated toolbox mod and now my game is laggy & frozen because time doesn't move and the sims can't perform tasks. i can pause the time and it will pick back up at a later time

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Lumpinou · August 2, 2024

Hi, that sounds like a install problem. If you have Discord and can come over to the server we can help you get things straightened up :)

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K · July 31, 2024

I've been dying for this mod!! TYSM! And yesss to suppressed warnings!!! Please EA don't forewarn me that something bad is about to happen. I just wish the sims got more violent jealousy reactions of being cheated on lol if they got into straight up fist fights or did the crumplebottom purse slap or went to hide and cry in the bed, that would be top tier

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Renée Cahl · July 27, 2024

Thank you for adding the suppressed warnings! Bring the drama, baby!!

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JackJack · July 27, 2024

Hey! So I just tested the automatic breakup and the game is not recognizing them as "broken up," but the pop up to break up under "mean" is gone.

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Lumpinou · July 27, 2024

Hi, I'd need to see how you have things installed, we can help on the Discord server

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MsShanelle · July 27, 2024

The alt version does'nt let us know anything? Is that what that means? Or?

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Lumpinou · July 27, 2024

It means it doesn't show the warning notifications such as 'Sim will break up if sim b does that thing again'. It still shows the messages and effects and pop up etc if a break up happens, it just doesn't show the warning notifications (the offenses get counted 'silently' basically)

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Charlie West · July 26, 2024

Thank you! best sims 4 modder! can't play without these mods (:

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SenileSimmer · July 26, 2024

Love your mods! Would really love a mod that adds more activities for dates. After 10 dates, I've run out of interesting date ideas. I'd love if there were more. Maybe adding in all the holiday activities would be a start?

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Simslegacy · July 26, 2024

This looks great! It's hard when it comes to time in the game but I think 24-36 for remembering an offense is good.

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Lumpinou · July 26, 2024

ASKING YOUR OPINION Should I make the Sims remember offenses even longer? 🤔

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Sonya Holcomb · July 26, 2024

YES! In real life we remember longer than a 36hrs. Of course, each life span is really long in my game, lol.

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Thaaeroprincess87 · July 26, 2024

Another awesome mod! Do you think you will ever make one that autonomously assigns turn ons and turn offs since the game doesn't seem to be doing it.

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Lumpinou · July 26, 2024

Sure, can start on that right away!