news from arnie • milo & co
hi friends!
arnie • milo here!
i know ive been sharing some weird poems and stuff recently, im really sorry if it comes super weird, well its because YES I AM WEIRD and YES ITS COMPLETELY OK 🙂↕️🙂↕️🙂↕️
and in all seriousness, im also disabled, with severe ADHD • ASD • trauma (and more), and right now im not in a mental state to share any sims4 content.
relatives & i need medical and home care, presence, reassurance, happiness, quietness, and a slower pace, so im spending more time with them and fam, to take care of ourselves, friends, and my own health is very important and it comes FIRST!
"shorry"
(says lowpoly pigeon 😭🤣😭)
im so sorry about the multiple delays and all, i know many of you are waiting for updates for my sims4 mods and i promise they will come, its just taking so much longer to build with my adhd and the fact that i got hacked on so many accounts, and cant find all my data lost on multiple servers, email adresses, and hard drives (that i often forget bc of memory loss - and because of how shit technology and healthcare is for disabled people today!)
working is really hard for me because of how severe my adhd is, and luckily not everyone has it as hard as others! here’s a youtube channel ive found that has helped me a lot process it all and laugh about it: 💜 https://www.youtube.com/@ADHD_love 💜
we recently found great advice and tips to make it easier for us to process and take care of ourselves! first one is rest when the body says stop, and im learning to hear and listen to my body's needs more these days. taking things slower, not watching the news, listening to podcasts, talking either about trauma, asd, adhd, or just neuro•difference, watching funny videos about it, or just listening to calm music, chatting with neighbours and locals, it all helps a lot!
and also i should stop announcing dates (ive probably said that a million times before because of my adhd and memory issues ... lmao?🥲)
and its hard to keep going because i do that so i get adrenaline in urgency until the last moment, and then its hard again!! especially in these days! sorry for ranting, but if you also have adhd•asd•trauma or just dopamine dysregulation, or if ur also neuro•different, its really hard for us to work in this society!!!!! i cant even revamp my website or patreon page the way i want bc of how hard it can be sometimes to focus on any task🫠 (work in progress, taking things slowly! pomodoro technique helps a lot 🍅⏱️)
and please please forgive my weird prose sometimes, i know it can be intense, bc im different, but im also a poetic colourful faggy artist, and it's easier for me to express myself as an autistic•disabled person through a different language than the conventional ones!
emojis and all ✨yassss divaaaaa💁♀️🌈🌸 ive noticed that writing with the quilt of a character of one's imagination can help! writing pooetrie or jokes really helps me process information!
and its OK!!!!! : )
i dont care about what people say about me or the way i express myself, and i learned that from beautiful people online (adhd love on youtube especially, sending dubbi dust to them all🥹🥹🥹✨✨✨)
and im not scared anymore of seeming ridiculous because im finally starting to reconnect with myself and accept myself and love myself just the way i am recently (which is DIFFERENT, and different is GOOD 🤓🤓🤓)
time for me to take a break again players & art lovers, to stop working so hard for a while, and to just take care of my fam and friends who need care, calm, and support!
sho shorry! 👁️👁️🫦 (says lowpoly pigeon)
i promise the sims4 super mod pack will be awesome, the video annoucnement on youtube is coming later (when its ready), and the other future projects ive been working on, on the side of sims modding, for years, will probably come later, when im doing better and my relatives too ☺️
also if you'd like to help our communities, please consider supporting your local queer, food, mental health & healthcare non•profit organizations!
the one that's been helping me for months in france has been A LIFELINE and a lifesaver for me and my friends, and these good will organisations need our help since states and private companies dont seem to care about us!! Local community, local solidarity, and caring for one's family and relatives is super important in these tough periods we're going through!! ive been walking, taking the bike, chatting with locals, and getting some fresh air from nature recently, and it helps a lot!! who could have predicted???😅😅😅 that going slower and being less in the hard work, urgency, speed, and negative actually helps!🙃🥲🙃
xoxoxoxoxo friends 💋💋💋
taking a break now! thank you for your help! ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
sending love as always
ill keep my promises, maybe slower than originally planned (lowpoly pigeon transfers the package to lowpoly snail? lmfaooooo)
arnie • milo • & co