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August 11, 2020

Ask Parent About Dating

This mod adds new social interactions, created mostly for children and teens, but not only.

The idea was given by @MMohawk117. I developed it and gave it a life :)

There are 6 new questions that kids can ask to their parents:

  • Ask about dating (only for children, not teens)

  • Ask what to buy as a gift for your crush

  • Ask where you should go for the first date

  • Ask how to ask your crush out

  • Ask if you can go on a date

  • Ask how your parents met each other

Interaction are under: Friendly > Deep Thoughts > Dating

Parents will reply to each question with few random replies. Also both children and parents will get buffs. Kid can get various buffs after each question, but parent will be sometimes locked with the buff they got in first place.

Question  "Ask how your parents met each other" gives to parents a chance to tell real story about their experience. There are multiple answers, not only once ;) I don't want to say too much, you need to explore this on your own ;)

DATE EVENT FOR CHILDREN

Question  "Ask if you can go on a date" can enable a "date event" for children (not for teens, because they can go on a normal date) - if only parent gives permission. It was indeed inspired by Littlemssam's  mod First Love :) you can use interactions from her mod to complete the event.

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If children were adopted, they should still see those interactions. If a parent got married for the second time, new parent should use interaction  "Adopt as Caregiver" and then they can be also asked those questions.

If you would like to see other buffs and replies, maybe also new questions - please send me DM, I can expand then the mod with your propositions :)

*I think I alredy corrected all grammar mistakes, but I am too lazy to take new screen shots from the game, please forgive me :D

Languages:

  • English (default, by me)

  • Polish (by Kinga Rojewska)

  • Italian (by SimsPhoria)

  • Chinese (by GreenOnion)

  • Russian (by Annie Hugss)

  • Portuguese (by Ana Júlia)

  • Dutch (by Kimberley)

  • German (by Dunkelziffer)

  • Swedish (by Liba)

  • French:

by MaiaGame link 

by Kimikosoma integrated and link 

Also review of this mod in French by KimikoSoma: https://modsims4.fr/interactions/conseils-amoureux-parents/

  • Spanish:

by CindySims - link

by Chofis Aquino - link

 

Conflicts: Mod is not overriding anything so should cause no conflicts. If you use any mod affecting buffs strength and length (like Emotional Inertia for The Sims 4 by roBurky) my mod will be also affected and depending on settings buffs will be longer and stronger.

For the mod to work you need also XML injector (the current version).

Change log:

28/02/2026 - updated for all February patches

4/11/2024 - added compatibility with the new EP Life & Death. Small fixes.

03/03/2024 - updated for the Patch from 27th of February (1.105.297) and compatible with Hotfix from 28th of February.

24/07/2023 - update for patch 1.99.264 (18th of July, Horse Ranch)

18/03/2023 - update for March 14th patch (Infants & Growing Together) and interactions put under new sub-category

05/11/2022 - script removal

03/11/2021 - update for November 2nd patch

22/07/2021 - updated for July 20th Patch

13/11/2020 - updated for November patch


Comments (20)

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Ariya Newell · September 13, 2026

does this still work now?

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Stephanie Aldecoa · March 20, 2026

thank you for making this mod

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FeenSims · January 8, 2025

Relatively pointless if children can't even kiss. :(

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ilkavelle · January 12, 2025

Hmmm... Ok. Thank you for the feedback!

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Blueberry0226 · September 11, 2024

hi!! does this still work

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ilkavelle · October 19, 2024

Hi, Sorry for the late reply, it has been very busy period. Yes, it works still. I always post after the big patch the information with updates on my mods - which ones needed update. If there is no information or no post - it means all mods are still fine :)

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Andresa Mota · February 4, 2023

HI! Are all of your mods compatible with the new update?

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ilkavelle · February 6, 2023

Hi, yes :) I wrote about it here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/january-31st-1-78134539

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BlackPiano · June 17, 2022

Will you be updating this for the recent patches?

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ilkavelle · June 19, 2022

Hi, no, it doesn't need updating, it works fine, I tested it.

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Kimikosoma · October 2, 2021

Hi ! I wrote a French review over this mod if you wanna read it and add the link from your post ^^ https://modsims4.fr/interactions/conseils-amoureux-parents/

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ilkavelle · October 2, 2021

thank you :*

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Kiaiaia · May 29, 2021

is this mod okay to use for the new update?

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ilkavelle · May 29, 2021

Yes, it is. It was still compatible, so didn't need an update.

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CanDYS · August 26, 2020

Thank you so much for this mod, it really adds something cute and realistic to the game ! ^^

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Kayla B · August 12, 2020

This is so cute!!! Love love love

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ilkavelle · August 14, 2020

thank you :)

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Antwionette Sexton · August 11, 2020

So proud of your talent!

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ilkavelle · August 11, 2020

it's a fruit of our collaboration! :)

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Aurore Richard · August 11, 2020

Thank you so much I really love this kind of mod 😍😍