September 10, 2026

Sewers of Paris: Watching Two Porcupines Mate (The Thomas Crown Affair/Mike)

My guest this week has a track record of going viral — whether he wanted to or not. Mike Aylesworth’s first brush with fame was as a teenager in the late 90s when he challenged the Boy Scouts’ ban on gay members… then in adulthood when he dreamed up an invention in the bathtub that changed his life, first for the better and then for the worse. He’s written about his work with the Scouts (and how that turned into work against the Scouts for awhile) in an upcoming book entitled Boypageant. As you’ll hear, Mike’s always been drawn to stories about strangers who are surprised to discover that they fit together, from the Golden Girls to art thieves to the crowned heads of Europe; those stories set the stage for the work he does now, helping young people figure out how they fit into the world.

Also, a quick heads-up that I have a new YouTube video on YouTube about Dolly Parton’s surprising connection to the gay community… and I have a video coming soon about the many ways in which Tim Curry shaped our lives.

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Jim · September 12, 2026

I was curious about what a bathtub wine holder looks like and googled. There were a few similar designs using suction cups and one was just a wood tray across the tub. I assume the one Mike designed was the suction cup design. I guess if you wanted to luxuriate in the tub with music and wine it would come in handy. I haven't take a bath in years, strictly a shower guy. I love Hepburn in Lion in Winter, “Well, what family doesn't have its ups and downs?” Ha!