My Wife Accused Me of Having E.D.
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Damn all these guys and their fuckin egos can't just be humble for a second and ask a straightforward fuckin question. First they have to brag and then tell you everything they think they know about everything when they're the ones supposedly here to be listening to your advice.
For the guy with the relationship issues. Stop acting like you got it all figured out if you're here asking for help. Come up with a plan like to address her in the moment. Work on the fighting and say you're sick of it and you're going to divorce if you guys can't get along. Get some space if you need it. Then make plans to hang out to have fun. Try therapy if you want if you feel like you need to exhaust every option first. Do not waste time, your life, being miserable. You do not want to regret that...
This is one bit of advices I may actually be qualified to make a comment on: I've been living in Japan for 16 years now, 13 of which with a wife and kids. If you've got work and can speak the language, you'll feel confident to get around without trouble. That said, there is a price: 1. Your family will be back home. That has a few meanings: if you have kids here, their grandparents will be always be over there. There's a burden to this. Your parents, relatives, friends will all be back home... eventually they might need care and you close by for support. If you've set up here for the long haul, it may be hard to transition. 2. If you're American, taxes (and inheritance, etc) will follow you no matter where you are in the globe. Japan is not totally unfair about this, and the tax treaties will help to an extent, but they'll want a cut of any U.S. holdings if you're here long enough. More-so if you obtain Permanent Residency (ask me how I found out). 3. Trading the above for, as you've experienced, a generally stress free life (outside work), social healthcare and welfare benefits, insanely low mortgage rates, etc. Though I would say this hinges a lot on your career / industry, and if you can find growth or meaning in your work here. A lot of foreigners do hit a glass ceiling in a sense. Sole-proprietorship is an option but you need the right visa. I dove in head first and figured it out as it went along. Should I be in your shoes, and married before the choice, I'd see what both of our goals would be long term before making a big move. Hit me up any time if you want to hear any more "boots on the ground" info, glad to talk any time man.
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Steller advises as ever! That bit about western white women being all fucked up is 100% truth and had me slapping my thighs 🤣🤣🤣 also as a fellow new father seriously don’t worry about a thing it does all genuinely fall in to place on its own! I actually wrote Jess a few weeks ago worried that my three month old wasn’t smiling at me…. About a week after that the little shit started beaming at me daily! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I should have known! Worry about nothing! Its all good
Thanks James & Jesse, you guys have brought me some peace
I fancied Asian girls all my life but they never talked to me either , except when I'm buying egg fried rice 🍚 😏😅
Don't come to Canada! It's a toilet, right now.
That’s what I’m talking about Patreon for the rescue 🫡🫡
I go for cheaper cars but newer. I recently got a 2019 Jeep Wrangler with only 23k on the clock. But it was only $24k because it was a manual and no one can drive them. Literally looks new. That's the route I'd go. Oh, I also got a full warranty on it.
Hopefully you get that battery run jacket back so you can keep warm.
It’s a long story with that jacket.
I've been to Japan 4 times, soon to be 5. Between CA and Japan, hands down live in Japan. The problems are not even comparable. All birth rates are falling, let that be. CA is an unsafe nightmare and the friends your wife makes will ruin her I promise you that. She will help you acclimate to Japan, you'll be safe with a government that DOES SOMETHING ABOUT CRIME!!! you'll have beautiful sights, excellent food, wonderful people. I wish you luck !
The reason there's no crime is because the population is mostly Japanese. When people from other countries start moving there it will turn into a "diverse" shithole just like every where else
Wow that's the fastest advices answer I've ever had, I literally sent the email like 3 days ago. The funny part is I have a Maverick too, I bought it after hearing you talk about yours and I love it. Looks like we'll be going with the Lexus (if we can find one, they're always gone immediately after being listed).
I love my Maverick more and more everyday. The only problem is everyone in my family wants to drive it.
I'm sure there are other states in the USA that aren't shitholes. Conversely there are parts of Japan with some weird problems, but they kind of hide them away. Alcoholism is becoming outrageous in Japan. Also, last i checked if you want a Marlboro, it is illegal to smoke outside in cities. Visiting Japan and living and working there, seem like two dfferent prospects. I may be slightly off, but point being, I think your caller might just simply be living in the wrong part of America.
If in doubt buy Kraut. German cars, particularly Mercedes are a great car to invest in. Lexus are relatively expensive and more problematic. Sexy though. Mercs from 20 years ago can retro fit new parts, and a lot of parts are standard across the whole range, including commercial vehicles, so parts are surprisingly cheap. I was surprised. 😲
Lol you're the only person on the planet that thinks German cars are less expensive and less problematic than Japanese. You want to cherry pick a modern example? No shit modern cars have issues and especially worse since 2020. Anyway good for you and good luck with your German cars. I'll take a Japanese car every time, especially a Lexus.
