Secret Romance v2.zip 86.6 KB
February 12, 2026

SECRET ROMANCE ASPIRATION V2 - DOWNLOAD

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In CAS give your Sim the Secret Lover aspiration, located in the Intimate category.

The bonus trait is "Sneaky", this trait will give a higher boost in the romance track.

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Give your Sim the Secret Lover trait from the lifestyle category.

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The Secret Lovers menu will show up on Sims you've haven't create a secret with like this:

The Sneaky menu is a friendly menu to help you keep your relationship under wraps. It'll have excuses and lies to hide.

Just Between Us will have a couple of interactions to allow you to create the secret affair with the Sim you have a relationship with. This menu changes after the agreement is made.

Make sure you have some level of romance with the Sim or neither will appear.

There's a chance the Sim you're asking will not agree to this.

This is the menu that will appear on the Sim you've made the agreement with.

Meet In Secret is similar to the date interaction. It'll launch an event, select your household or community lot to travel to. Goal the event. Only gold will be successful.

The main goal may require you to use a couple more friendly social interactions like get to know or discuss interests to complete 10/10

End the event.

I updated the requirement to meet in secret from 4 to 1.

Discreet Operator is the reward trait for the aspiration.

To end the secret about the romance, click on the romantic partner, action menu, select Breakup Secret Romance. This will remove the hidden trait from the partner Sim. The relationship will be the same.

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How To Install
-Unzip file.  Keep all files in the folder.  Place the folder in your Sims 4 Mods Folder.
-Sims 4 game options, mods and script mods need to be enabled.
-Requires the latest version of Sims 4
-If there isn't a zip file, just download all the files below, place them in a folder, then your Sims 4 mods folder.

Terms Of Use
-Do not claim this mod as your own
-Do not re-upload to any site
-Translations cannot include the mod.  Only stringtables.

Trouble Shooting Guide:  How to download, install, and fix common issues.

Comments (19)

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Heléna · September 30, 2026

the mod isnt working

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WICKED PIXXEL · September 30, 2026

This has been updated to v2, use that version instead.

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Dollfacedzombie · September 14, 2026

The "secret romance" menu isn't showing for me either

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Monica Meas · September 11, 2026

I love this mod, and I completed the aspiration, but the option to kiss cheek doesn't seem to pop up for me at all. So I can't get gold in the Meet in Secret event.

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Internet held · August 15, 2026

This does not show up on the menu :(

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Internet held · August 15, 2026

This does not show up in the menu =(

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CrystalQueen · July 24, 2026

this is amazing, please make more flirty, romance gameplay mods, especially more hot kissing interaction mods.

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BitterSweet Sims · July 1, 2026

They have the friendship and romance bar at 100. Aspiration was assigned and still the sneaky menu is not showing up…

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Misty · July 19, 2026

im having the same issue- once i did the aspiration + the trait the secret lover menu showed up and i could make it secret, but now that its secret the sneaky menu isnt showing so i cant create a cover story.

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Anna · June 22, 2026

i got the secret lover aspiration but there is no looking for commitment in the emotions menu

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杰 蒋 · June 17, 2026

It is not displayed in the menu.

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jorja · May 9, 2026

I realised after downloading that you can give a teen sim the aspiration but not the trait.. not sure if that's what is causing the menu to appear :( would be great if this worked on teens!! Love this mod though

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Luna Rose 💜 · April 29, 2026

Glad you redirected me to the updated version; this has always been one of my favorite mods of yours (though I love literally all of your mods lol). Thanks for the amazing work :)

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Mimi Von D · March 29, 2026

Too talented. Worth money.

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CocoD429 · February 22, 2026

yeah im not see sneaky menu either

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ceejay · February 19, 2026

Sneaky menu not showing up

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WICKED PIXXEL · February 22, 2026

I'll check it out soon.

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Rebecca Irestone · February 12, 2026

Because I haven't yet told you today, please make a note, YOU ARE AWESOME! Thank you! I hope that you have a Blessed day! (Feel free to read this daily, as I am sure my sentiment is so honest that it's pretty much a fact!)

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WICKED PIXXEL · February 12, 2026

You have a blessed day too :)