August 6, 2026

Question Thread: August 2026 [CLOSED]

Hello!

Here you can ask me things you're wondering about for our games or company. Please only ask four or fewer questions.

Questions will be answered at the end of the month as an audio recording (with a text transcript too). Just make sure the questions long follow the guidelines. The transcript of the questions/answers will be public! We'll automatically remove questions that are about things only revealed to the Patreon, like Project W stuff. If you don't want your question shared with everybody, you can leave a note in your comment to say so.

The thread will close after the 19th.

Guidelines:

1. Please don't reply to other people's questions even if you know the answer. The fun of joining a Q&A is that the developer can give a direct response to you and that everyone else also gets to hear/see the answer in the end of the month post. Having another player resolve the question in the comments right here might not be what the asker was hoping for. This thread is more about having a good time rather than looking for an immediate response to an important question. And if you do have a question you want to hear about right away, it's best to ask in some other thread or to message me directly.

2. I'm afraid questions about what scenes/choices/art assets Our Life: Now & Forever will include aren't answerable right now. Most of the details are decided as the game is created and currently I'm only done with Steps 1 and 2.

3. The questions can't be about more serious/potentially upsetting topics because I don't want those listening to suddenly be surprised with something they might not have been prepared for/want to be confronted with.

4. Please keep the questions here to things that wouldn't be really hard to tackle in an off-the-cuff, spoken out loud kind of Q&A, aha. Questions about a half dozen characters or wanting an entire theoretical situation described aren't super doable in this situation.

You can always send me questions outside of the audio Q&A if they wouldn't work here!

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You can also find answers for more basic info like heights, birthdays, timelines, and such in the Overall FAQ.

That's everything. Thank you to everyone who participates in the Q&A!

Comments (38)

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Alexis · August 21, 2026

Nothing crazy, but I always kinda wondered, would Qiu mind getting their hair braided? Or I guess played with?

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Bluemorningstar · August 18, 2026

Hello hello, and happy August, GB and David! I hope all went smoothly and you’re recovering well, and that you’re both staying cool this summer. 1.) If Cove and MC came to Pam and Noelani for parenting advice, what might they share based on their own experiences or initial missteps (just in general.) 2.) Was there a pinpointed moment that caused Cove to come around with Baxter in the Wedding DLC? Or was it more gradual over the entire planning period? 3.) How would the OL1 boys react to the MC whipping out their middle name during a scolding? (Mostly in jest.) 4.) - How far does Baxter’s dislike of bugs go? Like he finds a spider (somehow) in his apartment, what is his immediate reaction?

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4000 · August 17, 2026

Hello GB! This is my first time asking a question on Patreon! I used a translator for this, so please ignore anything that sounds weird haha 1. If Qiu from Step 2 went to SSB, would they be in Jerk Squad? 2. If adult Shiloh gradually became Leon while he was still dating JB,how do you think JB would feel about Leon? Would Leon choose to break up with JB, or would he make an exception for her too, like he does with his mom? 3. I was wondering if you’ll ever release more XOR content in the future? I really, really want to see it 🥲

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penguin · August 17, 2026

Hi GB! I’m a huge fan of XOD! I have three XOR-related questions I’ve been wondering about, if you don’t mind! (1) How does Leon feels about JB and her bf Bae? (2) How did Lynn and Marigold fall in love? (3) If JB were dating Jeremy or Pran, what would happen with her living situation? If she was already living with her boyfriend, would the three of them end up living together, or would her boyfriend move out so JB could live with Jeremy/Pran?

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Misfortune Luvs · August 16, 2026

Hello GB! Hope the recovery is going well! Recently I finished all VNs under your umbrella, and I loved them all and they were so great and beautiful! But, OH MY GOSH, The Lake of Voices was a masterpiece! Such an amazing writing! So I want to ask about it - can you tell some behind the scenes and how the entire concept was born? Thanks!

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Celestia · August 16, 2026

If Baxter is made into a mascot, what animal/mascot do you think would represent him well?

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sage💚 · August 12, 2026

Hi! 1. Does Qiu express jealousy only in relation to MC’s relationship with Tamarack, or are there other instances that they might be jealous as well? For example, MC with Ren/Baxter/other characters? (I find the jealousy mechanic to be so much fun lol) 2. Does Qiu like to wear dresses/skirts or do they prefer to wear pants? 3. How has writing Step 3 been going so far? Have you found it easier to write than Step 2?

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Grace · August 12, 2026

Hello how are you? Same question to David onto my actual questions, are we going to see more XOXO Droplet characters in OL2? And very different from my first question, if the OL1 boys were father's would they boy or girl dads???

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Cabbage · August 12, 2026

Hi, I really hope the best for your surgery recovery, get well soon! 1. This is a question about development. You say that the full game will be released in November including step 3, I'm just wondering what the timeline of development was. The Patreon updates are betas, I was under the impression that every month you work on a moment and then release it on Patreon, but I recently realized that even if you began to develop all of the step 3 moments right this second it would be entirely impossible to hammer out them all in three months. So, is step 3 already written or are the moments that get released to the beta and public worked on way ahead of time before their release? 2. sorry for the length of that last one, here's one thats shorter! fight breaks out at school, who in the step 2 cast throws the first punch? what about in step 3? 3. how would Qiu or tamarack feel about MC offering to swipe the answer keys for tests for them? I mean, its not hard... 4. How would the cast of OLNF feel about MC being a the person who runs the school's black market? they can get anything, anyone, or any info for the right price, from test answers to finding out if your boyfriend's cheating on you to the entire semesters notes ahead of time.

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lu · August 11, 2026

hello! I hope all of the team is doing well! I hope its alright that all my questions are about renee as she’s my favourite haha my first question is when/why did renee cut and dye her hair to how it is in step 3? when / how did she realise she’s transgender? what kind of people does she like? appearance or personality wise i understand if you can’t answer this one, but in step 2, does ren not have many friends because she just keeps to herself or is it that the highschool kids pick on her? thank you for doing this q&a! all of your games are amazing :)

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Anza · August 11, 2026

Hello! I hope you are doing well and are recovering safely! For my questions I was wondering what kind of music do Tamarack, Qiu and Ren listen to? When Ren, Tamarack and Qiu are of age, what are their preferred alcoholic drinks? What type of games does Renee normally play? How would Opal react to MC bringing home strays to save?

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Rikke Bogetoft · August 11, 2026

Hey GB! Long time player, first time asker: 1. I was wondering if Baxter would ever stop dying his hair and go back to his natural grey colour - perhaps when we see him in the future OLNF wedding DLC which supposedly happens after OLBA step 4? 2. When creating the moments in both OLBA and OLNF do you have an 'unofficial' sequence in which you imagine the moments are played? When presented with the moment-selection screen in both games, I think playing them from left to right gives a natural progression to the story and a sense of climax by the last moment. By this same logic, the OLNF moment "Assistance" has a completely different impact on the story whether it is played in the beginning or the end of the playthrough, and at first I was surprised it was so "early" in the sequence. So is the placement of moments in the moment-selection screen an intentional way to guide the player, or random? 3. In step 2 of OLNF, if you get the "leading lady" part in your ballet recital, what role will Vianca get? With a nonbinary MC it is never acknowledged whether she is jealous or sad, which seems weird given her passionate rivalry with Qiu. Thank you in advance, and thank you in post for your amazing games!! I wish you well in the recovery process <3

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RJ · August 10, 2026

Hey GB! Not sure if this has been asked before, but I was wondering if any of the Our Life N&F adults are part of the queer community themselves? The other question is, apart from hanging out with the MC what do Tamarack and Qiu like to do in their free time in Step 2? (Ps, hope the surgery is going/went well!)

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OniChief · August 9, 2026

This might have been asked. But with things like scars, are there reactions from characters that ask about them, also my second would be, are their more interactions coming in future with maybe an event that focus on just ma and mc. Keep up the amazing work.

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pastelgoblin · August 9, 2026

I don't know if this counts as spoiler or patreon exclusive information for now but is the plan for the polyamorous route to be only available in step 3 and step 4 or in only step 4?

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Robin · August 9, 2026

Hey there! Are we ever going to get the option to have a fight with the LI (not between the 2 of them but the LI and the mc)? Like how it happened in OLBA step 3 “talks” when cove stormed out.

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Saint Oratorio · August 9, 2026

Hello GB, I hope the team is having a great summer. I've got a handful of questions this month and they're all about Cove. 1. How would Cove deal with an MC that has thalassophobia? 2. What is Cove's general hot/cold tolerance as a native Californian? 3. About what age, if ever, does Cove start going gray? 4. How much did cove's sleeve tattoo cost and how long did it take to get it done?

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dolly ♥️ · August 8, 2026

Hi!! Happy August! Thank you all for your hard work (including David), I hope life is as gentle with you as possible this month ❤️ I have a few questions! 1) Will the PC be able to express feelings of seeing Renee as an older sister figure in future steps? Obviously it won’t be the kind of family bond you can have with the LIs, but can she be that in the same way she can be a close friend or crush? 2) Does Serenity know about Vianca’s crush on tamarack and does Tamarack know about Serenity’s crush on Qiu? 3) I noticed something in a beta moment that I won’t go into detail about of course but it seemed like there was something going on with Qiu and I couldn’t tell what. Are they afraid of heights or prone to motion sickness? Those were my best possible interpretations haha.

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UserEl · August 8, 2026

I'm actually gonna use all 4 questions for once 1. When it comes to N&F, how obvious are the LI's crushes towards the MC to other people? (at least during steps 1 and 2) I know it's been said it's less comically obvious than cove's, but there have been some hints about other characters knowing about them, or at least having teasing suspicions 2. how does/would step 2 Vianca feel about Tamarack having a crush on the MC, and would her opinion change depending on if the MC was a girl or not 3. what is Ren's sexuality (if she has a set one) and depending on the answer, does she have any notable crushes at any point 4. Are Qiu or Tamaracks families aware if they have a crush on the MC during step 1 and/or 2, and if so, were they told about it or just infered it from how they acted? Special mention to Tamarack's parents during step 2 due to their strained dynamic

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Beauberry · August 8, 2026

Hello! I have a question that may have been answered in the past: What is Opal's sexuality? We know that she chose to have the MC with a surrogate father but what kind of person would she want to date (if she does at all)?

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bearflavoredbathbomb · August 7, 2026

happy almost autumn! hope you and David are doing just peachy (and that your arm is doing better!) 1. OL:NF art question; do you have a loose estimate for when we might possibly get to see some step 4 character art? 2. when voiced names are eventually implemented, will it be possible to use them with a differently spelled name? (e.g. "Xavier" voice lines for a character named "Xzavier") 3. more on voiced names; i read on the kickstarter page that nicknames will also be voiced, but be limited to a much shorter list of non-name nicknames like "dude" or "cutie". i was wondering if this was still the case, and if it's because of a technical limitation of some kind? 4. been thinkin' about MC/Derek/Baxter as a ship (even making an MC for it). what i'm curious about is how would Pamela, Noelani and Liz handle MC being in a throuple with the boys?

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Chowing · August 7, 2026

Hello~ My first time for Q&A, so go easy on me🫣 My question is relates to OLBA. I recently re-played Derek's route on high intiative (first time) and I loved that story to bits and pieces🤩💯✨My question is: do Derek's family and MC's family know that their kids/sibling are crushing on each other? Both at the ages of 13 and 23? I mean our moms and Elizabeth make a couple of remarks and Mr. Suarez does not really hide it well/affectionate😅🙂‍↔️ I just genuinely find it hilarious that the families are watching a 10-year soap opera from a distance🍿🤭

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Qiu kin · August 7, 2026

Is there/will there be a way to see the character descriptions for Tamarack and Qiu in-game?

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M · August 7, 2026

In Step 4, if Cove has a tattoo and is on good terms with MC, would he, big softie that he is (and we love him for it) have had them hold his other hand in the process of getting it?

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killjinx · August 7, 2026

hey, hope you’re having a nice end to summer. I was just wondering if you have any particular regions of China/Germany in mind that qiu’s parents/tam’s grandparents would be from? are there any specific areas or are you more open to headcanons?

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Roofstone · August 7, 2026

Looking back on step 1 and (what is released of) 2 now that they are done, is there anything you wanted to do/include/etc but couldn't or didn't for whatever reason?

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Tekkraft · August 7, 2026

Hello! Last time I asked a bunch of questions about Qiu, so it's only fair I do it for Tamarack this time! 1. Does Tamarack have a preferred genre of music? Pop, classical, rock, something else? 2. Another nicknames question: if the MC was going to have a nickname for Tamarack (especially if they're crushes) would Tamarack prefer one that's more flowery or "tree-y"? (I mean this as literally as possible.) 3/4. Tamarack lives with one side of her grandparents, but has she ever met the other side? Where do they live? I hope you have a swift recovery!

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nao !! · August 7, 2026

Hello GB and team!! I hope you’re recovering well from your surgery, wish you a fast and healthy recovery! ❤️‍🩹 For my questions I wanted to ask about my favorite character, renee!! since we know we aren’t getting a dlc for her but did mention you wanted to, I have a few questions about how her dlc would’ve went!! 1. I remember reading something about meeting her from her fence after sneaking into the town (?) so I was wondering how that moment would play when mc and her saw each other at school? I think it would be interesting and super cute ^^ 2. I was also wondering what kind of ideas (if any) for moments with her you thought of in step 1 or 2? 3. How would renee act when crushing on the mc? I noticed in step 1 Tamarack is very vocal and cute about it while Qiu is more calmer and gets a bit flustered, so I was curious on that! Those are all the questions I have! Thank you so much, good job to the whole team!! And also a special thanks to David for always writing the transcripts!! I truly appreciate that! 🥹

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Cherriblossoms12 · August 6, 2026

Are Opal and Yusuf case closed or is there a possibility of seeing them develop more friendship/family or romantic wise?

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Julia X · August 7, 2026

Yes I would love to know about this as well! I’m still rooting for them no matter what 😤😤

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Kine Fish · August 6, 2026

I'm not sure if this is going to have a direct answer as of right now, but what careers would Qiu and Tamarack go into when they grow up?

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GB Patch · August 19, 2026

I'm sorry, I don't have an answer I can give right now.

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snekyeggs · August 6, 2026

Hello! I really hope your surgery has gone/will go well and i wish you a speedy recovery!! 1. I am autistic and one of my stims is chewing, and sometimes i get a strong urge to (PLAYFULLY) bite the people I love! Never hard, of course, like light enough that it doesn't even leave a mark. It's like a form of cuteness aggression, I think. It is a trait i tend to project onto my OCs and favorite characters, so I was curious how each of the Our Life (both 1 &2) love interests would react to something like that :). Could be any step, because honestly I was definitely worse about it as a kid. Oh and Liz- because honestly my most common victim IS my older sister lol. 2. How does Opal feel about pets? I know Pam and Lani were against it because they didn't want the extra responsibility while also raising two kids, and I can only assume the same of Opal, (and obviously that's easier from a game makers perspective). Maybe she'd appreciate the companionship for an MC, though? Especially an older MC who could argue to handle the responsibility? I'm not sure! She seems like the type of parent who might be willing to negotiate. 3. This may have been asked before, but I wasn't able to find answers myself very easily and I'm curious- We know Cove's favorite flower, but do any other LIs (in either game) have a favorite flower? Or a favorite plant in general?

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Giant Hotdog fanatic · August 6, 2026

Hey there ! Thank you for your amazing work once again, i'm getting so excited as we grow nearer to the early access. My question was about Yusuf mostly. Even if you kinda already talked about it in other Q&A, will it be possible to get to call him our dad ? Like we can do with Mr holden ? Or like we can call Mrs and Mr Baunmann our grandparents ? Or will MC only be able to see him as a father figure if they want ? Thx for your answer, hope your recovery is going well !! Best of luck for the last few months before early access !

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Professional Simp · August 6, 2026

Will there be more our life games after now and forever?

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Peach · August 6, 2026

I don’t know if this was asked but with any character from the Our Life games, were there any inspirations to make the characters?

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The Holy Sheep Lord · August 6, 2026

Is there gonna be ways to develop crushes mid step?

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Hylian Pottery · August 7, 2026

There is in Step 1. Nothing I've found for Step 2 yet