Romance Success Tweaks
Adds considerations for relationship status, loyalty, and personality traits.
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Patch Resilience: Moderate ℹ️
In an unmodded game, a Sim in a relationship doesn't consider their loyalty or desire for exclusivity when being flirted with. This mod changes that. Inspired by simler90's "Better Romance" but built from the ground up, this mod introduces new mechanics that take into account a Sim's relationship status, proximity to their partner, loyalty, tendency to cheat, and traits to determine how they'll react to romantic advances.
How It Works
Relationship Status Awareness
Committed Sims Are More Faithful: Sims in exclusive relationships are now less likely to accept romantic interactions from non-partners.
Proximity Matters: The mod considers whether the target Sim of a romantic interaction is near their partner, further reducing the chance of accepting romantic advances if they are.
Unphased by Partner's Presence: Sims with traits like Player, Shameless, Oblivious (by Kuttoe), and Polyamorous (by TURBODRIVER) are just as likely to accept romantic interactions, even if their partner is in the room.
More Reserved Near Romanced Sims: Sims with traits like Proper, Good, and Compassionate will be less likely to accept romantic interactions when near other Sims they've romanced.
Loyalty, Cheating, and Exclusitivty
Loyal Sims Resist Temptation: Sims with traits such as Loyal, Eternal Bond, and Good are much less likely than others to cheat on their partners.
More Receptive to Cheating: Sims with traits or lifestyles like Hungry for Love, Commitment Issues, and Cheater (by TURBODRIVER) are more receptive to cheating on their partners, though most will still think twice with their partner in the room.
Exclusivity Values Considered: The mod takes into account whether a Sim values emotional or physical exclusivity and whether they are aware of the relationship status of the Sim initiating romance with them.
Additonal Features
Public Interaction Sensitivity: The mod adds considerations for romantic interactions in public places for Sims with traits like Proper and Socially Anxious (by Scarlet/Kuttoe), making them behave more conservatively in public settings.
Independent and Guarded Sims: Sims who aren't looking for romance now push back on it. The Single and Loving It lifestyle, Unflirty, Fear of Intimacy, Low Self-Esteem, and Insecure (by Kuttoe) all make a Sim less receptive to advances.
Alluring Visage Power Fixed: Similar to simler90's mod, tests for the Alluring Visage power have been corrected, ensuring it functions as intended.
Celebrity Fame Dynamics Enhanced: Tests for Celebrity Fame differentials have been fixed, providing the intended experience between Sims of differing fame levels.
Wants and Fears Influence: A Sim's Wants and Fears now affect romance success scoring.
Hygiene Preference Overhaul: Hygiene checks now reflect Sims’ preferences and turn-ons. Some Sims may like poor hygiene, while others are more negatively affected, especially for physical interactions.
Loneliness and Dissatisfaction: Sims who fear being alone, or who are unhappy with their current relationship (Lovestruck), are more open to romantic advances.
Compatibility
⚠️ This mod will conflict with any mods that override the following files:
117183<!--scores_socialoutcomes_phone_romance-->
24565<!--scores_socialoutcomes_romance-->
314811<!--scores_socialoutcomes_romance_affection-->
314810<!--scores_socialoutcomes_romance_flirtation-->
125826<!--scores_socialoutcomes_romance_GoingOutSocials-->
210366<!--scores_socialoutcomes_romance_JuiceKegSocials_Flirty-->
314809<!--scores_socialoutcomes_romance_physicalIntimacy-->
251825<!--scores_socialoutcomes_romance_proposal-->
273824<!--scores_socialoutcomes_romance_UnhappyInfant-->
77195<!--testSet_InRelationships_NotTarget-->
196404<!--testSetInstance_FameDifferential_3-->
389404<!--testSetInstance_FameDifferential_3_PickedSim-->
This mod was made possible by Sims 4 Studio and Tuning Builder.
Comments (23)
This still doesn't account for Open Love Life, right? (Wondering how it would affect my sims that are in a committed triad.)
Good point. I don’t believe it does. I’ll add that to my update list.
hello! sorry is this up to date? unfortunately this mod doesn't seem to work for me. my sim will aceppt romantic advances even with her partner right next to her. i've tried the 50/50 method to find conflicts but even after taking all my mods out with only this mod remaining it still didn't work.
What are your Sim's traits?
Hi! is this up to date? I did some testing, and in my game none of the sims seems to be caring if their partner is in the room! I'm not sure, what changed, but I decided to try without mods and it actually did work, sorry for that! I thought it stopped, since it used to work and I had not added any mods since that. But then I went 50/50 and it just kept working until I added all my mods back... :D So I don't know why. It was the same 3 sims I tested it and in the same situation (I just kept going bac to the same situation and trying) At first she happily kissed, but I removed the mods (but this one) She refused and noe she keeps refusing, even tho I added all my mods back :D
It’s up to date. It sounds like it’s a conflict with another mod you have, unfortunately.
Hey ty! I'm having an issue where my Sims, despite being married soulmates with the loyal trait, are accepting advances from other Sims even with their partner in the room, very similar to the comment below. I don't have RPO though. I'm even trying to launch the game with only this mod and the results are always the same, Sims always willing to cheat. Appreciate any feedback on this! (Btw really enjoying your other mods, they're amazing)
Hi! I love your mod! I just wanted to let you know that I've noticed a possible issue in my game. When I have both Romance Success Tweaks and WickedWhims installed, the tweaks seem to stop working. Sims always accept romantic interactions from other sims they find attractive even if they’re already in a exclusive relationship and their partner is nearby. When I uninstall WW, they start rejecting other sims again. Do you know if this might be a known conflict between the two mods, or could it be something in my settings?
Hmm. Isn’t there a setting in WW that lets you control the jealousy and the sex acceptance? What are those set as?
Is this compatible with Wicked Whims autonomy?
Yes, WW is compatible and attraction/etc is included in the tests.
is this compatible with rpo?
Yes
Hello :) Are this mod and Jealousy Reactions & Fixes mod compatible with Lumpinou Open Love Life mod?
They're not incompatible, but I'm not entirely sure how Lumpinou's open relationship system is set up. If it relies on custom traits, my mods don't currently take those into account. I suggest you try and report back what you find. Always willing to make an update if need be!
Hii, where can I find a translation into Portuguese?
This mod doesn't add any strings to the game so it doesn't require any translations.
Hey tyjork! Hope you are doing great. Please could you check the following scenarios: Scenario A: Married NPC Sim with loyal trait vs Active Sim with any traits. Loyal NPC will accept every autonomous and not autonomous romantic advance. Scenario B: Married NPC Sim with Loyal trait vs NPC Sim with any traits. Loyal will reject every romantic advance. Scenario C: Married active Sim with Loyal trait vs NPC Sim with any traits. Loyal active sim with reject every autonomous romance interaction. I notice this since path 1.114.46 and tyjokr_RomanceSuccessTweaks from May 9th. Thanks in advance and I'm sorry for the long post. Have a good day!
I’ll take a look today, thank you for detailing this!
Hello Thanks for this great mod Is it still compatible with the latest update?
Yup!
Just to double-check, is this mod compatible with both Wicked Whims and Lumpinou's Open Love Life?
It’s compatible with WW. I don’t know for certain how it interacts with Open Love Life. If Lumpinou updated the mod to use the romantic boundary system included in the lovestruck patch, then it should work fine.
