How Long Will It Take ? (Before I achieve the goals I want to "manifest")

How long will it take? When will my manifestation materialize and when will I have what I want to achieve? Money, health, a partner, friends, the life I am planning?

The following article is merely my own experience. When I look back at everything I wanted to achieve and ultimately attained, I always see one and the same connection.

It is my personal growth into a person who is ready and deserves those things. Let me explain this to you a little.

I view life as one big game in which I set goals for myself that I gradually try to achieve. As soon as I succeed, I set new ones, and this process is essentially the sum total of my whole life (and everyone else's). We are always trying to get or achieve something we don't have yet. At that given moment, the thing seems distant, unrealistic, yet we strive for it anyway and look for ways to obtain it.

But who are we at the time when we want that thing? I'll use myself as an example.

In the past, one of my major goals as a coach was to train the best athletes in the world (with a preference for combat sports). At the time I set this as my goal and started striving for it, I was actually nowhere near the person I am now, who could handle everything (that I have in my life now). I didn't have the knowledge, the experience, and even as a person I needed to grow. And that happened through all the lessons, tests, and trials I had in life. And through that, I grew too.

All the things that accompanied me on my journey, both positive and negative, were actually part of the whole path and shaped my entire character into someone who "deserves" that goal. And now, looking back, I understand that back then I couldn't even have my desires; I simply wasn't ready and had to go through everything that helped me mature and grow up.

So the question is not, How long will it take for the manifestation to materialize?
The question is rather, Have I gone through enough lessons, realizations, growth, and life experience, and have I put enough effort and self-improvement into being ready for that goal?
As soon as the truly honest answer is yes, and you are ready, reality will likely start materializing on its own around you. From my experience, over more than 10 years of viewing my journey critically, it has always been like this, and that's how it works. It is actually also an encouragement for those who are currently in a phase of life where everything seems difficult and unsolvable. It means that in the end, we will be better and more mature than we were. And therefore, closer to what we want.

Change your perspective on things, and the things around you will change.
Life is a game.

♾️
Filip