October 4, 2024

The Friendzone mod v1.0 😳😬🫣

DOWNLOAD V2 BY CLICKING THIS LINK

The Friendzone mod adds buffs to the “ask to just be friends” interaction in the game. Your sims will now feel a way about being friendzoned. If the interaction is positive, both sims will have positive moodlets, but if the conversation is negative, then both sims will have negative moodlets. Also, your sims will get a milestone and a special milestone buff for friendzoning a sim; in the milestone, the sim will remember the location and who they friendzoned.

How does the mod work?

Click on a sim that your main sim has a romantic bar with, then click the relationship pie menu, and click change relationship to press the "ask to just be friends" interaction.

How many buffs come with this mod?

This mod has 16 buffs for the sim who is friendzoning and the sim who's friendzoned, therefore, in total the mod has 32 buffs (for every in-game emotion) + 1 extra milestone buff to remember the moment for the sim who friendzoned. The last photo on the slide shows the milestone and milestone buff.

This is the first version of the mod and will come with future updates such as phone interaction, computer interaction, custom interactions… etc. Lastly, this mod is in early access and will be public on October 23rd, 2024. 

Here's a video tutorial for visual learners:

Early access post

Credit

ImTashaMonet for teaching me about Random Weighted Loot

DanitySimmer for teaching me about modding

Thatssojordy for encouraging me to make this mod

Sasha’s Space tiers info:

The Moon tier members will have the mod next week. The three tiers are supposed to represent every week for the early access, but for now, I am including the Mercury tier to use the mod early with the Mars tier. In the future, I’ll have it week 1 Mercury, then week 2 Mars, and week 3 Moon then free for the public🥳✨

FAQ:

Why is the milestone not appearing for me?

Maybe you might have cheated something in your milestone section and got messed up, but you can cheat it yourself if you want to set it up for your sim with UI cheats mod by right-clicking milestones and scrolling "friendzoned a sim" milestone. You can even right-click on the milestone to set up who your sim friendzoned and even set up the location.


Thank you so much and I wish you a lovely day take care 💗


Spanish translation

Russian translation

Ukrainian translation

For any modder who wants to translate any of my mods, I don't mind if you upload it on your Patreon or any other website that monetizes, BUT I do not want you to post it on CurseForge. I would also like it if you keep the mods up publicly for download no early access.

Comments (24)

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crystal duke · June 30, 2026

Hi Sasha! ❤️ I absolutely love your Friendzone Mod! It adds so much more emotion to something that has always felt a bit empty in The Sims. I had a few ideas that I thought might fit perfectly with future updates if you're ever looking for inspiration! 🥰 💔 Different Friendzone Outcomes "Maybe one day..." (leave the door open for future romance). "Let's just stay friends." "I'm not ready for a relationship." "I only see you as family." "I like someone else." "I'm focusing on myself right now." 💕 One-Sided Crushes Sims secretly developing a crush on a close friend. Feeling jealous when their crush dates someone else. Trying to move on after being friendzoned. Friends noticing the crush and teasing them. 😢 Emotional Recovery Comfort from friends and family. Eating comfort food. Watching movies in bed. Crying into a pillow. Journaling about their feelings. Slowly recovering over several days. 💬 New Social Interactions Ask why you were rejected. Promise to stay friends. Thank them for being honest. Flirt again after some time has passed. Ask for another chance later. Decide to take some space. 😊 Different Personality Reactions Confident Sims recover quickly. Romantic Sims take longer to move on. Jealous Sims struggle seeing their crush with someone else. Family-oriented Sims value keeping the friendship. 📱 Phone & Social Media Text a best friend for advice. Vent to someone. Change relationship status. Post a sad or motivational social media update. Friends sending supportive messages. 🏆 Milestones & Memories "My First Heartbreak." "Stayed Friends After Rejection." "Moved On." "Found Love After Being Friendzoned." "Second Chance Romance." 💕 Second Chances Sims who were friendzoned could later develop romantic feelings if circumstances change. Feelings changing over time after becoming closer friends. Special interactions if they eventually become a couple. 🎭 Moodlets "Mixed Signals." "Hope Isn't Lost." "Rejected but Respectful." "Trying to Move On." "Unexpected Second Chance." "Best Friends Instead." 🌹 Long-Term Storytelling I also think it would be amazing if being friendzoned wasn't always the end of the story. Sometimes, after months of friendship, shared memories, and spending time together, Sims could naturally realise they've fallen for each other and have a chance to try again. It would create such realistic slow-burn relationships and make every story feel unique. I absolutely love the direction you've taken with this mod already, and I think these ideas could make it feel even more emotional, immersive and realistic. Thank you so much for all the amazing work you do! ❤️🥰

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Sasha's Space · June 30, 2026

Hiii I have some of this incorporated in version 2 of the mod that I released in May. I linked it on this post the first line of the post to download recent version where I included ask why you got friendzoned and more feelings in it to even having a friends to lovers relbit for second chance. Some stuff you shared, I haven't incorporated like recovery wants, but I have listed a bunch of stuff for v3 that I plan to work on next year. I'll definitely look back to these post for inspo thank you so much♥

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giuliq · March 9, 2026

Hello:) do you need something else to make the mod works? I installed it but doesn’t appear ask just to be friends , thank you :)

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Sasha's Space · March 9, 2026

It’s under the relationship pie menu > change relationship menu Then ask to just be friends will be there. Your sims must have some pink bar though

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B Marie · February 27, 2026

Thank you so much for this mod im so excited!

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Sasha's Space · February 27, 2026

Yay so happy to hear that 🥹

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contrl · February 4, 2026

Hiii! I've really liked your mod so here's ukrainian translation of it: https://www.patreon.com/posts/pereklad-modu-149944972?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link

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Sasha's Space · February 11, 2026

Tysm adding your link rn 🥹💗 I appreciate you for translating for Ukrainian simmers 💗

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Some Girl · May 5, 2025

Hi! I love your mods, this one and Love Language are my favs 💗 I already saw in the comments that there is some mod that's causing this one to not work properly, but I was curious if maybe you know now which one. Also, are your mods up to date? I haven't seen any updates from you since January and I'm just kinda scared 🫣

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Sasha's Space · May 16, 2025

Hey, I tested the mods and they all work. Something conflicts for some simmers idk what tbh because I don’t have the mod myself. Love language and Friendzone both work with the current patch 🩷

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ThtOneSimmer(Mo) · February 25, 2025

this mod doesnt work for me, is there anyy conflicts?

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Sasha's Space · February 26, 2025

Yeah it conflicts with something I’m not sure I haven’t fully done the investigation yet. The way to get my mod to work is to add “1- Sspace” (whatever the mod name is). It’s what I do for the moodlets to appear 😆. I’m not entirely sure what mod is causing this yet I will write it down and work on it soon I apologize 🫶🏾🫶🏾

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tipoual · February 1, 2025

Hi! I tried it but no buff, no milestone. Ive got the notification about the ending satisfaction and the relation did go to 0 but thats it :(

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Sasha's Space · February 1, 2025

I noticed there’s a mod in my game that has the interaction ask to be friends with a heartbreak symbol on it. I don’t use that interaction because it’s not the in-game one idk what mod it is tbh. What I did was I added a “1-“ in front of my file name and my mod appears and it will work, just don’t click the interaction with the broken heart symbol. In my mind, that could be the issue, if not, I will update my game to figure it out. I’m on the patch where the rain and snow isn’t in the homes 💀🫣💗

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Sherry · December 16, 2024

Luv ur mods <3 Russian translation on my patreon https://www.patreon.com/posts/perevod-moda-mod-115775669

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Sasha's Space · December 16, 2024

That’s amazing thank you so much!

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Sherry · October 28, 2024

Wow! I really want a version with a permanent buff when seeing a ex-partner and not just for 12 hours T_T

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Sasha's Space · October 28, 2024

I don’t know how to do that, but maybe I’ll research on that for a future update 😇

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June☆ · October 26, 2024

So cool!

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Sasha's Space · October 26, 2024

Thanks June 💕

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LBoogie · October 25, 2024

Yesssss 🤧💜✊🏽

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Sasha's Space · October 25, 2024

It's gonna be a mess hehe ♥

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Faith Hurst-Joseph · October 4, 2024

I can't wait

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Sasha's Space · October 4, 2024

🥰💗💗🫶🏾