Your Environment Will Keep You Broke đź’”
Some of you are trying to build a rich life while staying surrounded by broke habits, broke conversations and people who have already accepted struggling as normal. Every idea gets laughed at. Every investment is called a waste of money. Every successful woman is “lucky,” “scamming” or “doing too much.” Every time you try something different, somebody has a reason you should stop and then you wonder why you keep second-guessing yourself. You cannot keep listening to people who have never built anything and expect to build something big. You cannot spend all day around gossip, excuses and complaining, then magically wake up motivated and disciplined. Your environment gets into your head. What you hear every day becomes what you believe is possible. Some people were raised to believe that paying bills and barely surviving is enough. That wanting more is greedy. That rich people must have cheated. That starting a business is unrealistic. That mindset will keep you broke. At some point, you have to stop repeating what you were taught and start looking at the results it created. Did those beliefs create freedom? Did they create savings? Did they create ownership? Did they create the life you want? If the answer is no, stop treating them like rules. You may need to change what you watch, who you follow, what you talk about and who gets access to your plans. Because everybody around you does not need a vote on the life you are building. Honestly, sometimes you are not stuck because you need another tip. You are stuck because you keep returning to the same environment that teaches you to think small. You do not have to stay broke just because struggling is familiar. Break the pattern. 💕
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I invest for help, subs who contact me are either scammers, time wasters or who's there to criticise me. Then I hear I look homeless when I post a selfie without makeup when I put on makeup then I hear I edit my pics or get called out because I create AI in my own image. Or is it bc I'm from South Africa, and everyone from Africa must be a scammer, or a catfish right. Am I too soft, or just plain I don't know? Then I see findoms who's AI is so bad but they make bank every month, have subs swooning, they're foaming at the mouth to serve her? I don't know, maybe I'm not cut out for this and clearly past my sell by date. I don't ask for handouts in other doms dms because that's just embarrassing. I'm not a brat who needs a dummy dipped in 24k gold, I've been working since I was 16. I know where money comes from. So I'll never take so much from a sub so that he could become homeless, that's just bullying. I'm all for a connection, I see nothing wrong with that. So yeah, rant over. I'll see what rabbits out of hard hats I can pull for my next post.
I'm really disheartened today 🥺 I show up, I hope that their's someone who wants to get to know me. I don't tell anyone except my nearest and dearest about my plans. I've been here since February, I got 3 sends. Then he left Findom indefinitely. So I don't know what to do anymore. I don't have a broke mindset, so I know it's not something I do wrong. Oh yes, I invest too.
I completely understand why you feel disheartened, especially when you’ve been showing up since February and only had three sends. That would make anybody question what they’re doing. I’m not saying you have a broke mindset or that you’re doing everything wrong. But sometimes showing up consistently isn’t enough if the content isn’t reaching the right people or giving them a strong reason to choose you. Findom is very crowded, and buyers usually need to see your personality, boundaries, offers and consistency before they trust you enough to send. Your sender leaving wasn’t your fault, but you also can’t build everything around waiting for one person to return. I would look at your page honestly: Is your personality clear? Do people know what interacting with you feels like? Are you posting things that invite conversation, not only asking for money? Are you visible in places where real buyers are active? You’re allowed to have a hard day, but don’t decide your whole future based on today. Three sends prove somebody was willing to send. You just need to figure out how to attract more of the right people and turn attention into trust. 💕
