Hiatus
Hi everyone, this is gonna be a serious post.
The past year or so has been very rough, and I’m struggling to cope with issues going on IRL. On top of that, I have been repeatedly disrespected and treated poorly in the Sims community. Over the last year, commissioners have been rude; others break my TOU and completely ignore me when I politely ask them to take their posts down. I had to turn off my ask box on Tumblr because of all of the hounding and rude comments towards me. It feels like the only thing people expect me to do is pump out CC on demand, with no regard for the amount of time and labor that goes into every single one of my creations, and that I have to take how I'm spoken to because I chose to make you all hairs.
To be honest with you right now, I am struggling with funds, and my irl job depends on me pumping out content also, and it got so much that honestly the cc making was helping me keep afloat. But all the stress of being here has gotten so much that I would rather not be here, even if I really need the funds. I simply can't cope anymore.
I am truly grateful for the friends I have made in this community and the kind words from everyone, but the negative sentiments still get to me, and it’s exhausting. Therefore, I will be taking a break and going on a hiatus until further notice. I will come back, but I don’t know when that will be.
IMPORTANT: Payments for the month of September will be paused. I will let you know by the end of September whether I plan to resume making content in October. My Patreon will resume billing for support/donations only. Please make sure to unsubscribe before October 1st to avoid being charged if you don't want that.
Please be kind to creators. Others have told me how they're also mistreated and spoken to like they're less than human, and that's really heartbreaking. Please be kinder.
Thank you to those of you who have been kind, and thank you for the support everyone has given me over the past few years. I love you all dearly. Thank you for your understanding.
Comments (55)
I think I speak for all of us when I say we love your content, but we love YOU more. No one should be forced to create under such circumstances. Please know we are in your corner, and we wish you every comfort and happiness on your break. <3
take care of urself <3 im so sorry people have been so disrespectful. i hope everything gets better for you
i will never understand the audacity of people to be this way toward someone who's been nothing but kind. this community can be extremely toxic, stepping away for a while is so necessary sometimes. take care of yourself, your wellbeing is what's most important. 🖤
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Please take care of yourself!! I'm so sorry you have to go through this. People can be so disgusting for no reason. Your mental health is extremely important, please take all the time you need.
I'm so incredibly sorry you've had to deal with that!!! The work you actively put into all your work is beyond loved and appreciated by so many and it's really sad that so much of the modding community has become entitled and cruel, you do not deserve any of that ever! Take all the time in the world you need and take as many breaks and as long on your work as you want! Art takes time and if you need more breaks never feel you cannot take them <3
im so sorry to hear that, unfortunately I see so much negativity and nasty entitlement in the sims community 😞 please take as much time as you need 💞 you’re loved!!
sending love pls take care
Im so sorry you've been dealing with all those assholes. I hope you have a restful break <3
I am amazed how talented all of the CC creators are including you, I wouldn't want to play the Sims 4 without it. I am so annoyed with people who think they are entitled and treat others so badly. No one deserves to be treated like that. I always say "who died and made them Queens or Kings of the world?" I hope you take time for yourself. You deserve it! I was brought up to know if you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all! I know we have times when we need to defend ourselves from the ugly personalities. Remember you are strong and deserve respect like everyone else. Take care of you! <3
I'm very sorry to hear that people have been downright disrespectful. You are loved and appreciated. Take care and I wish you all the best for your hiatus. ❤️
I'm so sorry people have been awful to you. You've been offering your gifts to the community, which you've never been obligated to do, and people's feeling free to be unkind to you just because you're there is absurd. Believe me, I understand needing to retreat because of assholes. Please don't forget your work is valuable, and you are creative and skilled, and you deserve respect no matter what. Thank you for sharing your work and your unique artistic style with us. Our games are better with your stuff in them 💜
people need to understand that cc makers are people too, not some magic person across the screen that can give you whatever you want for 10$ a month or a commission price, take your time and rest
Take care of yourself
Please, take good care of yourself in all the ways possible. You do not and will never deserve disrespect from others. So, please do not linger too much on what has been said. You are amazing! Everyone knows this. Everyone can see your hard work and dedication. It is unfortunate that, even though this is known, some choose to behave inappropriately.
Please take as long as you need! I'm so sorry that people are being rude and disrespectful towards you. I can't afford to do paid content because I have limited money from SSI and disabled, but I want you to know that I do appreciate the content that you do release and share with us! Honestly, your hairs are my favorite and I love all the overlays you have created as well, the compatibility they offer even with some other hairs I use them with are so useful too. I wish people weren't treating you poorly, I understand why you need a break so please do what is best for you and your health. You'll be missed for sure, your work will also be missed and it's been greatly appreciated by me!
I just wanted to say… sometimes I’m ashamed to be human. We’re truly awful creatures - some of us don’t even deserve to be called "human". I’m truly sorry that it’s come to this - that you can’t even do something nice because there’s always someone who’ll be unhappy about it. And that person will think it’s okay to cause others suffering just because they are miserable themselves. I think you deserve to make money however you want, and honestly, it’s wonderful that you can do that by creating these amazing hairstyles. It’s a shame that people think it’s okay to treat someone like you badly (even though no one deserves that, except for those very people who treat others badly). I’m grateful for your work, and I hope you find the time to heal. Take care of yourself! ❤️
Please take care of yourself, we understand and appreciate you!
I'm so sorry you're having to teal with this. I hate that other CC creators I follow are facing the same thing, meaning that it's a community-wide problem. :( This is not how we treat people! Period! Please take all the time in the world that you need. Your health and comfort come first.
I’m so sad to hear this news! And sad to hear that people have been treating you this way in the sims community. I’ve always loved your content you’re one of my favorite creators for hairs and it’s so upsetting that it’s come to this. I understand the need for you to take space please take care of yourself and we’ll be here for you when you’re ready to come back 🩷
I am so sorry you had to deal with so much. Creators like you, are the ones you help us players have a better playing experience so I thank you for your hard work and service. I completely understand the need to step back and I hope this hiatus provides you with the peace and comfort that you need. Regardless of what you choose to do in the end, I will support you.
When I found your content I was fr blown away! Idk what I would do without cc creators you make the game sooo much more fun. Thank you for all the work you’ve done. Please do whatever you need to do! Take care
I hate that a lot of sim creators have to deal with this. I hope that everything gets better . Mental health is more important 🫶🏾
You get you so much needed rest and take good of yourself !!!
sims community is so ass sometimes youre valid
people can be so awful ugh :// i hope you take care of yourself and i wish you all the best 🩵 thank you for all the awesome cc you have created <33
Oh no! I hope you feel better soon, please take proper care of yourself. Pushing yourself and risking your mental health is not something anyone wants. Don't feel pressured to come back too soon love <333
I am so sorry this happened to you. Please take care of yourself and put your well-being first. I have lived through this kind of cruelty on Tumblr myself, so I truly understand how painful and exhausting it can be. Please don’t let the haters make you forget your worth. Hold your head high, and don’t let people who expect creators to pump out CC like machines get to you. You deserve kindness, happiness, and the very best in life. Thank you for everything you have created and shared with the community. Take all the time you need—we will still be here if and when you ever decide to come back. Big hugs! ❤️
I feel like I've been seeing as lot of similar posts from creators recently and that's really sad. At the end of the day,CC creators share their work with the community while earning some money off their talents. I hate that the Sims community has gotten so toxic that they think they can mistreat the creators who give us beautiful content. I am really sorry you're having to go through this. Your hairs are gorgeous and amazing quality and it sucks people feel entitled like this. It takes the fun out of creating CC. I hope you have a good break and take care of yourself and hopefully decide to come back eventually ❤️
Take all the time you need to heal. You are a wonderful sim creator. The good people of the sims community, we love you too, we will miss you...just take care of yourself...People are so rude because they aren't patient enough to wait for mods to be updated or released etc., and also they cant make the mods that you make so they clearly feel the need to be disrespectful thinking it's going to make you move faster or something and its not. Please don't believe the nasty things people say, they are self reflecting and thats really how they feel about themselves. Keep your head up, stay strong. Block peoples who's negative because you didn't force them to join you for your content they joined on their own time. .
I'm sorry for everything you are going through, take all the time you need. I send you a big hug and hope everything gets better for you soon. Thank you for your hard work and your beautiful creations! 🫂
I am so sorry there are such rude members. Just know you have many more people who love your content and hope things improve. I hate bullies. Totally understand about needing some time away!! ❤️
Take all the time you need!!
I'm sorry, that's awful. I appreciate cc creators sooo much and respect the art and effort. Not something I know how to do! The entitlement to the labor of others, especially in creative fields, is something I have seen and been appalled by. It has gotten worse in the Sims community too- I'm not sure why. Just know there are many of us out here who appreciate you, support you and thank you so, so much for what you have created so far. You are very talented and you deserve all due compensation for your talent and hard work.
i’m sorry that people are being rude :( people really take cc creators for granted. take your time ❤️
Take all the time you need and the people who support you will gladly wait for your return if you still want that. I hope the hiatus helps you feel a little less overwhelmed 🩵
People are so shitty. Take all the time that you need.
I’m so sorry to hear that you had to deal with this 💔 It’s my first time writing here on patreon, I wanted to say that you’re one of my favorite sim creators <3 Take as much time as you need, please take care of yourself!!! (Sorry if my english is bad, it’s not my first language)
I’m so sorry that you have had to deal with this. Take all the time you need
I'm sorry to hear people have been treating you poor, you don't deserve that.. No one does. Take all the time you need away from the community to rest up and take care of yourself. I'll always be here to support you and whatever you do. Please stay safe while you're gone and remember you're only human after all 🩷
omg i'm so sorry people have been rude to you 💔 I could never imagine hounding a cc creator for cc.
You are my favorite sims creator, you make such amazing cc. I’m sorry people are being rude to you. Take care ❤️
This is really sad and unfair for you, you have been nothing but kind. I really love your cc very much, I dont usually interact in this community but I had to thank you, thank you for all your dedication and effort, take good care of yourself peachi 🩷
i’m so sorry peachi :( you work so hard and we all appreciate you so much. take a much needed break and come back whenever you’re ready!!
I hope you get well soon. I’m so sorry that people are treating you terribly instead of showing you the kindness and respect you deserve. I hope your journey from here on out continues to get better and better. Try to block out all the hate comments and focus on the good, because you deserve so much better. You’re truly an amazing person, and I hope you never forget that. ❤️
I’m so sorry to hear that ,please take care of yourself ,take as much time as you need💞💞
I am sorry to hear all of this, especially when you have been nothing but kind. Take your time, we will be there when you come back
You make my absolute favorite cc content, I am so sorry that these miserable people have mistreated you. Please take care of yourself. You are loved. No matter if you choose to come back or not, thank you for what you have given this community, you are so immensely talented and lovely❤️
thank you for your awesome content, pls take care of urself 💔
Take all the time u need. Ur cc is so so so appreciated and I’m so sorry for all the hate ur getting. It’s not fair. U will be missed but pls take care of ur self🩷 thank you for everything
im sorry people have been mistreating you. Have a lovely break and i hope you're okay <3
take all the time you need <3 we'll always be here to support whenever you are ready to come back
oh Peachi i wish you all the best, please take your time to rest up and refresh! 🫶
Oh my I'm so sorry you had to deal with this . Take as much time as you need queen 🫶🏾😞
I’m sorry to hear that peach u are one of my fav sim creators too fuck those bitch ass rude people please take care of yourself we love u
