May 18, 2018

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I'm leaving. Dear friends, I'm so sorry, I can't do this. Recent days and weeks have been hard, emotionally and mentally taxing. Recent events have lead me to rather not exist than to deal with the ugliness of it all. I've tried to be strong for a long time, but now I'm completely broken. What was something that I loved, has slowly become something I cannot bring myself to even think about. I've been messed around with so much, I've had all I can take. I'm not the person they say I am, I'm not the person I want to be, nor the passionate creator you have always known. Hence why I need to step away from everything. This might be indefinite. I don't know. All I know is I need to find my peace - immediately. You have all been my rock, you've supported me no matter what. I am so grateful to you and owe you my life - you've helped me through some seriously difficult times. Sadly, this is beyond you and even me. Whether I'll be back is subject to my state of mind and desire to create again. It won't be anytime soon though. I'll be putting everything I've made thus far on my website next month. I won't be deleting anything. I wanted to add more, but I'm really sorry I won't be updating this patreon. If on the off chance some of you still want to support, I will leave it open on the lowest pledge. Thank you for all of your support. You mean the world to me and more. It's been a beautiful 2 and a half years. I hope I can come back to you beautiful people and give you the content you deserve in time. I'm just not strong enough to deal with the ugly side of what it is to be Ebonix. All the best, Dani x

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Twobigpeaches · August 22, 2018

I'm so sorry to hear that you are leaving. You have to take care of you my baby. We will miss you dearly. I have you in my prayers to find peace within your soul.

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Jalè R. · July 13, 2018

Praying for your peace and that you find it the best way. I love your work and your spirit shine through.

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Ivy · July 9, 2018

I am so sorry to hear this. I only just joined Patreon because I fell in love with your CC and your Sims posts on tumblr. I don't know anything about the Simmer community, so it breaks my heart that there could be so much negativity for someone so lovely and talented. I hope you are taking care of yourself and doing something that brings you happiness. If you do come back then you have loyal supporters waiting to welcome you back. <3

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Uvonne Jones-Most · July 9, 2018

I'm so sorry about what you are going through, I only join patreon for your beautiful CC's. I understand that you need stop and take a brake. So take care yourself and that I and others are sending you love , support and prayers to help you. Just don't stop being the powerful artistic,creative talented force that you are in this community. Love to you and best of luck and I hope you will come back, Stronger.

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COCOSIMS4 · July 9, 2018

NOOOOOO. I just made a patreon just to support you :/ But I'm sorry that you're having a hard time. Feel better.

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Shonna · July 7, 2018

So sorry to read this post. Take your time, find yourself and love yourself again. Take care beautiful.

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Ruth Elizabeth · July 6, 2018

Or how much is it to get the hair on the patreon ?

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Ruth Elizabeth · July 6, 2018

Hi, did she ever post her content on the website? I don't see it o.o

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EmpressWu0902 · June 22, 2018

I'm so sorry to hear this, and I feel terrible that you are going through such difficult times. You are truly my favorite creator, and I just hate to see you go. Please don't waste this incredible talent you have. If you are not creating custom content for the Sims, you must put your artistic abilities to use in some other way. You are so creative and so talented. I'll miss you very much, but I understand that your health and peace of mind are the most important. Good luck with everything, and love ya.

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ely. · June 20, 2018

Take care of yourself, and know that you are a beautiful soul and have people who support you. Much Love, and you will be missed. Find your peace Sis, and live your best life!

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Sero · June 20, 2018

omg what happened to you babe :( im sorry

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Tanisha Smith · June 16, 2018

I am truly saddened by this, but at the same time I can relate as well as understand. Take all the time you need. We will be here whenever you are ready. And if that is never that is fine too. This is about you. Love ya girl!!!

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Ruby Mendoza · June 15, 2018

is there any way I can get the cc? I just stumbled across your patreon and I cant even try to get the $5 content. :(

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Bootsie V · June 12, 2018

This is so sad. Go find your peace gwurl!!! <3

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Shaquila Burks · June 5, 2018

I wish you nothing but peace of mind and happiness. And thank you for all your wonderful and beautiful creations. Blessings!!

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Sara McKnope · June 4, 2018

I love all of your content & I send good vibes your way in hopes you find the peace you desire<3

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Brittney Baxter · June 4, 2018

Thank you for slaying my sims and I wish you all the best on your path to inner peace hoping this is "see you later" and not "goodbye forever" <3

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Kyrie · May 31, 2018

I love you Queen <3 Take all the time you need :)

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Goob · May 30, 2018

please please please, take all the time you need!! As much as we mean the world to you, you mean the world to us and i hope you find your peace, even if it takes a billion years xD, we got you back!!

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TreasureMe · May 29, 2018

We love you and support you always! All you're going through now is just opening the doors for your brand new, big and beautiful discovery of the new you! I hope that if you do make it back here, long time from here or not, that we get to see bright new you, whether in your designs or in a simple message that you're doing a lot better. Gonna miss you :) <3

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Rae Antonia · May 29, 2018

Not sure exactly what's going on and honestly, it's none of my business, but know that we support you and understand. Keeping you lifted in prayer and hoping the peace you seek finds you and keeps you well. You will be missed.

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Grace Murphy · May 28, 2018

praying for u

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Delores Page · May 27, 2018

praying 4 u

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Akilah Guinn · May 27, 2018

Praying for you! Wish you the best on your journey.

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Amadee · May 27, 2018

Take care of yourself first!

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Charmbird · May 27, 2018

Ebonix, I hope you find what you are looking for. It was really fun watching your growth as a creator. And it was an exciting journey to see what you made next. Good Luck!

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Tracy Tra · May 25, 2018

Sorry to see you go! People who hate on you are just jealous! Just hit the delete button....it is not worth it to read! Hopefully after some time you will come back. We will truly miss you!

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iLOVEsaraMoon · May 22, 2018

NO! Hey Miss... you have come so far and achieved so much... don't let the haters, friends or foe stop your blessings here. You are doing what you love Dani. You are following EAs guidelines and doing everything the right way. My dream for you has always been that you work or become a consultant for EA. I still believe it. Take the time you need and come back to us.

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Diamond Hearts · May 22, 2018

With everything that has been happening, I'm proud you stayed this long. Sorry people have brought you to this. I hope you get well mentally and physically.

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DrTeeKayCee's Custom Content · May 21, 2018

Yes, thank you for all of your creative genius! I have thoroughly enjoyed your creations and will miss your wit and charm. I pray that whatever you are dealing with that you will persevere and regain the knowledge that you are strong. Although it does not feel like it now, this too shall pass. I look forward to that time when once again we are blessed with your interactions! Take care of yourself!

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Chelsee Torain · May 20, 2018

I love your work. You are truly one of the best, if not THE best. I am praying for your healing and mental recovery. Good luck darling.

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Brittany Wattley · May 20, 2018

Thank you for everything you've given my gameplay and the sims community. I hope you feel better soon. We'll always love you

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Dani Giggs · May 19, 2018

I really have enjoyed all of your creations. It's sad to see you go but I wish you the best of luck. Take care and you will truly be missed.

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Tyeisha Brown · May 19, 2018

awww don't go dani u will be greatly missed i hope u return soon :(

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Starlyss · May 19, 2018

you will be missed dearly but take all the time you need, you need to take care of yourself first :D I hope you find your peace hun <3

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Bernice Gamble-Lewis · May 19, 2018

Clicking a like to let you know I've read it. Please keep in touch. *HUGS*

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Bree · May 19, 2018

this really is heartbreaking....if not for your creations I wouldnt have gotten back into the sims again. you showed me that I could actually have sims that look like me..... but of course you come first Dani so take care of yourself. I'll truly miss you and thank you so much for everything.

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Cee London · May 19, 2018

Best of luck Dani, always put your happiness and health above everything. Thank you for your amazing contribution to our black simmer community 🤗❤

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Taniece S Hilliard · May 19, 2018

I'm sorry that you feel led to leave. I don't delve into and am oblivious to what you have to endure behind the scenes but it sucks because your creations have given my game such life! I hope and pray you find the peace that you are seeking. At the end of the day, this is a game, it should never be this serious!!! If and when you return, I'll be glad to resume supporting you. Take care!

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Naisha Pooh · May 19, 2018

Take your time, We love you ❤️

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Phil Burkhardt · May 19, 2018

I will miss what you bring to by beautifully diverse Sims game. I will definitely be back if/when you are. Please take care.

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yokaichy · May 19, 2018

I understand your mental health is much more important than any of this. 🙏🏽❤️

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Lilac Lover13 · May 19, 2018

Your well being is the most important thing! I know things have been tough for awhile now and maybe stepping away completely is the best thing for you and your peace of mind. Take care of yourself dear one. Thank you for everything and I will pray for you and your serenity.

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Zoxysim · May 19, 2018

Omg noooo let me give you a virtual hug! It’s gonna be okay sis! Well, I don’t know you but through your work I felt as if I knew you. I know that sounds weird but yea. I hope to see you back soon!

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JeauxJeaux · May 19, 2018

Dang that super sucks. You put out bomb CC. On the bright side I guess that frees up my $5 for somebody else

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Kennedi Foster · May 19, 2018

You're well being is top priority, I appreciate everything you've done for us. Take care of yourself Love ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Priscah Frazier · May 19, 2018

Wow will definitely miss you but I believe you took the best and most important decision: Yourself. A lot of people lose theirselves in what they do and although now it is probably feeling disabling and like a burden on your shoulder, it will eventually be a stepping stone for you. Pray you the best on your journey.

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Unique Langford · May 19, 2018

Take care of yourself.

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Searchupshan · May 18, 2018

i love you so much❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Latoya Jeeter · May 18, 2018

Self care is important; your contribution to the sims will never go unnoticed or recognized. Keeping you always in my heart and in my prayers.

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Regie Macalino · May 18, 2018

Stay strong sis, you'll be missed.

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Darling Scarbrough-Moore · May 18, 2018

I have supported you for a while now...even tho I seldom get to download. I will be binge-ng immediately. I am sorry to see you go....but I TOTALLY support your right to not take shit from ANYBODY. Go do you, boo....Auntie loves you.

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TaraGY · May 18, 2018

Just focus on yourself. That's all you can do.

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Yolanda Burks · May 18, 2018

im so sorry for what ever is going on and i pray you feel better soon

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PuddingCups · May 18, 2018

You will be missed Dani! Please feel better soon, and take care of yourself!

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AvenaLove · May 18, 2018

Man I hate to see you go but I understand. Dani we love you♥

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Danielle Jeffries · May 18, 2018

I hate to see you leave Dani, but since you feel this what you have to do then I wish you nothing but the best! Also take care of your health and mental health that always comes first before anything. Thank you for the beautiful cc that you've created and thank you for helping me I really appreciate it 💗

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LaDonna Bugg · May 18, 2018

As sad as I am to see you leave, I truly understand! I will be adding you to my prayer list and send prayers of healing presence for your heart, mind and soul! May God provide you with the peace you so deserve! With much love, support and understanding always! Take care of yourself, your heart and your spirit...Let God be your strength and will power for awhile and relax as best you can. Love you, Dani!!! You are as awesome as God created you to be and more, please remember that...no one can take from you what GOD has blessed you with!!!

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Rhoda Washington Mama · May 18, 2018

You know i'm always here for you baby Mama luvs ya but, you come first take care and chat soon :)

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sanesia marie · May 18, 2018

sorry to see you leave i have enjoyed your creativity for the sims4 however i do understand taking care of you first and that is important you still and will always have my support. get well soon

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sharon stone · May 18, 2018

Sorry for this babes. You will be missed. Health is very important in this weird 2018 were living in. Nuff youngsters feel the pain with bullying, until it happens to them. Fi dem day soon cum trust and know dat lovely. Stay Well zeen👏🏽

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IrieGamerGyal Banton · May 18, 2018

Nooooo.....Dani, I'm so sorry please take Cart of yourself.

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thegrandsimmer · May 18, 2018

I'm so sad you feel broken, but I respect you taking the time out for yourself. Heal up love and stay strong!! I will send prayers up for you!

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Lisa Simms · May 18, 2018

In my eyes you will always be one of the best cc creators I've ever seen. No one can even come close to the wonderful things you have done for the black simmer community. Your health is more important than anything and you have to take care of yourself. So as much as I still want you around I couldn't live w/ myself knowing it was for the sake of your health. I wish nothing but health, blessing and peace in your life. I'm sorry that some other people have made this process such an unpleasant one for you, but know that you have so many people that support and luv ya.

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sachqia sims · May 18, 2018

i wish i didnt have to see you go, but your mental health is much more important than doing someothing that doesnt bring out your true self <3

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Tiffany A · May 18, 2018

Sorry to see you go but completely understand, Thank you for all you contributed to our game to make it come alive. Wish you the best, take care of yourself.

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ButterflyMisty's Garden · May 18, 2018

Take care of you, Dani. Your personal health and well-being is more important than anything else. <3

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LexisHer · May 18, 2018

I’m sorry you’ve had to face and deal with all the ugly because you don’t deserve it, not at all. I wish you the best because you’ve done so much for this community and to be fair, we probably didn’t deserve you either. I’ll be praying for you, for whatever you’re dealing with to get better and even if you never come back, I do hope that you can live a happy life. Thank you for all you’ve done! ❤️

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Shadae Brown · May 18, 2018

I'm going to miss you very much, but your mental and emotional health comes first. This community has become very toxic over what is supposed to be a fun passion. I appreciate you for sharing your creativity with us and being a positive presence. I'm sending you plenty of love and prayers! And I'm going to continue supporting you because I believe in you beyond "just" being Ebonix. ❤

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teionka winters · May 18, 2018

Sorry to hear this, praying for you through it all remember that God Got you, thank you for taking your time out to create and give us content that make us as black folk feel apart of the Game..you are the best regardless and ill always root for you and this is why i will not be unpledging, you deserve all the blessings that GOD has planned for you <3

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Ms Brina · May 18, 2018

so very sorry dani you feel like this and i understand just remember you are someone special. people are going to be jealous of your talent so thet will try n tear you down. just dnt ler them break who you are and thank you i will be praying for you

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poisonivy · May 18, 2018

I wish you the best in life Dani!!! And I understand why you are leaving! You have changed my game so much and GAVE IT LIFE!!! Nobody does it like you do!!!!

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MsKittyKat83 · May 18, 2018

Nooooooo Dannnniiiii! I cant act like I don't understand because I definitely do. Like everyone else said...ur mental health is top priority. I'll be praying for u sis! Much luv!😘

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KeeRed Games · May 18, 2018

Oh no! I'm sad to see you leave. Your hard work is definitely appreciated. It's nothing wrong with stepping away to take care of yourself first. If you come back later in the future, I'll have my wallet ready!

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Jennifer Romero · May 18, 2018

I was hoping this day wouldn't come, you have been one of my favorite creators since I started sims 4 and have given my game life. I have a ton of hair cc yet my sims always end up in your cc <3 . I will miss seeing your new content but I wish you well and I hope you can find some peace in your time away.

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Kash J. Drevitt · May 18, 2018

Awww so sorry to hear this. This break my heart so badly because I was just getting started.

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KeToria · May 18, 2018

I’m sorry that you’re leaving, thankyou for always giving us bomb ass content. Self love is better then anything and you deserve that 💕.

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Clem Da Ros · May 18, 2018

Peccato..

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Tynisha Newell · May 18, 2018

We love you dani, u changed the black simmer community. I hope you find peace

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Dawn Jasper · May 18, 2018

I'm sorry to hear this but self care is most important. You've made my sims beautiful and I thank you for that. Peace and blessings.

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SpreadLoveNotHate · May 18, 2018

I'm deeply sorry for everything that you are experiencing in your life. You'll remain in my thoughts and prayers.

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Rashae woodland · May 18, 2018

Thank you for all your beautiful creations I will definitely miss you but your mental health is very important I'm wishing you all the best boo I hope to one day see you creating again but overall I want you to be happy and find peace and joy in your life again

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QueenTheoBee · May 18, 2018

Thank you for everything from your custom content to being one of the coolest creators I know as a person. I hope you find the mental and emotional peace that needs with this absence. No matter what you decide, we will be here with welcoming arms when you decide to come back. Take care of your self and once again thank you for everything.

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Faatimah Testman · May 18, 2018

I'm so sorry you're in such a low space, keep your head up, we all appreciate you and your contributions, you have made such a large impact on the way I play this game and I'm sure for everyone else as well. Please take as much time as you need, your happiness matters ❤ Thanks for everything

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alisha ann williams · May 18, 2018

Wow😭😭

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Maria Colon · May 18, 2018

I hope things get better for you.I know life can be hard and I understand more then anything about needing to take time for yourself.If and when you decide to come back,I can guarantee you'll have all of us waiting for you with open arms and hearts full of love.Wish you all the best.

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Georgia Younge · May 18, 2018

Wow babe. Thank you for everything you've done and for the time you've put into creating stuff for us hungry hippos. Your'e a beautiful person and I hope you find the peace you need. Take care xxxxxx

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Ieshia jones · May 18, 2018

Thanks Dani for everything. I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I'll never forget who the best cc creator was,please take care of yourself we all love and hope whatever it is gets better. You're the best.

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Shan Wallace · May 18, 2018

I really hate to hear that. I hope God gives you peace & you are able to pull yourself back. I know it seems hard, but it's so worth it to get back to yourself! Hugs & kisses!

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Dynasty Morris · May 18, 2018

Thank you so much for giving us amazing content for the years that you have. You've dedicated so much of your life to your fans and that means the world. I really wish you all of the best, darling. Take good care of yourself. ❤️❤️❤️

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Ohheyerin · May 18, 2018

Thank you for all the wonderful creations you made for this game. I hope that in time you will be well enough to be happy again. Take care of yourself please 💕💕

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M M · May 18, 2018

Thank you Dani, for bringing diversity to this community, it’s such a shame that it took a bunch of immature, toxic children ruin the magic for you :( take care sweetheart, we love you, all the best <3

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Queenqua007 · May 18, 2018

Thank you for everything that you have done for us! I will still continue to support you! With Love ❤️

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Daiminy Builds · May 18, 2018

I thank you from the very bottom of my heart. And will always support you no matter what. Find your peace.

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Zee✨ · May 18, 2018

Love you so much and everything you've done for the community but you need to put yourself first always! Thanks for everything♥️ you'll be missed

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Nakesha Collins · May 18, 2018

What on earth happened??? What is going on? I’ve been focused on school and haven’t had the chance to play The Sims for awhile. Please don’t leave love. We support you and love your amazing work. 😭😭😭😭😭😭

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Samantha Blakley · May 18, 2018

😭😭😭😭😭😭😬😭

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bunnytears96 · May 18, 2018

I love you, Dani. Thank you for everything you’ve done for this community 💜

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Oneshycoco · May 18, 2018

Aww Dani don’t let what that girl said put you in this space :( if you need time take as much as you need! You’re a wonderful person and have given my game (and a lot of other people) dimension, and for that I’m grateful! I’ll will continue to pledge to you leave my pledge where it’s at you’ll be the only creator I’ll be supporting! Sending you lots of love from nyc