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I'm leaving. Dear friends, I'm so sorry, I can't do this. Recent days and weeks have been hard, emotionally and mentally taxing. Recent events have lead me to rather not exist than to deal with the ugliness of it all. I've tried to be strong for a long time, but now I'm completely broken. What was something that I loved, has slowly become something I cannot bring myself to even think about. I've been messed around with so much, I've had all I can take. I'm not the person they say I am, I'm not the person I want to be, nor the passionate creator you have always known. Hence why I need to step away from everything. This might be indefinite. I don't know. All I know is I need to find my peace - immediately. You have all been my rock, you've supported me no matter what. I am so grateful to you and owe you my life - you've helped me through some seriously difficult times. Sadly, this is beyond you and even me. Whether I'll be back is subject to my state of mind and desire to create again. It won't be anytime soon though. I'll be putting everything I've made thus far on my website next month. I won't be deleting anything. I wanted to add more, but I'm really sorry I won't be updating this patreon. If on the off chance some of you still want to support, I will leave it open on the lowest pledge. Thank you for all of your support. You mean the world to me and more. It's been a beautiful 2 and a half years. I hope I can come back to you beautiful people and give you the content you deserve in time. I'm just not strong enough to deal with the ugly side of what it is to be Ebonix. All the best, Dani x
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I'm so sorry to hear that you are leaving. You have to take care of you my baby. We will miss you dearly. I have you in my prayers to find peace within your soul.
Praying for your peace and that you find it the best way. I love your work and your spirit shine through.
I am so sorry to hear this. I only just joined Patreon because I fell in love with your CC and your Sims posts on tumblr. I don't know anything about the Simmer community, so it breaks my heart that there could be so much negativity for someone so lovely and talented. I hope you are taking care of yourself and doing something that brings you happiness. If you do come back then you have loyal supporters waiting to welcome you back. <3
I'm so sorry about what you are going through, I only join patreon for your beautiful CC's. I understand that you need stop and take a brake. So take care yourself and that I and others are sending you love , support and prayers to help you. Just don't stop being the powerful artistic,creative talented force that you are in this community. Love to you and best of luck and I hope you will come back, Stronger.
NOOOOOO. I just made a patreon just to support you :/ But I'm sorry that you're having a hard time. Feel better.
So sorry to read this post. Take your time, find yourself and love yourself again. Take care beautiful.
Or how much is it to get the hair on the patreon ?
Hi, did she ever post her content on the website? I don't see it o.o
I'm so sorry to hear this, and I feel terrible that you are going through such difficult times. You are truly my favorite creator, and I just hate to see you go. Please don't waste this incredible talent you have. If you are not creating custom content for the Sims, you must put your artistic abilities to use in some other way. You are so creative and so talented. I'll miss you very much, but I understand that your health and peace of mind are the most important. Good luck with everything, and love ya.
Take care of yourself, and know that you are a beautiful soul and have people who support you. Much Love, and you will be missed. Find your peace Sis, and live your best life!
omg what happened to you babe :( im sorry
I am truly saddened by this, but at the same time I can relate as well as understand. Take all the time you need. We will be here whenever you are ready. And if that is never that is fine too. This is about you. Love ya girl!!!
is there any way I can get the cc? I just stumbled across your patreon and I cant even try to get the $5 content. :(
This is so sad. Go find your peace gwurl!!! <3
I wish you nothing but peace of mind and happiness. And thank you for all your wonderful and beautiful creations. Blessings!!
I love all of your content & I send good vibes your way in hopes you find the peace you desire<3
Thank you for slaying my sims and I wish you all the best on your path to inner peace hoping this is "see you later" and not "goodbye forever" <3
I love you Queen <3 Take all the time you need :)
please please please, take all the time you need!! As much as we mean the world to you, you mean the world to us and i hope you find your peace, even if it takes a billion years xD, we got you back!!
We love you and support you always! All you're going through now is just opening the doors for your brand new, big and beautiful discovery of the new you! I hope that if you do make it back here, long time from here or not, that we get to see bright new you, whether in your designs or in a simple message that you're doing a lot better. Gonna miss you :) <3
Not sure exactly what's going on and honestly, it's none of my business, but know that we support you and understand. Keeping you lifted in prayer and hoping the peace you seek finds you and keeps you well. You will be missed.
praying for u
praying 4 u
Praying for you! Wish you the best on your journey.
Take care of yourself first!
Ebonix, I hope you find what you are looking for. It was really fun watching your growth as a creator. And it was an exciting journey to see what you made next. Good Luck!
Sorry to see you go! People who hate on you are just jealous! Just hit the delete button....it is not worth it to read! Hopefully after some time you will come back. We will truly miss you!
NO! Hey Miss... you have come so far and achieved so much... don't let the haters, friends or foe stop your blessings here. You are doing what you love Dani. You are following EAs guidelines and doing everything the right way. My dream for you has always been that you work or become a consultant for EA. I still believe it. Take the time you need and come back to us.
With everything that has been happening, I'm proud you stayed this long. Sorry people have brought you to this. I hope you get well mentally and physically.
Yes, thank you for all of your creative genius! I have thoroughly enjoyed your creations and will miss your wit and charm. I pray that whatever you are dealing with that you will persevere and regain the knowledge that you are strong. Although it does not feel like it now, this too shall pass. I look forward to that time when once again we are blessed with your interactions! Take care of yourself!
I love your work. You are truly one of the best, if not THE best. I am praying for your healing and mental recovery. Good luck darling.
Thank you for everything you've given my gameplay and the sims community. I hope you feel better soon. We'll always love you
I really have enjoyed all of your creations. It's sad to see you go but I wish you the best of luck. Take care and you will truly be missed.
awww don't go dani u will be greatly missed i hope u return soon :(
you will be missed dearly but take all the time you need, you need to take care of yourself first :D I hope you find your peace hun <3
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this really is heartbreaking....if not for your creations I wouldnt have gotten back into the sims again. you showed me that I could actually have sims that look like me..... but of course you come first Dani so take care of yourself. I'll truly miss you and thank you so much for everything.
Best of luck Dani, always put your happiness and health above everything. Thank you for your amazing contribution to our black simmer community 🤗❤
I'm sorry that you feel led to leave. I don't delve into and am oblivious to what you have to endure behind the scenes but it sucks because your creations have given my game such life! I hope and pray you find the peace that you are seeking. At the end of the day, this is a game, it should never be this serious!!! If and when you return, I'll be glad to resume supporting you. Take care!
Take your time, We love you ❤️
I will miss what you bring to by beautifully diverse Sims game. I will definitely be back if/when you are. Please take care.
I understand your mental health is much more important than any of this. 🙏🏽❤️
Your well being is the most important thing! I know things have been tough for awhile now and maybe stepping away completely is the best thing for you and your peace of mind. Take care of yourself dear one. Thank you for everything and I will pray for you and your serenity.
Omg noooo let me give you a virtual hug! It’s gonna be okay sis! Well, I don’t know you but through your work I felt as if I knew you. I know that sounds weird but yea. I hope to see you back soon!
Dang that super sucks. You put out bomb CC. On the bright side I guess that frees up my $5 for somebody else
You're well being is top priority, I appreciate everything you've done for us. Take care of yourself Love ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Wow will definitely miss you but I believe you took the best and most important decision: Yourself. A lot of people lose theirselves in what they do and although now it is probably feeling disabling and like a burden on your shoulder, it will eventually be a stepping stone for you. Pray you the best on your journey.
Take care of yourself.
i love you so much❤️❤️❤️❤️
Self care is important; your contribution to the sims will never go unnoticed or recognized. Keeping you always in my heart and in my prayers.
Stay strong sis, you'll be missed.
I have supported you for a while now...even tho I seldom get to download. I will be binge-ng immediately. I am sorry to see you go....but I TOTALLY support your right to not take shit from ANYBODY. Go do you, boo....Auntie loves you.
Just focus on yourself. That's all you can do.
im so sorry for what ever is going on and i pray you feel better soon
You will be missed Dani! Please feel better soon, and take care of yourself!
Man I hate to see you go but I understand. Dani we love you♥
I hate to see you leave Dani, but since you feel this what you have to do then I wish you nothing but the best! Also take care of your health and mental health that always comes first before anything. Thank you for the beautiful cc that you've created and thank you for helping me I really appreciate it 💗
As sad as I am to see you leave, I truly understand! I will be adding you to my prayer list and send prayers of healing presence for your heart, mind and soul! May God provide you with the peace you so deserve! With much love, support and understanding always! Take care of yourself, your heart and your spirit...Let God be your strength and will power for awhile and relax as best you can. Love you, Dani!!! You are as awesome as God created you to be and more, please remember that...no one can take from you what GOD has blessed you with!!!
You know i'm always here for you baby Mama luvs ya but, you come first take care and chat soon :)
sorry to see you leave i have enjoyed your creativity for the sims4 however i do understand taking care of you first and that is important you still and will always have my support. get well soon
Sorry for this babes. You will be missed. Health is very important in this weird 2018 were living in. Nuff youngsters feel the pain with bullying, until it happens to them. Fi dem day soon cum trust and know dat lovely. Stay Well zeen👏🏽
Nooooo.....Dani, I'm so sorry please take Cart of yourself.
I'm so sad you feel broken, but I respect you taking the time out for yourself. Heal up love and stay strong!! I will send prayers up for you!
In my eyes you will always be one of the best cc creators I've ever seen. No one can even come close to the wonderful things you have done for the black simmer community. Your health is more important than anything and you have to take care of yourself. So as much as I still want you around I couldn't live w/ myself knowing it was for the sake of your health. I wish nothing but health, blessing and peace in your life. I'm sorry that some other people have made this process such an unpleasant one for you, but know that you have so many people that support and luv ya.
i wish i didnt have to see you go, but your mental health is much more important than doing someothing that doesnt bring out your true self <3
Sorry to see you go but completely understand, Thank you for all you contributed to our game to make it come alive. Wish you the best, take care of yourself.
Take care of you, Dani. Your personal health and well-being is more important than anything else. <3
I’m sorry you’ve had to face and deal with all the ugly because you don’t deserve it, not at all. I wish you the best because you’ve done so much for this community and to be fair, we probably didn’t deserve you either. I’ll be praying for you, for whatever you’re dealing with to get better and even if you never come back, I do hope that you can live a happy life. Thank you for all you’ve done! ❤️
I'm going to miss you very much, but your mental and emotional health comes first. This community has become very toxic over what is supposed to be a fun passion. I appreciate you for sharing your creativity with us and being a positive presence. I'm sending you plenty of love and prayers! And I'm going to continue supporting you because I believe in you beyond "just" being Ebonix. ❤
Sorry to hear this, praying for you through it all remember that God Got you, thank you for taking your time out to create and give us content that make us as black folk feel apart of the Game..you are the best regardless and ill always root for you and this is why i will not be unpledging, you deserve all the blessings that GOD has planned for you <3
so very sorry dani you feel like this and i understand just remember you are someone special. people are going to be jealous of your talent so thet will try n tear you down. just dnt ler them break who you are and thank you i will be praying for you
I wish you the best in life Dani!!! And I understand why you are leaving! You have changed my game so much and GAVE IT LIFE!!! Nobody does it like you do!!!!
Nooooooo Dannnniiiii! I cant act like I don't understand because I definitely do. Like everyone else said...ur mental health is top priority. I'll be praying for u sis! Much luv!😘
Oh no! I'm sad to see you leave. Your hard work is definitely appreciated. It's nothing wrong with stepping away to take care of yourself first. If you come back later in the future, I'll have my wallet ready!
I was hoping this day wouldn't come, you have been one of my favorite creators since I started sims 4 and have given my game life. I have a ton of hair cc yet my sims always end up in your cc <3 . I will miss seeing your new content but I wish you well and I hope you can find some peace in your time away.
Awww so sorry to hear this. This break my heart so badly because I was just getting started.
I’m sorry that you’re leaving, thankyou for always giving us bomb ass content. Self love is better then anything and you deserve that 💕.
Peccato..
We love you dani, u changed the black simmer community. I hope you find peace
I'm sorry to hear this but self care is most important. You've made my sims beautiful and I thank you for that. Peace and blessings.
I'm deeply sorry for everything that you are experiencing in your life. You'll remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Thank you for all your beautiful creations I will definitely miss you but your mental health is very important I'm wishing you all the best boo I hope to one day see you creating again but overall I want you to be happy and find peace and joy in your life again
Thank you for everything from your custom content to being one of the coolest creators I know as a person. I hope you find the mental and emotional peace that needs with this absence. No matter what you decide, we will be here with welcoming arms when you decide to come back. Take care of your self and once again thank you for everything.
I'm so sorry you're in such a low space, keep your head up, we all appreciate you and your contributions, you have made such a large impact on the way I play this game and I'm sure for everyone else as well. Please take as much time as you need, your happiness matters ❤ Thanks for everything
Wow😭😭
I hope things get better for you.I know life can be hard and I understand more then anything about needing to take time for yourself.If and when you decide to come back,I can guarantee you'll have all of us waiting for you with open arms and hearts full of love.Wish you all the best.
Wow babe. Thank you for everything you've done and for the time you've put into creating stuff for us hungry hippos. Your'e a beautiful person and I hope you find the peace you need. Take care xxxxxx
Thanks Dani for everything. I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I'll never forget who the best cc creator was,please take care of yourself we all love and hope whatever it is gets better. You're the best.
I really hate to hear that. I hope God gives you peace & you are able to pull yourself back. I know it seems hard, but it's so worth it to get back to yourself! Hugs & kisses!
Thank you so much for giving us amazing content for the years that you have. You've dedicated so much of your life to your fans and that means the world. I really wish you all of the best, darling. Take good care of yourself. ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for all the wonderful creations you made for this game. I hope that in time you will be well enough to be happy again. Take care of yourself please 💕💕
Thank you Dani, for bringing diversity to this community, it’s such a shame that it took a bunch of immature, toxic children ruin the magic for you :( take care sweetheart, we love you, all the best <3
Thank you for everything that you have done for us! I will still continue to support you! With Love ❤️
I thank you from the very bottom of my heart. And will always support you no matter what. Find your peace.
Love you so much and everything you've done for the community but you need to put yourself first always! Thanks for everything♥️ you'll be missed
What on earth happened??? What is going on? I’ve been focused on school and haven’t had the chance to play The Sims for awhile. Please don’t leave love. We support you and love your amazing work. 😭😭😭😭😭😭
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I love you, Dani. Thank you for everything you’ve done for this community 💜
Aww Dani don’t let what that girl said put you in this space :( if you need time take as much as you need! You’re a wonderful person and have given my game (and a lot of other people) dimension, and for that I’m grateful! I’ll will continue to pledge to you leave my pledge where it’s at you’ll be the only creator I’ll be supporting! Sending you lots of love from nyc
