❤️ Just a note on what I'm comfortable with & setting expectations.
After ample reflection...
After ample reflection, I've decided that any form of direct 1x1 SW is not for me; it stresses me out when my attention or affection is treated transactionally, and I end up feeling objectified and sad.
So, this means, I won't be creating any custom content, even for tips. This includes any individualized photos, video, or private messaging. Sorry. I love you guys and do want the most for your "extracurricular" fulfillment, but that's just not something I have the emotional bandwidth to handle.
The way I view my "Less" Safe For Work content is more like an act of exhibitionism than it is an act of SW. Does that make sense? Think... peep show. But, from safely behind a screen. Please do not tap the aquarium glass. 🐠 (Jk, supportive comments under posts are still welcome, of course!)
I prefer my class be a group forum! Not an individual tutoring session. If you wanna chat, let's all hang on Discord! It's starting to pick up in there :)
Hope that clears up any confusion ❤️
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A heavenly body. ❤️
This seems like the perfect boundary for this platform. It's so hot knowing you're combining your professional knowledge and love for teaching with your personal kinks. This is why I love following you, and I'm very happy that you found your audience (me included!). While I'd never submit this as a request, I'm just curious about how I can present this as a question. I hope you won't be bothered. I was just wondering whether you considered shooting even less safe-for-work editions of your educational Instagram videos on here. I know the way you present your educational content is a form of self-expression as well as making a point about how society views women on intellectual subjects, so I'm really curious as to whether you'd consider this as a possibility as well.
thank you for the thoughtful response :) I've been asked this, but I feel it might detract from the social/artistic thesis I'm trying to prove with my videos. Maybe once lingerie enters the Overton Window :P
I love you Doc your wonderful xoxo
Where is the link to the discord?
go to your patreon settings on web browser, and link your discord to patreon!
How do we follow on discord?
link your patreon account with Discord thru the Patreon website (settings)!
Boundaries are healthy. Respecting Boundaries (your own and other's) is sexy.
💯❤️🫂
I’ve always viewed you through a kink lense - lingerie and exhibitionism as kinks not as an invitation to SW. No shade on SW, some of my close friends work hard for the money. Which is a long way to say- I appreciate and respect the kink.
same here! I respect the hustle, and know it feels empowering to many people. just not me. I have some SA in my history and it just… isn’t a great feeling for me.
At some point in a few years you need to do a photoshoot in a pool with a glass window holding a sign saying "please tap THIS glass"
lololol
Clear boundaries are hot. Also, I wonder if there's an active posted invite to the discord I'm not finding?
You need to link your patreon account with your discord… I was able to do it through the website, not the app… Go to the patreon webpage and you’ll find a way to link your discord account
Your body, your rules. Always.
Absolutely this!
Just an interesting note to add to this discussion-- a follower commented about Graveure Modeling; it was something I'd never heard of before, but appears to describe my approach here quite well!!! https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Model_(person)#Gravure_idols https://sabukaru.online/articles/gravure-models-the-fine-line-between-cute-and-erotic
Completely understandable. Just do what feels right for you. We’ll still gonna support you
The simping and appreciating your sense of humor will continue no matter what (can only speak for myself).
I ❤️ Simps ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us! ❤️