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February 13, 2023

Mod: Soulmates

Updated 2/3/26 for compatibility with the latest patch.

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Happy Love Day, y'all!  This mod adds a new gameplay mechanic to the game: soulmates.  Sims have a random chance of finding their soulmate when meeting someone new or interacting with someone they already know.

Unlike the Fated Mates mechanic from Werewolves, the assignment of soulmates is based more on shared traits than mood, so Sims with traits in common are more likely to be assigned soulmates, and Sims with conflicting traits are less likely to become soulmates.

Soulmates get flirty buffs when interacting with each other, and tense or sad buffs when flirting with other Sims.  There is also an "Ask About Soulmate" interaction to see if NPCs have found their soulmates yet.

There are also reward store potions to make it easier to find your Sim's soulmate, or to remove an unwanted soulmate...

Finally, there is also a new aspiration centered around finding your Sim's soulmate.  The reward trait for this aspiration allows your Sim to fill their needs and others with a hug (except for Bladder, because that would be really weird).

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INSTALLATION NOTE: This mod requires the XML Injector.  Using the XML Injector allows this mod and others to not require a script, and is used by many other mods by many other creators.  Get it HERE if you don't already have a copy in your game (you do not need more than one copy).

NEW: This also has a script now to allow for reincarnation, so you must have Script Mods Enabled in your game settings! :)

Hope you enjoy!

~ JS

Comments (62)

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Kira Vakarian · July 7, 2026

Hi, I love this mod, but I have little question. Is it somehow possible to set it - or mod it in future in way that for some sim I could somehow restrict to find soulmates? I really don't like when already married sim is finding soulmates somewhere else so I'd like to control somehow who can have soulmate and who don't. 😅

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Kitty Willis · June 11, 2026

one of my favorite mods ever! unfortunately it's making my game crash. I've tried with just this mod installed and it still crashes, and doesn't crash when I remove it. the crashes seem to happen randomly as I'm playing and it's only with this mod installed.

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CountryCritters · April 7, 2026

Does this mod work after the last update?

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Kishi · March 27, 2026

I love this mod so much! But I hope it's way harder to find the soulmate, my sims just right away met their soulmates real fast haha!

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Tazmanyak · March 25, 2026

Hello Im using this mod for not that long, so maybe i didnt discover all its possibilities Though, id risk to ask about a few things if you allow me I have sims that met their soulmates without me noticing (yeah... i know ahah) and i find it very hard to figure who the hell it can be, once done... So id like to ask/suggest if there's an easy way to find out ? If not, id like to suggest if you can add a milestone? (btw, i think finding one's soulmate should unlock a milestone ♥) have a custom attractiveness icon? (i dont think that's possible, but worth asking right ? :D )Maybe a self-cheat "see who is souldmate"? I do love this mod, it clearly adds a lot of unplanned events in my game, and a good layer in relationships. Thank you for it ♥

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Kira Vakarian · July 7, 2026

Hi, little late, but I think if you buy in reward store "soulmate be gone elixir" and you are about to drink it that it shows that other sim.

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Jessica Davidson · March 13, 2026

I absolutely LOVE this mod. This is easily one of my Top 5 Favorite "Must Haves". I am curious about the reincarnation part of it?? Can we get a little more info on that part please?

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JAY'S MODDING CORNER · February 21, 2026

can you choose your soulmate? please say you can.

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luna · February 15, 2026

Can you make a sim of your choosing a soulmate?

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JAY'S MODDING CORNER · February 21, 2026

did you find the answer to this

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LC · February 13, 2026

This is one of my favorite all-time mods. I never want to play without it, and just wanted to say thank you so much for creating and maintaining this!

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K Burton · February 5, 2026

Im about to download the latest file for the latest patch 2/3/26. Do I still need this file in my folder "JS_Soulmates_rewardpotions.package"

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Amerique Phillips · November 10, 2025

Are we allowed to update this mod on our own? So long as we don't release it?

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DU Pery · October 8, 2025

Hii!...I left two Sims together for 4 days but Soulmate does not activate, and I buy the potion but when I make them drink the potion it is not seen (they are holding something invisible in their hands) and the characters freeze (they do not drink and look into space) and I can not take the potion from their hands.👋🏻👐🏻

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Esila youtuber · September 23, 2025

Hello! Soooo I just wanted to let you know! I think I found a bug, which is I downloaded this mod like today. When I put it in, my sims, who were already married with someone and love them very much randomly found „the one“ with a random. Is this a bug? Is there anything you can do?

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Pepi Micik · September 28, 2025

i dont know

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Ellien · September 15, 2025

heyy uhm i keep having the issue that all sims i load into the game have the buff of being happy because theyre around their soulmate?? but theyre not? n some of them dont even have romantic relationships at all? n it still shows even if they dont have the soulmates relationshit bit

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Kitty Willis · September 5, 2025

Hey so not 100% sure if this is a bug but figured I'd let you know. I've tried multiple saves with multiple sims and every single time my sims find their soulmate the soulmates are married. I don't know if it's just coincidence.

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Dr Philly Jr · August 31, 2025

Newest patch?

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Abc09 · August 15, 2025

thank you so much for the update!

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Ambrosia Nausicaa · June 24, 2025

Hi- my sims are being assigned soulmates that don't have compatible gender/sexuality for the sims preferences. Is an update coming soon? Thank you!!!

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jess ≽^•⩊•^≼ · June 17, 2025

i'm also having issues with my sims getting multiple new soulmates almost every day :(

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chiggeuk · June 5, 2025

I, too, am having the issue of swapping soulmates. My sims keep getting new soulmates in a matter of a week.

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santino · May 31, 2025

Hi! I was wondering if we’ll be getting an update for this mod soon after the latest patch. I really love this mod — I’m currently playing a save where I use it, and honestly, I don’t think I could play without it </3

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Tracey Burgess · May 19, 2025

Yeah the problem with multiple soul mates is happening to me too! I hope it gets fixed soon!

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Cecelia Phelan · May 27, 2025

Also having this issue.

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Rosebud1773 · May 14, 2025

I absolutely love this mod, don't wanna play without it. I'm seeing some weirdness with the latest version though. My sims are swapping soulmates constantly. Example: I had one sim soulmate with Kyle Kylsone. A few days later, he soulmated with his existing partner. A few hours after that, he met and soulmated with Caleb Vatore completely cancelling out the existing soulmate for a second time. I do have a number of other mods, but this doesn't seem like a conflict.

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Stephie Fadtke · May 13, 2025

I noticed the newest update keeps resetting the soulmate status in the profile of my sims by notifying me of 'love in unexpected places' or 'they had known each other for a while' in the panel during a continuous conversation each visit. That status also gets overwritten/deleted when talking to another sim who then becomes their soulmate instead.

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R · May 9, 2025

the newest update is letting my sims have more than one soulmate :/ also doesn't seem to be trait based anymore

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R · July 11, 2025

big bummer that you've been ignoring all of us. is there a better way to report bugs to you?

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FeenSims · May 7, 2025

I think it's really great, but soulmates already exist in the game, will this be replaced with the mod?

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Tysta90 · April 5, 2025

Would it be possible to make soulmates stay soulmates upon rebirth?

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Liva · April 29, 2025

i love u for this idea ples donut dye

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Charlisse · November 5, 2024

Is this functional w/ the life and death upd?

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K Burton · October 17, 2024

Just wanted to let you know that when i downloaded the latest version 2.52, when I open up the folder it says the version is 2.51

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AsredKid · October 25, 2024

x2

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Trashley · August 4, 2024

The potions are not showing up in my reward store..

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Ing Hammer · March 16, 2024

Hi, i made a german translation for your mod. https://www.curseforge.com/sims4/mods/german-translation-for-js_soulmates_v2-42

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Pum_pkin · February 13, 2024

Hi, I made a Russian translation. Please add a link to it in the post. My name is Pumpkin4u. Thank you! https://boosty.to/pumpkin4u/posts/2d8503b3-f6b6-40e7-9738-181796849638?share=post_link

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SakuraSuu · January 16, 2024

Hello, I made a Polish translation for this mod :)) https://www.patreon.com/posts/96577783

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Temesha Hostetler · January 15, 2024

Since the last update, I can't find the cheat to make Sims soulmates. I thought it was in the Debug menu (i.e. when you Shift-Click a Sim), but perhaps I am not remembering correctly?

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monica brown · January 13, 2024

I love this mod. I have one quick question can a sim have two soul mate. I'm doing a poly story line

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JRMY0413 · January 9, 2024

I'm just a little confused I remember in V2.3. i had 3 files The three files I had for V2.3 Which was two package files and one script file. JS_Soulmates_rewardpotions JS_Soulmates_Script JS_Soulmates_tuning And in V2.4 there only 2 files which are Package files. JS_Soulmates_MAIN_v2.4 JS_Soulmates_rewardpotions Is the script file no longer needed?

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Xavier Joseph · January 9, 2024

I would also like to know the same because the script file is not found now!

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Simeralla · January 9, 2024

in this new update it only has 2 pkg files no script is this correct? just wanna make sure before I add

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Jaxx Miller · December 28, 2023

Hi, I was curious if we are able to choose soulmates at all? I have two characters I specifically want to have as soulmates, but I'm unsure if that's possible or if assignment isn't controllable.

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Ilse Mul Author · September 22, 2024

Have you found a way to do this? Seen the description of the mod I was thinking of giving sims I want to be soulmates at least exactly the same traits and to see if I can get them in the same mood at the same time? Perhaps that would help?

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po · December 15, 2023

there is an issue where my sim has every possible soulmate i think she has like 7 sms rn so yeah

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JaneSimsten · December 16, 2023

Hi, thank you for the report. I'll look into this ASAP.

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Andrey · December 14, 2023

Thanks for the mod! After the last update of the mod, there was a problem with Sims who are attracted to the opposite sex and experiments with orientation were disabled. When talking to Sims of the same gender, the buff appears that you have found love with them, but this does not happen with the opposite gender. Previously, the buff only occurred with the opposite gender.

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JaneSimsten · December 16, 2023

Hi, thank you for the report. I'm looking into this now.

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JaneSimsten · December 3, 2023

Hey - if anyone has been having the always assigning bug, I think I've located a fix and would really appreciate help testing. Hit me up here or on discord - thanks!

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JaneSimsten · December 3, 2023

Hi all, I've heard that there are some problems with the new update of soulmates. I'm working on an update now and should have it out by this evening. Thank you so much for your feedback!

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Pamm Whittaker · January 9, 2024

Umm.... is there a way to stop happily married sims meeting a new soulmate who is also happily married??

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Nawli · December 3, 2023

Since the last update, I've been using the mod since before, it's claiming that the twin always goes to the first sim I find, before it wasn't like that, I remember there were sims that took a while to find or never found at all. Other than that, what irritates me the most is that notifications are appearing from ALL sims in the world about soulmates, sims that I have never seen in my life and that didn't happen before.

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Beth S · December 2, 2023

Random question; is there a way to make it harder to find a soulmate? Any time my sim meets some one for the first time, they automatically become soulmates. It happens with any sim every time. Even with saves who already have a spouse and I just added the mod. the very next time they interact with some one outside their home they become soulmates, regardless of preferances.

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Lunarcat · December 1, 2023

I like the idea and the mod. Your work is amazing. But every time I play with it, it starts directly at the first Sim that my Sim speaks to. I've tried several things. Or maybe that's really due to the properties? Played with the horse ranch pack and some sims have the same traits as horse lovers and ranchers. I also tried vampires. Same result regardless of the traits. i thought it is random?

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verrrrrrrrrra · November 22, 2023

Hello :) I have not played with this yet so quick question.. is it possible that we choose our soulmate? :)

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Ashley Gordon · January 8, 2024

It is a cheat. Shift+click on a sim and select 'make soulmates' and it will make your currently and the selected sim become soulmates. I'm not sure if it gets rid of the first soulmate. You may need to activate cheats with 'testingcheats true' via ctrl+shift+c'

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Mitsuko Simmer y Dkrbto · November 11, 2023

I really like this mod, it's so dramatic hehe. And I made my Spanish Translation https://www.patreon.com/posts/almas-gemelas-x-90234274

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Ferdinand · April 2, 2023

I really like this mod. However, how do I find out WHO the soulmate is if I didn't see who was around when the soulmate buff appeared? Also, in one situation I found the 'soulmate' was of the same sex, even though they BOTH are only attracted by the OPPOSITE sex. This makes no sense. The sexual orientation of characters should come into play, not just their common traits....

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JaneSimsten · April 4, 2023

Hi - thank you so much for reaching out. Let me look into those bugs now. Soulmates definitely should take into account gender preferences. You should first learn who the Soulmate is from a notification that appears when they are assigned, and afterwards it is visible in the relationship panel.