finally

i seem to have worked everything out. Based on this thread i went ahead and deleted all the dxvk files (config,cache,etc) to see if that would help and i haven't had any crashing or pink flashing. even played a random sim for hours, switched lots and worlds multiple times and no issues even with my hood decorations and lot view on high. maybe this laptop doesn't like dxvk... i have no idea. i used osab's installer. however i cannot go without my reshade so i reinstalled this way and everything seems to be working well :D still gonna continue going and deleting through cc for good measure bc i have so many recolors that i just do not need plus i'm enjoying these quick load times.