Life update
Hey guys how are you doing?
I've had a rough but fun weekend, I hosted a party at my house with a bunch of friends, some of them got reaaal drunk and I felt so bad :c But we managed to all return safely home after everything.
I'm still writing my book, been sharing it on our Discord! I also recently cut my hair, I got an undercut, which means I can still make it look like my normal hair, but then in the bottom-back I have short hair to endure the hottest days D:
Yesterday I decided to take the MBTI test again, because I felt my life experiences didn't match ENFP anymore ;; And I got ENFJ! Basically, Im organized when needed, take care of my friends as much as I can, and still have a lot of doubt and feelings hanging around inside ;;
But I identify much more! So I feel at peace!
Also... I'm really sick rn :c I've had a sore throat for days but hopefully I can still record, can't let you guys down!
Life living with mom now Is not as smooth, we seem to fight a lot, but I don't think I'll endure this for too long seeing I'll be moving alone soon again!
Thank you guys for your support as always ! I love you and I'll see you around this week! Mwaahh!
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Hope you continue doing alright
One little thing: MBTI is basically horoscopes for people who don't believe in horoscopes. It is very unreliable and doesn't really have a scientific foundation. Most people get a different personality type after a year which is not a good sign. If you are interested in actual psychology, I would recommend the Big Five. It's quite easy to find tests for this. Also, it grades personality elements on a spectrum, other than the very reductive binary of the MBTI.
I believe both in horoscopes and MBTI, I'm very aware of the concept behind cognitive functions, and I like what I see. I wont change what I feel comfortable with because someone likes something else.
Hey! INFJ here welcome 🤗. As someone who has had a long history of dealing with contentious moms I would recommend several books that have made a HUGE difference in how we interact. One very good book is "The Next Conversation" by Jefferson Fisher. You have probably seen some of his tiktok clips. It gave me several different ways of approaching conversations (especially the ones that were going to be a fight) and it was a real measurable help. Best of luck for you and your mom. It really sucks fighting with the people who we should be closest to.
Sore throats are rough to deal with ngl, please do take care of yourself and get the rest you need, hope you feel better soon Ms. Spring, as for me this past month has been extremely rough, the last winter storm I had took one of my horse's life, and now my mother has cancer again and is constant pain because of it so I'm currently having to do a lot of heavy lifting to help my mom out
That sucks, bro. Sorry to hear that you guys are facing some real challenges. Praying for ya. Just do your best, pushing but resting whenever possible and you'll get though everything.
Just continue to take care of yourself. We all want you to be fine. But yeah my weekend been ok, kinda mid. But uh yeah hope the party was great and uh have a good day.
I been a little under the weather the last few days as well. Hope you feel better. Me and my mom are the same way when we live together, for us to remain close we should never live together again lol.
Sore throats are the worst dude 😩 get well soon
Get well soon