FlirtyFetishes is Compatible! (Latest Version)

I need some help I cannot for the life of me, get the BDSim Training pie menu to show up. I have the latest mod update installed, chose only one (Exclusive), it is only one folder deep, WW and all other mods are updated to the most recent... I even cheated their Dom/Sub attributes, thinking maybe they just weren't a high enough level for "training". I set up the BDSim Training Event through the phone, chose who I wanted, all of that. And when the event starts, and it gives the goals to meet, I still cannot find that BDSim Training pie Menu anywhere to start! I am at a loss how to get it to show...Not even the option to Give Erection shows up. What am I doin wrong??

what about toilet stuff? I know its niche but still

Can't read the books or Click on them, they go straight to household inventory.

Hi, I have a problem with the books. After I buy them, they don't show up in my library, so I can't read them. I don't know what to do. Thank you.

i want cuckolding animation and event plz

Hi there, I have really tried everything to make this mod work 😭 I have all the perks, outfits and all that, but I can’t get to the actual training! I’ve set the event and can see it, but there is no “get erect” pie menu? Unless I’m missing something? Someone please help😢

Hi! I'm really enjoying this mod or at least I used to, but I put it in my mods folder after downloading it and it literally won't work, like if I click on more choices it doesn't show the flirty fetishes option, any idea how to fix this? I have the newest version downloaded btw!

Hello. I've been really enjoying your mod and contents so far and I recently started to play around with BDSM only to find out I can't access certain interactions like when I try to click on an equipment it says "Only dominants can lock other Sims inside devices" and "Directed Training" is not available for me too. They have already established a slave/sub and master/Dom relationship and it doesn't work even if I plan a BDSM training. And it also noticed me about scheduled punishmen what are we supposed to do exactly or perform other than punishing them using the social interaction. I'm actually pretty lost.. :<

Help, mine doesn't work. I downloaded the zip, unzipped it but i can only buy the books and not interact with them and i don't have any trait :(

Hi, First off I love this mod and it really is fun. However, I am not sure if this has been said or not but whenever I open the friends list it gets all buggy and glitchy and when I remove this mod the problems is gone. Is there a way to fix this or has this been made aware of?

the books don't appear after i buy them in the bookshelf

hello im new to this mod. is there a cheat mode command or potion to max out the BDSiM meter? sometimes my sims get too busy with life or careers and once i start the death spiral its hard to recover.

PLEASE get rid of the BDSiM Meter!!! OMG It's ridiculous!!! My Sim's Plumbob is RED all the time no matter what I do!!!

I have a problem. I buy books, pay for them, get information that they are on the shelf or in the equipment, but they are not there.

Hi Ella, I am new to this mod and can I ask a question? Does this mod automatically assign d/s traits to all sims? Or am I supposed to assign traits to sims using WW myself? I asked this because I found no sims have d/s traits originally, I had to assign them using WW to see the special social interaction option pop up. Also, does this mod include animations? If so, how can I trigger them? I just tried some basic social interactions and they are all regular conversations. Thanks!

Hi Ellanoir may i suggest maybe not taking foundamental motive like hygiene and maybe take Fun motive instead if not maybe go back to social motive or find another way to show those needs maybe let that bar be invisible like oral hygiene and thirst and do something like Waffles confort motive mod. I love your mod but sadly won't keep it with my hygiene gone hope you find a way soon thks for the work :)

tbh I'm not a huge fan of replacing any of the base needs of Sims as I've found it frequently bugs out and causes conflicts, as it is here. My subby vampire and werewolf don't even have the BDSiM bars. I've also noticed Sims will sometimes hang out in the shower forever now, presumably because there's no hygiene need to fill up. Debuffs related to Spent's Cumshine mod also seem to behave unreliably with this mod installed. I know nobody likes split versions, especially anyone supporting them, but I think it wouldn't be a bad idea here. Maybe one for people who want this mechanic and one for those who don't?

I seem to be having a problem where the sims can use FF interactions with each other, but the attributes menu is nowhere to be found, and nothing in the rewards store! And when I send my sims to try for a baby or have sex, it's like they reset and the romance gets added but they never took part in anything... my other mods are all up to date and I have tested by taking everything except this and WW out of my folder. Sorry to be a bother!

I hired 2 masters and 3 subs, the two masters showed up but the subs haven't, also, not sure if it's w/ FF or WW, but my man's dick turned black

Have y'all tried this with Nisa's succubus?

Why is the updated mod in beta?

Hi there, I absolutely love your mod and cannot think I ever played Sims without it Thank you!!!, But for me the Hygiene bar completely disappeared. I have your mod paired with Spinning plumbob's FvW mod and have a witch , a sub, and after the session when she had the drop (oops) her hygiene bar disappeared, Iplayed through the drop but the hygiene bar never came back. Had to reset to a save before adding this version.

Hey, just a small request. Can you make the needs bar an optional add on? I'd absolutely love to try these new features but don't want to lose the hygiene bar or have it interfere with DoS. I have a sim who is owned by someone through DoS and that one bar is already enough to keep up with, so its preventing me (by the amount of effort I'd have to also put into managing their sub's BDSiM bar, as well) from having them start a dynamic with their submissive. If it's not possible, just ignore me, I can simply just work around it by excluding use of the dynamic.

Hey! Thank you for all of your hard work, it's much appreciated. I love being able to give my sims these traits as wicked attributes, it adds so much to my game, but I find myself not playing with this mod as much as I'd like to when I'm utilizing BDSM with my sims, and it is mostly due to compatibility with Kritical's Dreams of Surrender. I really appreciate the switch to hygiene need over social need, and I was incredibly excited for this beta version, as it would mean I could play with both! However, though the BDSiM need replaces hygiene instead of social, it still takes up the social SLOT (under the fun need), and because of this, the new features are not compatible with Dreams of Surrender, which is incredibly disappointing to me. I'm hoping that this wasn't intentional and is a simple fix, but I would love to see it changed. Without the need switch, there's no accessibility to the training, and it seems there may be other functionality locked behind it. Additionally, I've had some issues with the aftercare interactions... they succeed, and the bar fills (on sims who have the BDSiM need), but no animation plays, and it often looks like the interaction gets interrupted by a random conversation interaction. As feedback, I also would love for the need change to be opt-in, where some sims would be very casual with their use of BDSM dynamics (as was the case before, where it would be sprinkled into conversation, but not utilized all the time), and more hardcore sims could have the BDSiM need replace their hygiene need. (If not fully opt-in, then maybe beyond a certain skill level?) Anyway, I'd love to use the new features on my existing sims that use Kritical's system, but I will keep using this anyway, I can't overstate how lovely the interaction additions are, especially with being able to assign them so easily via wicked attributes!

THANKS!!!!!!! Wanna try it soon

Hiya! Sorry, but I haven't had any luck so far starting a training session. I can create the event, but there's no BDSM training menu in any of my pie menu options. (Both for the dom and sub.) The event technically begins in the sense that the standard sims event UI pops up in the left corner, and I noted that they do have the "Thank for coming" interaction I think is a standard interaction for every Sims 4 event. (Or maybe it was only the dom who could thank the sub, I didn't check to see if both sims could do it as I think it's unrelated.) There's no training menu where I can begin the session by the sub giving the dom an erection or anything like that. I did just remember that the numerous times I tried to create the event, I had the event rewards option on, though I know through this post that rewards will be coming in a future update—so maybe that's creating the issue for me? I'll try again after I finish this comment but with the rewards turned off, and will reply to this comment if that fixed it, and won't replay if nothing changed. Flirty Fetishes of course is working for everything else, and those two sims I've testing with both have high to maxed BDSM skills, and I've been Flirty Fetishes user for the past year, so it's not that I've installed the mod wrong or have failed to add the traits or anything lol. I'm sure you're very busy with the next update, so don't think of my comment as a complaint or being pushy or anything like that! Just giving a bug report, as I know you worked hard implementing training sessions and I'm really excited to try them! I LOVE this mod and have been a Patreon supporter for over a year now, and I consider it a vital part of my Sims 4 gameplay!

I'm sorry if I'm being annoying or missing a step but I've followed instructions from both LL and patreon on how I install FF, removing one of the files and keeping TS4 file and the package file and adding to mods file but it still hasn't worked. I've used BE to try and find broken cc and it doesn't detect any. I've tried the latest patch and it still has not worked. Sorry if i'm being annoying for missing a step or anything but is there anything I can try and check to see if i am missing anything?

I'm not having the BDSiM Training menu pop up during the event. I assumed it is located when clicking on the sims partners flirtyfetishes menu. Is it located somewhere else?

Just installed this and I've opened the game 4 times but whenever I click on my sims female partner the game exits with a beep. Not sure what's happening.

Alas! I commented too soon. It seems that using FF, even the non-beta version, conflicts with Kritical's BDSM. It stops saved games from loading (at least for me). Once again, it would be a shame to have to choose, as the two mods do different things.

Yes, I also like using Kritical's BDSM alongside Flirty Fetishes. The new FF beta seems to cause a crash when using Kritical's mod as well. The current non-beta FF appears to work okay with K. My guess is that both are trying to use the social meter for different purposes. I hope Ella can see a way to make the mods compatible. They do slightly different things and it would be a pity to have to choose between them.

I know I am properly not the only one who combine your mod with Kritical's bdsm mod that also change the social meter to another meter (at least for the subs). Do the to mods still play nice with each other?