January 30, 2024

Adoptive Parents

Sims 4 Mod: DOWNLOAD 

Sul sul simmers,
Hope the new year's first month is going exactly how you want
This family mod has a lot to offer as I got inspired by my first mod ever the Realistic Life and Pregnancy mod
I added new family interactions that I thought were lacking in-game and let me tell you... It's super exciting.
I personally never played with adoption but thought it'd be a great idea for the family gameplay lover


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If your sim has the Hates children trait then none of this will pop up as well as moodlets.

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Everything starts when your sim chooses this interaction that will pop up in the "Deep Thoughts" pie menu


this interaction is great for story telling especially when you play with family mods like adoption or pregnancy. It will unlock you a new "Parenting" pie menu that will allow your sims (spouse, boyfriend girlfriend or engaged) to discuss real conversation in general for adoption or having your own babies



Every interaction has it's own answers and moodlet for more in depth story telling.



"Discuss being ready to have a baby" interaction will make your partner wants children as well and will unlock the Parenting pie menu (This one is just in case your partner is an NPC or in another household but you can use it if you don't want to go through all of this again)


The "Discuss being ready for adoption" will unlock new interaction to your sim about adopting in the same "Parenting" pie menu




Once your sim chooses the age of the adoptee, they will receive a gameplay trait and every time they discuss the age they will keep choosing it.



The "Discuss not wanting to have a child anymore" interaction is made to remove the "Parenting" pie menu in case you don't want your sims to talk about kids anymore. And will also lose the Domestic adoption gameplay trait about the adoptee age.


Now once your sim officially adopts, (it doesn't matter how many times), and the adoption is completed they will receive the game moodlet  "Ready-Made Kid" it will unlock a new special interaction with friends and family

this interaction will give your sim a new trait (Adoption gameplay trait) and it will be under the " Small Talk " pie menu in Friendly and will be available until the Moodlet disappears.


this gameplay trait will help your sim tell their child they are adopted if they want to and it will give them another new interaction 


(this will shows up when you tell your child they are adopted)


Once your adoptee becomes a Child sim, you have the option to tell them they are adopted and will give them a new gameplay trait


you will find this interaction only when your sim has the Adoption gameplay trait only and it will be under the Parenting pie menu



parent moodlet


child moodlet


this gameplay trait will unlock a new pie menu to the child only that allows them to discuss realistic conversation with their parents and ask questions



every interaction has it's own moodlets.

The "Discuss finding nothing about their birth family" would be great if you want to tell a story that is related to the new phone app interaction that comes with this mod


This interaction under the new Parenting pie menu will unlock interaction to the child or teen to find their own birth family with sims they don't know!



There is a new phone app that will allow your adopted child to search for their parents and will allow them to more more about themselves and origins and who knows! they might find out they have a grandparent or  a sibling.



the "Apply for an Adoption Records" will be a rabbit hole interaction and will give your sim a document that you can decorate your room with



The "DNA test for adoptee" phone interaction will make your sim knows better about their origin

Once your little sim comes back form the rabbit whole they will hsve this moodlet

and once this moodlets expires they will find out about where they are originally from (all sims 4 worlds are available and it doesn't need any pack to work)

let me know if you want your sim to have it as a trait!


The "Visit the family law office" will help your child find out if they have a sibling or a grandparent or they can comes back if a photo of a potential birth family, or simply comes back with nothing. They may even now that their parents died or in jail.


Some dramanod might shows up in game or sims asking if you might be related if they see your DNA test or if the lawyer helps you by giving your phone number to potential sims you might be related to.


Once your sim is ready to find their birth family after confessing to their adoptive parents about wanting to find their biological family


they will be able to ask some strangers and find out if they are related or not

to this interaction there is 2 moodlets one negative, that will let your sim keep searching and this positive one


This moodlet will unlock another new interaction with that sim


there is 2 moodlets to this as well one that is negative and will let your sim keep searching and another one that will unlock more conversation with that sim.

a new interaction will unlock once your receive this moodlet and its "Discuss birth-related possibilities"

Once it sound like official and that sim is the one then choose it as it pop up


and it will unlock this new conversation under the "Adoption" pie menu


Now I strongly recommend you to choose sims that looks like your little one to make it a more realistic gameplay.


Same for sibling or grand parent but this one is shoerted and easier, all you have to do is the choose an old sim or a teen/child and ask them


The "Catch up with birth sibling" will only shows up when you ask the "Find out if they are sibling"

exact the same for granparents



A lot of you have asked me for this so I choose to add it in this mod for a more in-depth gameplay

this starts when the parent couple wants a divorce, before divorcing you will find this interaction under "Malicious" pie menu



once this interaction is used the parent will be able to share this sad news with their child (either adopted or not)


this will unlock a new pie menu called "Divorced parents" that could be found under the Friendly one


and will make your sim asks realistic question and even get to choose with which parent they will live with (more in game)




This mod comes with family related Aspiration that helps your sim goes through adoption or pregnancy till the child becomes a teenager and to stay at home and take care of them exactly like a real parent would do.



each of these aspiration will make your sim gain a new gameplay trait that will unlock a new interaction that makes your sim discuss cute and funny memories with your little one once they grow up.


these aspiration will be found under the Family Aspiration category


This mod requires XML Injector to be able to work properly
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Comments (19)

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tammy · September 10, 2026

Is this mod going to be updated ?

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crystal duke · May 16, 2026

has this been updated?

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Saku · February 2, 2026

Does it work for the current patch?

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Kylie Queen · July 24, 2025

can u please fix the phone app issue because everyone is complaining and nothing is being fixed . Plus that I've been sent you a message talking about the same thing .

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eme · June 20, 2025

I downloaded it right but I keep getting exception error saying the "phone app" for this mod is outdated/broken. has there been any fixes?

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Lucía Pallán · June 15, 2025

El mod necesita XML inyector?

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Zoe · May 25, 2025

Hi, I have the XML injector & the adoptee app comes up for kids i have adopted but am unable to get the other interactions

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Irebhosa Usifoh · May 15, 2025

Hey I didn’t get the app but I’ve done everything

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PERSEA · May 15, 2025

hey you need xml injector mod in order to get the app https://scumbumbomods.com/xml-injector/

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Abs · September 20, 2024

Hi, how are you? I love this mod. I'm sorry to say but since the update, the mod has disappeared. I'm I doing something wrong? :) :)

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JENNY! · June 6, 2024

Hi! This Mod is not working. I have the XML Injector Mod (the new version) and the Mod is not working. Can you help me please? Thank you! :)

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Kesha Hardy · March 23, 2024

I still don't have the option to start the conversation. Is it possible it conflicts with another creator like, Lumpinou?

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Rachel · March 14, 2024

I downloaded this mod a few days ago and it's not working right...the parenting pie menu won't pop up...what do I do so I can start using this mod in my Sims 4 game

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Kesha Hardy · March 8, 2024

I don't have the option to even discuss, so that the process starts.

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Lynay Fulford · March 9, 2024

Yeah exactly

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Lynay Fulford · March 8, 2024

This mod isnt working for me.. i dont know what to do

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PERSEA · March 17, 2024

do you have the xml injector mod?

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Michelle Lovette · February 12, 2024

does this mod conflict with adeepindigos or lumpiono

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PERSEA · February 15, 2024

Hey no