Open Love Life - Polyamory, Triads, Side Partners, Commitment Preferences - Sims 4 Mod for More Relationship Types

So...don't need the TScript for OpenLoveLife any longer?

Thank you for all you do for the sims community. I tried downloading the open love life mod and the tool box but it's still not showing up in my game :(

I feel like the side partner is very similar to an open relationship or even poly because some who have open relationships still have an agreement where they have to approve of the other people the partner can hook up with. As for poly there are poly relationships where the one partner has their own partner but isn't necessarily for the other partner so is there a a way to just include this side partner into the other relationships? I noticed even when I had my one sim preference as neutral and the girl as to also neutral or having an open relationship she still ended up feeling bad for cheating when she didn't cheat in their open relationship. That's why I'm not understanding this mod or what I am doing wrong. This is one mod I seem to have trouble with compared to many mods I use now. Is the triple couple considered the poly couple but all parties are dating each other and not just 2 vs 1 kind of thing? Would it be better to message you? Last time it took an extremely long time for a response compared to commenting.

I really want to use this mod to it's full capacity but I always have trouble with it idk why lol prob most my adhd brain overthinking stuff. So if I want to have an open relationship I would choose non exclusive but what if I want to date more seriously certain sims and still have other flings on the side? That becomes the exclusive relationship? I saw in the comments here about going to romance and looking for side partner there. Would that be someone being in a serious relationship with some but having a fling basically on the side? When you say you're in a exclusive relationship with say three people are all three people teachinally with each other or when you ask to add someone that person is for you only to have relations with? Would you ever consider adding these options to add partner or anything in just one pie menu instead of it being in the romance pie menu? I never think to look there and always have trouble with this mod idky lol. I think the wordy confuses me lol instead of it just saying open relationship or poly relationship. Also another thing I noticed everytime I say I'm in an non exclusive relationship but then my sims get deeper sentiments or feelings I will sometimes get moodlets stating I cheated and feel bad etc when I didn't cheat lol. This has happened many times and I'm not sure why or when I ask someone to be my boyfriend and then ask to be in a non exclusive relationship with someone else it still says I'm cheating when technically I'm not. Sorry this is long would it be better to message you because this is driving me crazy trying to figure out what I'm doing wrong or why it keeps saying I'm cheating in an open relationship lol.

I always have trouble with this mod. How do I set their preferences for the relationship and where do I ask if they want to be in a polyamorous relationship or open relationship on the menu? I don't see all the options in the relationship pie menu.

Quick couple questions for clarification, With the games dating/marriage system in mind, does it matter what order you ask for a non-exclusive relationship? For example, would asking for a non-exclusive relationship even before the sims officially started dating impact the mod or game at all? Or would it be best to wait until they're already a couple within the game until you as for such an arrangement?

I just got into a non-exclusive relationship with an NPC character. In the romance category it had a question about "do you have any other partners." Will that change on its own? Will the NPC form relationships with other characters autonomously?

Sadly, this is not working for me. When I have this mod in, I get an infinite loading screen and a better exception mod warning. I have the latest version of the toolbox.

I can't download the updated mod. It says this box user is out of bandwidth.

https://www.patreon.com/posts/open-love-life-104422556

Spanish translation on my Patreon.

is this still working?

How do you get a side partner? I don’t know how to get that option to appear

When I used just open love life, she didn't get jealous. So when I put RPO back, it was fixed

I love how your mods make the game way more interesting!! About the 'indifferent to being romantically exclusive' sims, I was wondering if it would be a cool idea to implement a jealous system... like, if they witness their partner being romantic with other sims in front of them, they could get insecure or secretly jealous. Something like "I'm fine with you seeing other people, but aren't you getting too attached to this person?". There could be a score for the nature of the relationship (like in 'no strings attached'), where both grow comfortable with things the way they are or start to become prone to monogamy. Maybe this feature could be optional! For it to work, some chatboxes would appear asking things, for instance: "Your partner just kissed someone in front of you. What is your reaction?" a) I'm cool with it b) Not bothered but let's get out of here (jealousy in denial) c) That made me feel jealous/insecure. And depending of each action, the couple would go somewhere else, have an argument or something like that (?) Don't know if that makes sense haha anyways, thank you for your hard work!

Hi I love all your mods, sorry if this is a dumb question but I'm struggling to figure it out, how do I go about setting up a three person relationship? Do I need at least two of the sims in my household?

Ww has a "open relationship" does it override yours?

Hello! My girlfriend is having some issues with the mod. We can get a poly relationship actually started. Sure we can date our second partner, but we can’t all three be in a relationship. I’m sure this is such an easy fix, but apparently we are dumb and don’t understand lol. Are we missing something here?

Hello! First of all, thank you for making this! This was exactly what I had been looking for when I remembered that the base game doesn't allow poly relationships, after I had just started a household that I had planned to be a poly relationship haha. Are you planning on expanding the number of people that can be in a relationship? Even if it's just to 4 or 5? I want to build a bigger poly household and I'd love if it were possible to have them all be in one relationship. If not, I'm still happy just having two trios :)

Would it be possible to only allow 1 partner to have relations with others while the second partner remains monogamous?

Hi Lumpinou! Glad to know that you consider updating this mod in the future. May I ask if it is possible to have unlimited side partners (or at least, more than one)? I'm playing under the ancient China background and one side partner is obviously not enough :)I think the idea of side partner really fits some monarchy backgrounds around the world. Is it difficult to add such a feature? You mentioned soul marriage in the comments, which is interesting as well but that is different from side partner. I hope you can consider my suggestion! Many thanks!

Hi! I just want to ask if there is a bug. I have my sims in an open relationship, but my sim still got caught cheating by the person they are in the open relationship with. I am not sure if this is a bug, or intentional, but it should not be, due to the fact that both sims agreed to the open relationship, and both prefer non-exclusive relationships.

Is there a way to make this compatible with wicked so sims don't get jealous?

Hello Lumpinou is tere also the possibility to translate the open love life mod to german?

Hey. I am having trouble where when I click on open love life it does not open. Instead it just plays the music like it is open.

Random question that might be dumb. But does this work with your who hoo mod? My sim is in a multi-relationship and got jealous.

hi, i joined your patreon in hopes of downloading this mod. Forgive me if i overlooked anything but i do not see a link to download. Im very very new to this.

Is this still being updated and working with patches? I would love to download it so just wanted to check :) x

Hello, I downloaded this file to my mods. And the prefence option isn't showing in my actions within the game.

Hi, I have this mod installed in my game and before the paranormal pack, I had the pie menu when I clicked on my sim to change their preference and now I don't see it. My married couple automatically got "Prefers Non-Exclusive" but with this family I want them "exclusive." Do you know if this needs an update? Or should I just re-download and see if that works?

Hello, and thank for all your awesome works. You're truly a gift for our community. But...ehm, i have a problem with the latest update of Open Love Life. For some reasons in my game the new romance options appear to have no text description? I have the choice to select them but they don't show up properly.

You truly are gifted my friend! Thank you so much for these awesome mods :)

Hey just downloaded the updates for this and Woohoo Wellness and now my household won't load. It's on the loading screen forever.

OMH ok just take all of my money already!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you are truly gifted!

Hello, maybe I missed it but what's the difference between these files.

Hi, I have no break up option for sims in a non-exclusive relationships.

Thanks for the update. I wish you a happy time and pls. stay healthy. Lovely regards from Austria *waves*

I just don't have the guts to try making mods myself.

looking for testers ? I can be your Huckleberry . I got tired of crap shows and bad news so in-between family and chores this is my life ...

I delete current then redownload , extract, then copy paste to mods. Am I doing it right?

with the fixes, do we need to uninstall the old one and reinstall the file?

love it <3 great job

I am glad I have decided to become a Patreon. I am pleased with your mods and so much to it has added. Great job

I'm so so excited to start playing with this mod!!

Yes I’m sorry I was typing fast 😅 and okay thank you your files make my game better and my stories as well

which mod do you download?

And once again: I can't believe what great mods you create. Your mods change the game for worlds, I could never play without them again. Thank you so much for all of your hard work! Best regards and pls. stay healthy

Oh wow Thank You! It doesn't seem like a small mod, but I certainly love it! This is an amazing addition.

Wow. You call this a small mod but this changes so much. Thank you for your hard work!

I freaking love it 😍

Wow! That doesn’t sound like a “small” mod 🤣. Thank you