❤️ How Do We Feel About a Realistic NSFW? ❤️
I understand that these audios provide entertainment and escapism. I understand that a part of that entertainment and escapism is wish-fulfilment. However, I would like to try something different.
A lot of the NSFW content I voice obviously caters towards male fantasies. These usually include exaggerated moans, women being perpetually horny and always orgasming through penetration alone.
However, I would really enjoy doing a more realistic type of NSFW content. Specifically content that revolves around the fact that most women (around 72%) do NOT achieve orgasm through penetration.
I would love to explore this topic and voice a character who is upfront and honest about not being able to climax from penetration. And I would love for the couple to explore other ways to have sex.
I feel like this is a hushed up conversation between men and women. And I would love for that awkwardness to be lessened and for honest, helpful conversations to happen. I sincerely think that the media we consume can be a useful tool in helping start those conversations.
Let me know what you think.
P.S. Nobody panic - we will still have hentai nonsense.
Comments (148)
I'm late but I'd like to say I love this idea. I like more down to earth scenarios, both sfw and nsfw. I don't think there's enough sfw audios out there too. Fantasies are fun and vast to explore, but I personally prefer a realistic and wholesome audio. Moments where I've been taking care of myself during a cold and kinda just wanting to listen and imagine that there was someone else worried about me. So TLDR: yeah realistic scenarios such as a realistic orgasm would be great for an audio imo.
Just curious, if that statistic is accurate, why do women not enjoy sex as much as men do? Or rather, as easily?
I would LOVE some realistic NSFW!
Green light!!🚦🟢
Love this idea. Let's do it!
As my father said: "Put your dick away. Touch her everywhere super slow with barely any pressure. Once you've done that then you can move to the vagina. Use your hands and mouth, go slow like the hands of a clock. Work her up, let her beg for it. Then start to build up speed. Once she comes, then you can bring the dick out." Works every time.
Go for it. Variety is the spice of life
That's how my wife is; sometimes, if we're lucky, she can get an orgasm off penetration (vaginal or anal) but only after cumming a couple other times beforehand (almost exclusively clitoral or nipple). As fun and silly as hentai nonsense is, some more realistic audios could be a good time too ♡
I'm not the best in bed, so when it was reaching the end for me I made sure she got her end with some finger action. Realistic is definitely not a bad idea
We need the variety - blaze that trail, T~
Sounds good to me
Honestly go for it! Also wow had no idea that statistic was right but it’s honestly decent information to know
Lots of time, erotism, mutual trust and some naughtyness is way better than just penetration, sensual joy together is what make it "magic" with a loved partner :)
I'd be down for it
Short answer. Yes.
"However, I would really enjoy doing a more realistic type of NSFW content." then do it 😁👍
I dont mind, especially if its like alot of communication. Like "Abit longer in,to the left... Ah~ thats the spot" or something along those lines.
Yee, realistic sounds wonderful. I also never knew that fact so thank you for learning me something today
Sounds good
Sounds like it's worth a shot.
Honestly, try it. It's good for the awareness and also for something more natural and realistic.
Fuck yeah. Do it sister!
As much as I love the nonsensical fairytales and instant Orgasmic bliss from touch alone. Realism is needed to bring Balance. So That way we are not spoiled on one good thing
As a guy, I say go for it! I’m always down for realism! But at the end of the day, it doesn’t really matter what I think, or what anyone else thinks. If you wanna make it, you should make it!
Go for it
this sounds great, as someone who likes giving more than receiving i noticed alot of your audios lacked attention on the speaker and was more about the listener (which in retrospect was mostly from people you commissioned not that its your fault) but i would be so down for something like this lol i think it would be a great lesson that penetration isnt the only definition of sex
Bring it on. Would be good information for those that have no idea how to please a woman.
I would be up for some of that but is it really that high? is there data on it? like they can't or is it just about not enough work before penetration? I thought it was there was needed jut more work before hand like foreplay and stuff I honestly have no idea as I have no experience at all, never even held hands or kissed. I think it could be good to be educational on that kind of stuff. What about a mix of realistic and a little fantasy? Also would to see some more sweet and wholesome stuff like romantic sex, virginly loss on both sides or one taking the other's virginity and even wedding night stuff. Just would love to see some of the romantic stuff i never expect to be able to experience.
The research says: 18.4% of women can orgasm from penetration without clitoral stimulation. Another 36% can orgasm from penetration without clitoral stimulation, but it felt better if their clitoris was stimulated during penetration. 36.6% needed clitoral stimulation for orgasm. 9% did not orgasm at all. You can find the study here: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/0092623X.2017.1346530
72% damn. What are we men good for then ik cuddles is a option but dam that's a sad statistic just saying
well I wonder where the data is from and is it really that high? I want to know the context around it, like are they doing enough work before hand? though I have no experience at all I'm just curious
Please, do it. My late wife needed to come from oral sex before she could experience a penetrative orgasm. And we've so much fantasy material from you that a realistic (and for me, familiar) sex scene would be welcome.
Go for it.
I’ll just say I personally prefer the more fantasy NSFW.
I am 200% down for that
I think there is a lot of benefit in this idea. Like for those women who have discomfort or even pain with penetration guys sometimes are left floundering on what to do. So this could be both erotic and also educational to teach that sometimes alternatives are better for your partner and just as satisfying. Doesn't have to always be wham bam thank you mam.
Sounds intriguing and definitely a niche I haven't seen anywhere else.
Can have it all the same all the time.
I say go for it. I don't think I have listened to such, so a new experience won't hurt! Maybe ironic coming from a guy who temporarily stopped subbing because didn't click with the content, but you got a vast library, so that even if it somehow wouldn't click, there is plenty great stuff in your library to experience.
Absolutely. A honest/realistic nsfw would be a nice listen. I'd definitely be interested to see how the recorded audio compares to the ones you've posted so far in sound and scripts. As someone who listens to these audios (both sfw and nsfw) to help with the lonely moments between lows in my depression and feeling alienated with Adhd-tism, it would be sweet in the same way thinking on old relationships can be instead of the wild fantasies. Though you wont ever catch me complaining about the WILD scripts. Its at the very least always an entertaining listen.
As a trans lady, I am thankful I dont need to worry about that so much, but all my AFAB ladies need their orgasms too! I say go for it!
Sure. Go for it
Hell yeah! Realism!
Hell yeah we want realistic NSFW audios
I don't mind, you should do more audios where the listener does cunnilingus, I'm a guy that writes FxF scripts and I understand not every woman cums from penatration.
That's not a concept that I see explored a lot, so I'm all for this! Looking forward to it coming into fruition!
I would love to see this concept into fruition. You're very, extremely talented in your craft. You'll definitely pull it off :3c
I was actually thinking about this for a little while now, so I’m very curious how this will show in the audios. So yeah, totally down for it! 👍
That'll take me back to when I started dating my partner. Lots of nights apologizing for finishing too quickly.
If it makes you happy and that's what you want to do I'm in full support of you
Go for it, if you enjoy it and it harms nobody, why say no?
Honestly, yeah. I would like to see the listener putting some work in, so to speak.
If it’s something you wanna do, totally go for it!
Sure. If that makes you happy.
If you're passionate about it, do it!
I'm totally up for that :D
Would love it and I totally see you rocking it Tea. I love your work cause even when they’re fantasies, you make em feel real and now you wanna go even more real? Uncomfortably real? Hell yeah. Stressed boss lady comes from work, partner knows she needs the relief but shen doesnt wanna risk pregnancy so he goes down on her. Partners have no intimacy after a VPH diagnosis, but they love each other and miss the intimacy so they kiss and get handsy. Partner notices her gf has been faking the orgasms during penetration so he asks her what does she need. Totally love those type of scenarios cause its real life. I’m glad you wanna do something like that. Please go for it. ❤️
Am intruiged ~
I’m willing to give it a try never know
Should be interesting. Worth a go!
Yer, variety is always appreciated if you've got cool ideas you wanna try and explore I'll gladly try it out.
(Insert Palpatine voice) Do it.
Go for it! Spread the word! Women deserve orgasms too! I've been fortunate enough to have had partners who were pretty upfront about this, but I see that both historical culture norms and certain "entertainment" is not doing a good job educating the male population.
Something a bit more grounded would be wonderful.
Hell yes. I always enjoy intimacy in a more realistic manner.
As a Male, I love this!
Absolutely, sounds like an amazing idea. I have had partners who prefer stimulation instead of penetration and it makes for, at times, more intimate connection
I think I would really like that, the exaggeration sometimes take me out of the audios lol
Tbh that's what I prefer, your sfw content (to me) is a fantasy but make it realistic, so it's seems like the natural step that your nsfw content would be like that to, above all DO WHAT YOU WANNA DO
love it
That sounds awesome to me!
Honestly I have been looking for something like this. These kind of audios do exist, but are generally hard to find. So I would love these every now and then.
I am so down, while it's nice to imagine every time you'll have intercourse with your partner, you both get to reach your peak(preferably together), I think having an audio where it's more realistic about the actual act and results of sex would be great. One of my favorite audios is the tomboy period cramps audio from years ago, where it's so realistic and down to earth, explaining the struggles that women (or your fantasy partner in the audio) has with their body. It felt real and intimate that other fantasy audios often can't achieve, not through lack of skill from you or any VA, but because it lacks the content to feel so truly vulnerable AND realistic
I'm down for something like that. I think porn really skews what intimacy should look like, especially for guys. It's a hard pill to swallow that I can't make a girl orgasm from penile stabbing, but I'll try to suck it up. (that last sentence was a joke)
Yeah, let's try it out
I think this is a nice change of pace, it’ll be nice to experience something more realistic to any capacity.
I think this is a fantastic idea. My first girlfriend when I was at college/uni couldn't orgasm just from me. We had to bring in toys, and I'm glad she had some already. I learned a lot from her, and more people should learn about this.
Speaking personally I'm not too interested; though I'm sure there are plenty of people who are I see it more as an escape from reality rather than a tie into it. But if that's what what you wanna try go then full send it 🙂↕️
I appreciate your honesty. And I can totally see that NSFW audios are mainly just pure fantasy and entertainment. I enjoy that element of them too - them being so removed from reality that it allows you to escape the day. I watch a lot gory K Dramas for the same reason.
I really appreciate this idea. While I completely respect that a lot of NSFW content is fantasy, I think you’re absolutely right about the disconnect between fantasy and reality when it comes to women’s pleasure. I would genuinely love to hear more realistic content like this. I’ve had relationships with both men and women, and in my personal experience, I’ve never reached orgasm through penetration with a man. I don’t say that as an attack at all — it’s just my reality, and I know many women share it. I think content that shows honest communication and different ways of experiencing intimacy would be refreshing and meaningful. I fully support exploring this direction. ✨️
I love that you connect with this. Thank you for making me validated.
I'm game, sure!
I'm assuming by realistic here, we're talking about clitoral stimulation leading to orgasm and not penetration alone. (As a guy, yes, I'm saying it. Dicks aren't magical pleasure rods. It hurts nobody's feelings to acknowledge this and to do the thing that gives her pleasure while stabbing her with your penis.) And I'm guessing you also refer to moans that people make when there isn't a camera (or in this context, a microphone). If so, then yeah, I'm all for it. And the continuation of the over-the-top stuff too, lol.
It's this and also having the hard conversation of 'some women just don't want penetration at all because not only does it NOT feel good, but it also runs the risk of unwanted pregnancy, abortions, discomfort, tearing, cervical cancer (yes, sperm carries Human Papillomavirus (HPV), which is responsible for over 95% of cases of cervical cancer)'. Those can be uncomfortable conversations, but this is why there is such a gap between men and women - our experiences of sex can be vastly different. For most women, the risk is all ours and the pleasure is limited to 'optional'. And of course, hentai nonsense is a staple around here - particularly with commissions :D
Realistic is honestly a rare commodity as far as most erotic content goes. So more of it is always appreciated. Variety is always better imo
Why not give it a try? See it one version is like.
Sure, you're the one who make these things.
Is this your plot to teach your listeners about good foreplay by talking them through it??? 😂😂 Jokes aside that sounds like a great idea. Something more lowkey with like an example of good romantic communication~
It's honestly because I don't see a lot of realistic portrayals of sex - my own audios included. I was just wondering if a more realistic approach would be appreciated. I think we've done a good job of lending a more loving and wholesome approach to the topic of sex, but I would like to take it a step further and change the narrative of 'foreplay optional, penetration the main event'. Because as proven statically, penetration is not the 'main event' for women.
I’m not interested in this, myself; however, if that’s what you want to make, then I encourage you to give it a try.
Appreciate your honesty.
It'd be great. Even if the effort of the characters doesn't end up well. Opening up about communication and not setting things up for porn standards. Maybe even an injury too for a comedy bit. Sex is messy, injuries are bound to happen and they do. Maybe even explore men not being able to climax either. There's a lot of ground you could cover.
I LOVE the idea of the man not being able to climax. There's unhelpful expectations of both genders and it can be really damaging, specially for younger adults who have no sexual experience. We're people, we mess up, we drop things, we don't always orgasm - it's okay.
Absolutely 100% yes. Most women being unable to orgasm from penetration, or at least from penetration alone; and the myth of bigger is always better with penis size, when there is an upper limit before it hits the cervix and causes pain are things i love seeing addressed in smut because it brings a realistic look at things and leads to a more positive experience for everyone. Porn has exaggerated everything to unattainable levels and people are afraid to talk about stuff for fear of disappointing or upsetting their partner.
Absolutely.
Short answer: yes
Long answer: yes, please and thank you
Sure, it would be interesting, plus I don't think I've seen that approach before. Least that I can't recall honestly.
I honestly have no problem with that. It actually would be kinda educational in a way too. So I say absolutely go for it.
That's a great idea, like really, it's great
I actually was gonna propose something like this I find the crazy hentai stuff so entertaining but the realistic stuff is a good reminder and could be a much more intimate experience so I'm completely with it
Realism and hentai nonsense both serve different and essential purposes :D
I would love some of that becaue honestly it blew my mind when I learned women don’t get orgasm on penetration cause I’ve never seen it portrayed ever. I thought I had a pretty good understanding of sex but I keep learning I know nothing about
Thank you for your honesty. And if you went off most media, you would absolutely believe that most women get off through penetration. This is why I would like produce media that is a little more honest and helpful about sex between men and women.
I'm all for it. Natural and healthy expressions of intimacy and sex are very good to include. Especially showing that talking about it together is normal and positive.
PLEASEEEEE, REALISM IS SO MUCH BETTER, the sense of being there is sublime but also hearing the little details like a sound happening far away or the hypersenses after skme stress has been....... Released
It would be fine to have, personally I think it's a good thing.
Pretty much what nox said
If you have the desire to do it? Go for it. You have nothing to lose and it will satisfy a creative need.
Tea is the designated driver- I’m just here for the ride. If you wanna do it, I’ll support it. Go for it!
I would like that yeah. I've been a follower of yours since you started on YouTube like the first channel you had. I miss those old audios, a more realistic one would get me back to listening. Those over the top ones aren't really my thing.
Do it
I'll be honest, I'm not even here for the NSFW. All of your work is unrealistic to me because there's no way anyone would talk too me. At least the SFW feels kinda wholesome.
Do ur thing, I'd imagine it sounds better for everyone if its less forced/exaggerated anyways. Chase ur inspiration
The issue is that a lot of women BARELY make any noise when having sex, so it's striking the right balance between silence and a realistic portrayal in the audio.
I love this idea! I know you've also done stuff like reassurance about atypical body types. As someone with a physical disability, I'd love more content that showcases real, "imperfect" bodies, and the beautiful awkward mess that intimacy actually is.
Realistic NSFW I would love that. Would be amazing in my opinion.
GIVE👏ME👏REALISTIC👏NSFW👏PLEASE👏
Sounds all good to me
I think you should do what you want to do with your nsfw if I’m being honest the exaggerated moaning isn’t very pleasing to hear I think more subtle moaning and more of a focus on sound effects would be better also add in more foreplay for the female in the beginning so the male listener gets a more realistic aspect of it. But like I said do what you feel is right for you.
This is kind of the point that I'm making. What if there was just NO penetration? What if penetration not only doesn't achieve orgasm for the women, but what if the woman doesn't like penetration at all? How would that work? Would the relationship and the man be secure enough to survive having sex in a less typical fashion? We don't see this explored and penetration is seen as the main act, when really it's usually done for the man's pleasure. I would love to see an audio where a woman is honest about the downsides of penetration (lack of sexual pleasure, fear of pregnancy, abortion, throwing off her PH balance, discomfort, yeast infections, etc). Foreplay being seen as optional and penetration as the expectation is a big reason a lot of women just aren't as interested in sex as their male counterparts. There's far less incentive and far more risk.
Love this idea. Cant wait to hear more of it😁
Absolutely. Sex doesnt sound like the pornos most time and can ve much more awkward and funny than passionately reproductive. That's its whole own enjoyment, i think audios beign more realistic would cash the bank just as well if not better. Yes please tea!
As a guy who considers himself a people pleaser (in both a good and bad way) and tries to actively communicate with their partner both before and during sex so that they feel comfortable I would honestly love that. In porn it is usually simple setup > action but it would be nice to show that it doesn't always go according to plan or that it can even be clunky but also that this doesn't take away from the moment itself
I thought it was common sense to cook your food before you eat it. Foreplay is like the funnest part and I'm always shaking my head when I hear about those wham bam thankya ma'am kinda dudes.
Fun fact I learned from a video made by a sex educator: 99% of foreplay happens outside of the bedroom and anything that can get someone off is not foreplay. 😉
I think its a great idea. If it's something you want to try I'm all in
Im all for it, go for it
Interesting in a good and valid way.
Absolutely, especially if it's something that you specifically want to do for audios, Tea!
Thats a great ide
Like... Realistic orgasms, sex sounds etc? Is that what you mean?
Partly, but also just being honest about the fact that people don't always orgasm, they don't always get wet or hard. And it doesn't have to be this disastrous moment. It can be funny, goofy, even charming. Life isn't smooth, why should sex be any different?
This would definitely be interesting
I think it’s a great idea. Yeah, the usual nsfw is all cool and stuff, but I’m cool if you wanna make them more realistic.. as long as it is something that’s comfortable for you to do of course.
I’m down for it. Important convo to have
This would be my preferred style personally.
Hey I say yoy do it, if it something you're passionate about
As someone who prefers a hint of realism i would enjoy seeing this. Personally I have the preference of the hushed moans or whimpers as opposed to the loud/excess vocals. But long story short would love to see this😅
That sounds like a great idea tea. I’d love to hear a more realistic scene. And I know you can make an amazing one
I agree to your preferences, I think it’s a good idea to let the female orgasm first.
This would be a very interesting format and I know for a fact that more people thank you think would very much enjoy this idea coming to life.
Thank you so much. I'm so pleased. I was worried it would annoy people. But I sincerely think more honest communication about sex between the genders would be helpful. We get a lot of misinformation from media, especially porn when it comes to sex and relationships. It would be nice to put forward something more honest and helpful.
Speaking as a dude, yes, please. It’s definitely good to bring attention to things like this.
Probably my favorite because the connection to the character is stronger!
Sounds like a great idea Tea! I would some more realistic audios.
Very interested
That sounds wonderful