November 26, 2023

Bonus Video! The gayest moments in Rock Hudson/Doris Day rom-coms

As I'm sure you're aware, Rock Hudson is probably best known for the romantic comedies he made in the 1950s and 1960s with Doris Day (and a bunch of other actresses). But something kind of peculiar about these movies, which are all about heterosexual romance, is how often they slip queer subtext into the stories. And sometimes it's not even that subtextual! This week we're looking at some of the gayest moments of his many rom-coms, from shared a bed with a man to pregnancy misunderstandings to the time his therapist literally told him to stop hiding in the closet.

Backup link in case the video doesn't play: https://youtu.be/InVmJRjqMIM 

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Paul Bernard · December 5, 2023

So my mom worked in a University overseeing graduate students in the 90's, and one time she and one of her long term TAs were arguing whether some couple in the news at the time was real or just celeb gossip. The TA (arguing for the relationship being real) said in all seriousness "It's one of those Rock Hudson/Doris Day things" and my mom just died. She had to stop and explain A)Rock deceived Doris in every movie, and B) he was gay.

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Matt Baume · December 5, 2023

Haha oh lord, that's amazing. Just goes to show how people really do see what they want to see!

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Trevor · December 3, 2023

Your comment about Rock’s character literally being in the closet made me wonder when “in the closet” became a widely used expression. I haven’t found a specific instance where it became popular but seem to remember it started being used more commonly 40 years ago.

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Matt Baume · December 3, 2023

According to George Chauncey, the phrase was juuuuust starting to appear around the time this movie came out. I think it’s likely to have been familiar to the gays who worked on the film, but not the straights.

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Chris Covell · November 28, 2023

I’d love to see a special of yours about Joan Crawford and her relationship to queer cinema, in her life and work!

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Matt Baume · November 28, 2023

She's on my list to cover at some point!

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SG · November 27, 2023

Also check out the clip on IMDB of 'The Carol Burnett Show' episode 'When My Baby Laughs at Me' for a gag of Rock in a football locker room.

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Matt Baume · November 27, 2023

I’m… not sure I get the joke? Is it that the other guys won’t shower with Joe Namath anymore because he did a commercial for hose???

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SG · November 27, 2023

There's a 1992 documentary by Mark Rappaport on this subject called "Rock Hudson's Home Movies."

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Joe · November 26, 2023

Post your phonesona below: mine is the pink razr

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Matt Baume · November 27, 2023

Old timey candlestick-style phone

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Rachel Townsend · November 26, 2023

It's been a while since I've seen Pillow Talk, but I feel like they do a lot of giving Rock's Texan character the not-gay. To the point that I remember feeling bad knowing that Rock was irl gay.