Boundaries
I'm sorry to start off the month with a post like this, but I think it's important that everyone understands some things. I am not available in any way. I am married. Do not message me to chat unless I request your address for a card or your email to deliver photos or similar. Your subscription fee here does not allow you to 24/7 access to message me here or on any platform. It entitles you to view the photos or things I post here and interact with me in publicly viewable messages/comments. That's it. I am entitled to my privacy, personal life (what I do in my own personal life is none of your business!), and free time. I do not live online and don't intend to. If you continue to message me, I will block you. Furthermore, do not say highly sexual things to me in private, in publicly viewable places, or in your comments. That has the potential to get my account flagged and I need my account to continue to entertain you. Thanks for your time and for being here this year for a respectful sharing of art.
Comments (5)
Boundaries Honored, that's simple respect, got that totally from me.
As "only" a photographer, I'm still amazed at the messages I receive from some who imagine that I am the model/collaborator in my images. I can only imagine what you've been subjected to in that regard. Thank you for setting a clear boundary, and here's hoping that your enforcement of it goes well.
Carrie Thank you for sharing this! I appreciate all that you do!
I’m sorry that you had to post this as a public notice or public service announcement to your patrons here on Patreon.
Damn! That just sucks that you have to post this.