August 23, 2023

Update

Sorry I've been scarce lately. My favorite person in the world was diagnosed with advanced breast cancer. 

1 in 8 women gets breast cancer sometime in her life. That means it's pretty much a certainty that someone reading this message will get it too. Please add a recurring reminder to your calendar to get your annual mammograms, check yourself routinely, and remind your loved ones too. It's a good idea even if you're only in your 30s, and definitely in your 40s. Even if you eat a healthy diet, walk many miles every day, and still get carded at casinos - it can still happen to you, and it's something you definitely want to catch as early as possible.

VaM and the VaM community is still my happy place, so I hope be back with some more releases soon. I'll try to catch up on DMs when I can.

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Gabriele · April 5, 2024

There're no words to share with You how I can feel in hear about your's related health situation, but I'm sure she will fight her personal war as the best commander on duty, and will win over all the issues...

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Harry_Hirsch · December 27, 2023

Just joined the Patreon, but hope she's doing better and treatment is working!

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Heckle56 · September 29, 2023

I just joined and I came across this point, and I know I'm late but I wanted to comment just to wish you and your loved one all the best. I can't imagine how it's like hearing news like that but stay strong, they will hopefully get through it!

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Dragontales3D · August 29, 2023

I'm sorry to hear that you and your family have this battle to deal with. I hope she can kick cancer's ass. Take all the time you need!

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Logovore · August 25, 2023

I’m in healthcare. I know the struggle.

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Rainey · August 24, 2023

No one understands this more than I do. We can wait. Take care of you and your person, we'll be here no matter what. Taking care of you and her are top priority right now. <3 <3 Reach out if you need to talk, okay?

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Gagher7 · August 24, 2023

Sorry to hear that =( Take all the time you need to work through this, hoping for the best!

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Pan-da! · August 23, 2023

Please, cheerup and the one mentioned above... TAKE BOTH CARE;