I’m so sorry, Charlie passed away on Monday
I have rewards for you guys. I have a few close to being finished ( 1 NSFW self portrait, 2 bonus comics) but we lost Charlie on Monday and I thought I could still push them out but I can’t bring myself to do it right now.
I promise to have them out by early next week but I’m so sorry. This year has just been unusually (cruelly?) rough but I don’t want to dodge my commitments. I’m making this to be accountable.
Charlie’s passing was unexpected. With it so close to Lucy’s, it fucked us up. He was older but it came out of nowhere. He was 100% normal Sunday morning and died in my arms 24 hours later. We woke up Monday with him not being able to stand and his breathing was ragged. We went to the emergency vet and they couldn’t even hear his lungs because there was so much fluid. He was in the active stages of dying. We were told that they could do testing but it was really if we wanted to know how it was happening but they believed it was rapid onset heart failure. There was nothing they could do. We had to give the call to let him go. The hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life was not to break eye contact while I told him I loved him over and over again while I watched the light leave his eyes.
I know you guys are more understanding than I am of myself but I feel awful for using the dead dog excuse twice in a few months time. I will get all this month’s rewards out, I just want to be transparent that it may be at weird times or clumped up. Im sorry. This year sucks so much. I promise to make it worth it.
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Losing a second close friend is horrible. I'm so sorry for the loss you folks are experiencing. Take care of yourselves.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope you find peace in knowing that you gave him your love AND the greatest gift of compassion you could. Taking care of yourself is not “dodging commitments,” it’s “understanding you’ve had an unexpected priority arise and you need to renegotiate the terms of your implied contract with us.” And you’ve renegotiated it. Take care of you. Seriously.
I grew up as a Farm Boy where all the animals died, whether to feed the family or by accident, but, even still, I understand the attachment you've developed to your beloved family and wish you and hubs as smooth a transition as you can afford yourselves because, in the end, you have to accept that you gave your loves an exceptional existence for the oh too short time they were around. All my love.
Sending all the love
Hugs
I am so sorry for your loss. It is by no means an 'excuse'. Loosing a pet is always difficult, and losing two in such a short amount of time is devastating. Take all the time you need.
Aww...I'm so sorry
Don’t rush, be present for yourself and your family now. 😔 These days always come too soon, and they never get easier.
Please take all the time you need.
Just make sure you’re looking after yourself as much as you can. We’ll still be here. We love you and support you because we love what you do. And if you need help, we’ll be right here
I am so sorry. Losing a pet is a nightmare. Take the time you need
Pets are family. Family needs to be priority.
Echoing many of the comments but many of us are in agreement. Take the time you need, pets are still family and their loss is hard. We support not just your work but you as a person, try not to beat yourself up over any delays.
No rush, take your time
I know it doesn’t help much but digital ::hugs:: and condolences are the best we can do. Having lost my pup/sidekick/bestfriend of nearly seventeen years last November followed by my cat (and primary source of fluffy comfort) less than three months later, I know first hand that losing one is crushing, but two in short order is something else entirely. I wouldn’t wish that pain on anyone and sincerely wish it was not something you had to experience. Know you are not alone in your grief. You have a legion of fans here saying the same thing and I hope you hear it well - take the time you need to grieve, we will all be here when you return and no one worth a moment of your time believes that this loss is an excuse. ::hugs::
So very sorry for your loss. Take all the time you need.
No need to apologize at all. You all have my deepest sympathies and prayers 🙏🏼
No apologies needed. You lost part of your family! Take your time, process your grief, we will be here when you feel up to it.
I've lost enough pets in my life to know that there's absolutely NO need to apologize. Take all the time you need.
I say take the time you need to grieve. We support *you* along with your content, and the loss of any family member is devastating.
<3 This year has been a banner year for suck. I hope you and your family have the support and resources you need.
My condolences! It's most certainly not an excuse, as it's found that mourning a pet you're close with shows in the brain similarly and is felt often even more painfully than losing a close human. That you have had to deal with such a pain and sorrow twice within such a short time makes it completely understandable that you're not fully okay for the time being. Just take of yourselves and each other, so you can slowly start to recover and learn to live with and despite your loss.
Oh no, this is so horrible. I've been here and done this with pets (and people). As others have said, take all the time you need. It's not an "excuse" that you are reeling from pet deaths, it's a function of you not being a Skynet drone. We all support you because we love your art. Happy to wait for it, take care of yourself.
I'm so sorry. I know how hard that can be. Take the time you need to heal.
Take the time you need. We're not going anywhere.
100% agree with this.
Sending you and hubs both all the love in the world. Grief has no timeline and neither does recovering from it. Take the time you need.♥️
Take time to mourn. Hugs from afar.
Take your time, and take care of yourself. We are here because we support you, and losing a dog is losing a member of your family.
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Take your time Dot, our fur babies are family too and their loss cuts deep. ❤️ we're here for ya
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We’re here for you, love. Not what you do. Family comes first. We’ll be here when you’re ready. Take the time you need.
Aww...I'm so sorry
I’m sorry to hear. Take all the time you need
So many hugs to you and hubbs. Such a heartbreak is always hard. Care for yourself and take time to grieve.
You need to take time for yourself and your mental health. Your health is more important than thinking you have to share with others. Many hugs of peace and comfort for you both
Take your time to heal. We support you ❤️
I am so sorry for your losses. With time, I have come to cherish the memories of the ones I love. Wishing you and yours a good recovery.
We grieve with thee.
They're family, take all the time you need. Its not an excuse, there a family member and its never easy.
Family first. Always.
I am so sorry Dot. Losing a loved one, pet or otherwise, is one of the hardest things to go through. Please know you don’t have to apologize for not putting stuff out. Take your time, and make sure you and hubby are taking care of yourselves
Take your time to grieve. <3
Take all the time you need. You guys have been dealing with a lot and, like you said, we understand. Take the time to love, grieve, whatever you need. We'll still be here. Sending love, hugs and prayers.
I'm so sorry Kim, losing a pet that is soooo loved is exceedingly difficult. Sending you lots of love
Please take all the time you need. I've never been a pet owner myself, but I know losing a pet can be like losing a family member. Grief is natural and we all understand that's what you're going through.
It's OK, take time to grieve. We will all be here when you feel like drawing again. My condolences to you and hubs during your time of loss. It's never easy loosing a companion. Rest ,heal its ok.
Hey Dot! Take as long as you need. It shouldn’t be taboo in saying “Hey, I’m dealing with some shit!” and it needing to be justified or defined. Appreciate the transparency though. Xox love to you and the fam.
Words fail me. You take the time you need to grieve - I can still feel the loss of my first dog and that was almost a decade ago.
It hurts so much to lose them; I hospice old greyhounds, and sending them off ALWAYS SUCKS. Take a deep breath and maybe a few glasses of wine in Charlie’s name.
I am crying in the office. Hold on and take your time. It is so difficult and we all understand.
So sorry to hear, take all the time you need to heal
I'm so sorry, my deepest condolences to you both. Grief can't be rushed, please take whatever time you guys need. Taking care of yourselves is the most important thing, your fans love you and we aren't going anywhere.
So sorry for your loss
I'm so sorry. Losing my little man destroyed me. Being there at the end is such a privilege and also utterly devastating. Be gentle with yourself, take your time, no one is going to expect anything. Do what you need to do first
I’m so sorry, that’s so sad, especially back to back. But here’s the thing- I lost my beloved Jodi (the WonderDog) on June 23rd. She had been dealing with some health issues, which we were managing, but it became apparent that she had an extremely aggressive brain tumor. Her last few days were horrible. But now, only a few months later, when I think of her (which is pretty constant) what I remember is not her pain or confusion, but how warm and soft she was in my arms as I carried her into the vets for her final visit. How she just fell asleep in my arms and was peaceful, and then she was gone. Now I just remember her warmth, and how “fiercely gentle” she was. It won’t stop sucking, but it will get easier. But still- I’m so sorry.
Seriously, don’t worry. Take the time and recover, the kind of people that follow on patreon are the people that understand.
Take all the time you need!
Sorry for your loss.
So sorry for your loss, we are here to support you.
So sorry, we understand!
Focus on you and yours. Grieving and what healing you need to get your feet back under you takes priority to work.
Focus on you and dealing with your loss. You are worth waiting for. Take care of yourself, we'll be here when you get back. Much love!❤️
Take all the time you need. Losing a pet is so hard especially when they've been in your life for so long. Work will be there when you need a distraction. Speaking for myself, don't feel like you owe us anything. We'll be here to cheer you on when you're ready. ♥️
Focus on your healing. I can only speak for myself but I can't imagine someone being upset on it being delayed until you're in a good head space
You are loved. I think most of us would agree that we come here to support you. The comics and art are nothing without a good person behind them. And you don't need to apologize for sharing your human side and the love for a furry family member. Thank you for sharing with us.
You have no reason to be sorry! Take all the time you need to process thos loss and seriously lean back into what you need/want to do. If people expect and respect you because of this, fuck them!
oh my sweet baby dot 😞 i'm so sorry.. but you know that we are always here for you no matter what. we love you and we hope that you can get through this. take all the time you need, we'll be here when you return. 💕
Fuck commitments. Losing a pet takes priority over everything. Take all the time you need.
It's so crushing to lose your beloved pet. I lost my cat very suddenly after 20 years together. It's been over a year and I am still grieving. Don't apologize for needing time. Take as much as you need. Grief is a journey, not a hill you get over. I'm sure Charlie and Lucy are happily waiting to reunite with you.
So sorry for your losses! Sending love yalls way! <3
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m glad he had such a loving home with you
I am so very sorry to read about your second loss in such a short time. It is devastating to lose our fur babies because they earn their places in our hearts - places they filled so well for so long, but that feel so empty when they leave us. I hope you can find some comfort remembering all the good times.
My condolences to you Dot. Family comes first
Jesus. I lost my cat, Walter, rather suddenly earlier this year, and it still tears me up inside. I couldn't possibly fathom 2 losses in just one year, let alone months apart. Take all the time you need.
I’m so sorry to hear that Kim. Don’t worry about us. We aren’t going anywhere because of missed artwork. Take all the time you need.
Take care of yourself first. I can wait for the rewards
So sorry. Sending hugs and good vibes. I hope you're taking care of yourself.
Kim I’m so sorry for your loss. They were never just dogs. They are your children. Take all of the time you need. Your grief is completely valid and it’s fucking tough. Sending love. I’m so sorry xx
Take the time you need. We'll be around waiting for your wit ... and tits....
Sorry to hear Dot 😞
As far as I'm concerned you have nothing to apologize for. Take your time.
Take care of yourself and your hubby. We'll be here when you're ready ❤️
Take the time you need Dot. Losing a fur baby is always hard.
Take all the time you need!
Oh Dot, I am so so sorry. You have nothing to apologize for. Please take whatever time you need and be kind to yourself. Smallest of consolations but know we're thinking of you. We'll be here when you're ready💓
Grief is hard and I know how much it hurts, but it's also a measure of your love, and you honor your lost friends' memories when you afford yourself the time and space to grieve. Be kind to yourself. We can wait. ❤️
Do not apologize for having a death in the family and needing time to mourn and process. Do what you need to. We will be here when you're ready to come back. Charlie was your soul pup and we can tell from his presence in your comics. ❤️ I'm so sorry that you've lost two furbabies, especially so close together.
I’m glad you guys could see it. I’m trying to make a comic for him like I do for Lucy but it’s so much harder. Not just because I’m emotionally drained and but he was my boy. How do I describe how important he was even before I had the comic? I want to do him justice
Take your time. I am so so sorry for your loss. Heal up first.
Do not rush or push on our account. Take all the time you need. We'll still be here.
I've lost three dogs myself. You're going to need to take time for yourself to recover.
Hugs. Whatever you need to for yourself, I promise we completely understand. I am so sorry for your loss.
I extend my condolences regarding the loss of Charlie. I understand this year has presented challenges for you and your husband. I encourage you to remain resilient during these difficult times. While I did not have the pleasure of knowing Charlie personally, I am aware of his positive qualities.
He would’ve loved you. He loved everyone. We called him “lover boy” because he tried to be friends with everyone. People and animals. He was just awkward that it made it difficult for him. He didn’t know what to do, he just wagged his tail and licked them. lol He finally made one with Briggs ( our cat ) and I’m so happy he did.
Sorry for your loss Dot. No worries, we all been there. Sending hugs and strength.
That's not a "dead dog", that's the passing of two dear friends in short order and do not worry for a moment about people on the internet; you take all of the time you need. Thoughts are with you and yours.
This isn't an excuse. You lost family members. You take every moment you need.
Take all the time you need. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Keeping your family in my thoughts. This year is a turd.
My condolences for your loss. Take all the time you need. We'll be here.
I'm so sorry. Sending comforting vibes
Anyone that’s been paying attention knows how rough (and cruel) this year has been on you and hubs. Take care of yourselves! Mourn, cry, remember the good times, and take care of each other. Hugs.
Dot, you take as much time as you need! I ain't going now6! Sending good vibes to ya!
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Take time for yourself, grieve, and we will be here when you are ready to come back
We understand. Don't worry about us, we'll still be here. Take the time for yourself
Take care of you & yours. We'll all still be here after.
You will meet them again they wait across the rainbow bridge
Sending comforting hugs. Xxx
