Notice Regarding Traveling

When I have travel plans to come to a city you're in for me to not cancel the trip I have to have at least one person on my schedule to meet with me.

This means that you actually have to have a time date and place set with me to meet you. Just because I am heading to your area doesn't automatically mean that you're going to get to meet me.

I'm really frustrated because I've had quite a few people assume that just because I'm traveling to an area they are in or close to, that I'm meeting them and then try to guilt trip me and say that I don't actually meet people because I wouldn't meet them because I already had a booked schedule with people who schedule prior with me to meet them and that I won't cancel with other people just to meet them.

Now if I'm going on a last-minute trip like going and visiting my sister in Houston or any of the other cities I have family in that's a bit different. I have family in Houston, Dallas, Fort Worth, Temple, and San Antonio. So it's not like I don't have a reason to travel all of a sudden if something happens.

Now keep in mind

Dallas, Fort Worth, and San Antonio are about 3 to 3 and 1/2 hours away from me. These are overnight trips for me and cannot be day trips.

Houston, Temple, and Austin are about an hour and a half two hours from me. These can be day trips for me or overnight trips.

College Station, Bryan, Brenham, and Caldwell are about 30 to 45 minutes away from me. These are the closest cities to me outside of Somerville which is why I shop there it's literally just which one do I want to go to because they are all the same distance.

If I do go on a last minute trip then well I will try to meet with at least one or two people if I can't I usually do some sort of find me game unless I have a reason that I am not able to do any of that.

Let me put it this way so it's simple. I will not cancel with somebody else who has scheduled to meet me and is on my calendar to meat and hang out with because you want me to prioritize you. I do my best to be fair to everyone and just because I ran out of room on a trip unless I extend my stay which I will only do if enough people are interested in I have necessary funds then you will have to deal with waiting till next time or coming to an area near me. Some people help me with these trips so that they can meet me and they get first dibs on meeting me not someone who sees that I'm coming to town and just wants to meet me and is demanding I cancel with the other prior engagements.

Also please note that if I have a trip scheduled and no one has helped with said trip and I don't have anybody scheduled to meet me I have the right to cancel the trip. I would rather save the money to go another time for people to be able to meet me. I plan these trips out months ahead so if there is less than a month left and I have no one on the schedule, then I will cancel the trip.

With all this being said so everyone is aware the DFW trip has been canceled and will be rescheduled for another time.

Well I had plenty of people interested in meeting me nobody put themselves on my calendar and instead assumed that they were going to just meet me when I'm there.

Due to this reason I've had to cancel it because I don't want to make the trip up there and then not be able to meet anybody because nobody's all of a sudden not available.

The DFW trip will be rescheduled for another date.