🖤 Hank's Quarterly AMA (September)

Hi, Hank! I hope you’re enjoying the refreshing days😊 I have a question about creative motivation. As a creator yourself, I imagine you face the struggle of balancing “what you want to do” with “what you have to do”, both in your creative work and in your daily life. Maybe? Plus, most of your creative work is also part of your job. When things don’t go as planned, but you still have to get the work done, how do you stay motivated besides taking a short break? Is it the guitar, after all? (I want to do so many things that I feel like I don't have enough time, and I end up feeling stuck🤣)

Hi Hank, and happy autumn! I hope you and the boys are doing well, with not too much mischief-making from any of you 😉 Did your family or friends have any nicknames for you when you were a kid and were there any reasons behind them if so? Thanks as always for answering our questions, sending hugs 💛

Hey Hank! Hope you’re keeping well coming into this cosy time of year. This is my 1st time asking a question, so if you answer it many thanks. I have a sister & no brothers. Curious to know, growing up did you & your brothers treat your sister differently being the only female sibling, and what qualities did you learn or inherit from her in a predominantly male household? Keep up your awesome work 🥰

Hey Hank! Hope you're doing well! I'm curious if (some of the) dark room audios will make an appearence some day again? Take care!

Ohhhh!!! Jumping up on my tippy-toes with my hand in the air! I have a question... Oh!... And hello, hope you are well and enjoying Autumn 🍂..... (I was raised to be polite) 😉 Annnnnnnyway.... If your guitars could talk, which one would have the most dirt on you?” 😏 Happy Hautumn 🍂 Love Bee X ❤️🐝

Hey! Hope you’re well! :) I’ve just started listening through your audios and I got curious, what’s the most ridiculous thing you’ve done to get a sound effect right? I remember you mentioned recording the stairs at your sister’s house cause they had the perfect sound for a halloween audio, and it made me wonder how much chaos actually goes into making the audios? 🤭

Hiya Hank, I hope your doing good, i have a hypothetical question for you this time, your putting a band together. a singer, guitar player, bass player, drummer (whatever other instruments you want) who is your first port of call musicians either passed or present to fit those rolls that you'd love to jam with (i assume you will be on guitar) 🎸🥁🎤🖤

Hi Hank, hope you are well and are enjoying the autumn season, I’ve finally been able to renew my subscription after finishing university and I’m so happy:)! My question is: How do you deal with deeply missing someone you connected with both physically and emotionally, knowing they’re still alive but circumstances have changed and they’re unlikely to come back into your life?

Hi Hank, hope you’re doing great, i’m so happy it’s autumn i could cry! I’ve only been on patreon for 2 months so this is my first ama! I’ve recently broken up from a 5 year relationship which was my first for literally everything (kissing, sex, even cuddling), we were together when i was 18 and we just grew apart and mutually decided to break up. My question is: do you have any advice on dealing with a break up, especially for a first/long term relationship? Even though it was a mutual decision it’s still so difficult to deal with and i’ve cried a lot since (unfortunately im a very emotional girl and cry a lot). Sorry for the hefty paragraph but any advice would be amazing, sending love to you and the meows brothers 🐾🤍

Hey Hank, hope you and the boys are doing well. My question is: Have you ever romantically been with someone who was Asexual (someone experiences little to no sexual attraction toward other people) and if you have, how did you handle that relationship? This is something that I personally deal with as I am asexual which can make it really hard for me to date and be in romantic relationships since so many people don't understand what that entails and I'm sick of hearing the "you just haven't found the right person yet" speech from everyone I ask. Sorry for the 2-part question, I just would like some advice as I'm in my mid 20's.