Messages vs. Comments on the videos or pics

Hey guys!   hope you are having a nice start of the week ...  This is very brief.  I have sadly found out that some of  you send me messages to chat and i never look at them and then you (if you are still here, the ones reading) get frustrated to call it some way or think that i ignore the messages.    Well, for some reason when you have messages here i guess there is no light or anything that lets me know and i am not here all the time.  But when i post something i get back to see comments and i do respond back.  Then if any of  you tells me in a comment stuff, hey read a message i sent you I will.    

For instance, one of you my friends  here in patreon told me that you would like to see the thriller and wrestling vids ... so cool to know ... then i guess i get feedback when i send you posts like this but i do read the comments to  my  posts too ... the messages are the only ones that i need to take a whole look ... to the ones that are here as many may have left and i  never knew about the message, so sorry if that is the case of some.  xoxo

Thanks !!