Important Information - Update
I was holding off on this as long as I could, but I don't think I'm gonna have much of a choice now. (TLDR at the bottom)
On Wednesday, I took my husband to see a Rheumatologist due to some complications he's been having with vasculitis. The doctor told us instead of waiting for any test results, we should go to the ER right away to get him seen. Hours later, he's seen and admitted due to high blood pressure and hematuria.
We found out that he has high levels of creatinine in his kidneys along with the high BP. All of this seems to tie together with his vasculitis, I suppose. What we thought was gonna be an overnight stay has turned into several days with of testing and blood drawing and even a kidney biopsy.
We were told he'd end up staying over the weekend, but we had hopes of him heading home sooner. Instead, we were told they might have botched the biopsy a bit. It might not have been successful enough and there's a high chance of him staying a whole extra week because they'll need to do ANOTHER one after we get the results of the first one.
Needless to say, that break I was gonna take, didn't happen, and I've just been... existing between the home and hospital.
If he doesn't get to come home tomorrow, there's a really high chance I just end up doing that small housekeeping update that I was gonna mix in with Richard's update, because if they keep him through the upcoming week, I just won't be at home to work on a full update.
TLDR:
Husband has been in the hospital since Wednesday and might have to stay even longer, I have hardly had any time to rest, and I might have to do that housekeeping update instead of Richard's update because I'm not home to work.
We're just playing the waiting game right now, so I'll update this post when I have more news to share.
UPDATE:
First of all, thank you all for the kind words and support <3 It means a lot to me seeing all of it. The last week has been one of the most stressful weeks I've ever had, and there's just been nothing going on in my head other than the stress and worry. So really, thank you all for understanding and being so supportive.
The husband is back home (which is great!), but we're still trying to get answers between lab tests, the kidney biopsy and a visit to a rheumatologist today (they're trying to get the lab results that we've been trying to get). He's still not feeling the greatest, but he'll hopefully have some medication tomorrow that'll make him feel better. We're still doing a lot of waiting, but I feel like we have a bit more direction now.
With that said, the update -will- only be a housekeeping update. I don't feel like I have the time to do a proper update, so the update only the 1st will be a minor one. I have some images I'm adding into the Spencer epilogue that I imagine folks will enjoy!
Anyhow, thank you again for the supportive words and all of the love. It really means a lot to me!
Comments (55)
Family and health first dyne!! Hoping everything will settle down soon so you can breathe again. Gambateeee
I'm glad he's home and I hope the recovery is fast. Moments like this bring a lot of stress and you'll both need to rest, so don't worry and take care of yourselves
i wish you all the best! plz take care of yourselves
Take care of yourselves first. That's most important. I look forward to seeing the new images, but health should always come first.
Glad that Wolfstar is back home, hope things get better soon
take all the time you want you just got a big character finale finished were not gonna rush you especially not in this situation. we love you dyne take care of yourself and your husband.
Health is #1! Take the time you need
Your dedication to work is commendable but not need right now. Now is the time to focus on health and family. They will always be more important. Thank you for all that you do! All the love to you and your husband. I hope things work out for the best and quickly.
Just want to send you and your Husband many snuggle smoochies! Hope he gets better soon.
Wish him a speedy recovery! And a piece of mind for you!
Take care of your family. The rest of this can wait.
I'm so sorry to hear that Dyne, family always comes first, I've been a supporter for like 7 years now I think, and one thing I can say from that no matter how long it takes for an update to come out it's always worth it. You've more than earned the right to do whatever you have to do in my book. Take care of yourself and your family first please. I think I speak for a lot of people when it comes to that statement.
I had to put everything second to care for my husband when he recieved his liver transplant. So I totally get your reasons. We all your back, don't worry.. So use that energy into husband care. 🙏❤️
I am sure everyone can wait for an update. Just keep yourself healthy and look after your husband.
Mate, Forget the update and try to rest and be supportive of your man, take all the time you need we will always be here.
I second everything people have already said. Take care of yourself and your hubby first. We'll still be here and will happily take no updates even if you feel overwhelmed.
Dude, it's always been family and health first & VN second. Do what you need to so you and your husband are well, take a month off once both of yours mental & physical health are back on track. I know from my own personal experience that looking after a love one when they have experience a health matter and need you to look after them for a while, it's quite tiring. So take all the time you need and best wishes for recovering to the both of you. If you need someone to talk to feel free to message me, as someone who gone through this a few times now.
Ah, that is too bad. Take all the time you need. Life needs to take priority first, especially for medical stuff. I hope it is nothing too bad. Even if you skipped doing any update at all, I think everyone would find it understandable.
Bro, whatever you need. Husbands first. If you need anything from us, just ask.
Take all the time you need. Wishing a speedy recovery to Wolfstar
Please take all the time you both need to recover, and to take care of both of yourselves. You both have been working so hard to deliver us your stories, along with your teams. A little pause to take care your wellbeing is more than understandable. Please don't worry, and make sure you both stay well and healthy. Once more, wishing to Wolfstar a speedy recovery.
Oh no! I’m sorry to hear that there’s been medical complications with your husband. Don’t worry about the VN if it’s too much to juggle Dyne, we all understand that things are stressful right now. I hope it’s nothing serious and things turn out ok for you guys ❤️
Love both of your works! Please take time to focus on what's truly important! Wishing Wolfstar health and a speedy recovery <3
Who cares, you've got bigger things to worry about than the update, best of wishes 🥰
Your husband is most important, take care of both of you. I wish the best for you
Take care of y’all’s self, that’s more important Hope for the best
Don’t worry about the game right now. Support your husband. Take the time you need. We’ll be here when you get back. Wishing you and Wolfstar the best!
Don't worry about us, Dyne. The VN can wait. Stay with your husband as much as you can. This is the most important thing. Wish you both the best with all my heart.
Take care of yourselves and I hope fore the best. 🫂
I’m sorry to hear your husband has taken ill, I genuinely hope he gets better. Imo, take the whole month and or more off, I’d prefer you both rest and get better. Sending love xxx
Forget the update, Dyne. Just take care of what you need to take care of.
You know we're not going to care about the update when the situation is like this, mate. You do what you need to do and make sure you get enough sleep! With all the stress of this going on, don't neglect your own health as well!
Your husband's physical health and you're mental health takes all priority. I've been in a similar situation recently, being my fiancé's primary caretaker after his own medical emergency. A sudden change like that is hard for everyone involved. I hope his treatment is easy and his recovery quick, and that you get peace of mind soon. Even after everything's settled, focus on helping him recover and try not to spread yourself too thin. I know we haven't interacted much outside of my occasional comment, but if you need someone to talk to who understands what you're going through, feel free to message me.
Don't worry about the update at all, mate. Take care of your man first. He's your priority.
Dude, take all the time you need. You and Wolfstar are more important than the games. Please keep us posted on how he’s doing.
Don’t worry about the updates focus on your husband !!! It’s ok we can wait stuff always happens that we don’t expect. I hope everything goes ok and will keep you in my prayers 😇
Please, rest and don't worry about us, your health and your husband's comes first. We can wait
Take care of your husband, and yourself as well, it's better to be done with a clear mind over doing in a moment of stress.
I'll be thinking of you and your husband, I am so sorry : (
Agree with everyone else, updates can wait as long as you need, wishing you both the best of thoughts and hoping for a fast recovery ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
Gah Damn, I hope your mans gets better dude, take your time with the updates. He comes first over this stuff, and I hope our messages can assist you in staying strong in this situation.
Please do not...feel bad for this? You're extremely stressed and your husband is in the hospital. I can't imagine how stressed you are trying to be there for your husband and being concerned about all of us! We're okay! Be there with your husband! Honestly when you said you're "just playing the waiting game" I misread it and was happy you both weren't just sitting there worried! Please take the time to be there with him, we will be fine! I promise! And I wish you both all the best!
I’m so sorry to hear that mate *hugs* seriously take as much time you need, don’t worry about any updates lad as you and your husbands well-being is far more important, just look after you and Wolfstar lad and hopefully you’ll both have better results this time and get to go home and actually relax with each other. My hopes and thoughts are with you both.
Health. Comes. First. You're being more than transparent enough with us. We'll wait for you.
Its ok man take care of youself and your hubby! You work so hard on Spencer epilogue and you should take day off even if you have to rest until he fully recovered!
Take all the time you need Dyne, all that matters is you and your husbands health and wellbeing. Wishing you both all the best. *big virtual hugs* ❤️
Oh fuck, I sorry to hear about that, take care of your husband and make sure take care of yourself! Everything will be fine Dyne, we will always be here for you!
Wishing you both all the best! Hope he recovers soon :)
Good grief, who cares the update? Take good care of your husband and of yourself!❤️a big virtual hug
What matters is that your husband is safe take all the time u need and hopefully our patreon donations help u out
I'm so sorry to hear that things have been rough. Please focus on yourself and your husband first
Holy fuck, man... I hope the doctors take accountability for the botched biopsy, and if you need anybody to talk to about anything, you know where to find me
Hey man we get take all the time ya need, you and your hubbys health is more important than the update right now. Tell Wolfstar I hope he feels better soon
I'm so sorry to hear that and hope he recovers soon
Take care of yourself hunny we can wait you be safe and our prayers are with you