Some things you don't know about us...

Just really happy for you, yes to normalising BDSM or any other healthy outlets for that matter. Peace ✌️

OMG, that last clip of Riley on the can, hilarious. Sorry about the creepy guy outside your boat at 2am, he likely meant no harm but just has no clue about proper manners.

love the honesty!!! <3

I want to know who is the Dom - I bet it is Elayna

That BDSM caught me off guard

You showed that you care about the future of the planet when you gave Greta the lift over the Atlantic. Keep up the good work.

I was NOT expecting the bdsm but it does makes sense with you knowing how to tie ropes lol this is why you guys are my favorite

Haha! Loved how you just dropped the BDSM comment and kept it moving.

I guess I understand the marriage thing but there are logistical things to think about, for instance if one of you were hurt something horrible happened and were in the hospital because you’re not legally considered next of kin you will not be able to make any health decisions for each other. You can jump up and down and say I am the father of her children I’m the mother of his children but the law doesn’t care about that because you’re still not considered “next of kin“. Some hospitals won’t even let you in to see each other and any and all decisions will quite literally need to be made by either brothers, moms or dads or even cousins. My parents were hippies, big time, and they didn’t get married either and when I found out they weren’t married I was eight or nine years old and it was devastating to me for some reason, I don’t know why. He actually ended up getting married when I was about 12 years old because it really did bother me so much, again I have no idea why. While I understand scoffing at that tradition and legalities of marriage, there is something that changes when you get married, I know that after I married my life partner of 10 years it changed, for the better. I love you guys and will always support your beautiful little family, obviously it’s just my two cents take it or leave it. With all kinds of love and positive juju Tanya

Are you guys in Annapolis yet? Looking forward to hearing more about the Rapido..! Can’t wait..! 🙋🏼‍♀️❤️🕉🙏

Bdsm, huh? Now I don’t like you guys anymore. I quit patreon! Well…. OK. Im totally kidding! It was fun how casually you brought it up. I knew it would blow some people off the deck, tho! I love you guys! I love your open and free lifestyle! Those eyes of Lenny’s!!! They dazzle me! Jennie

New chapter: First video of Mom, Dad & Lenny going on a family adventure snorkel together! Plus Lenny driving the skiff! Love the tomato/tornado reference. Growing into a very cool kid right before your eyes!

Funny video guys, also little Lenny is getting really good at swimming!

Saw some weird comments about bdsm - it actually makes perfect sense to me. From what I know of you both. You both love adventure and intimacy and since real life is absolutely fun but also stressful, some good old fashioned fantasy that is rough and yet tender and safe would be the perfect outlet.

I absolutely LOVE you guys! If I wasn't already a Patreon I would be mow. Your honesty is wonderful.. You are both so brave - thank you SO much for sharing ALL the things you did on this episode you are both LEGENDS as Riley would say. Oh and you were all graceful getting in the tender, but gotta love the pizzas with which Riley did it. And loved the joke at the end. At first I was nervous it was real, but then I thought, "If Riley really was annoyed it would not have been added to the video" and then he started laughing and I was like "Ahh, ok good!" You are both wonderful and the kids are adorable!

I love your adventures & its always been good & educational fun to watch . Really taken a back by the BDSM thing. I have a rough time believing this. Can you please explain?

Also flip side of imposter syndrome is it makes you an absolute weapon, prob the reason your YouTube channel is so successful! It sucks to feel like that, but definitely not something to feel bad about. I feel it as well, it’s like I’m in an eternal state of confusion, but it’s nice when you get surprise good things come your way. You deserve it all, you’re not just lucky, you earned every bit of this! Hope it eases off now and then so you can relax properly 💗

Hahaha I always kinda thought that everyone was into BDSM behind closed doors and it was actually a super mainstream, normal thing, but maybe not based on these comments 😂

Great Video. Love how comfortable Lenny is in the water. Darwin will be joining him soon. Great to hear the technical details from Riley as well.

Fun fact; “I don’t care”

BDSM?! I really dont need to know about this. Keep it private.

Y'all really just blew over that BDSM fact lol!!! I literally cackled out loud

Best Darn Sailing Mama!!

Thanks for all the great videos Elayna. I always am educated and entertained with your wonderful filming. It must be a lot of work. Your little guys are a bright light. My"baby," is 26 now and I miss those days sometimes. Lenny is really getting,"IT," now. He is so accomplished with swimming and running the tender and explaining weather and life aboard. Such a joy.

BDSM!?

I LOVED the part with the toddler spewing science facts! I have always believed that common sense learning is the most valuable education, and your boys are getting it in spades. But Lenny swimming with the turtle and rays made me misty-eyed. He doesn't even realize how blessed he is. And his swimming is looking great! ☮️🚐🐶❤️

Insert here : Quip about the 5 most useful knots for "Sailing" .. 😉

I suggest the safe-word Hogfish, LOL.

Another wonderful video!!!!! Hope you're having a great week so far

Yes BDSM! I'm so intrigued!! I hope to one day be a sexologist and am dabbling in domme work. I'm all for this sort of shit!! Hope you guys are enjoying and exploring yourselves and each other 😜

Thanks for being vulnerable about the imposter syndrome. I too struggle with that. Also, for sharing the BDSM secret, love you guys more for that openness. This whole video just makes me connect to you more and appreciate your raw vulnerability that you share with us. Cheers to the next chapter!

Why do I feel like the casual BDSM drop followed by the projects behind the scene is gonna lead to a OF. I can't say id subscribe but anybody but anybody else thinking it!?

love the design Riles!

Now it makes much more sense why you and Lenny were on a plane on IG video a ways back but in Patreon videos were still in the Bahamas. It’s sad being celebrities now and all that goes with it like the 2AM visitors! It is scary. Please be careful. As for the rest, none of our business but we do like the Pirate costumes especially!

That was a good birthday present for me, getting a new episode!

Loved this video. I used to struggle and put unbelievable pressure on myself to “deserve” my blessed life. I think, with age, I realize it has taken hard work to get here and it’s ok to enjoy it!! Safe travels for you all!

I love watching Lenny talk about how the weather works and learning all of his boating skills. Best classroom ever

I don't know how you're engaging in BDSM play with all the people on the boat and you never sleep in the same room. You are doing some sneaky kink.

[09:20] BDSM... 11,500 SLV Patrons' brains singular reaction: Loud Screeching Sound Effect of Record - Scratch, then, "WAIT...Wha...Wha...WHAAAT?!??? -Tasteful "rope" shots behind the text, btw.

For some odd reason whenever I discover something new I think “could La Vagabonde use this?”… here are 3 things… 1. SeaSprouts (or any similar company) - grow fresh sprouts in jars with screen lids every 4 days! 2. Ethique (or any similar company) - solid bars of shampoo, lotions, conditioners, body washes, etc - so you don’t have a ton of empty plastic containers to dispose of! And 3. ThriveLife (or similar) - freeze dried food ingredients that stay viable for up to 20 years unopened and a couple of years once opened - so you always have any size stock of your fave veggies, fruits and proteins for times when you can’t get to a store for awhile! Even freeze dried scrambled eggs! Ok been meaning to tell you about them for awhile (I live on a Virgin Island so really appreciate all 3 of those things! Ahoy!

And just like that, on to the next run of adventures! Elay, remember to breathe, hold your own heart with as much love for yourself as you have for Riley, Lenny, and Darwin and the imposter syndrome will ease. You do deserve all this. And, a break now and again and forgiveness for yourself if things don’t go perfectly, are what we want for you and what your lovely self deserves. Sending lots of love to you and your beautiful family. xoxo and Safe travels!

BDSM???? Really???? You two???

Loved this video & loved learning more about you guys!! 🤍🤍

SMBD? You guys!?

Thanks for pulling back the curtain a bit. In such a public existence, I am quite sure your privacy (and safety) you hold very tightly. Like Toby Keith sang, "God is great, beer is good, and people are crazy" I have fought with imposter syndrome most of my life. It would be great to hear what helps you with it; I am always looking for answers. Thanks again, be safe, Godspeed

Love this video! I'm located south west of Annapolis! Maybe I'll see SLV in the bay! Safe sailing!

Glad you’re in my neighborhood… if I can be of any help, just let me know!