Sims 4 Disable Autonomous Chat Mod - Don't Talk to Me v1.05
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v1.05 Active Sim Bugfix - July 3, 2026
Fixed the first option to stop issues where Sims could not talk due to a bad test.
v1.04 Critical Fix - July 1, 2025
Fixed mod breakage due to Enchanted by Nature Pack Patch.
v1.03 Quick Fix - January 17, 2025
Found a way that Sims could get around rules.
v1.02 Quick Fix - July 26, 2024
Fixed an issue that prevented Sims from using the new Watch Sky interaction in Sims 4 Lovestruck.
v1.01 Quick Fix - June 13, 2024
Fixed an issue that prevented settings from saving.
Hi all! I saw some people asking for a mod that does something like this, so I tried to tackle a few different frequently reported issues with this mod.
Access options by shift-clicking your Sim with testingcheats on
It only cares about the currently active Sim, and all other Sims. 2 separate categories. It allows you to:
Stop the active Sim from firing off autonomous socials, or...
Block the active Sim from performing mean, funny, or romantic socials.
Other Sims can be stopped from talking to you at all, or...
Other Sims can be stopped from talking to you while your Sim is currently busy.
Other Sims can also be blocked from performing most if not all mean, funny, and/or romantic socials.
This all works on the fly, and exceptions have been made for special socials like chess that need to fire automatically regardless of these settings.
All socials you tell a Sim to perform can go through. It only cares about autonomous actions, so if you tell a Sim to do a thing then switch Sims those socials should still fire.
It also considers if you are in a chat at that time. So if you DO get into a chat with a Sim, they will be able to perform their own socials, but your Sim will not do anything without your permission.
Comments (15)
Need update like the rel cheats mod :'(
I have been using this for over a year and a good tool to stop cascading strings of dialogue, I came across in the past few months that this has failed to stop your active character from cascading when in full use since two updates ago and I noticed this. Potentially may need an update.
HOLY FUCK THANK YOU DUDE!! im so SICK of sims always wanting to talk to MY SIM LIKE FUCK OFF like i have 8 other sims in a house and they all want to only talk to my sim all the FUCKIN TIME LIKE SHUUUT THEEE FUCKK UPPP!!! im sooo happy you made this becuase sims piss me off being so damn CLINGY like back tf up DAYUMN
In regard to this part "Other Sims can also be blocked from performing most, if not all, mean, funny, and/or romantic socials.", does this apply only to NPCs who are interacting with my Sim, or also to all NPC-to-NPC interactions?
Will this mod allow me to tell my sim to "friendly introduction" 3 other Sims and have them just go introduce themselves and move on to the next sim?
"found a way that sims could get.." get what Carl? I'm on the edge of my seat! no but seriously I love your mods. Hope you're doing well.
I've been using this mod, but I noticed it doesn't seem to work anymore, possibly due to the recent patch updates. I'm curious if anyone else is experiencing the same issue or if it's just me. Any advice or insights would be greatly appreciated. Thank you, and great work on this mod, Carl!😊
YESSS!!!!!!
this looks great, very comprehensive and customisable, thank you!!
Hi, unfortunately, the mod does not work on version 1.108.349.1020 ( T _ T )
Hi was curious to know if this mod conflicts with mizoki in remove conversations mod by chance
Thanks so much, Carl! So I've been running a save with this now, and it runs great until I quit and load again - then I think what's happening, is that the game isn't looking at the .ini file with the switches. So everything is reset, even though the ini file is set with the settings that I want. Is there a way to make the game read your mod's ini file before loading in my sim family?
is this still happening for u
This could come in handy . Thanks so much, Carl 😊
This looks useful! Thanks, Carl! Hope you are doing well. We all appreciate your hard work. 🩷