This is hard to write. (Trigger warning)
I want to be open and transparent with you guys for once about something I’ve been dealing with privately. Before I say anything else, I’m sorry if this is triggering for anyone who has experienced domestic violence or abuse. I’ve made mods that touch on domestic violence and situations like this, but the truth is I’ve been hiding my own pain behind the scenes. I have been dealing with a domestic violence situation since January, and it has been one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to navigate. The most recent encounter was last night. I’ve been embarrassed. I’ve been sad. I’ve been confused. I’ve been angry. Some days I don’t even know what I’m supposed to feel or what I’m supposed to do next. It is extremely hard having so many people know me, support me, watch what I do, and enjoy what I create while having no idea what I’m personally struggling with when I close my computer and get off social media. I’m normally the person who keeps working, keeps posting, keeps creating, and keeps everything moving no matter what is happening in my personal life. Right now I’m realizing I have to give myself some room to actually deal with what I’m going through. I’m telling you guys this because I may be a little slower than usual while I work on getting my mental health back in order. Creating is how I make my living, and I still want to give you guys my best work. I don’t want to put things out just because I feel pressured to keep up a schedule when mentally I’m struggling to even figure out where I go from here. Being creative and being “on” all the time is hard when your real life is hurting this badly. I love you guys so much, and I appreciate the way this community has supported me and my work. Please bear with me while I try to get myself together. I’m trying. I really am. I don’t have some perfect ending to give you right now. I don’t know what happens next, and I feel extremely lost. I’m just trying to find the strength to keep creating, take care of myself, and make it through this one day at a time. If you pray, please send one up for me. I love you all.
JAYE-
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sending love and light 🫶🏾
Your strength and words are like none other. You are helping so people by bringing this to light and I pray someone reading this gains the strength to heal and move one from things harming or not serving them. I am forever grateful for your creativity and will always be patient.
We love you and thank for continuing to be transparent through your life’s journey. We all have our “things” that we experience from day to day but just know that talking about it and recognizing what’s happening is a huge step! I pray things continue to get better for you! You are an amazing creator and we appreciate your efforts of trying to maintain through your tough times. Take it one day at a time and you’ll one day see this issue in your rear view mirror! Thank You so much for all you do!!🙏🏽🙏🏽💕💕
I’m so sorry, and I’m sorry about that one person that demanded you help with mods in the chat when you’ve been dealing with this. I was too hard on them in the chat by telling them to show you some respect and knock it off. My best friend had to deal with similar so that’s why I was hard on them, but it’s no excuse for me being too hard. Is everything okay now? Do you need help leaving them?
I just recently realized, I could've been using mods and cc's this entire time that I have been playing sims. I've been player for a few years now, and your mods amongst others have not only elevated my gameplay but made the whole experience more enjoyable. I like the fact the I can create an entirely different world that I can escape to when real life gets too hard, whether it be a messier life or a life of grandeur. It's one that I, the player, get to control, which is a blessing I know many others value as well. Similar to you, I too have been going through my own DV situation since June, and one of the hardest things to do is leave. So, thank you for all that do in contributing to God knows how many others, safe places, whilst battling your own demons. It does not go unappreciated. ❤️
Blessings to you! so sorry that people have to be so evil to such wonderful souls. Praying for you!!! <3
I’m so sorry to hear that and I hope it gets better for you and you are free from that abuse ❤️🩹
Praying for your strength and Devine guidance to do what is necessary for you to embrce the plans God has for you. Jeremiah 29:11 NIV - For I know the plans I have for you,” Bible Gateway https://www.biblegateway.com › passage 11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
Take your time and heal. You deserve the peace that God intended for you to have. Be kind to yourself and give yourself grace.
Take your time. Healing is necessary. Be kind to yourself.
I literally just stumbled across your page but I don't believe it to be a coincidence. I too have suffered at the hands of the one I loved most and I can relate, I will carry physical scars forever but mentally I have been made anew by the power of the Lord and if you are not a believer then I would strongly recommend that you reach out to Jesus with an open mind and an earnest heart. Worst case scenario, nothing changes but best case scenario, everything changes. I will pray for you and add you to my prayer journal and have my household do the same. It doesn't matter who's against you when God is with you! God bless you, today, tomorrow and always.
Sending you a hugs and love 🫶🏾🫶🏾 please take care of yourself ❤️❤️
Please don't feel bad for sharing. I have been a victim of abuse correction survivor. I'm currently going through something myself but this isn't about me. If you need anyone to talk to I'm here if you need any resources I'm here
Please know you are kind,you are generous and you are beautiful! you deserve more than that. Girl Ive been in a DV relationship and it took almost 10 years to get out and therapy but i made it to the other side. We Love you and take care of yourself! Were all here for you!
Take all the time you need to heal. I’m sending many prayers to you and that God carries you through this healing journey! You’re resilient and anyone can see that from a mile away. Sending love & prayers 💕
Sending you love and light
prayers to you queen.
Jaye. All we need is a address boo. We ride at dawn. Seriously. But please please be careful. We love you and i pray for your healing and strength to leave or find out that pie recipe Madea be talking about. Praying for you love plzzzz leave
You have a beautiful soul, pray and continue to let God lead the way!! You got this.
I pray for your healing and peace while trying to navigate through this. Remember that you are strong, and you are better than any doubt or abuse that evil person has ever tried to place upon your light. You are a creator who can make things happen for this community, so I know you will be able to bring happiness and peace to your life. I'm so happy to see you taking charge and being bold with your life, and putting it out there. Your community supports you and wishes you nothing but the best. :)
Hi Jaye, you don't deserve to deal with any of this. You bring so much joy to our lives, and you deserve to feel the same joy. Don't let anyone dim your light. You deserve better
First, I want to thank you for taking the strength and courage to speak out. That is the first step. Please let us know if you need anything. As people have said below, take care of yourself. Reach out if you need help and remember because you spoke up, you are no longer alone, even if there are times when loneliness overwhelms you!!!
Be safe. No one deserves to be abused. Choose yourself king.
I'm sorry your going through this Jaye. Thank you for feeling comfortable enough to share with us. We love you and are praying for your strength and guidance. 🫶🏾🙏🏾
We love you, you are not alone! Take all the time you need 🫶🏽
Omg boo just take whatever time you need. I have been there before and I know the battle you go through in your head. You have been one of the brightest spots in the modding community and you will continue to be that. We love you!! 💝💕✨🤩🫶
**Virtual Hugs** You are such a sweet soul, and I want you to know that your mental health is the most important thing right now. You are brilliant, but the ppl who love and support you want you to be your best self. Prayers up for you, Boo. xoxo
I am a new follower, I am sorry you are going through this, I can relate... I hope you are able to find peace, healing, and take care of your mental health. No one should have to go through this. Stay safe, sending loving healing vibes your way!
I had a feeling.. Im new to sims VERY NEW.. youve been my main mods in my game.. just seeing the mods, the names, the descriptions, the things my sims talk about.. i knew it was deeper than just glits and glams.. We love you! bad bad too. dont rush back to us , we will ALWAYS be here. you are more than enough and you deserve what you give baby! dont settle for anything else cause you see the potential in anyone <3 love you moot
this is definelt something hard to deal w
We will pray for you, but don't try to go through this alone, seek help to have the strength to leave, to go away. Take care of yourself now! Big kiss, God bless
Awwww @JayESims I am truly sorry you are going through this. I pray you find the strength to choose you. Take all of the time you need to get yourself together. We will be here when you return. Sending plenty of prayers and hugs. Be safe and stay blessed.
Thank you for sharing this with us, can’t have been easy. Please take the time you need to, look after yourself and then some. Sending strength, love, comfort and light to you. 🫶🏾
@JayESims, please, please, take care of yourself first. We can wait for your work.
Hunny there is NOTHING more important than YOU right now. I stand with you as a survivor myself and a daily advocate for other domestic violence victims. I pray for you and we will be here. Thank you for your bravery!!
The first step of healing and getting your power back is just what you did...say it out loud. We give power to those who hurt us by keeping quite. SQUAWK like a bird. Snatch back your strength and tell them to bring it! I wish someone had said this to me during my time. Instead I stayed quiet and pretended everything was fine. Then when I told when I broke free they didn't believe me. Nope...I no longer do that. We are fighting if anyone ever puts a finger on me. So you have this platform and you have everyone on it who believes in you. Now you continue to believe in you....
Sending you strength and virtual hugs!!! Take the time you need to get you in order. You cant pour into anything you do with an empty cup.
I've experienced all of this more. Did you know there are five steps of trauma that begin as a child..if your abused that young. This changes you. Huh! School? Those kids have no clue what your life is like and you don't want to be there because your mind has been injured. Onward..you enter a relationship/marriage that is just more of what you grew up experiencing. You are different despite what anyone says. The emotions take you to another level of life where you just try to survive mentally. Like simming. It's an outlet. I know the shame and embarressment, especially when the abuse becomes so regular that your treated like crap in front of others and talk down to. I'm so sorry and I understand. I'm a survivor of abuse from to now...55 yrs. One day I'd had enough seeing the look on the faces of my son's..I finally made that call and he went to jail. Surprisingly that and angermangement classes court ordered..helped me. He has never touched me again. Yep I'm still with him. Married 37 yrs now, but that little glimpse into love I experienced as a young girl is gone. I'm going to pray for you and start a prayer chain through my church. If you would like someone to just text or chat who knows..here is my info. Monica. 903-690-0628
It takes alot to be this vulnerable and share. As others have said, please take care of yourself first and ensure that you’re mentally and emotionally and physically safe. Your safety and wellness are most important
JAYE I’m so sorry you have been treated horribly. I pray you’re safe and get the assistance you need. Please take your time and get plenty of rest.
We love u so much & im so sorry u went thru this. Sending my love & prayers to u ❤️
You need to leave, no matter what they say, no matter how much they apologize or say the right things, the situation will not change. Your heart will heal Take care
I’ve only recently just became a fan but I want to say, you are such a wonderful person and I’m so sorry you are dealing with this. Please take the time to heal and pour into yourself as you do unto others , you deserve it.
You are loved and appreciated
jayyee - Nothing can describe how you feel. I'm going to say this without digging to deep or writing to much. Please let your emotions, thoughts and feels flow freely. No one truly understands unless you've been there and unfortunately I have. You are not alone. It's not your fault. Feel free to reach out if need be. You know we're here. Much love - Carter
Much love and support!!
First of all, I hope you're in a physically safe space. I know that resources that are supposed to help can be woefully inadequate in situations like this. Second, I want you to know that you did not do anything to deserve this and it is not your fault that this happened. You're in the midst of it right now, but this is only one page of your story and it is not going to define you. Wishing you safety and time to recover in the short term, and healing in the long term
*Virtual hug* Sending love your way.
I am so sorry that this is happening to such a beautiful soul like yours, we love you. I love you, the support is never ending over here and I hope you are able to heal as best as you can from this. Trauma is real and not giving up nor giving no mind to any situation is no help. Please take the time for yourself, people who truly love you, and, more specifically, your overall mental wellness. See you later boo💕
Take the time you need, your health and wellbeing comes first always, sending a hug and strength to you 🫂hoping everything can go better soon and you can be safe 💕
I'm so sorry to hear that you going thru that, you take as much time as you need. Mental health should always come first.
Take the time that you need to process and recouperait, you deserve to be happy and healthy, I pray you come back on your time and when you’re ready ❤️
im a domestic violence victim to my husband tried to kill me ,im sorry n ii understand im here for u im praying to for u healing and positive vibes
OMG...boo. I overstand how you feel...I was in a DV marriage for 16 years. It took every ounce of strength in me to pull myself together and go. I withdrew from the world, so I know what you're going through. You take the time you need for you...we'll ALWAYS, always be here for you.
I’m sorry 😢
I usually don't comment...however, I wanted to say thank you for sharing your story. I'm so sorry that you're going through all this. (not to make this about me) I was in a situation not exactly like this but a line was crossed with somebody I trusted a few months ago. I was mad at myself and felt embarrassed for how I handled it. I can only imagine what youre going through. I think I speak for everyone when I say, your mental health is SO important. Please take all the time you need. Sending you love and cyber hugs !
We understand and I am sorry that you are going through such thing, take the time that you need. You will thrive very soon and good things will come, again I am sorry you're going through that.
we love you nd take all the time you neeed. I hate this my heart is hurting for you genuinely and you are so strong but now its time for you to put yourself first like you said.You have made a solid family, we got you!
This makes me cry while reading this omg 😢 Thank you for sharing this 💕 I appreciate for all the hard work you have done for us and I completely understand you need to stand back and care take of urself. Mental health always comes first. I’m so sorry ur going through this 🥺 I love you Jaye ❤️
You are precious to God ! STAY STRONG!!!
Please take good care of yourself! We are here for you, you are not alone.
Self preservation and healing comes BEFORE what you contribute to ANY COMMUNITY. Sending a prayer for clarity, direction, strength and healing your way.
Praying for your safety and mental health <3
Praying for you! You deserve better, love!
Praying for you! Take the time you need to. Rember someone who loves you will never hurt you! Keep your head up an choose you and remove them! LOVE YOU AND YOUR CONTENT
I'm so sorry that you are going through this !! Remember you are strong and you can overcome anything!!
You need to get away from the source of the violence and file a report with the police. That's why the law was written.
I'm sorry you going through all this. I know I'm helping my daughter through this as well. Take your time and heal and i will keep you in prayer
where I need to pull up at? Love you Jaye <3
Please take all the time you need for yourself and mental health. You are an amazing creator and human overall. No one deserves to go through such hellhole. I hope you are able to heal during this difficult time. Sending love and hugs.
I'm proud of you. For bringing it to attention. Trust me, I have been where you are and I kept denning it until it got bad. Please take care of you first and foremost. You need to have a plan to get out.
dv survivor here, it’s been 6 yrs since i got out but i swear it still haunts me. i’m so so sorry you went through it, thank God you’re still here. take all the time you need, please take care of yourself 🫂
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. This too shall pass. I’m praying for you and sending you love. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
So sorry you’re going through this, you don’t deserve this at all. Please please take care of you first; we will be okay !!
Please take all the time you need! Sending you love ❤️
Do what ever you need to do but most importantly, pack a go bag, with some money, important documents, a weeks worth of clothes and what ever else you need. Be ready to go when it is time. If you have already left, or put them out, then perfect, just remember when you start to miss them, there is a reason it is over. If you have not gotten out of the situation yet, keep that go bag ready and reach out to anyone who can help you leave at a moments notice. If you need to, Google national coalition against domestic violence. They can help. They helped me when my go bag and I needed help. Take care of yourself and your members will be here when you are ready.
i loveee youuu , sending loveeeeeee
I will be praying for you, and I hope you get out of that situation soon.
I just recently became aware of you and your content and a new supporter. The time doesn't matter though, I want you to know you and your life matters. I'm so sorry you are going through this and I will most definitely pray for you. You are beyond talented but please take care of yourself FIRST and get the help you need. We will still be here to support you.
Been in that position almost my whole life. I get it, it's not easy. You worry about taking care of you and I do mean you as a whole. Remember that you have so many people who love you even if they never met you. I will be sending prayers. Take what time you need. We love you Jaye!
I’m so sorry Jaye please take care of yourself and take all the time you need! So thankful you are still with us 🫶🏽
I can't even imagine how hard all this is for you but sending all the good energy and support your way. remember to be gentle with yourself
We appreciate all your hard work, and we understand that you have to take care of yourself first. We would rather you do that than try to satisfy our wants. As a person who has also experienced this trauma, I can tell you that it will get better. It does take time, but we are also here to show love & support. Many blessings!!
Please take the time you need to care for yourself. And be safe ❤️
Jay, I just want you to know how incredibly brave you are for sharing this. You never owed any of us an explanation, especially while you’re trying to survive something so painful, but I hope you know that there is absolutely nothing for you to be embarrassed about. As someone who has experienced abuse myself, I know how complicated it can be the confusion, the anger, the hurt, the questioning yourself, and trying to keep functioning like everything is normal while your life behind closed doors feels anything but normal. Getting to the other side can take so much strength, and sometimes that strength looks like simply making it through today. Please give yourself the same grace that you have given so many of us through your work. Your mods can wait. Patreon can wait. We can wait. You matter more than a release schedule. And please don't measure your strength by whether you have everything figured out right now. You don't need to know what happens next today. Speaking your truth was brave. Asking for grace was brave. Choosing to take care of yourself is brave. I’ll absolutely be keeping you in my prayers. I pray for your safety, your peace, your healing, and for the day when you can look back and realize just how far you made it. Take care of you, Jay. We’ll still be here.
sending you love & light 🫶🏾 no one deserves this. I hope you take the time you need to heal. no apologies needed, we will be here 🧡
I love you Jaye🥺💔
❤️🤗
I am so sorry that you are going through this, I will keep you in my prayers
Thank you for sharing and I do understand. I wish you a peace of mind and love that you’ve been wanting. I wish you genuine kindness and rare couture. Bisou bisou
Spirit of the living God fall deep in this place and meet me in this chat as only you know how. I thank you in advance for dispatching your angels to Jay and expeditiously liberating him from this situation! Thank you for giving him an instantaneous knowing in his heart that reminds his just how swiftly you can move on our situation! Download the divine plan into his mind that facilitates the easiest, most safe, effortless, and loving transition out of this situation and into the paradise that you have created for him. Give him the faith in the midst of the fear. Discernment in his movements. Safety in his transition and peace beyond all understanding! Thank you Heavenly Father for the Holy Spirit that helps whenever we call no matter the place! In Jesus name I pray! Amen! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Take care of yourself. . Take a break breathe and come back . We will all still be here to support you every step of the way
Sending love ❤️
It really saddens me that you are going through that. Take all the time you need. Take care of you, luv.
Oh my, I’m sending you prayers. 😢🙏🏿
I am so sorry you are going through this Jay. Nobody deserves to deal with this. I’m praying for you, your mental health and your life. Please please please get away from this person. We don’t want nothing happening to you. Please take care of yourself. Your supporters will be here waiting for you🫶🏽🫶🏽
praying for you, and a strengthened mindset to leave this situation, and dangerous person. You deserve so much better in life, and you deserve to be treated like a human with respect, we all do! Don't ever allow someone or anyone tell you different. Let your light shine bright, and do what you want to do, we only get this one life to live.
I myself have been in this situation domestic violence is real!. I have had numerous police reports and nothing was done he continued the abuse until I had to stop him unfortunately by other means. I am so sorry you are going through this and I hope and pray that you get the help that you need to leave this situation. I am praying for you.
dam ive been though same thing near all my life take care of yourself and dont let things get to you if anything and you need help or being targeted again goto the police right away but ifthey tre come attack you at home dpp pne thing try call 999 or something right away
Praying for you hun. Take the time you need to get you together. We love what you create but we love the creator as well 🌸
To the lovely Jayesims , you do not owe us anything, I am so sorry you are going through this,I appreciate everything you do for us ,please take care of yourself,please you need to cry ,scream,yell, or just need a moment to let everything out that is completely okay, please know that I am praying you,and to the JayeSims Fans we ride at dawn for Jaye,May the" person " that did this to you get exactly whats coming to them and i say person in quotes because they are no person if they do something like that to someone .
I’m so sorry that you are going through this. I pray you get the help that you need. Just know you are loved and cared about outside of that relationship. You are an amazing human being.
Hi I pray God provide protection and comfort. I pray He cover you and heal the wounds we see and those we don't. Take care of yourself and know you are worth more and do not deserve that. Love does not cause harm. It is kindness, patientence, understanding, and grace. Know there is freedom and relief on the other side. Take it from someone thats been there and took too long to leave. If i can find peace and freedom you can too❤️
Sorry to hear this is happening to you! I respect and appreciate your transparency only strength is within that. We love the HELL out of you no matter what, so we here no matter what. Take all the well needed time as you should, its not easy but i promise you it will get better. Make calm and calculated decisions from the heart while remaining strong and things will shift in your favor. Stay blessed with strength and wisdom my friend as you are and return when the time is right for you and no one else. On Love
So sorry that u are going through this. I am also a DV survivor. Just know that I am praying for your strength and that you will come out of this situation a stronger person💜💯
Jaye, From the BOTTOM of my heart, and every fiber in my being, I just want to tell you that I am glad you spoke up about this. I have been through DV in my personal life, and always felt it was my fault.. until someone got through to me that it was not. Thank you for speaking out about such a difficult and personal thing, because people need to know it's not "normal" for anyone to go through this (I used to assume everyone else went through it but said nothing, like I did, because we were in the "wrong"). The FACT that you are sharing this shows just how absolutely how strong you truly are, whether you know or believe it or not. I pray that you are blessed abundantly, and that you stay safe. I was sad to think that your light could be dimmed by someone else's anger and violence; yet as I type realize.. it will be this post that shows you and ALL around you, how TRULY strong, and amazing you are! Just know, we do not physically need to meet to befriend each other, or for me to care about you as I do. I will continually pray for you, and am currently sending virtual hugs, because even though you are strong enough to deal on your own, it's ALWAYS good to KNOW there are people in the world that care you are in it... and I do! Be blessed my friend. May God be with anyone dealing with these kinds of situations... stay strong, allow yourself time to grieve the relationship, and heal. Sorry for the novel; it's truly my heart in a message.
Take whatever time you need to get yourself in a safe space mentally and physically. No one who brings so much joy and happiness to others should be treated so horribly. We will be here for you regardless of the content you provide. Know that is true. Be safe!
I'm so sorry you're going through this. ☹️☹️ I've been where you are and I know how hard it is and how much it hurts. Take all the time you need love!! We will all be here when you get back! We just want YOU to be okay. Don't worry about us. Just worry about getting yourself better. WE LOVE YOU!! ❤️
Sending you so much love Jaye! Please take care of yourself and don't feel pressured to create when you're dealing with real life issues. Please be safe. I'm so sorry you are going through this. Love you so much🫶🏾
Take all the time that you need jaye we love you and support you always love 🫂🫂🫂
Please put you first! You don't hae to be with a person that does not value you enough not to hurt you physically! Take care!
Jay you're a beautiful soul love💜💜💜 Not only through the work/art that you do with TS4 but it has always showed...you have always been open with us and you don't have to but you do and that what keeps us here with you and trust you love We care and love you Jay....we're praying for you and we're here for your healing journey 💜💜💜
Jaye, this really broke my heart to read. As someone who has enjoyed and supported your work, I just want you to know that you never have to feel guilty for stepping back and choosing yourself. We see ur work, the creativity, and everything you give to the community, but behind all of that you’re still a real person going through something incredibly painful. Please don’t feel like you have to keep creating just to keep us happy. Your safety, your healing, your peace, and your mental health are worth so much more than any update or release. The people who truly support you will understand and will still be here whenever you’re ready. I’m praying that God covers you, protects you, gives you clarity, strength, peace, and the right people around you while you navigate this. You deserve to feel safe. You deserve to feel loved without fear or pain attached to it. Take all the time you need and give yourself the same grace you give everybody else. Your community loves what you create, but please remember that we care about the person behind the creations too. Sending you so much love and praying for better days ahead. 🤍🙏🏽
i hate u have to go thru this jay i pray god gets u thru this healing journey this isnt ur endng its ur beginning to ur new better lifee ughhh heres a* internet hug* take as much time as u need king
I am so sorry that you're going through this. I went through it and I don't wish this on anyone. I send you prayers for strength and healing. You take all the time you need to get you through it; this is journey and it's not going to be an easy one, but I hope that it gets easier as time goes on. sending lots of love.
Please take care of you. Don't worry about us. Take the time you need. I'm so sorry this happened to you.
❤️ please take your time and take care of you!! Sending you love, positivity and most importantly strength!
OMG !! Jayyy take all the time you need we understand I hate that you're going through this. No one deserve this type of energy around them we are here for you cousin JAYESIMS CREW LETS RIDE!!!!!!!!!!!! LOVE YOUUUU DOWN
Sending you love and prayers. ❤️🙏🏽 I hope things get better for you soon. Stay strong and take care of yourself.
Sending all love and healing your way.❤️
hey jaye, im sorry you’re going thru this. I’ve been thru it; all i can say is that it does eventually get better even tho u feel like your world is crumbling. even with the random waves of sadness or triggers, it’ll take time, but you’ll get there, i promise. take all the time you need. 🤍
Take all the time you need. Sending prayers for you stay strong boo
Sending extra light and love your way. Thank you for being so courageous and sharing with us - I know it isn't easy. 💕
I'm so sorry Jay, no one deserves to experience this. Please take as long as you need, we love you and we appreciate your work. But we love you first, your work second.
Sending you lots of love!! Praying for you!!! 🙏🏾❤️
i am so so sorry. sending so much love!
Please be gentle with yourself and take all the time you need. No one deserves to go through this
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Please give yourself all the time and space you need—your safety, peace, and well-being come before creating anything for us. You don’t owe anyone an apology or explanation. Sending you so much love, strength, and prayers as you navigate this one day at a time. ❤️🙏🏾
I don’t know you personally, but I’ve been following and loving your content for a while, and I just wanted to say that I’m really glad you chose to be open about what you’re going through. You don’t have to apologize for needing to take a step back. We love what you create, but you are so much more important than the content you give us. Taking care of yourself isn’t letting anyone down. If anything, I hope you give yourself permission to put yourself first right now, even if that means disappointing people or being slower than usual. Your community can wait. Your wellbeing can’t. And please don’t feel ashamed or embarrassed about what’s happening to you. I can’t imagine how difficult and confusing it must be to live through something like this and not know what comes next. But telling people, even if it feels scary or vulnerable, was incredibly brave. You don’t need to have everything figured out right now. I know I’m just a stranger on the internet from the other side of the world, but I really hope you know that what you shared matters. I hope there are people around you who can support you and, most importantly, that you can find a way to be safe. You deserve support, peace, and a life where you don’t have to constantly wonder what’s going to happen next. Please take it one day at a time. We’ll still be here when you’re ready. 🤍
I love you so much!! Please take all the time you need, we’ll be here for you always 🥺🖤🖤
Praying for you no ones deserves this type of treatment or love. Yes it’s hard to over come situations like this but you will make it thru we are here to support you, we are here for you to vent to, to cry with etc. we love you jay and will be here when you are ready to return
praying for you love ❤️🙏🏽 take as much time as need , your mental health is important i love you and will always support you 🩷🥺
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Please remember: you did nothing to deserve abuse, and you don’t have to face it alone. You are worthy of safety, peace, and a life where you can be yourself without fear. Take things one step at a time, and reach out to someone you trust when it’s safe to do so. I’m rooting for you. 🤍
Sending all the love and hugs your way. 🙏🏾
same take all time you need Jay mental health is very important
i'm a DV survivor, i got out in 2019. please please take all the time you need, you and your happiness and health come first. i don't know if you have plans to get out, but i hope you do or already have. as well documenting any abuse. i'm sure you know this, but my inbox is always open. if you ever need it. i'm sending you so much love and support your way. you are strong, please remember that. no matter what. you are strong.
Sometimes it’s hard love you don’t have to worry about content right now you built a fan base and that’s not going anywhere because it’s stronger than you think focus and things that can do even if it’s small i never experienced dv but I know mentally what it’s like so please don’t be afraid to talk care of yourself ☺️
Praying for your strength and guidance - without working on your mental it’s impossible for anyone to expect anything from you - especially creatively ! Although I’m swinging at the air in my head as I’ve waited for that friend trip mod since last month to drop lmao - i know life is real and ive been exactly where you are , it ain’t easy but its absolutely possible to get through . Even if its behind a computer - WE ARE HERE 🫂
Omg Jayyyyy 😭🥺 I’m so sorry baby omggg
Jaye, I don’t have anything deep and meaningful to say to you, just wanted you to know we love you and we are with you whatever it is you need to heal. You have nothing to be embarrassed about. Take care, hope you’re safe and surrounded by as much love and support offline as you have with us online xx
Praying for you hun! You got this! That person will get their karma! Do what you need to do feel sane!🩷🩷
Thank you for your transparency although you don't owe that to this audience! You are loved and supported, creator or not. Please, take care of you, firstly! I want to see JayESims, "the person", survive and live well. We can do without the creator for a while. Trust! Love on you! Sending you love, prayers, and well wishes for every step of your journey to healing. Be blessed🫶🏾
Omg I’m so sorry you’re going through this. We appreciate you so much and everything you do for us! Take all the time you need, none of us are going anywhere. Sending prayers and love your way Jaye 🫶🏼
Omg babe I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this! Please know you’re loved and not alone! Love you babe!!🫶🏻🫶🏻🩷🩷
I’m sorry you had to go thru this, we by your side no matter what ❤️ take all the time you need to heal. You mean more to us then just you’re content ❤️❤️
sending you prayers and love, please take care of yourself 💕
Sending all the love and positivity ✨
Its okay boo! Take all the time you need. ❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Sending you love and hugs.. Hate you’re going through this… Take care of you!!!
Praying for you! You are so strong! ❤️
Take all the time you need. As someone whose been in this situation as well it does get better we love you and will continue to support you through it all. 🥹🩷
I love you. Thank you for supporting me through it all.
please take care of yourself physicaly , mentality and especially spritualy. get a reading from someone you can trust and get your power back . You're to talented and kind to be subjected to this treatment!
