MUST READ - A Letter From Jaye
Hey Mod Haus Family
I just want to take a moment to tell you how much I truly love and appreciate every single one of you. Your support, your energy, and the way you ride with me through everything means more than you’ll ever know.
The 7th and 8th are always heavy days for me in October— this week marks the second anniversary of my father’s passing. If I seem a little moody, quiet, or not my usual self, this is why. On the flip side, if you catch me being SUPER talkative or extra engaging, that’s also just me leaning into joy and choosing happiness. I honestly don’t know how I’ll feel day to day this week, so please be kind and patient with me.
If you see anyone rushing me or being a little mean, please remind them this week is hard for me. Normally I can hold my own, but this week… I need y’all to hold me down the way I always try to hold you down.
I love you all so much. Thank you for being my safe space and for giving me a family here.
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We are so proud of you and I’m so sorry for your loss
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I’m so sorry to hear about your father‘s passing. I understand it’s been about a year, but I lost almost my whole family except for my mom my dad and some of my cousins and one I only have one aunt left the rest of them are in heaven
We got you Jay
Sending you love and positive thoughts always <3
Sending you so much love. My mom just passed on October 8th of this year so I understand this so much.
I lost my dad on October 8th, myself, but a really long time ago. I was 13 when he died. I want to say it gets better, but I feel like it just... changes. I knew I wanted the chance to mourn and grieve every year but I have always struggled with what to do. I tried going to the mausoleum where he chose to be put behind a plaque with his name on it but it was an awful experience and I didn't feel close to him at all. The carpet was moldy and there was a large collection of dead flowers directly underneath. I'm trying to think of places we used to go together but our regular haunts are all gone now. The only thing that stuck is how we always got a donut on Fridays after school to talk about our week and that always made me feel special. So I eat a donut in his memory but I wish I could think of more to do. Because you're right, sometimes that time of year sneaks up and you don't even know why you're a mess until you realize the date. I know everyone's relationship with their father is different and special and how we left things at the end is different, too. However, I know the pain of losing that tall, big presence and deep voice that used to be so familiar and now is just gone. What I've told my friends when they lose someone is to recognize how lucky their loved one was. We all die sometime. But some people die with no one missing them. You miss your dad because he deserved to be missed. And he may not agree to let you spend time mourning every year, but it does him honor to be missed like that and anyone should be grateful to have a son who cares enough to do so. I don't know if that helps you but that's what comforts me and I hope you can feel in your bones the truth of it, like I have. You're an amazing modder and a sweetheart as a person. Your dad did a good job, and may he rest assured he raised a loving, loyal child into adulthood the likes of which we desperately need more of.
My condolences. Thank you for all you do for the Sims community. You are loved.
Love you Jay thank you for being great always love friend
My condolences, may God bless you, comfort and keep you!
We love you and take it one day at a time! ❤️
you got this :)
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Sending lots of love your way<3
sending my condolence and lots of love.
Sending you lots of love and good energy this week!! Love you too boo 🥹🖤🖤
sending you love and hugs friend
Sending you peace love and light
sending you hugs and well wishes JayE we love you!
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Internet hug 🫂💗
bless you,take your time,we love,give yourself grace.i ask godd to put angels all around you.and ask him to strengthen you through this trying time 💕❤️📿
We gotcha! Sending tight hugs and love your way 🩵
We got you 🫂🤗🥰
Gotchu!!
Love and prayers hun. Be patient with yourself 🩷
Sending love and prayers your way!! 🤍🤍
Sending infinite love your way, Jaye! Take care of yourself. 🤍🤍🤍🤍
Sending lots of love and deepest condolences. I hope this day is filled with happy thoughts of the good times you shared with your father. His memory is everlasting within you and will keep his legacy alive 💛💛💛
Praying for you!
all love your way 💝💝
Sending love, condolences, and continued black excellence to you and your loved ones 🩷🩷 we gon hold you down regardless!
sending love
please check your dms babe.
May the universe wrap its arms around you during this time. Love you long time!
Sending you all my condolences ❤️
sending love, it's never easy losing a parent
Sending ❤️ and I am sorry for your loss.
I’m so sorry for your loss….its coming up on the 2nd year of my dad’s passing. Praying for you 🙏🏻
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be kind to yourself <3
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