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September 17, 2025

Self-Care Trait 🫧🛁v1.0

I've wanted to release this mod over a year ago, but it's finally out yaaay!! This mod is for all my self-care people! Spa day is my favorite game pack. I love when my Sims do yoga or go to the spa venue, so I felt maybe a little self-care trait would be nice for us!

THERE'S A CAS TRAIT OPTION OR A REWARD TRAIT OPTION (PICK WHICH ONE YOU WANT TO DOWNLOAD)

XML INJECTOR IS REQUIRED

Self-Care Trait comes with 100 wants (I wonder if it's possible if a sim will be able to complete all the wants in a lifetime lol), 50+ buffs (includes a custom fulfillment buff), notifications, 4 computer interactions, 4 journal interactions, 6 social interactions (4 custom interactions for self-care trait sims, 1 custom interaction for non-self-care sim to a self-care sim and 1 EA interaction unlocked at Spa Venues)

V1.0 of the mod prioritizes self-care and self-love aspects.

PACKS THIS TRAIT NEEDS: Spa Day, Parenthood (journal interaction and volunteer want), Discover University / Business and Hobbies (skill class want), Seasons (set new years resolution/jump a puddle want), Growing Together (friendship bracelet and hiking want), Life and Death (complete bucket list goal), Vintage Glamor (makeup want), Get Famous (get your makeup/hair done want), City Living (blow bubbles want) and Snowy Escape (go to onsen lot and hiking want)

RECOMMENDED MODS: Cepzid "Everyday Clutter Items become functional", Let's Get Fit pack, Cepzid nail polish & perfume tray hairspray mod, Ellesimworld Lofi Station, Mizore Yukii broom mod + podcast mod. Thank you so much y'all for allowing me to include these interaction in certain wants!

Tutorial for visual learners: (I will release it SOON)

How does the mod work?

Go to CAS, and under the lifestyle section, the self-care trait will be there, or go to the rewards store and purchase the reward for 9 satisfaction points!

Your Self-Care sim will then get wants surrounding their trait and the instruction is in the want itself. I will list the custom wants with this mod in its own post soon because it is too much to list here LMAO~

Some of the wants:

1. Drink Tea

2. Offer a Sim a Face Mask

3. Wants for the interactions I made (social and object)

4. Yoga

5. Makeup & Beauty (Includes Cepzid's mods)

6. Set a schedule

7. Workout / Go Hiking

8. Spa (nails, massage, candle, incense, face mask, meditate)

9. Declutter

10. Watch a show

11. Take a selfie

12. Listen to music and podcast (Includes Mizore Yukii podcast and Elle's Lofi mod)

13. Read a book

14. Volunteer / Donate

15. Practice deep breathing

16. Eat dessert

17. Apologize / Forgive yourself

18. Pay Bills/ Create Budget Plan

19. Buy yourself flowers

20. Moonbathe/ Sunbathe / Lounge

Some of the wants above will give you a special fulfillment buff about how they have poured into themselves. Next post you will see the rest of the wants!

Your Self-Care sim will have 4 interactions in the friendly category with its own pie menu
The four interactions are:

1. Talk About Your Love for Self-Care

2. Talk About the Benefits of Self-Care

3. Talk About the Misconception of Self-Care

4. What’s Your Favorite Self-Care Activity?

The first three will have buffs for the main sim and the recipient. The last interaction will have a notification pop up with the self-care sim having a buff

There is a "Compliment Yoga Pants" interaction that is unlocked with a buff for ALL sims with any trait and the recipient will have a notification. This interaction is an EA interaction from Spa Day pack and now your sim can do this with anyone in the Spa Venue.

There's a special interaction that non-self-care sims can ask a sim with the self-care trait and it's "Why is Self-Care So Important to You?" (under the friendly category, small talk pie menu), the main sim will get a buff and the self-care sim will give your main sim a notification with a story response.

In the future, I plan to add special interactions between two self-care sims like talk about skincare or goals..etc. For now, the interactions will come off like a self-care sim talking to a non-self-care sim.

There are four journal interactions:

1. Write Affirmations

2. Write Gratitude

3. Address Your Limiting Fears

4. Read Affirmations and Gratitude

The journal interaction comes with a Self-Care pie menu. The last interaction will pop up only if you WRITE in your journal. Think of how relive memories interaction only shows up after your sim wrote in their journal. Each interaction comes many different buffs!

There are four computer interactions:
1. Write Affirmation (writing category)

2. How to Romanticize Your Life? (web category)

3. Create a Vision Board (web category)

4. Create a Budget Plan (web category)

Write Affirmation buffs are the same ones as the journal buffs. I just felt it was a nice add on to write it on your pc too. I've got mine on my phone, pc... everywhere tbh lol! Each interaction has buffs.

Please note that I have lowered the buff weight (got some feedback some time back and trying to incorporate it on future mods), so it won't be too strong especially negative buffs will usually have +1. I'm so happy this mod is out now after working on it since July! If you see any errors like an icon or something, please tell me. If a want isn't completing for you, try ui cheats mod to complete it by right clicking the want for now and contact me so I can look into it.

Please take care of yourself and I hope this mod makes you happy. Don't be shy to share your thoughts on a future updates you'd like to see. I already listed around 30, but the more the merrier yassss

The mod is currently in early access.
Please consider joining a tier you’re most comfortable with ✨

Mars 🔥

Join today & download today (Sept 17th)

Mercury 🫧

Join today & download it a week from now (Sept 24th)

Moon 🌙

Join today & download it 2 weeks from now (Oct 1st)

Free Members 💫

Join today & download it 3 weeks from now (Oct 8th)

EARLY ACCESS POST
Public Download will be available October 8th ♥

Brazilian Translation

Brazilian Translation

Ukrainian Translation

Russian Translation

Two talented amazing Brazilian translators translated the mod, so please download any of which, but not both

Credits

Thank you Cepzid, Mizore Yukii and Ellesimworld for allowing me to incorporate your mods
For one interaction, I used this article as a reference: 8 Areas of Self Care and How to Practice Them
ImTashaMonet taught me RWL ♥
DanitySimmer is an amazing teacher who helped me start modding 🫂

Thank you to my friends who tested ily 💕
Sims 4 Studio/Lot 51 tuning builder/ Zerbu Mod Constructor/ XML Injector/ Tmex Better Exceptions/ Nisa Tuning Error Notifier & EA/The Sims

Thank you for all your support!

Sending lots of love and positive vibes,
Sasha 

DOWNLOAD CAS OR REWARD TRAIT OR IT WILL CONFLICT

For any modder who wants to translate any of my mods, I don't mind if you upload it on your Patreon or any other website that monetizes, BUT I do not want you to post it on CurseForge. I would also like it if you keep the mods up publicly for download no early access or paywall

Comments (40)

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LunaBloom · August 12, 2026

Oi Sasha, bom dia! Amo seus mods. São criativos e inteligentes. gostaria de saber se esse é compatível com a atualização mais recente do jogo e se não for um problema, gostaria de saber se posso ter acesso a tradução em português. Infelizmente uma das paginas de tradução não esta ativa e a outra não esta disponível para download gratuito. Por favor, continue com seu excelente trabalho. Você vai longe! Obrigada por tornar minhas noites mais divertidas. um abraço 🤗

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Sasha's Space · August 12, 2026

It is up to date. Can you please link me the person who made the mod behind paywall? It should be out for free for you. Thank you so much for all your kind words and I wish you an amazing day💗

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Deborah · June 27, 2026

dose it still work

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Sasha's Space · June 27, 2026

Yes 💗

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Too Blessed · March 5, 2026

Hey Girly ! This is so cool, can you explain the differences to me between CAS and the Reward package?

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Sasha's Space · March 5, 2026

CAS trait means it is in create a sim. It’s the same place where you can choose traits like creative, bookworm… etc Reward trait is from the reward store in gameplay in the aspiration section I believe 💕

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Mak · February 17, 2026

Is this mod updated to the royalty patch?

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Sasha's Space · March 5, 2026

Yes!

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Roneesha Johnson · February 14, 2026

is this compatible with qmbibi self-care mod?

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Sasha's Space · February 14, 2026

I believe it is 💗

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Raybaby · January 27, 2026

Thank you

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Sasha's Space · January 27, 2026

You’re welcome Ray 💗

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Julie · January 27, 2026

Is it okay if I only use this with spa day? What will I be missing on other than the social and computer interactions?

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Sasha's Space · January 27, 2026

The social interactions are okay, but If you don’t have parenthood pack, you won’t have the journal interactions to write affirmations, gratitude and limiting fears 🥹

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contrl · December 30, 2025

Hii! Here is UA translation. free avaible for everyone: https://www.patreon.com/posts/pereklad-modu-147005410?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link

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Sasha's Space · January 27, 2026

Thank you so much I’ll add it to the post rn 💗

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Michelle Ellis · December 11, 2025

is it possible for me to download & use this with only the basegame pack?, (im fortunate or unfortunate enough to have just that pack) and i reallyy love ur mods!! Pls continue doing what you love the most and dont let hate Stop you from being ur Best!!

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Sasha's Space · December 11, 2025

Awww you are so kind 🥹🫂🫂. Thank you for the love and I hope your day is as amazing as you are. This mod mostly needs Spa Day pack. The social interactions I’ve made are base game compatible, but the issue is your sims will have wants surrounding activities that mostly do with Spa Day game pack. The computer interactions are base game, but the journal interactions need Parenthood game pack. If you download it with base game only, you’ll feel like the mod is missing ingredients to a recipe 🥹.

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Ayanna · December 7, 2025

Hi :) any chance you could incorporate adeepindigo's personal care services? 🤞🏾

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Sasha's Space · December 7, 2025

It doesn’t, but it’s my first time finding out about this mod. It looks really cool 🤩🤩

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Jordyn Aldridge · December 4, 2025

Is it public?

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Sasha's Space · December 5, 2025

Yes

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Asia Taylor's · November 23, 2025

Love this one

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Sasha's Space · November 23, 2025

Thank you Asia🫂

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Simmerblaze · November 13, 2025

Hey, unfortunately I don’t have the Life and Death pack. Can I still use the mod? Thanks in advance! ♥

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Sasha's Space · November 23, 2025

I was told that if you don’t own a pack, the want doesn’t appear, but then recently I heard that if you make a want code under a specific pack (in this case life and death), it works better for non pack users. My wants are usually base game codes. In a future update, I will update pack specific wants to have the pack code instead of base game.

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Sunni C · November 11, 2025

Thank you for making the reward trait version! I can't wait to try it.

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by Cina · October 9, 2025

Here is the Brazilian Portuguese translation available to everyone. Thank you for your mod, it's wonderful. 🦢🌷 https://www.patreon.com/posts/traducao-do-mod-140802120?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link

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Sasha's Space · October 9, 2025

Thank you so much for translating Cina! I’ll add it to the post right now💗💗💗

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audreart · October 8, 2025

i have every single required pack except for vintage glamor. guess this one isnt for me :/ would you ever consider making a base game compatible base file and then having all the other wants and required packs be selectable/deleteable files?

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Sasha's Space · October 8, 2025

You can still use it since it’s just vintage glamour and you can cheat to complete it with UI cheats by right clicking the want and press complete. I heard packs you don’t own, don’t show wants for players, but I’m not sure since I have all packs. If you end up downloading it, please tell me if the makeup want appears for you💗💗

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by Cina · October 8, 2025

Hiii, will it be released today? 🌷

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Sasha's Space · October 8, 2025

Yes, you can download it right now ♥

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Fineassim · September 28, 2025

i have this mod but im not seeing anything come up to use it i have the cas trait in my folder

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Sasha's Space · September 29, 2025

What tier are you in? Im only asking because you didn’t ask in the early access post and usually people would ask me there

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Matadori · September 27, 2025

Question I have majority of the packs listed, but missing one or two. Is it require to have all?

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Sasha's Space · September 28, 2025

What packs don’t you have?

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Tiffany · September 17, 2025

Thank you this looks so good, I had to sub now!

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Kayla Dupree · September 17, 2025

😮‍💨 lemme get my card

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Grace L · September 19, 2025

Lol seriously. The work that you put into this is incredible. I'll be back ;-)