MUSCLES, BIG-ASS GUYS & THONGS THINNER THAN A SHOELACE - FEMINIZATION GUIDE #10 [GUIDES] [PATREON EMERALD+ EXCLUSIVE ACCESS]

“You know, I have troubles because I’m almost 2 meters tall; Fuck, sometimes I lose immersion because I have really broad shoulders and super narrow hips; You know, I crash out of feminization because I look in the mirror and see a total muscleman who spent 5 years in the military. What can I do?”

Ohhh, I get SO many questions and messages like this. There are quite a few recurring factors in them: height, muscles, and your overall build, which make it harder for you to feel feminine. Here’s how I look at it:

1) First of all, muscles, a bigger build, or being tall can have their own appeal. It’s not like these things are automatically symbols of being masculine. There are women who are bigger, muscular, or tall and still incredibly feminine. For example, being tall often means having long legs, and long legs (especially shaved and in some stockings) are uuuuuugh, such a massive symbol of sexiness that it’s insane (even when you can clearly see the muscles). So unless it’s causing you major problems with finding clothes that fit, I honestly wouldn’t try to fight it or pay much attention to it.

2) If you genuinely can’t accept your appearance and point 1 doesn’t help, try using the right lingerie to compensate for those from the feminine ideal you have in your head. Feminine lingerie is literally constructed to hide a lot of imperfections. If you’re insecure about your legs, high-DEN black tights work amazingly - they add a ton of sexiness to your legs, and black is super slimming and helps minimize the appearance of muscles. Missing that prominent booty? Consider shapewear that cinches your waist and makes your butt look more pronounced. And you can find some kind of fix for pretty much every aspect like that.

But honestly, the most optimal solution is still learning to understand that masculine features combined with feminine styling can have their own unique vibe. I think the image created by some trans influencers can really distort your perception - they’re often hyperfeminine, but that can involve surgeries, tons of money spent on beauty treatments and procedures, and basically making a living from being “it” on fan platforms. So when it comes to more traditional feminization kink, I really don’t think that should be treated as the ultimate goal.

*Illustration inspired by an anonymized user who has been part of our community since almost the very beginning and is a very engaged sissy, while also being a 1.9-meter-tall former member of the US Navy (Those big-ass thighs and arm muscles are honestly just extra, extra delicious to me 😋)