September 3, 2025

Preview: Romantica: A Lover's Type Mod

✅ March 23, 2026: This mod is compatible with the latest game version.

REQUIREMENTS: 
XML Injector by SCUMBUMBO
Base Game Compatible

I always thought the Romantic trait was a little too general. So, I created this mini mod that allows you to give your Sims a lover type. This mod is available for Young Adults - Elders. And it is also base game compatible!

Features include:

• Custom Lover Types
• Custom Buffs
• Custom Response Notifications

PLEASE. READ. CAREFULLY.


Lover Types:

You will be able to choose from 6 LOVER TYPES. Each comes with 7 social interactions each. They include:

• Passionate Lover: These Sims love with their whole heart. They’re intense, emotionally invested, and always ready to remind you just how deeply they feel about you.

• Gentle Lover: These Sims love with intention. They’re soft in the best way and deeply present.
• Spicy Lover: These Sims are always on timing. They’re bold and unapologetically flirty. They talk like foreplay, and flirt like they mean it.

• Possessive Lover: These Sims don’t play about who they want. They’re bold, territorial, and all about what’s theirs.

• Spoiled Lover: These Sims expect soft life romance and won’t settle for less. They know their worth and they're absolutely worth the effort. Buy the flowers, send the funds. Period.

• Nonchalant Lover: These Sims keep it cool, but don’t let the silence fool you. They feel deeply, they just don’t say it twice…or once to be honest.

Choosing a Lover Type:

To choose a lover type for your Sim, you will need to:

• Enable Cheats (CTRL+Shift+C, and type testingcheats true)
• Shift+Click on your Sim and then you will find the Romantica pie menu.
• Choose a Lover's Type from the list.

You can then look in your Sim's personality panel and find the lover type.

You can find each lover type under the Romance pie menu.

Randomizing and Removing

Under the Romantica pie menu, you can also:
• Randomize Lover Type: A random lover type will be chosen for your Sim.
• Remove Lover Type(s): This will remove all lover types from your Sim.

Custom Buffs & Notifications:

For every interaction, the Target Sim (The Sim who the interaction is done to) will receive a custom buff. For the most part these buffs will be positive. Some wholesome, others a tad spicy (I kept it cute lol):

This mod also includes custom response notifications from the Target Sim.

Optional Addon:

I also created an addon called Lovey Dovey. This addon includes 10 romantic social interactions your Sims can do. They aren't specific to any lover type, and you can download it, only if you want. The Lovey Dovey pie menu is also found under Romance.

Autonomy & Conflict:

These interactions are user directed. I noticed with custom social interactions, Sims tend to spam them regardless of the situation, so I took away the autonomy. Basically, you are in control of when and where your Sim uses the interactions. You are ALSO able to pick multiple lover types for your Sims. They do NOT conflict. The more the merrier!

Compatibility:

This mod is a standalone, so it should not conflict with any other mod.

Installing:

• Please make sure you have the MOST UPDATED version of the XML Injector. This is absolutely a requirement for my mod to work.

• Place both CORE and TUNINGS files in your mods folder (or subfolder. just make sure it's not too deep in multiple sub folders) Also add the Lovey Dovey file to your mods folder/subfolder if you'd like.

This mod is mainly for storytelling and gameplay purposes. I hope it adds some fun to your game!

Currently Available for Orbit and Starlight Tier Members
Public: September 13, 2025.

DOWNLOAD HERE.

Enjoy!
— E. ✧

Comments (29)

В
Вика Гусева · September 12, 2026

Обновления скоро будут.

c
c0ff334dd1ct · August 3, 2026

is it compatibile with the newest update? i tried installing it (it's my first time using the mod) but the pie menu doesn't show up. all the files are directly in the mods folder outside of any other folders and i have the newest version of the XML injector too :(

T
Trinnidy J · July 16, 2026

is this compatible with the july 2026 update??

B
Blackbrat · July 21, 2026

Yes

n
nevvie · March 23, 2026

is this comp with the new hotfix update?

J
Jimin YN · December 30, 2025

Let me just say I can't rave enough about this mod! The variety of love with this mod is fantastic! Also it's so great how so many interactions positively move the story forward for Sims. I'm like trying to have a positive but slightly not perfect relationship for my sims but I don't want them talking crazy or being mean to each other. This mod really solves that by adding that dimension to their relationship! I love the popups, the choices, and most of all I love how it gives variety to my Sims! I play romance and family mainly and career! So also it doesn't introduce a lot of negative moodlets but more positive ones so my Sims can still have a bunch of interactions but then go get work done. Thank you for all the hard work you put into this mod! I'm having a lot of fun with it. Currently doing a Jason Voorhees with a girl he found injured basically was bullied like him and making him have a little family story. So it's perfect for the possessive type XD

S
Sofía · December 23, 2025

hey, do u have this mod translated in spanish?

.
.ᐟ jezzamia ☆ · October 20, 2025

hi! <33 i love your mods and i made the Brazilian Portuguese translation for this mod! here it is: https://www.patreon.com/posts/traducao-pt-br-141612550?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link

S
SiimplyJessica · September 20, 2025

I think I mentioned this when this first debuted, If you look at the description of Spicy Lover. Under the panel where it lists the traits for the Sims. In your example, the Sim is Vegetarian, Creative and Spicy Lover, and it it has that typo in the description.. it says. These sims are always on timing.. That makes no sense grammatically.. It should say, "these sims are always on time." ♥

e
ellesimsworld · September 25, 2025

Hi there, Tracie is correct. And I addressed your comment already on my download post. So once again "On timing" is AAVE/slang which means someone is on a certain vibe/energy or always ready to handle business. So, that phrase is meant to be less about formality/standard grammar, and more figurative and fun. The phrases are correct in the context they are in.

T
Tatiana · September 15, 2025

Trying this mod out today! I'm so excited!

D
Dorothee Kaden · September 12, 2025

Oh, that's so cute! Thank you 😊

L
LumiTheGremlin · September 5, 2025

ooo! can't wait for when it goes public! I love romance mods

S
Skye · September 4, 2025

is it ever going to go free?

S
SugaChups · September 4, 2025

It's written 13th September ✨️

S
Stephanie · September 3, 2025

Love this! Is there a way to randomize by chance?

J
June☆ · September 3, 2025

ooh I love this lmao

Z
ZLoves212 · September 3, 2025

The way my jaw dropped with the, "Then handle me." response...IKTR!!! 😂😂 Tysm for this, love! Beautiful sims, home & gshade btw 💞

l
lynels · September 3, 2025

hi il y pas ton mod

S
SugaChups · September 4, 2025

Ça sort en public le 13 septembre

l
linda · September 3, 2025

Love ! What reshade / gshade are u using ? Ur game looks soo cosy

S
Sims All Around · September 3, 2025

Okay, so I know what I’m getting later XD

I
Iesha Moné Hughes · September 3, 2025

This with attachment styles will be *chefs kiss* amazing! Thank you!

R
RasheenRebel · September 3, 2025

Wow okay. I’m intrigued. Has xml been fixed I wanna get this back so badly

c
chloe speechley · September 3, 2025

omg!!! can’t wait to use this!

M
Megan✨ · September 3, 2025

Ohhh👀👀 Looking forward to whenever it's released!

D
Diviine Sims · September 3, 2025

you never miss when it comes to mod!!! I love this

w
witchgirll · September 3, 2025

OHH OKAY PERIOD I LOVE THIS 😜 (will be most definitely using🤭)

N
Nana · September 3, 2025

everytime I see a notification from you I know a masterpiece has been made 🩷