simkatu_interaction_ask_to_learn_how_to_kiss.package 2.1 MB
fl kissing tumblr.gif
pl kissing tumblr.gif
pl dazed tumblr.gif
August 2, 2024

new interaction "ask to learn how to kiss"

this mod adds a new interaction "ask to learn how to kiss" in four moods with three different and new animations. (the video in the title is an animation from flirty or confident mood)

the idea: your sim asks a friend to teach how to kiss. yes, I probably read too much fanfictions

base game compatible
requires the xml injector

upd. apr. 7, 2025: small update for the new patch!

the interaction will appear only if your sim is teenager or youngadult.

only in moods:

  • flirty

  • confident

  • playful

  • dazed

only

  • if you have reached the "good friends",

  • if you are not related,

  • if you are not dating or married yet.

I made the animations based on the game interactions. they are all similar, just with different accents.
kissing animation with a flirty and confident moods:

kissing animation with a playful mood:

kissing animation with a dazed mood:

you will find the action in the category "affection" in romance.

moodlets will appear for both sims and they will match the mood.

  • flirty and confident mood:

  • playful mood:

  • dazed:

romance will be added only during the flirt&confident and dazed interaction, but all three actions will cause jealousy.

polish translation: https://nenusia.tumblr.com/post/759438513105223680/pl-t%C5%82umaczenie-new-interaction-ask-to-learn-how
traditional and simplified chinese translations:: https://www.sglynp.com/t171837
traditional and simplified chinese translations by meowcats: https://www.patreon.com/posts/lap-reading-for-122098490
russian translation: https://boosty.to/tiasha.sims/posts/d59cfc78-3f03-48ea-ada9-46327a3114e9 
brazilian portuguese translation by nymphieta: http://www.simfileshare.net/download/4961752/
brazilian portuguese translation by jezzamia: https://www.patreon.com/posts/154199433
spanish translation: https://www.patreon.com/posts/ask-to-learn-to-112708877
ukrainian translation: https://www.patreon.com/posts/ukrayinskii-modu-121584908
italian translation: https://www.patreon.com/posts/raccolta-tutte-140417356
french translation : https://www.patreon.com/posts/traduction-du-to-153589197
german translation: https://www.curseforge.com/sims4/translations/ask-to-learn-how-to-kiss-by-simkatu-german-translation-translated-by-simsyju

what to do if the mod doesn’t work

Comments (86)

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Alexis Bell · October 10, 2026

is this mod compatible with the first kiss mod by tiny coffee

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simkatu · October 11, 2026

yes!

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Dareksimmer · September 29, 2026

Here is the link to my Spanish translation: https://www.patreon.com/Dareksimmer/posts/ask-to-learn-how-129735051

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Maryli Azua · September 24, 2026

me gustan todos tus mod son fantasticos pero dejo de funcionar o tienes que actualizarlo gracias

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Kuromii Bee · September 20, 2026

Do you think you could make this mod count as a first kiss?

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michelle · July 28, 2026

Hi! Does this mod have any known conflicts because no matter what I do it does not show up in interactions. I have updated xml injector, my sims are good friends and in the right mood.

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Lulilune · June 27, 2026

OWWW

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simsyju · May 24, 2026

Here is my German translation: https://www.curseforge.com/sims4/translations/ask-to-learn-how-to-kiss-by-simkatu-german-translation-translated-by-simsyju

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.ᐟ jezzamia ☆ · March 29, 2026

i really liked this one, it's a very creative mod! here is the translation into brazilian portuguese: https://www.patreon.com/posts/154199433?pr=true

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simkatu · April 8, 2026

❤️❤️❤️

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maddy · March 28, 2026

Hiiii, I don't see the Spanish translation

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simkatu · April 8, 2026

hi! https://www.patreon.com/posts/ask-to-learn-to-112708877

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Lugosi · January 15, 2026

The mod wasn't working for me, so I started looking for incompatibilities and found one with a specific mod, Deeper Friendship, by tyjokr. I'm letting you know in case you want to check it out and also leave a warning.

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simkatu · January 15, 2026

thank you so much! i will check it

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URMIAIEMU · November 20, 2025

omg yes i love fanfics too, this mod is too good aah tysm!

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simkatu · November 20, 2025

thank you ❤️

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文轩 葛 · October 22, 2025

i can't help posting my first comment. so sweet are your mods

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simkatu · November 20, 2025

❤️ thank you so much!

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Costssto M · July 25, 2025

Bro, You help carry the sims4 modders so much and just incase no one has told you, your mods r SO GOOD

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simkatu · September 22, 2025

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Teapressed · July 19, 2025

i dont get the interactions of this mod and the cry mod, is it broken? i updated my mods

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simkatu · July 22, 2025

unfortunately i’m not sure what the issue could be :( the interactions are working for me just to clarify how they show up: - the cry mod shows up when the sim is in any negative emotion - 'ask to learn how to kiss' shows up when the sim is confident, dazed, playful or flirty please also check that you’ve downloaded version 4.2 of the xml injector - this mod is responsible for making my custom interactions appear in the game

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Nata Kodo · July 5, 2025

Hello, my mod doesn't work=с What could be the reason ?:C

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simkatu · July 6, 2025

hi! i'd recommend checking if you have the updated version of xml injector installed in your mods folder. it's also important to note that the interaction requires the sim to be in a specific mood (confident, romantic, dazed, or playful). you can also try clearing your game cache — sometimes that helps mods work properly 💖

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plasma-tree · June 8, 2025

is there any way you'd be willing to expand this mod and allow it for adults and elders? ;_; i have a few sims that i'd love to be able to have this interaction with! <3

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simkatu · June 24, 2025

i’m really sorry, but i don’t think i’ll be able to do that, it would be extra work, and right now i just don’t have the time or energy :( but if you’re familiar with modding (or can find a clear tutorial online), you could try editing a few lines in sims 4 studio to make the interaction available for adults and elders too! 💖

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sunni · April 15, 2025

where do i download the english translations of your mods?

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simkatu · April 19, 2025

all my mods are made in english by default, so no extra translation needed!

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fluffie · April 8, 2025

love all your mods! tysmm!

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simkatu · April 9, 2025

💗💓💕💞💗💓💗💞💕

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Nathalie Ott · March 23, 2025

This so really great!! Genius!! ♥

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simkatu · April 9, 2025

thank you 🥺🥺

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mariliuiw_ua · March 19, 2025

Hello! I've translated this mod into Ukrainian: https://www.patreon.com/posts/ukrayinskii-modu-121584908

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simkatu · April 9, 2025

thank you so much for your work 🤍

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Valerie · February 3, 2025

does this work with the new sims 4 update?

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simkatu · February 3, 2025

yes, it works!

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Biah_0770 · January 15, 2025

EU AMEI! Obrigada pela tradução em Português BR ❤️❤️

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simkatu · January 22, 2025

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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JxnnSims · January 5, 2025

yo lo instale pero no funcionaba probe de mil maneras y nada aunque lei en comentarios que se necesita el xml inyector sera por eso?

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simkatu · January 7, 2025

yes, the xml injector is included. i’m so sorry, i was sure it was mentioned in the post!

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Kseniia · November 7, 2024

You make amazing mods. Thank you for your work. It's unique ❤️

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simkatu · November 16, 2024

😭❤️ thank you so much!

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vargie · October 28, 2024

Is this compatible with the new patch?

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simkatu · October 30, 2024

yes! 💗

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Lunar · October 21, 2024

I dont see it and both of them were confident and best friends

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simkatu · October 21, 2024

I'm sorry to hear it( could you check if you have the xml Injector in your mods folder?

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Karely Gallegos · October 6, 2024

Love your mods! Im just having an issue with the option not showing up for my teens

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simkatu · October 7, 2024

thank you so much! regarding the issue, can you please check if your sims had the right moods and if the teens were ‘good friends’? the relationship bar needs to be almost full for the option to appear.

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pamela brown · September 11, 2024

Whoa

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simkatu · September 12, 2024

❤️

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Hisu · September 9, 2024

Cool mod, but can you add support for the WickedWhims addon for incest?

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simkatu · September 12, 2024

thank you for your feedback! however, I’m not comfortable adding support for that kind of content. I appreciate your understanding!

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tietie · September 3, 2024

Hello!爱你! I made a translation into CHS&CHT https://www.sglynp.com/t171837

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simkatu · September 3, 2024

thank u very much!! 💓

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OrdinarySims · August 26, 2024

hey! i´m trying to find the cause of a rig conflict with ww mod. you think it might be this one? is it possible?

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simkatu · August 26, 2024

hi! i will check it soon. can you please write in more detail what is happening with the rig?

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KawaiiSimmer · August 25, 2024

This mod can be used without the new pack, right?

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hellokittyy · August 26, 2024

yep!

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duda · August 21, 2024

I couldn't find the option. They were confident and almost best friends

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simkatu · August 22, 2024

thank you very much for writing to me! I fixed it.

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nenusia · August 21, 2024

Hi, I made a translation into Polish https://nenusia.tumblr.com/post/759438513105223680/pl-t%C5%82umaczenie-new-interaction-ask-to-learn-how

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simkatu · August 22, 2024

thank u!!

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Asia · August 21, 2024

Love this for my teens in HS years! I thought it was unrealistic for them to automatically know how to kiss! This is BRILLIANT and would loved if you made a seated version for this! Thank you!

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simkatu · August 22, 2024

thank you very much!! in fact, I initially tried to make a sitting version, but I didn't succeed)) but if in the future it will be possible to implement it, it would be more realistic 🤍

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Berrymeplz101 · August 21, 2024

wonderful <3

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simkatu · August 22, 2024

thank u ❤️❤️

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Little L · August 20, 2024

Do i need to update the game (Lovestruck) to play with this mod ? Thank you for your amazing work <3

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simkatu · August 22, 2024

thank u a lot! ❤️ it's base game compatible. I tested it on the latest updates, but I think but I think the mod should work on previous versions too.

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JRMY0413 · August 20, 2024

Thanks for making this mod, I have something new to add to my mod collection now.

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simkatu · August 22, 2024

❤️🥰 thank you for the nice words

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OrdinarySims · August 20, 2024

OMG this is wonderful!

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simkatu · August 22, 2024

thank you!!! 💓💓

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Sword Cats · August 20, 2024

i once read a fic about my otp like this lol how very cute, thank you very much!

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simkatu · August 22, 2024

☺️😇thank u a lot

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UchiNataHime · August 20, 2024

Thank you so much for your hardwork, this is such a cute animation.

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simkatu · August 22, 2024

thank you very much for appreciating this 😌❤️

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tipoual · August 20, 2024

I love this sooo much! Soooo cute ! More, more :) Thank you !

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simkatu · August 20, 2024

aww, thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Psylocke X · August 20, 2024

This is kinda cute xD. I've been looking for poses that had sweet kisses but haven't had any luck. Thank you and please rest 😂. I can only imagine how hard this was to make. Your work is appreciated ♥️♥️♥️🙏🏽

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simkatu · August 20, 2024

thank you very very much for such kind words!!🤍

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Z L · August 18, 2024

can i have the link ? im a 5$ member :)

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simkatu · August 19, 2024

thank you very much for your support! the file with the mod is attached to the post 💓

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person725 · August 10, 2024

this one is so good!! :,)

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simkatu · August 15, 2024

thank u 😇😇

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Vladlena Jetton · August 5, 2024

Oh my! Thanks

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simkatu · August 7, 2024

❤️