A Personal Apology and Update
Sorry, my friend. I've been going through a lot of relationship problems this month.
My girlfriend cheated on me with a guy who has more money. The ironic thing is that she used to be extremely jealous and always said she would stay by my side while I worked hard to save enough money to buy a car. But in the end, she chose a wealthier guy instead.
I secretly traveled all the way across an island to visit her at her boarding house, hoping to surprise her. But when I got there, I heard her talking to that guy on the phone in such a sweet and affectionate way. The four days I spent there felt like hell.
It turned out she had already promised him that she would spend a week with him on his vacation there. No wonder she refused to call me for an entire week, claiming she wanted some time alone after we had an argument. I was suspicious because I knew her well. She always complained about feeling lonely when she was alone at her boarding house, so I couldn't believe she would suddenly be okay with not calling me at all. That's why I finally decided to go there without telling her.
Unfortunately, I could never figure out which hotel that guy was staying at. Every time I tried to follow my girlfriend when she went to meet him, I somehow lost track of her.
While I was on that island, I felt like I was always her second choice. At first, I stayed at a hotel by myself because I wanted to stay at her boarding house, but I got the feeling that she didn't really want me there. She kept telling me to go back to my hotel instead.
On the last night, we had a huge fight after I caught her talking to that guy on the phone again, making plans to meet him at his hotel. I was so overwhelmed and hurt that I even scratched my own face. She cried when she saw me do that.
After that, I went back to my hotel alone, furious and heartbroken. I thought that after everything that had happened, she wouldn't go and see him again. But I was wrong. She went to meet him and stayed with him from the afternoon until the evening. I spent hours looking for her and checking hotel after hotel, but I couldn't find her anywhere.
Eventually, I gave up. I was exhausted and angry, and I just wanted to get some sleep because I had to travel back home the next day.
Then, at around 11 a.m. the next morning, she suddenly texted me saying she missed me and wanted to see me one last time. I thought she was finally going to explain where she had been the previous day, but no. She only wanted to say goodbye because she believed it would be the last day she would ever see me.
What really gets to me is that even after being caught, she still refused to admit what she had done.
In the end, we broke up. Even though she still texts me sweet things from time to time, I can't forget what I went through during those four days. My heart is already shattered.
I know she loves me in her own way, but she couldn't resist the temptation of being with a wealthier guy. You probably understand what I mean. She came from a village and moved to the city to work, earning a salary that was barely enough to get by. I guess the temptation of being with someone who has more money was too much for her.
After everything that happened, I just hope that within the next year, I can start earning $1,000 a month from my project. The average minimum wage around here is only about $200 a month, so earning $1,000 monthly would be a huge amount of money for people here.
Maybe this experience can become the motivation I need to work harder and build a better future for myself. I don't want to keep living with this kind of pain. I want to focus on my project, improve my life, and prove to myself that I can achieve something meaningful.
Comments (16)
I feel bad for that dawg, keep strong 🔥🔥
JESUS CHRIST MUDDAFFAKKA!!! You Need To Be Strong, Comrade! We Are All with You! OOF... OOF... BIG OOF...!!!
Haha, thanks, my friend! :D
Here's the latest update, boss. I managed to track down the guy's social media and contacted him. After comparing the clues and evidence I'd gathered, I uncovered something even worse than I expected... turns out, he wasn't the only other guy. There was another one too.
Did you abandon your previous game and have you been putting out ridiculous updates for this one for years, all because your girlfriend cheated on you recently? Dude, just stop
I'm still working on my previous game. I'm sorry for disappointing you.
take my unsolicited advice. no relationships and focus on yourself. that means cut everything off and go no contact, block her. go workout and focus on your work if you have friend's hangout more. don't let anyone drag you down. MOST OF ALL DONT TAKE HER BACK!!!
That's exactly what I'm doing. Thank you for the advice, I really appreciate it.
Maybe you should just let her free. If she is meant to be yours, she will come back.
she cheated and you want him to take her back if she does comeback? the fuck is wrong with you!
She was not the one. This is gods way of protecting you from hardships down the road when you're successful. Everything happens fora reason. You continue to work on this story expeditiously and i give my word ill increase my sub to the max tier. I wont pay for part time effort boss man.
I'll do my best.
She is not your angel. Change another wife.
I can't understand what happens to men in the modern world. Why has it become the norm to behave like a woman? Where's the pride, where's the dignity, where's the character? but judging by the story, all this is clearly not there.
She's actually an innocent 20-year-old girl. Falling in love can make even the smartest man look like a fool when it comes to the woman he loves.
This might sound like something made up, but it really just happened to me. I've been through situations like this three times now, but this one hurt more than any of the others. She had become so close to my family, and our families had grown close to each other too. On top of that, she was the most beautiful girlfriend I've ever had, and she was exactly my type in every way. That's what made this hit me so hard. Losing someone who seemed to have everything I wanted, especially someone who had become such a big part of my life and my family, has been incredibly painful.