We Are So Sorry

I don't remember if I mentioned before, and now its old news, but I was only disappointed that you and Jeannie had split, but not surprised. You and Jeannie seemed to me to be mismatched. I had been watching your Skyrim vids for years and you inspired me to get it because of all the adult mods you highlighted. Good stuff. But that being said, once Kai was often in your vids, you two seemed like peas in a pod. I kinda figured that you and Kai would hook up later, and I was not wrong. Jeannie seemed to be too innocent compared to Kai, and she was more comfortable with adult themes like you.

Screw what people are saying, if you guys want to express yourself or switch things up because it's hard on you guys then do it. Don't listen to a few people bitching, because most of the comments I've seen have just been supportive of you guys... and a few saying creepy shit, you know who you are. You guys need jebus...

Pizza and a Big Gulp are probably the most profitable items that 7-11 sells, so giving them away for free to school kids probably is a minimal expense. I'd bet the banana is the real cost center there. What 7-11 gets out of the deal is 1) tons of good will in the community, and 2) lock in the kids as customers for life.

Damn, so Jeannie and Henry are both single? I don't know which one to go after now. I was shooting for a throuple, but now it's gonna be weird.

Just wanted to say that you guys are the one couple that still made me believe in love. I enjoyed the nights I spent just watching your videos, rescuing me from the loneliness and depression I felt. Not to be parasocial but it felt like I was bonding with friends every time I watch your videos. I hope the both of you succeeds more in life whether together or separated. I will always support you both, as a loyal Crusader.

I am a little confused... let me run through this: July 7th - Video about break-up Fuzzy on Date - Another video stating yall have gotten back together as thinking on it after the video made yall realize some things and wanted to give it another shot July 13th - in the post; announced the break-up again July 28th - Now I and a few others in the comments are unable to find the video made between July 7th and July 13th. Guess it's they're split now? Either way, wish yall the best!

That... feels like a very odd video to announce your break-up with. Sorry to hear it and good luck to you both.

Hey Henry, Hey Jeannie, firstly i want to thank you both for the years of content that my partner and I have enjoyed from the start, we hit a rough patch during our 7th year together and we thought the differences were irreparable but after about a year of on again off again and trying to stay friends which didn't work we made another go of it properly and we're stronger than we were before the troubles. What I'm trying to say is that there are those of us out here that get it, we don't need the details or anything, and whatever happens in the future I hope you know that we will be here watching and supporting you both. I hope you're both OK, and I hope Ainz is doing well 💗 we love you guys, peace

can the few that still want to know ask?

Damn when my sister died i went straight back to work and my ex dumped me while I was away at work for me I gotta fly to and from work so I left early to give her space and while im up there I just get a text saying hey your stuffs in storage.

I got divorced due to me and the wife wanting different things in life. Not so much different things, but different ways of achieving those things. We are still best friends, we just weren’t compatible romantically long term. We have a kid which makes things harder in ways. But ultimately we’re both happier.

After seeing all three vids, just wanna say I hope whatever you couldn’t sacrifice/compromising on was worth giving up heaven for (using ur own words). I know things sometimes just don’t work out, but I hope you truly tried everything, couples therapy, individual therapy, sacrifice, compromise, etc., before you ended it. They way u guys talked made it sound like u didn’t want it to end, so I hope you ended it after trying everything u can cause you know first hand how amazing Jeannie is and someone will eventually realize that too. If this truly is the end I hope u enjoyed it for what it was and I will continue supporting u guys regardless.

What confuses me is that they are still close enough to make videos, I would think if something is bad enough to make them not want to date anymore it would make them not want to keep creating

5:01 Those two are probably faking the romance to get views...I mean who does that?

Based on the original video, and how disconsolate and defeated Jeannie was, I think I've figured out the issue. I won't post my speculation here, but my heart goes out to both of you, but specially Henry. If I understand correctly, I've been through the same thing, and it sucks hard. I admire both of your openness, honesty, and maturity and wish you both the best.

Wait, I'm confused. I watched the video saying that you were splitting up, but then getting back together again. That's now gone? And now the only video up is the one saying you've split?

I guess I'll be the first to say it.After all the back and forth for this , I do feel like We're old a little bit of an Explanation I had to edit this What I am saying in this is that if I not only pay you, but I've been a part of this community for a while on YouTube and Patriot, I just view it like if a parent's divorce and not to tell the kid much at all, it's kind of messed up if. It's gonna change. I should know how it's gonna change if I should know what's gonna change. I wanna respect that privacy but I feel like we deserve more than this. But I don't think I'm wrong. The Sanchez community's family and just saying Hey was splitting up. I don't think it's good enough. And I understand the aspect of if I don't like it move on but I don't want to move on. I need a reason to stay. I love these guys. But I don't want to be forced to leave because of neglect to the audience.Understand it going through something that I'm not asking for something right away, but I do think as a community.We deserve a little more than that.That's all on me like it or not

This was a weird switch after the Dark Souls video though.

I'll still watch as two close people enjoy memes together was always what the content was for me. I think you guys should take a break from content creation if possible to figure out what you're going to do. I think we'd all love to hear if you guys get back together if that's what happens but other than that it's best to keep your behind the scenes issues behind the scenes. If the content doesn't change much, we don't need to know about it

It's sad but co-hosts and friends works too. I'm glad you were honest and transparent about it and I'm sure this wasn't an easy decision so respect for always being open with us.

Interesting.

i wish that people felt more inclined to choose their significant others when times were difficult. love is not about emotion, it's about choosing someone even when it is hard to do so. best of luck to Henry "Hugh" and Jeannie "Mike"

Ok, WTF! Did you post the not splitting as a couple, BEFORE. the splitting as a couple? Also, JEANNIE, call me: (555) 867-5309

Like I said in another video, this was probably what was troubling Jeannie when people would mention it here and not clarify it.

A surprise to be sure, but an unwelcome one! Feels like some people in the comments are really pushing things we don't even know. Some people also need to announce they're leaving instead of just leaving. So do we crusade? Against whom? Idk. So Jeannie is single now, huh? Sorry, couldn't resist.

Im lost. So yes or no? Either way hope the best for both of you

I thought the move to California was strange…. If they have been broken up for months that would explain it. Something happened I. Seattle and they have tried to stem to fallout…. That just my opinion. I just hope everything turns out ok for both.

into a new era :)

my wife said it was nauseating trying to watch this video with you too talking about syncing your fucking poops together meanwhile you likely were already broken up while making it.

If you make good content, I'll keep watching and enjoying it. Simple as. What happens off camera ain't my business. Wish you all the best in moving past any struggles life brings you all.

And folks, for the record, everyone has a different kind of relationship with MXR, some more personal and involved than others. So PLEASE, it is not right to "comment on behalf of the people" or to try to enforce your opinion on others. Let everyone express their reaction as they see fit - it is how they have reacted to a shocking revelation. Some are passive, some are greatly upset and some are angry. No one is right or wrong about how they feel and react. So back off with your criticism of people's comments. Oh, by the way, all the best, MXR - thank you for the great memories.

I saw this coming, to be honest. I raised a concern about how Jeannie seemed to look constantly hurt by Henry's comments and seemed to just bear with near-insults for the sake of the video. She also does not fully enjoy Henry's sexual jokes and videos but seemed to just permit it. I won't be surprised if she recommended the split. The thing is, Henry comes across as very mature and would accept the split even though it kills him and he never anticipated that Jeannie would ever make this recommendation. Jeannie has a lot of respect for Henry and this destroys her mentally but she truly believes it is time to move on. You know what? I can only wish both of them the best in their future endeavours, even though I detest break ups. And if they eventually stop filming together, I will stop subscribing but support them individually.

This whiplash is crazy . Like are yall together or not ?

Praying. Not for any specific outcome. Just, whatever is best. I long for you guys to be happy.

Idk bruh whoever thought it was our business knowing yall spilt had an L take I kinda figured cause Kai shows up a lot more but it’s just weird now yall talking about oh your this is cute your that is cute you make me smile everyday like why torture each other like that

Well now I’m curious what happens

I could never figure out if you were a couple or not. I definitely believe you could keep doing the reaction videos as friends / business partners... no one ever has to know what your relationship status actually is.

Henry I know you won't see this but I was wondering what your pc build was when you did some of the skrim mod reviews

so the video has nothing to do with the title and the description. it's not just me right?

lol Some really brutal comments on here man. Hope the two of you are alright. Sounds like things are really complicated for both of you and i appreciate that you are sharing personal stuff since that's been part of the brand for so long. Wish you both the best whatever the outcome is hope you can both be friends but more importantly happy on the other end of this situation.

Jeannie's cuteness made me smile

No need to be sorry, your relationship is your business only. Don't feel any pressure or obligation from us to expose what is for anyone a sensitive and personal situation. I wish y'all the best!

Jeannie and Henry always make me smile with their vids.

Sad news, but I'm glad you've decided to keep your issues offline. An online break up can get nasty, your pain turned into a drama show. I don't want either of you to experience that.

R.I.P

just don't keep pushing yourselves for our sake

Best of luck to the both of y'all. I truly hope you do end up being friends. In my experience that is going to require respect from each other for boundaries. This is coming from someone who had the unfortunate decision to make where I let a couple live with me and shortly after moving in they both broke up. Since I was stuck in the middle of the situation I made suggestions on how they could work things out to which they tried some logical approaches what I learned is that if someone wants to break up they will do that in the end and no amount of healthy attempts to revitalize the relationship will help and can instead hurt or hinder. In my experience is best to let things go and if for whatever reason it works out and y'all are back together that would be fantastic but that requires space and time for people to be able to think for themselves and not be coaxed or suggested back into the relationship. Whatever happens best of luck to y'all. You will still have an audience here

Made me smile. Thanks.

Yeah no.. After the first video I decided to stick around to support you guys, even though you were breaking up. Then I was happy for you guys getting back together. But now you're breaking up again? I stuck around on the Patreon for your wholesome energy, but this is getting into some teenage drama shit. I'm out, hope you guys have a great future, but this is the end of the line for me.

Just wanna wish you guys the best lives you can have together or separate.

Thank you for your honesty, yes it's sad but we all need to move on and grow at some point in our lives. I'm also glad you're going to keep it private for the sake of my sanity ( don't let it turn into a K-drama ) . The netizens will lose it. My best wishes to you both.

I am sad to see you guys break up, but if it is for the best, then it’s for the best. I hope you guys can find happiness even if it’s not together and I hope that being friends will work out for you guys. I know jeannie has been in therapy for a while now, I recommend you try it out if you haven’t Henry, hopefully it can make the healing process easier for you. And I know this is selfish of me to say, but if ever in the future you guys do decide to properly give it another try after growing as people, wait a couple months before announcing it, so you can see If it is real (though I sadly don’t think it will happen). Either way, I wish you two the best.

Ngl this video made me super sad, knowing that you have decided to end the relationship and seeing the chemistry you do have made it feel a bit awkward, however I totally respect both of you to end things, we love you both and wish nothing but the best for you both. Make sure to do what is best for you, not for us, even if that means an end to MXR. I commend your maturity to be able to do reactions still whilst in the middle of a break up. I am praying for you both and support both of you. Remember you dont owe us a thing. Do whats best for you. Even take a break from patreon. I thank you alot because you got me through one of the hardest periods of my life, i was going through what you are going through right now, my marriage on the rocks, lost my dream job and my father was terminally sick with cancer which he died last year, your videos helped me through a difficult time, but now the time is for you both. Do what is best for you both.

I'm praying for you guys. I loved the mxr plays on YouTube and the old videos have gotten me through a rough patch. I'm sad to see that things couldn't be different. I love you guys, Henry and Jeannie forever 😢🙌🏼

I would stop uploading new content for awhile take sometime to work on your relationship if that's something you want maybe just upload your old mxr Skyrim and fallout vids, if you put a lower their on your patreon people who just want to support you as people will continue to subscribe. Best of luck

Hope you both the best. Will continue to support the two of you the best I can.

Good luck to you both

Here's some actual OG advice. First off, stop with the personal videos. We get it, you two have been on the internet together for a long time. But here's the deal, you don't owe anyone here an explanation on YOUR relationship. Secondly, I see there are people who are saying "you can't be friends" that's BS. With my women that I've had a actual relationship we're still friends to this day. It did take a bit getting used to, (not gonna lie and say it was a on/off switch) but it worked. You two have a working relationship too so it does and another dynamic to this. However, it CAN be done. Just remember to ease off the sharing personal content and I think you two will be just fine. Anyway best of luck to you guys. Rock on!

Im probably gonna unsubscribe to be honest. I love both of you, been with you for years, and will follow you individually if and where thats possible. But i dont think supporting patreon is good for you frankly. The pressure is pushing you towards a self destructive decision (pretending to be friends for patreon and out of a desire to not lose the relationship you've already ended) that will prevent the healing and closure you both clearly need. With fond memories, goodbye for now.

What the hell is going on here? First you have the other video earlier that said that you weren't breaking up, and now this one changes that. WTF?! Guys, you really need to explain why you made that other video and then got rid of it.

There are so many comments saying "you can't stay friends, you were together too long, you need some space, etc" but they just haven't experienced a situation where it's worked out. It is possible. That doesn't mean it will work out for you, but it doesn't mean it won't. I wish you both the best.

This comment section really shows how parasocial some people get with strangers on the internet. Like some of y'all are rlly tweaking over something that doesn't involve you in the slightest. They deserve their privacy and time to sort out their lives and shit, watch the content or not that's kinda it.

Even if yall have backlog. We don’t wanna watch. I didn’t watch this one. Just stop. Sure. We don’t want to be left alone, but yall need to leave yourselves alone. Don’t record as fiends.

so sad that mxr will soon be a thing of the past. When Jeanie really realizes that the relationship is over, she is gone. If she really wants a husband and children, then the biological clock is ticking and she doesn't have time to linger.

I hope you both find the ones for you. Also, good luck back on the market Henry.

I don't know how you'll just be friends after such a long relationship especially when you've both said you still love each other you won't be able to move on ever I think you'll both just have it in the back of your mind that you want each other still but after all this you'll feel stupid to get back together no matter what though if you do still love each other things can be fixed you've got a long long road ahead of you both just be sure to respect the other and don't show of a new partner or whatever in front of the other that's just a horrible thing to do especially if the other hasn't moved on

Platonic lovers... if that's really the case maybe it can work after some time apart, however long that needs to be. Also, I get it that you want to keep your private life private, but damn it feels disingenuous? to post that title and then have a regular video and then read comments on how other people saw the video when it first came up. It's not like people who came later aren't fans but guess we won't get to be apart of that, which personally bums me out. edit fat fingers pressed enter haha * And one last address to Henry. If you think she's your soulmate and I guess your words could've changed since the last video. Then you do everything you can for her full stop. You pull her the moon, you tell her you love her everyday, I don't know but you would know her best for the things she liked and things that would light up her day that would show her you love her. If you've done all that and more and it's still not working then yeah I guess It's time to move on. But hey! I'm just guessing in all this and I feel like I had to say my peace before the end. I guess it's been over though for awhile and this is the aftershock of information. Either way good luck with whatever ya'll decide to do moving forward and there are so many thoughtfull heartfelt comments on this page ya'll are so loved and of course I love ya'll too. Take care, I wish you both the best in the future!

Love you both, together or not. It's a tragedy, and I'm sad. I've always feared you guys would quit making videos, but now i fear more for your emotional wellbeing! ♥️ It's totally fine to take a break and find yourself. Again much love to both of you!!! You made sure we had a smile on our face every time a video went live. We would do the same for you guys if we could!👍

I'm somewhat under fifty. Saw all the videos. Could tell from the second that the third was coming. Obviously I don't have all the facts but from them I gather Henry is being a fool, and is going to regret this for the rest of his life. I hope I'm wrong. My best wishes to both of you, but I'm signing off Patreon now as for me the magic is gone.

Henry is apparently much more of an idiot then I gave him credit for. Hopefully Jeannie finds better, because she is definitely worth it.

I'd say it's better off for them to figure it out. I didn't know this was happening but after what Retallack said is true about having time apart. It's said to see one of my favorite creators break up, but rather see both of you guys happy and move on with yo lives.

You guys should take a break and figure out some stuff. In the mean time you can get Kai and Susu to fill in.

Why’d they take the video down after just uploading it? I’m bummed I missed it, I ultimately know what was said but would’ve liked to hear it from them :(

Mate, I wish I could see your vid at will but you bet I am smiling ear to ear seeing the update. Cheers! Wish you all the best (not luck cause you won’t need it) at achieving happiness. I can’t express how happy I am that you (both obviously) decided to take control of your life with the update. Though still feel bad for others missing the vid, I am happy that this came out before some nice days in Seattle. Go around and hike somewhere (without each other) or just walk on the streets. Do whatever makes you happy. Time heals pain but happy memories are eternal. Love you both. Really, no joke, love you both.

I'm sorry too, y'all. It sounds like you've arrived at the worst possible outcome: staying together for the Patreon. You're forcing yourselves to go through the pain of being together regularly after ending a long and loving relationship. Healing cannot happen like this. You need time apart, or you'll keep running back to each other to dull the pain, then rip the band-aid off later when you realize why it ended in the first place.

Whatever you need to do to keep her, do it. I married by best friend 30 years ago, very young as well, and while we have been close to separation at times I did whatever was necessary to keep it together. Best. Choice. Ever.

Y'all need some counseling. Obviously, you two love each other, but you're also in each others lives nearly every minute of every day. That's not healthy, especially given the nature of your chosen professions. And not to put most of this on you Henry, but a lot of these issues y'all have had seem to be due to you. You got a figure things out, man, not just for yourself, but for Jeannie Not to say she doesn't have shit to figure out too. She does, but you've been the driving force of y'all's lives on here, and why it got to where it's been. You're gonna realize y'all can't keep doing this content creation shit together, and not get sick of each other, despite whatever you feelings you say you still have. Maybe MxR needs to go back to gaming stuff, without Jeannie there. Y'all need some time apart to figure shit out. And while the transparency is nice, it's not owed to us. If anything, it's the wrong decision. You gotta focus on yourselves before anything else, and fixing things either together or apart, and figuring out what you truly want from life. Maybe content creation is what has slowly killed your relationship. Maybe that's what you need to fix to stay together and be happy with each other, if that's what you two even want.

From 2-5 you're not old enough for kindergarten and if the parents or grandparents don't like the idea of daycare you get to hang out a lot.

Y'all are giving me whiplash.

So...what's going on now? There was the breakup video (which I never seen) an then a Clarity video and now this video, that has the title of the breakup video, but it's just a normal reaction video. Confused.com

As a divorced guy I get that things sometimes just don't work out in relationships. That being said, as others here have mentioned, you should both take time away from posting. Get out and enjoy life away from social media for a while. You may find that a much needed break from posting vids is what you two needed to rekindle your relationship. I wish you both the best in life whether you do work things out as a couple or just remain as friends.

Quite turbulent huh. Take some time to figure things out without worrying about us.

Out of everything, how is Kai doing with all of this? Because holy crap, I Have been the third wheel before. It gets awkward when the couple breaks up.

So the reunion didn't last long? First came the break up announcement video. Then it was taken down and we got the back together again video. Now the breakup video is back and the back together video is gone and we also get the announcement with this video. It's a shame if you can't get your relationship to work, but sometimes things just aren't ment to be. But as others have said. Don't worry about us (your audience). Take your time to figure things out for yourself.

Wait didn't they just release a video saying there not going to break up?!

This is the last thing I will say before not speaking on it further. I am glad you guys will keep your private life to yourselves, you owe that to yourselves to not be distraught on camera. Now a little story, i loved repairing computers, so much that I tried to turn it into a business. Turning it into a business made me lose a lot of love for computers because of the pressure behind it. I associated any involvement with computers with that negative feeling. It took awhile for me to love computers again but I do. With the tremendous stress you guys have gone through especially with youtube and the pressure you deal with to produce. Businessifying your relationship may have brought about those negative feelings in your relationship. I believe you both owe it to yourselves to take a bit of a break from businessifying your lives. If there was truly no infidelity, abuse, difference in life trajectory then a good break from businessifying the relationship is warranted. Henry, if this is depression, please seek individual therapy. This is not an insult but depression will have you doing things you regret but wont realize till later. You spoke on getting joy out of doing things for jeannie like cooking but seemed to think it was a selfish motive. I get extreme joy out of cooking things for my wife and kids because i am love being able to give them the nutrition. They love it and I love it, it is not selfish, it is family. I build them things ( all my kids sleep in beds I made by hand) and love taking care of them. That may seem selfish but again thats family as everyone loves it. Alot of myself comes from them, however there is also me without them. Maybe you are feeling like you dont know yourself outside of being with jeannie or something and that is why you are making this decision. Again nobody knows what is going on between you two except you two and really it should stay that way. I truly wish you both the best in your futures.

May you both find peace and happiness.

Hey Henry guys don’t be a frail about leaving things taking videos down only makes things worst plus your very honest soo you dont need be ashamed about it just saying if you get that second thought if you post it as long as you be honest and speak true it’s ok

Henry if you read this just please; please stop and take a breath. Stop the content, stop the updates and do some self reflection without considering your audience. You need to understand your wants and needs and if Jeanie is to be a part of it. You cannot have all your subscribers dictate your life. Please seek proper counseling and work it out before posting again.

I don't know who is the driving force behind the break-up, but if it's Henry, I'd really recommend switching up your thinking entirely and fixing this. I woke up one day and I'm suddenly old; it's wild. Time moves way faster than you think and holding out for "something better" can very quickly turn into wishing you had known what you had when you had it. Jeannie is an extremely attractive woman who shares your interests and seems like a genuinely good person; they aren't just growing that on trees. If there is some insurmountable issue where you both want extremely different things for your futures, then it is what it is and that sucks. But if this is just a "I'm feeling like I want something different", change something else about your life. Do whatever you want, obviously, but the smart money would be to do whatever you need to do to lock in on Jeannie.

You two are looking good and healthy! Hh-hey, Ms. Jeannie. Ok! 🙌🏾

Oh poop.

Where is Kai? Haven't seen/heard her recently.

Best of luck you two. I'm sure as a lot of us here feel the same way when i say that we are here for you guys. If you think that there is a sort of burn out then maybe its time to look at other horizons for a bit. All i can say is whatever makes you guys happy.

After the last video, i was wondering if you wouldn't do this. Go do what you need to do and i hope everything works out for you both an you two find your happiness.

Video is gone? You two need a break... Take one.

Yeah, just go forward as co-workers. MxR will continue to be great.

The last two words of the post are soooooooooooooo weighted. It will work for a while but not a great solution.

Check my name: That’s why you shouldn’t listen to me.

Not really sure what's going on for you guys, but also not my place. I'm a random ass dude online so, y'know... Just wanted to give some encouragement. 1: - You're not letting us down. Your life is your own, you live it how it works best for you. You owe us nothing. 2: - Platonic life partners - I know a lot of people are giving you advice or suggestions or whatever but...I get it. I hear this phrase in the Poly communities quite a lot, and it's not for everyone. Not everyone can be platonic life partners after a relationship, but other people can. If it works for you guys, that's awesome, keep at it. If it doesn't, that's okay too. Refer to point 1, your life, you do what's bets for you. 3: - Thanks for everything. You two have been a joy and a delight to watch over the years. Absolutely thankful for every laugh you've provided, every dark day brightened by your smiles and love. Love for each other, love for content creation, love for us. You guys are awesome. As always, whatever road life leads you down, I hope you find love and joy throughout the journey, even the dark times. Amor Fati - Love thy Fate

Together or apart, just want you both to be happy

Beyond confused, can't tell heads from tails lol but it's not my place to snoop. Yall be happy now its all we wish ( ´ ▽ ` )ﾉ

Probably not appropriate given the current events, but in an earlier video I would have fully expected to see a clip of their "handshake" from their first date intercut with "love on the spectrum" at 5:00...

Hold on! The way you're talking in this video doesn't seem very "broke up" babe? Taking poops together!? Etc.

I figure I should give my two cents. I saw this second breakup video before it was taken down, and as a practicing therapist I have a couple of important things that should be said. The first thing, which is said pretty often in the comments here, is that it's a very common thing for couples to experience a "slump" of sorts after long periods of little to no growth or development. As far as I know, nothing major has changed for you two in the last few years. This will definitely make you reconsider the relationship, especially if you're in your 20s-30s. But again, this is a common thing and nothing to be ashamed of. Now, you also mentioned that the last 24 hours has been difficult for you, and that could mean anything to us, but there's definitely more going on in the background that you didn't say. An 8 year long relationship ending has to be devastating to both of you. Whatever is going on between you two leads nicely into my next point: this might not be the end for your relationship. Ending the relationship might simply be a short-term solution rather than a long-term one. I can't possibly know what's going on behind the scenes, but if it's possible, working together on the difficulties may prove to fix things by itself. But for now, it's important for both of you to take this time for yourselves to reflect. Ask yourselves, "how does ending the relationship improve my life?" And if neither of you have an answer to that question, then it's entirely possible that breaking up isn't the solution you need. Spend a week, two weeks, or even a month to reflect and make that choice for good. I recommend talking it over, it might prove insightful. And lastly, as a fan, I'd love to know what goes on in your lives. I say you should upload life update videos. Your whole channel of MxRPlays was built on your life, and so it is very important for your community. Your relationship was integral to the channel, and it's what set yours apart from every other reaction channel out there. No matter what, I prefer to see your update videos. They're important to me because you are a part of my life and, in a sense, my family too. I hope all goes well and great for the both of you. You're absolutely the best!

please keep it healthy. we care about you guys. wish yall the best.

Henry I'll say once again I'm sorry for past comments if they came off pissy at you, this is a really sucky situation that I hope you both get past and heal from. Focus on some solo vids to take you mind off of things and get them creative juices flowing

It’s clear that you guys are at least somewhat confused about your relationship and if separating is what you think is right then do that. But if there is even a little bit of doubt I would recommend doing counseling. However whatever happens I just hope that you guys find happiness.

I'll always support both of you. Also, Henry, you got me into modding back in the day — I remember watching your tutorial.

You guys my me smile the horror movie! Naw I am just kidding, but that dog is a cat no AI or no neurolink implant needed.

damn make your minds up confusion

12:45 It is true what they say, old cab drivers never die, they just wish they were dead.

Okay I'm going to be a little blunt here. It seems obvious to me ever since Henry got booted off of YouTube that he's basically been in an existential crisis kind of downward spiral. Frankly, I think you need to get some help dude, even if that means completely walking away from YouTube, patreon, and all that stuff and do some serious soul searching and get some help. As for your relationship. Speaking from experience frankly, I don't think you two are going to do well as friends. You two need to either work this out together or make it clean break. otherwise every time you see each other and interact with each other it's just going to keep opening up Old Wounds. I know I'm just some Anonymous dude online but like the rest of your fans I care about you too crazy kids. I sincerely hope that Henry you get some help or work through whatever you're going through and just stay strong Jenny.

At this point. Couples counseling You 2 are definitely unsure

I think you guys just need to take like a week or two off and do something just you two, the things you've each said about each other in the last two videos arent a couple that should break up

What the hell the video disappeared

Your 20's are probably the biggest years to learn and fail when it comes to yourself. As you two are now thirty you've had enough time, arguments, and life experience to move you closer to where you individually see yourself, where you want to be, and how you want to be treated. It's great if you to can make it out of this as friends, but it's still going to sting as it is still rejection on some level. If you truly love each other than you can forgive them when they do move on, and you will actually be happy that they did. Even if they make a mistake in their next choice, no rubbing it in, just be a shoulder to cry on. There will always be people we love, but for whatever reason can't be with them. Be joyous in the good times you spent, and greatful you got to share that time. Love you two, best wishes.

I'more confused... Video disappear

I'm confused, didn't they just make a video about how they aren't breaking up?

I don't mind you 2 telling us stuff that's going on in your life's.

Living a public relationship can be tough. Just remember that there's always ups and downs in any relationship. From someone who has burned through two marriages already, the grass is never greener on the other side. Dating now as a guy is nearly impossible. I haven't had a date in over a decade now. Being friends is better than nothing though, but once you both move on, I will get harder and harder to keep as close friends. If it has to go, know that all Krewsaders care for both of you equally.

Yeah privacy is important, there is no need to give us details your relationship is your business alone. Sometimes things don't work out, there is no need to be sorry either. Love you guys, not sure what it means going forward but I will still support you both either together or individually. <3

Honestly I was hoping but I already expected it.

Can someone please tell me what's happening? I just clicked the link and it doesn't work anymore

They’ll be back together in an hour…

I appreciate you guys wanting to be honest and transparent because you think you're in a public relationship, but at the end of day it's private. True relationships are gonna have have their peaks of pure happiness and bliss and straight valleys of I hate your guts and you in general. My grandparents and parents didn't just last 60 or 20 plus years out of pure love and wanting to make each other happy. They had their moments and chosen to endure and survive together because at the end of the day there is no one else they rather be with. If you guys say you're soulmates try and spend time truly apart. Take a month or two off of each other and live separate lives with zero communication and see if you truly can't live without each other. If you can then you guys weren’t really soulmates. But if every fiber of your body wants to stay and wants the other then you know you're really are soulmates. I really hope y'all figure it out, but keep it offline. True fans will eventually see if y'all still platonic friends or still together despite all the bullshit.

Said they were soul mates in vid few days ago wtf

Why they break up can someone explain pls

Idk what happening any more

You two don't have to keep us up to date of everything that happens when it happens. Sort your life in private and tell us when you two feel like it and only what you feel ok to share. Wish you both the best

I'm so confused right now.

I'm so sorry to hear this guys. I wish you both the best and I thank you for all the great times you've made over the years. Henry, I've followed you since your first Skyrim vids, and when you followed your heart to pursue Jeannie made me feel like I maybe could too. And to Jeannie, you have been more than most can hope for, and sticking by Henry as you have has been challenging to say the least (YT, not Henry), but you made think different of what to look for in a partner. I won't say it's because of you, but both of you have had a slight part in my life that now includes a 6 month old little dude. I am sad that I can't show him what you guys did over the years, but maybe he might laugh at his old man showing him the 50th re-re-release of Skyrim with immersive mods as Recorder breaks and glitches all over the screen because of incompatibility with the new engine. Me and the missus and little Nathaniel thank you, and wish you all the best. Give Ein some hugs from the little one. Much love from Norway.

well they tried...

But that’s just my take. I still love you guys, no matter what your next steps are in life. I’ll keep watching your videos and stay subscribed (or on Patreon if you have one). Please don’t give up — you’re both doing great

Weird, got half way through vid of just Henry talking in circles about his recent decisions, then video crapped out, deleted already and replaced with a normal reacts vid. 🤔 Hope they can sort their situation out in private without worrying about telling us as seems there's some raw emotions getting trampled on. Sad to see.

It’s also really sad to see you two go your separate ways, even if you’re still in the same building as just friends. I’ve watched you and Jeannie together since you first got together — what, over 10 years ago? So it feels strange not seeing you act like a couple anymore. Maybe you don’t need a breakup or just therapy; maybe you need a new challenge, like many couples who take the next step — becoming husband and wife or starting a family. I’ve heard that often helps both people grow closer and gives a natural shift without things feeling awkward, especially when you clearly still love each other beyond just friendship.

From the bottom of my heart, even though I don’t have much relationship experience, I think it’s similar to friendship in some ways. Going separate ways often just creates FOMO, resentment, or guilt. Honestly, I think what you and Jeannie might need is a real break — maybe a whole year away from content creation, downsizing your lifestyle if you haven’t already, and building a space where it doesn’t matter if you’re friends or lovers. Adding therapy or moving somewhere quieter could also help you both heal and figure things out

Halfway through the vid and it was taken down =(

I kinda wish I understood because it’s just so hard to believe, but it’s really none of my/our business. It’s been great sharing in your relationship over the years and that’s brought us much joy. But we don’t own you and you don’t owe us, you have to do what you think is best for you. There seems to be a lot of overthinking going on and that doesn’t help anyone. Best wishes to the both of you.

Yeah. I come here for the occasional laugh not drama. Good luck guys, I'm out. Unsubscribed.

I really feel for You two, and I can understand the way You are feeling. I will be here with You two for as long as You will allow me to be. You need to just not worry about us for a while and focus on Yourselves. It's really hard to make decisions when emotions are running wild and at the same time You are trying to make us content. Love You two!

Sheesh, this seems to hit harder than the first one... I wish there was a way for the both of u guys to be happy.

I do not understand... but if you both truly think this is for the best then good luck and I hope you find love and happiness again one day.

I feel like somehow this is YouTube's fault

You need to take this down. She looks like she is a hostage. Stop talking about your relationship. That is the issue. Get your head on straight, then come back to this, or find another way to make money.

We love you guys and will support you no matter what, emotions are what makes us human and braking up after so long will bring a lot of those along with it. Wishing ya'll the best <3 <3 <3

before you make a life decision think "what would Susu say?"

I feel like the content grind has really changed yall. The MXR that I first started watching isn’t the MXR I see these days. And I mean that for both of u, not just Henry. I think it might be time to take a break from content creation.

I will keep supporting both of you, but maybe you both need to take a break from content creation and work through your emotions, and come back once it's done!

Like many others have already said, no need for these types of videos. While the relationship is public, there is no need for it to be. Best wishes to you both.

Damn, Henry, I don't know what you think you're looking for, but you've fucked up

ok guys maybe it's time to take a break from content making and relationship. Like seriously this is a wild zigzagged. Comeback when you guys really have a permanent solution.

Like I said before, I will still support both of you, regardless of what happens now.

Sadness. Her sincere empathetic reactions to the clips gave the show heart. If he is the initiator, he's making a big mistake. Women of her caliber are rare.

Initially I was convinced that Henry was the one getting dumped, but now I feel like it's Jeannie. We don't know why they're doing this, but it has to be something big.

This is just me, but I don’t think you guys wanna break up. The only reason to break up is that you guys literally don’t like each other and it looks like you guys still do. If you guys feel like you know each other too well try doing things separately, but still together. Jeannie has her streaming maybe Henry you can get back into gaming or what ever. And if that’s not enough, get some other hobbies both of you. But I wish you two all the best whatever happens.

It's getting weird guys...

Bruh

Not gonna lie, this is all incredibly immature and rather toxic. Go to therapy and stop publicising you private moments. The people here are weird enough already

RIP MXR, won't be the same, but best of luck to the two of you

I don't know what you guys are going through, but this is getting a little out of hand. While you guys have sold yourselves as a couple, that doesn't mean that we are owed an insight to your relationship, nor are you forever inseparable. At this point its starting to come off as more performative then genuine, and that Henry is coming off like he is the one jerking this relationship all over the place. Step back. If things mend back a simple post to clear things up is all that is needed. BUT only after you guys figure things out without us viewers attached to that decision.

The amount of immaturity here? Who makes content for their personal life about them Breaking up and getting back together? Unsubscribe. I come here to see funny videos, not people who make 10's, if not 100's of dollars a month whine and cry like we are family or friends. They are content creators people.

I am so curious what exactly the reason of the breakup is. I also think they both are taking content creation a bit to seriously that they feel the need to give biweekly updates on their relationship status.

Wow, I am stunned and devastated for you. I only know what I see in your video's, but I never would have guessed this. I missed the Bad News video, and after watching Clarity, I never would have thought I'd see this one. I obviously don't know all of the reasons, but pray that whatever happens, you both find happiness. I hope time will help, either way, but please do give it time. Your future is too important to risk on snap decisions. Be certain and comfortable with your choices.

Henry seems to have a weird instinct for self sabotage. Getting banned from YouTube was unfair but also completely avoidable. That was trivial though. Guy has the most important and valuable thing a human being can get in life. Decides there’s something more important or valuable. There isn’t. Someday it will dawn on him and never stop dawning on him that this was the dumbest unforced error of his life.

Well crap... Why don't both of you take a one month holiday away from pubic life and each other. in 30 days meet up and see how things are going. Right now, i don't think any of you know what you want and it is not fair on us, your fans, that you force us to watch this trainwreck.

Henry i genuinely beg you to think about things a bit longer before posting these types of videos. not in the sense of how your relationship can work out, but try to finalize all your thoughts and emotionally steady yourself. Your relationship status shouldn't be announced to the public as it happens. Handle it in private. once the dust settles, then you can think about whether you want to make that information public. I hope things work out for the better between you and jeannie. stay well.

I STILL wish you both all the best all the same.

Jeannie sounds like she's speaking from a script... so sad.

What the hell... idk which one of you decided for this "rollercoaster" of decisions but this is toxic as hell and I feel for the other side that is a victim. It must have mentaly f*** up that person and that person doesn't deserve that treatment.

I hope you are both going to be ok, but from some of the things you said here, please don't think you ever owe anyone on this patreon a special window into your personal life or updates on the status of your relationship; parasocial relationships are not healthy and that works in both directions. Take the time you need to process what is a huge shift in your personal paradigms, know that people care about you (I presume in your actual real life!) and then people here do care too, but we're not really in your lives. Regardless of the how or why you're in this position, it's gonna be hard for both of you. It's very easy in the beginning to say you both care for each other, but it will take hard work from you both to maintain that, and if it's important to you then you will have to prioritise that (saying this based on how my 10yr relationship ended, but obviously everyone is different) The fact you want to update us all is sweet of course, but please put yourselves first where this is concerned, we are secondary. Super sorry if any of this is blunt or a bit armchair-psychiatrist, but I know how brutal this must all feel. Be loved, and love yourselves.

I personally don’t get why people make it so complicated. It’s either you love each other and want to be together or not. Maybe I’m naive but think of what u want and why you do what you do.

Well, it was a nice run, but it's been going downhill ever since you left YouTube a while back. Hope you get back into some kind of gaming mod reviews or game videos, Henry... that was some of your best stuff. Until then, happy trails and bye.

I hope the best for you both whatever may come of it. I think you should either take time apart and see how it goes or go to couples counseling because spending time together "as friends" might just hurt someone further in the end, but that's both your decisions. We're not there behind the scenes to see your daily life and possible struggles. I just wish you both the best future possible for yourselves whether it's together or separate.

Interesting

Don’t worry we support you both in all in devours just focus on you for now ❤️❤️🫡😢

I truly do see the love for each other when you speak. Take time, reflect, seek therapy! My wife is my best friend, and I couldn't imagine life without her. However, I also have come to realize that my happiness cannot come strictly from her and her reactions to things. I love you both, and want to see you two happy, either with each other, just friends, or completely separate. Only some time apart, deep soul searching, and good friends can tell what the future will hold. Take your time.

I sometimes think I am a sociopath because I don't understand people breaking up when there isn't an underlying reason. Infidelity, physical abuse, emotional abuse, or financial irresponsibility? Yeah, break up... but when people break up for anything short of that it puzzles me. "Making you happy makes me happy, so I have to break up with you" just doesn't compute for me.

It happens, unfortunately.. I had a breakup with someone I moved too fast with a year and a half ago and I still hurt a bit from it, but it did take almost all of that year and a half to heal from it and genuinely start to change myself to try to improve for ME (for once in my life)

First and foremost I still believe in both of you. The both of you that built your future together. But it's been hard watching you guys a bit lately because you haven't seemed yourselves. Obviously now we all know why but it really did seem like the both of you focus too much on your work instead of each other. I've watched Henry for years now and while I know what all his videos are about I think inviting people like alle cakes (I think that's how you spell it) is not a good fit for you guys and wouldn't be surprised if trying to do stuff like that put strain on your relationship. I really wish you the best of luck and hope to see a reconnection.

I hate to see this happen, but after the last video, I wasn't surprised. You had obviously made your decision, and it was only short-term remorse that made you take it back. I have been worried about you two for a while because it seemed as if you were stuck in an awkward place in your relationship, more than friends, but not yet married. Not making that next step, having kids, becoming adults, it was concerning (I was married for many years and have grown children, so I have a certain perspective). I hope you can get back together and continue to grow that relationship, as you really seemed to have something special. You have that chemistry together, and it's what really drew me to your channel above so many others.

I feel like mom and dad are fighting and the crewsaders are just hoping everything works out in the end.

Don't listen to any comments telling you what to do or how you should feel, we are your fans not your fam we're here to follow your journey not to dictate it, only you know what's right for you. Whatever you do, do it for yourselves not for us. real fans will support you no matter what

I really hope this doesn't turn into another PopularMMOs situation for either of them. 💔

Jeannie looks so sad, big hugs to you!

Welp, you guys tried. I guess this is just how it's gonna be. This is unfortunate and I wish the best for the best for both of you. The friendship after will prove to be the hardest because you'll never be able to move on smoothly without giving each other the space to breathe freely. I know from experience and it will be painful. Hopefully someone will come along and heal and replace the loss.

Life and relationships are hard. Espacially when you have had such a long relationship. Since feelings do change over time. And things don't always work out. But i would advice to just take some time. Maybe some time apart and think things through. After that it's easier to see more clearly about how much the other person in the relationship matter to you and if you somehow can make it work or not. I don't think ''keep doing things as friends'' right away when you both are hurting is the best idea. But it's your decision of course. I wish you both the best and i hope you will find away to deal with all this pain. And come out the other side feeling better.

Oof. Called that one in the last video. I've seen this breakup/makeup scenario a lot over the years. Not trying to be assy about it. I still love you both. Henry has always been awesome since his time doing Skyrim mod reviews. A generally great personality and bro. I would love to see more content from him similar to those days, or even a new avenue of content. Jeannie has that energy that makes it impossible to feel down. Loved her lil noises and voices over the years. I'm that guy lurking and enjoying her streams while I do chores. I've dreamed of Jeannie as the model girlfriend, but even just as the individual she is, she is just an awesome individual. Always supportive, always there, fun, silly, smart, witty, talented, uplifting, humble, empathetic, ect... I was happy for Henry to have that. Y'all just seemed so right for eachother. Still do, in my opinion. There was a couple that had been married for over 50 years. They shared a story about falling out of love for a season. They almost hated eachother and got divorced in that time , but after that season passed they fell back in love for another 20 years. That season where they fell out of love lasted 9 years. Just goes to show that emotions and needs change, but they can also change back. Time and space is the only way to get real clarity. You two are adults. You'll figure everything out, and it will all be okay regardless of what you decide. Wishing you both all the best.

Been watch you guys since the beginning. You were both still children when you got together and neither of you knew how good you had it since, but major first relationships like that, because you were both still kids, end up in a death by a thousand papercuts. Please do make an effort to be grown-ups and remain friends- you'll only hurt yourselves if you don't. Relationships always take work. But true love is hard as fuck to find. Stay strong kids ❤️

Yeaaaaaah... handling it like adults would've been to try stuff out first but whatever. I'm going to have to step down as a patron, it's one thing the first time around but to have something like this happen again and so quickly? Something's seriously up with you two and it really isn't our place to get involved, nor do I think it's good I'm supporting the possibly unhealthy behaviors that led to... whatever this is. This should've been a "we're taking a break for a few weeks" or something because this is getting ridiculous. If I ever see you guys again after this, I might be back as a patron cuz I love you guys, but this just sort of... reeks of some deep rooted insecurity and issues much deeper than that, and I really don't want to take part in that or making it worse through patreon support which makes you feel forced to do things. Wish the best for you guys.

It hurts my soul to see Jeannie this disconsolate and mournful. But being so old, I’ve seen it too many times before. Seeing it happen to such a bright font of nurturing reassurance chips away another part of me. I don’t understand how every waking moment couldn’t be dedicated to pulling out that exuberant smile. Good luck finding another woman who makes sound effects. :’{

Saw this coming. Sad to see it even though I expected it. :(

Henry, I'll still be sub here, bro. I recommend some overseas travels. You will feel much better.

<3

Dear Henry and Jeannie, I agree with both Ron Anderson and Mark Bove. Ron on the parts of it's hard to know what to say right now, and that both of you heal (but, however long it takes). I agree with Mark Bove why are you 2 breaking up? It's difficult to put into words at the moment. One part of me is saying (and objectively in general) you 2 heal, as well as take the time to figure out what's ticking and why you two are splitting or have a desire to get back/stay together. I'm all for you 2 staying together as well as making your own decisions. The reality is, the decision is up to you guys, not us. If you two heal and mend the wounds quickly, great, but it's also okay if it takes a while. Time to think about things and figure yourselves out and reexamine your relationship. I'm glad in all the videos you shared with us in the past week how vulnerable you have been with us and see the emotional maturity (and rollercoaster) you two express. I can only imagine being under the public spotlight with any relationship and things being public and trying to keep it private too. The reality is, it is in the public eye and trying to balance pleasing the audience and keeping your relationship your own is unimaginably difficult. It's easy for me to say it's your guys' relationship through and through and not be burdened by what we say. It's another thing to do because you two are the ones filling the shoes. However, I will say again, it's not our relationship, but it's solely yours. We can say this, say that, do this, do that, but we can’t and should not be the decision makers and control you two. We can’t control y'all, even if we tried. Please please please don’t make it about us and say that your relationship is ours. It isn’t. I truly appreciate that you 2 share parts of yours lives with us and want us to be a part of it, but we aren’t in it. We don’t know and understand you two like you two know each other. We can’t love you two in the same way you 2 love each other. We can love you two as your audience (and in some cases as friends if anyone here knows you guys personally and/or in person) and be along for the ride. We can support you two with words, our emotions as your audience/(hopefully)as relatable human beings, our time, brief interactions whether online, in person, or thru mail/email/socials, and money. But that’s about it. It is a very dangerous path to believe we can have what you two have or say we KNOW you two and ARE friends and have a deep personal bond (parasocial relationship), and to invite us in like that. I’m not saying you encourage or would allow us to have an extended or parasocial relationship with you two, I’m just saying as I have been, don’t make it about us and don’t allow us to be invited in that way. We, as your audience, can be and are an important part of this journey, but we aren’t in the relationship and shouldn’t be. Again, it’s all about you two. We’re just along for the ride. Take what you can or want or have to or need to from us, and tune out what you two believe won’t be of help, and examine, analyze, and evaluate for yourselves what’s best for you two. Not us doing it for you 2, unless you want that. And another part of me is asking, why are you two deciding to break up? For the most part, all I hear and have been hearing from you 2 from all the videos of how you two think of each other–amazing. You talk about how you two love, trust, and admire each other and share examples of what and how you 2 love each other. You 2 share how loyal you two are to one another and despite the shit you 2 have been through and experienced so far and the struggles you faced and currently are undergoing, you two have stuck it out. You two share how much of a pillar y’all have been in each others’ lives. And that part of me is dumbfounded. It’s like, if you are sharing all these positives despite being vague on the negatives, you 2 should stick it out further. To be fair, you might be vague and avoid mentioning as many negatives to not burden your audience, or things you can’t, won’t, or not at liberty to share, and it might be worse than we think. Or don't create too much of a spectacle. But again, if you’re sharing all what makes you two strong and rely on each other, again, why are you two breaking up? Henry and Jeannie, you two are struggling, that much is clear. Every relationship or friendship faces turbulent times. It’s the positives that remind us why we choose to stick it out with the other person. It's also how well people in relationships do under the pressure. Henry, you might not be happy right now or haven’t been for sometime, but you have shared time and again what makes you happy most of the time–it’s Jeannie. Jeannie, you have shared what makes you stable and it’s Henry. You two have shared the differences in your personalities and in your relationship, and have given examples how you two balance that. For example, in this latest video, you, Henry, share you focus on the past and the future, and has a blindside to the present. Jeannie likes focusing on the present. There you go. Jeannie helps Henry stay focused on the present and leave the past in the past, and not worry too much about the future. Henry, you help Jeannie focus on what’s ahead while trying not to worry about it too much, and take what lessons you can from the past–Jeannie helps with all of that. You two reassure each other that despite everything going right or wrong, things will be ok. So, again why are you breaking up? These are just my thoughts at the moment, but yes advice nonetheless. Ultimately, the decision is up to you two. The relationship is yours and not ours. Take the time to figure things out as part of the healing process, maybe take some time a part for both your guys’ well being and health (physical, mental, and emotional), and when two are ready, discuss/examine/analyze/evaluate where you stand individually and together, and see if hitting the restart button and getting back the together is the right choice or not. If anything, take advice from your family and closest/trusted friends, not us. They know you better than we do. But again, it’s about you two, not us or them. Whatever you two decide, do it on your terms, and I’ll be here continuing support you both. :)

Henry and Jeannie, When it comes to stuff like this, even though it's obvious there are 'business' considerations regarding your respective work, I feel like you need to prioritize yourselves and think first about your relationship irrespective of the audience. You have a lot of fans and it's obvious that you being together was a big factor for lots of people in enjoying the content and the whole culture and community around it. But, from my perspective, we don't really know you, except people IRL that are your friends, and - most importantly - you are the only ones who can live your relationship and I think it should be genuine and honest. So, even though this news saddens me, because I enjoyed seeing you together on many a content piece, I feel like the most important thing is for you to be able to be to yourselves genuinely and conduct your personal lives in the way that makes sense to you. I don't think there is anything for you to say "I'm sorry" to us fans for. For my part, I'm sorry you are going through something like this - everyone knows it's the worst thing -, but I hope you can find a path forward that makes the most sense for each of you, together or not. Please take whatever time each of you needs to adjust. I hope both of you read this and please know I'm super thankful for countless hours of amazing content over many many - nothing takes that away :)

Please.... please... Whatever you do, do it for yourselves, not for patreon viewers or youtube viewers or whatever. You are people, not content.

Relationships are difficult. Whether it's maintaining them or ending them it will be rough. Sacrifices and all that. The both of you just got to remember that everything will be alright regardless of what you do. Your personalities are wonderful and you make great content! Just keep walking forward regardless of hardships. Good luck to you both in these difficult times.

Ok sooo ... I'm sorry for being parasocialist, but holy sheet what the heckin flip is going on? First video it seemed like my queen was leaving my king to dry and henry was sitting there about to start a podcast about MEN and being TOP. But in this video my queen saying "if i gotta let you go for you find happines, i have no regrets" and im sitting here like "henry's dum aaaa is rilly finna let my queen go cuz she cry too much". I've been watching henry since before jeannie and because of this riddle aaaa carp im just here for kai content now.

If you guys need to take time to assess your personal lives and mental wellbeing, go ahead and do so, I hope we are all understanding!

The pressure of public life and that being your livelihood is not something I can imagine. It breaks people in unexpected ways by introducing a messed up parameter in life. Do what you can to have the best life you can mates.

Love You Guys <3 Together or apart, you'll always be in my heart.

I just don't understand when two people who are basically saying they still love each other and are saying they made each other better as people are breaking up the fuck if it's the grind of videos take a break go on holiday or some shit

were broken up, no were not, wait yes we are. love you guys but it's abit much. we dont know the context on why mom and dad are fighting and why it wont work anymore.

There’s no need to apologize, or fill us in, but you guys have kept us up in the loop and thank you guys for that💜. Emotional roller coasters suck but they’re a part of life. Life in general has its ups and downs. Feelings may dwindle, fester, or evolve and that’s okay, it’s part of human nature. It’s cliche but it’s true if that if you truly love someone your able to let them go. I look up to both of you, and feel that I have grown alongside y’all the past 8 years. I have learned so much from y’all and still have a ton to learn from life in general. A part of being human is learning after all, we wouldn’t be here now if not for it. It’s okay to take time for yourselves, and I hope you don’t feel pressured by us. I genuinely hope the best for the both of you and will continue to support each of you as always, together or apart makes no difference. Do whatever you feel is best and that’s all we can ask for. Just wanted to share some kind words, but don’t let them influence you in any way. Just wanted to say something cause I care about the both of you! Love and hugs for both of y’all 💜

I've been watching Henry since like 2012 with Skyrim mods weekly and have been along the for the ride since the start of their relationship. From the small slice of their lives we see in videos I always thought they were perfect together. I was always so happy that Henry got such an amazing women. Jeannie provided such a good balance for Henry and seeing them together was always such a high light. The way they could both bring such joy to each other was amazing to see. We may never know the reasons, nor are we entitled to them. But I'm so confused and upset. From an outside and limited perspective this seems like a confusing and poor decision, but only you guys know what's best for yourselves. I wish you both luck and clarity. I'll still be here, though I feel like things are going to be awkward for a bit.

Done.

I really hope the culmination of all these comments just end in "Please take some time and even more importantly dont include us, the audience, in this until you are ready".

Sad times ladies an gents, sad times.

Also I'm sure you didn't mean to but kind of messed up to put this behind a paywall and not a free post

BRUH

This was not something you post publicly this early into a decision like that

this could of been avoided if you had the ability to turn the camera's off for 5 minutes. If you start missing her again, don't call her, don't ask her over for a make up video. leave her alone. i think you've done enough

Why the fuck are you doing this in public? Turn the cameras off, work through it and either way things turn out, don't turn the camera back on until you are both in a good place.

I love you both, and I hope you both find true clarity. Even if it means you don't give us videos. I just want you both to be happy.

Please, PLEASE, get some couple's therapy, or go do the Landmark Forum, or something, to make sure that you both avoid making up stories about yourselves, deal in reality, and ensure that you have processed all of this. I promise that you'll both grow from it. You don't have to be together, you don't have to be apart, but you both deserve a good life (as everyone does) but these days it takes some work to get there. Trust me, I have a ton of personal development work under my belt, and it's made all the difference to having a good, peaceful, loving life.

I was in a 9 year relationship that went bad. She wanted us to stay friends, but we would keep taking turns not being able to move on or let go. It wasn't until I put my foot down, after reflecting on one of her friends+benfits visits that things started to improve and I was able to move on. My biggest take away from that relationship was that you don't hold onto someone b/c they are fun to be around or are better than being lonely. After that lesson, I'd give a relationship a bit of time, but once I knew there was no way I was going to fall in love with a person, I'd end it - Even if I was having fun with them or enjoyed their company. I didn't want to be responsible for them missing out on a chance to meet someone who could fall in love with them b/c they were wasting time with me. Anyway, you two sure seemed to click. I selfishly hope you two can work it out if that's what ends up being best. If not, I still wish you both the most happiness life can bring you. PS- who gets custody of Kai? (just kidding <3 Kai)

Jeannie I hope you find some healing on this journey you are on but henry, man you can't play with this ladies feelings like this while she's in the state she's in. I don't know if I can continue my sub but I will continue to support jeannie on twitch.

Hope you guys will be able to move forward from this and figure out what it is you both want. Some introspection might be what's needed. This said, if you guys remain apart or not, in the end this is your decision.

Dam that sucks guys but is Kai still single?

As a zoomer i found your love for each over amazing feel you still love each other but somehow don’t feel in love or one doesn’t , i am sure you have thought about the idea of seven year itch. Etc. so may be that is not thee case i don’t know. But i think you need to consider if a complete break for several months is a good idea or not. And then consider if it is salvageable it is hard work of course. Both of you take care of

I think the best thing these two can do is take a break from posting videos and go to therapy. It's obvious that it is a huge stress maker for them especially after the youtube fiasco. I think that it's one of the main things that is causing stress. And therapy can help them figure out where they stand with the help of a licensed professional and not a fan base. The true fans can wait for you two to figure everything out

Oh no. I never wanted this day to happen. ❤️

I'll be praying for you guys. I really hope you get the time to think about all this clearly and figure this out. Whatever the outcome, God bless you.

don't read the messages. some rats have come out of the woodwork to comment

i am so confused right now, didnt see the break up video and this is the first video i am hearing it from. But then saw the clarity one and got super confused

afraid it's The seven-year itch either you have building blocks to build your relationship into the future or you build a new individual lives either way you are both lovely people, l wish you well

Well whatever is going on i hope the best for you. As much as i would like to see you 2 get back together i hope you do what is right for yourselfes, whatever that may be. Good luck and all the best wishes, for whatever the future might hold.

I’m so confused

Look we will always love and support you both in whatever you choose to do but relationships are a complex thing that take two people to work on together, you don’t have to include us. U don’t have to make a video to tell us, seriously take some time offline work this out between the two of you and then when u are absolutely certain on things u let the fans know what’s up. All the back and forth is unnecessary and it seems to be unhealthy for the both of yall. So pls pls pls take some time away for yourself, we’ll be ok

Im not looking at your video on here in just reading the comments... I will say this though. Both of you put things aside to persue this and you got to ask yourself if your relationship relied on this endeavor lasting. I agree with everyone else you should handle this in private, and if possible get some distance dor clarity. I will say this though dont stay together for the hell of it or out of fear, spite. Ive grown up watching that and it just leads to yall talking to each other lessand even resenting eachother. Not every detail of yall lives need to be public just for views...take this time to pursue other things

Continuing as friends works just fine until someone new comes along even if you think you've moved on, let alone living with the ex is an obstacle the new person will have a difficult time overcome. Not sure of sure of the specific reasoning, and that's just fine however you guys should definitely discuss the future off camera if you haven't. Take patreon and everything else out it. Life is more than this. Thank you guys for all of the good years. Good luck with the future.

I felt the exact way Henry described at the beginning of the video after my relationship that lasted a year. I'm starting to just lose hope lol. It's so sad to see them split up :(

I see your value, Jeannie. Send me a message and we can go for a drink some time.

5 years from now: Henry has gone back to making gamer videos, just 100 pounds heavier, and a sad look in his eyes when he remembers the time when he had everything he could want, a great job and a beautiful girlfriend. Jeanie is a single mother, after a one-time fling immediately after breaking up with Henry. Has started nursing school and does onlyfans in the evenings to make ends meet.

Okay, last time I was just wishing you the best, but WHAT THE FUCK DUDE?! I understand you don't owe us any details, but what ACTUALLY happened? Better to clear the air than to let the internet rumor mill make something up.

I don't know anything about your personal situation, i cant give any valuable advice. But it is okay to take a break from content creation, and deal with for a while. We want the best for you both.

Good luck guys. I hope you find your way.

I liked this channel for the lolz and good feels... I didn't sign up for this unending drama... gonna find some other outlets for stress relief... good luck on all your future ventures to both...

They have broken up, they are people with feelings, they might get back together they might not, people need to stop leaving horrible messages it's gross and sad, if you're that upset go touch grass and get offline

I'm sorry I pressured you

Gutted

I would say take a long break from each other and I mean to the point where you might not need each other anymore. Cuz I can see the pain in both your eyes and its tough. Just stop thinking about your 8 year relationship of the what ifs or if onlys and just live your lives . Im saying this out of respect for the both of you🙏

Interesting. This sounds like this is coming from Henry more so than Jeannie. Not really sure why but they should keep everything else here private. Its their relationship and they need to stop uploading this. Unless there was infidelity involved, this seems like something that may be regretted in the future. Beat of luck to them both.

Wishing the best for the both of you life is tough and these past couple of years haven't been any easier. Yall are still human take time to sort out everything we aren't your priority in life we're an audience if anything and we're just as human as you both are. Thank you for the years of honesty and kindness yall gave us while you guys held on to the relationship you had. I hope that one day things will turn around for the better for you two.

I'm an older man but you guys made me laugh when I was down I'm sad that you're not together anymore and I miss Kai

I'm sad again

Take some time. Handle this behind closed doors. If you need to, go to couples counseling after going to individual therapy. If you have done everything you feel like you could, then maybe it is time to part ways. Time apart can also offer clarity. I have been with my wife for eight years, married for 2. I couldn’t imagine life without her. We broke up earlier on for several months and worked it out. She and I have agreed that whenever problems arise we’ll do whatever it takes to make our marriage work. We have gained a profound understanding that two people living as one will always be difficult, even if you are meant for each other.

Sending love and prayers. Hope you guys will be able to move forward from this. It's definitely not going to be the same from here on out. I feel like everyone is taking a massive L, but I trust Henry wouldn't make this decision if he didn't think it would be healthy for both of them. I hope both of you can remember to find self worth and still support yourselves in this emotional time. Eventually things will settle and we'll move forward. Take your time.

Damn sorry to hear, idk if I can even like it cuz it feels wrong man. I've loved watching both of you guys for years and now it's came to this love ya both and beat wishes movie forward

Is this going to be a thing where they're constantly breaking up and getting back together? Good grief. Also ngl making content together being just friends after an 8 year relationship is a bad and toxic idea.

It’s really sad to see these two though, but I can understand. Been watching them for so long, I wish them both the best in the new chapter

is this AI how many fingers they got?

Guys, please stop this. This is not meant for us!!! This is supposed to be private. At this point it's more like you guys have a Para-Social relationship with you viewers and not them with you. I love you guys, both of you, but this is your private Life. This just goes to far. One last piece of advice. Either you get back together, or you will eventually stop this format. There is absolute zero chance that this will work in the long run. You will just keep hurting each other if you think you can stay friends and business partners. That is unfortunately not how this works. Good luck to both of you.

I'm not one for parasoical relationships but both of you genuinely mean allot to me, and it might not matter much but I'm so proud of both of you two for everything you've accomplished and I'll always support you through whatever decision you take.

You too obviously love each other. What the hell is the hold up

Utter, utter madness. Your reaction to the first video was yours hearts telling you no. None of this ‘not handling like an adult’ bullshit. You too have something really special and you’re insisting on breaking it to pieces to be ‘adult’? Eight years doesn’t happen that often in your life. Sort it out!

Bruh you were supposed to marry this girl wtf. Like if you need time to be yourself go hang with the boys, camp and do dumb shit to refind yourself thats fine. Like maybe stop being business partners but like wtf man

And you can clearly see Jeannie does not want this from the last video in clarity she looked way happier to now she looks completely heart broken again

This be some bullshit

As many have said i also have no words really .. Much love to you both but i think before all of this stuff you should have taken it all offline first and made a firm decision on it. This just hurt you both, literally. You had to make a video of you breaking up, which is a reality of the situation, then take it back cause Henry got spooked like he owes us any explanation or maybe out of fear that we, the viewers might view yall differently or that all of this might impact your carrers online a bit too much, idk. This video is WILD to say the least. I can feel both of you are soo drained or on edge. Please take a break from Social Media for a bit to heal, your heads are too internet wired. This "saga" should have ended on the first video if you've known that day when the video was posted :( Sending you both best of wishes as you move forward ofc but please, TAKE A BREAK and don't mind the comments too much! <3

I hope you will both be okay. Take the time you need to heal and decompress. Stay strong.

May you 2 find peace, heal and grow. Don’t stop moving forward. The best of wishes on you 2. Learn, reflect and grow. Forget any negative comments.

I think this is going to go down as Henry’s biggest mistake of his life. BUT, maybe he’s just not the type of person that is meant to be in a long term relationship/get married, and being honest about that before it goes on any longer will save them both on future heartache

My broken heart lies bleeding in my arms. Nothing but love and hugs to my lord immersion and my lady panda. My eternal thanks and genuine shoulder for either or both to lean on. I feel your pain, trust me, I'm one of the few. We can trade war stories, you wouldn't believe me and would think I have a ferike imagination. 27 years and counting, oh the intense unsettling confusion, anguish, fear and loneliness. I am here for you both, I always was.

No need to apologize you guys are only human with human emotions. As long as you two are ok and happy in the end, that's all that matters. Wishing the best for you guys.

I've been watching MXR since before y'all even met each other and it's been a fantastic journey. Y'all have been an inspiration to me and my expecting fiancé for years now. So I am sad to see you both end your relationship. However, I know you both have to do what is best for each other and for yourselves. You both mean so much to me, kept me happy in the darkest times of my life when no one else could. So even though I am happy that you guys are doing what you believe is best, I will still be in the corner weeping for the end of a beautiful relationship and chapter in your lives coming to an end. Once again, thank you for being who you are and I truly do hope you two stay friends. You both will still always be a Lord and a Lady in my heart. Love you guys.

you two are so full of shit

jesus... I love you both but man, I can't believe we're going through this again in just a week later or so... still wishing you both the best for your future and you either seek help somewhere (if you haven't done so already) or actually go through with it if you don't feel like you belong together anymore.

Apology REJECTED!

Obviously saddened, but no surprise. All part of the human experience. I will stick around to see the new direction in your content, but I suspect I will not be able to watch your previously recorded yet unseen videos—that would feel like sitting on the iceberg and watching the Titanic slowly approach. I’d rather wait to see how you two pull yourselves from the icy waters and create your new way ahead. Keep on keeping on.

Jeannie looks and sounds devastated. 😭 if this is what is best for you both, then we will support you both. We love you both and will respect you both.

What ever you need, and whatever you decide just make sure you do it for you. This is your life and if you are perusing happiness you are bound to fall into either depression or denial. Don’t be afraid to take some time away from us. There’s too many voices here for a relationship of two lol. I love you guys (as a fan not in a creepy way ;P )and have been with you since the mods days. I wish you both the best of love lunch and fortune in your futures! ❤️

As I said in the “Clarity “ video, those of us who follow the two of you have become vested in your lives. The relationship you two have is of your own making and wills. We support your decisions. If relationships were easy they wouldn’t be worth having. I wish you both the best and will be here for the foreseeable future.

Ok now I kinda feel trolled ngl.

Jeannie’s Patreon is?

Ok that was a selfish move Henry. I’m sorry but damn. I know ending a relationship like that is hard but the way it was handled…. I hope you guys can find happiness and I will continue my support as I love you both but please don’t hurt each other more

I guess this is the end

Wish you both the best

You cant blame yourself so hard for wanting the pain to go away so quickly. We will always be here for the both of you. I think we all understand if you both need time to yourself during this period so that you can both be the best possible friends you can be to one another. I do hope you both can produce content together but please dont rush yourselves. We all love you both.

No offense but how about you keep this things to yourselves. I understand you all are a public figure and what not but if these things are private, maybe in the future you could avoid situations like this we don't need to know every aspect of your life. Just a thought 🤷🏻‍♂️

I was concerned when it was taken back so quickly, I even loosely mentioned it in my comment then. While it truly is sad that this where your path has lead, that doesn’t mean you need to allow yourselves to look back on the last 8+ years with anything but the the happiness and joy and everything else you experienced then. Don’t allow yourselves to be clouded by the end. And don’t allow yourselves to close the door on what could still be. My sister separated from her husband 3 times in almost a year and half because they were going through and extremely long and bad rough patch. But after help, support and some counselling they overcame their differences and got through the tough times and had an extremely strong, stable and happy relationship afterwards. Much stronger than before. I wish you both the best going forward, and look forward to what comes after. Let the dust settle, if you need a break for a week or a month from content, then take a break. Don’t feel forced to work right now as that can lead to things getting worse. You have both cultivated an amazing community, we will still be here.

There’s nothing I can say that a 1000 more comments could say better. Separating is one of the hardest things to happen in life. But the love in this community is so strong, that this too shall pass.

Ya hope you tried the counselling thing, if you didn't you might look back one day and be very disappointed with yourself you didn't try it. If you did and this still feels right for you 2 than good on you guys for probably making the right choice. Wish the best for both of you.

It’s hard to know what to say. Just that I hope you both heal fast and find your happiness. You’re both incredible people.

So why are you breaking up?

Henry, its called the 7 year itch for a reason. Its very obvious that this is not something that both if you want, but you have to figure it out. The grass isn't always greener. I've been married to my wife for 12 years, together for 14. And its super easy to get into your own head, but you move past that. I hope you figure things out, and I hope you can both be happy. As an older guy all I can tell you is thst happiness starts and ends with you. A new partner or a change in scenery doesn't do it. It just masks your unhappiness with the excitement of "new" for a while. With all the love I have, I suggest seeing a therapist if you aren't already. It's not weakness, but some things you just can't figure out on your own, you know? With all the tiny pieces of my heart, I wish you the best

You don't have to apologize for being human.

As we all said in the previous time this news hit the tower, while of course this is a tough time full of emotions, what matters most is that you both are happy and healthy at the end of everything. If that unfortunately can’t happen from or doesn’t include a romantic relationship together then at the very least you can hold your heads high and hold comfort in that your actions are hopefully with yourselves’ and each other’s best interests at heart. We love you both so very much and please don’t stress about the emotional whiplash you fear you all are giving us, all we care about is knowing that you will both be ok.

It felt like the taking it back immediately was a rushed decision. You guys take care and do what you think is best. Thank you for updating us on the situation, cause I think most of us are like me in terms of caring a lot about you two. But we are not the priority in this matter. Take your time and everything else can wait. Wish you two the best~

Broken or unbroken. I hope you two guy take the time to sort the feelings out by going your seperate ways and living in a world without each other. I broke up with a 3 year relationship recently and just distancing myself from her was the easiest and least painful way to move on.

I think this is a mistake on Henry's part bro relationship are work iv been in a few bad one how bad is it really if your looking for perfection it don't exist its give and take

😢

No matter how much we love you guys, from the outside we can't ever really know what is going on with your whole lives. All I can say is we wish you both the very best, whatever that might look like!💖

never commented before but it’s you guys that help me beared my darkest time. just want to say a very very big thank you and i am sure we will all be here still. Thank you.

So after all that you guys have agreed to split… honestly it’s none of our business what you guys decide to do. Sorry to hear that you are officially calling it quits, but maybe this’ll be for the best. Maybe down the road you two will get back together. If not that’s okay too.

Just to be clear... you all should feel zero obligation to share any of this with us. Its none of our business. Regardless, we will all be here to support both of you! Wishing you both all the best!

Quit playing games with my heart... take the time to figure things out

“The flames of Love that once burned bright, now seems cool upon its sight, though the fuel of that fire remains no more…a bond unbreakable still shines forevermore” - Steven Padilla (Jr) I still love you guys, you’ve been an incredible part of life…I believe pain is like a pressure, it’ll either grind you to dust, or turn you into a diamond…and you guys, are best hidden gems a person like me, could ever have dreamed of stumbling upon…though there will always be dark days ahead…there will always be light that’s shines through it…love you guys… 🥹 (I’m not Crying you’re crying)

You guys have been a major part of many peoples lives. It sucks that life went in this direction but you both are amazing wonderful people and you both have long futures in front of you. Move forwards with no regrets and love unconditionally. And Henry, FYI doing something for someone because you know it'll make them happy and them being happy makes you happy is probably the farthest from being selfish someone can get. Don't ever stop doing that.

I wish you both luck in you endeavors.

I’m sorry to hear that. I hope you two find healing and peace.

I was really wishing for an MXR wedding.. heartbroken for you two

Stay safe, buddies

Okay no this shit just reminds of when Jesse and Jeana from bfvsgf broke up shit was stupid because they still loved each other clearly but the grind of putting out videos came first so here's a thought put the camera down for a bit like you said you've got backlog of videos to put up anyway use that time to fix the problems rather than throwing it away when you clearly still love each other I'm literally the same age as you two you ain't teenagers so step back and fix it because we all know you'll look back years down the line and think what if don't be stupid and put money and fame before a relationship that's been literally years in the making over something I can nearly guarantee is probably petty asf. I'm sorry if that comes across as me being horrible or whatever but I've been down this road before with a girl and now she's the mother of my son you love each other and care for each other deeply so what's the fucking problem why can't you fix it

Well there goes my last strand of faith in love and relationships LOL

This is why God creates therapy. If you 2 truly care about each other, You should have done that before these 3 videos.

marry that woman before someone else does.

Well guys, I hope you can sort your shit together, wish u peeps luck in whatever u do and hopefully u start working on yourselves.

Okay I’m Confused. Did they break up or not? Because there was that one that he deleted then that other one taking it back then now this one. This is a bit confusing. Are they together or not?

You must do what is best for the both of you. I wish you each the best in life in whatever you do. Good luck!

Okay so, obviously we are not privy to whatever has happened between you two nor should we know it, but please take the time to figure yourselves out. Wether that is together or for yourselves but some deep diving would beneficial for you both to understand just what is going on. Even if that be professional guidance and help. Much love to you both

Continuing to "be friends" sounds like a terrible decision to be honest. A clean break can heal. Going from "i deeply love you" to "hey bro", wont.

Damn it. I was pulling for you two to find common ground to continue to work on your relationship but I truly hope you all find peace apart and grow together in your friendship you all will always be my favorite two people and I really want to see you both grow.

Im saddened to see this happen but if it means happiness for you guys thats what matters most, I hope the best for you two

… MEDICATION. Seriously, both of you seek therapy. Good grief! ❤️

Love you both, wish you all the best, and remember always to first of all take care of yourselves, you are the most important

Thanks for the laughs. Wish you both the best

Please just go to couples counseling...

Again?!? I have no words anymore... Edit: been a couple of days, and I am just deeply disappointed with all this. I can't even enjoy the videos you will post from now on because of the emotional roller-coaster you put your patrons on. Do better in the future, whether together or apart, and go get some therapy.

That’s the saddest thing I’ve seen in so long. I’m sorry to both. Your relationship was such a fun experience.

The way jeanie is speaking sounds like she is being held at gunpoint and told to say the lines. Sometimes it’s just not meant to be guys and that’s ok.

So i didnt see the first video about the break up. But did Henry do something bad or was it a mutual decision? Cause it sounds like at least from this video, Henry did something and then they argued which led to the break up.

-_-‘ Love you both.

Brah

This is a sad time. I’m sorry for you two

Selbst die Verwirrung is verwirrt

I am supportive,hope you have fun in the new chapter

💗💗💕💕💓💓 Love and hugs to you both Hope everything works out between you both 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

Take some time and do what is right for you. Much love to you both ❤️

This is sad but shit happeneeds and there is nothing we can do about it , we love you both . i guess i just have the question as to why you are breaking up ?

Don't worry about us, you guys take time for yourselves

Oh noes :( i love u guys hope for the best.

I’m getting confused. Are they together still or not?

I was done with these two last week

Man I've been watching you guys since the beginning and it is sad to see you guys call it quits but I'm happy that you are being mature and reflecting on the 8 years together and that you guys can work past this and continue to support each other

Maybe slow down and take some time to figure things out. You don't need to share it publicly and put that pressure on yourselves.

No I’m sorry

It sucks having such an amazing relationship end but I still wish the best for you both! And that the two of you move forward with all the blessings I can bestow

Wait so what happens now

Why are you telling us all this? I've been watching you for 8 years now, but we are still strangers. This is starting to feel like a weird humiliation ritual for one of you...

First mb I had to

It's tough since there hasn't been a lot of communication about the underlying stressors that led you guys here, but if relationship counseling hasn't been attempted, it is absolutely worth it -- even as a post mortem, since you guys retain a good relationship. I did it with a partner who cheated on me and it helped me really understand what led to it. Godspeed, guys.

I knew this was gonna happen! Everyone told me I was wrong! I knew 100% this was a emotional reaction.

Wait what?

Don’t be

Ok wtf