Some very bad news
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WTF...I haven't checked in for a minute and DAMN.. I honestly didn't expect this, I was hoping to see that they would have gotten engaged, married or were expecting thier first child 😕 Sad to see. In my opinion, Henry looked very sad & was holding on to hopefully getting her back.. I guess She has fully moved on. 🤷🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️
Relationships are a commitment, love isn’t a a feeling it’s a choice, all relationships go through that period where you think the best choice is to separate but it’s a storm that’s worth going through
I broke up with the girl of my dream in febuary too i feel that pain in them both😭
Honestly sad but makes me happy how it ended you two where the one relationship I really looked up to, and sadly life changes you know, but both of you were able to come to agreements that would better each other and honestly to that a salute both of you. Both of you guys deserve the best and I hope you both have great success.
nonsense
Hmm. Miss her, but I genuinely understand. I feel like this should be pinned. But I'm glad you two worked it out
Iv been a fan of MXR since back when he was just a voice doing Skyrim and fallout videos, and a fan of Jeannie’s since her first appearance. Iv watched them through their ups and downs, the way the community would come together when their channel got in trouble. And from their first patreon (and onlyfans) outing. I literally hate most YouTube personalities, cuz they’re fake as f**k, and often terrible people. And whenever I saw Jeannie and henry in a video together, it was like coming home, And I would always be saying I hope nothing happens to them, because their bond and their chemistry was so adorably beautiful, To find out they lost their channel (again) due to YouTube’s bullsh*t was bad enough, but to hear they’re broken up? I felt that in my soul. 😭. I wish them all the best, but if this videos any indication, I don’t know if a friendship is going to work, it seems like Jeannie’s cool with friends (as girls always are for some weird reason) but you can see how much Henry still loves her, so I don’t know how long that’s gonna work for them. It’s the end of an era, for sure, so if I can say one thing, thank you for everything you’ve brought to us fans, and all the best to you both. You’ve hit a lot of setbacks, but your resilience and your kindness is your strength.
This makes me think maybe he proposed and she said no for some reason and he accepted it.
That sucks. You guys were so cute together, I really hoped you two would last. All the best to both of you in whatever comes next.
May you both find the peace you need and the growth you yearn for. God bless you always and thank you for all the years you have given us. We all wish you the best. Hang in there and remember that "time heals all wounds". It hurts like heck now, but it will not hurt forever. Friendship is a wonderful and beautiful thing, so I hope you never lose that, even if it temporarily feels like maybe it is a bit lost right now.
I thought this would happen when jennie started getting more confident, I hope the channel grows much bigger without her.
Yikes 👀
I’ve not watched mxr for a bit so you can imagine my shock when I saw this video, glad you guys can still be friends though I’m still sad to see this happened, I had images in my head of you making a “just got married” video one day but I guess that’s not in the cards. Wishing you guys well and will continue to support your respective channels
While im sad to see this, I am glad nothing seems to have exploded and I hope that they can remain friends. I know that struggle and its hard. Ill enjoy the good memories I have more than ill wallow in the bad
Playing catch up with the channel... so you can understand my surprise when Henry upoaded his lasted video. I remember in Korea on military rotation, enjoying my time at the PX and a video popped up on my recommended saying "Who is MxR's girlfrind?" The only question that I asked was "who tf is MxR?" Ever since then, I watched every video on youtube and was devastaded when they deleted your channel. I've been wanting to watch the rest of the videos but work has been keeping me from watching my daily videos. Drive on Henry and Jeannie, Drive on!
I have been watching your mod videos since, well I don't remember the exact year but since around 2014-2015 and I saw the original video you uploaded of your first date with Jeannie. You two were so cute together. Very sad to hear about the break up. I met my wife briefly before your first date and we would watch your Skyrim mod videos together for dinner every time you uploaded a new one. We are still together after all this time. It is a long time to be together with the same person and sometimes it just doesn't work out sad to say 😓. I'm happy I supported you guys and wish you both the best of luck and happiness 😊
I found this out through a FUCKING CAT BOY VTUBER. And I subscribed to the Patreon with the last money I did have to find out if it was true. I'm so broken hearted 💔 To find out it is 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 LOVE IS AN ILLUSION. IT'S NOT REAL. LOVE IS DEAD. WE'RE ALL FUCKED! SOMEBODY HOLD ME! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Me too! 🥺 I thought the catboy was making shit up for clicks…., so I came here to check, and….. damn 😵😔😞😣😖😭
Just one more thing Japan has taken away from Korea...
ive alway wanted to see the video where they get married... but this it hit me like a truck im so sad. love you both!
Sorry you two didn't work out after all the hard work. I hope for you both to have success in life wherever it takes you from here.
super sad but henry seems 10X happier with kai.
Shut up.
not to pry i feel like jeannie is the one who prompted the break so why cry while hes fighting just let him go :C
That doesn't mean it isn't painful for her too, let her cry. And we don't know if she did, even if I feel the same way as you
I just re-subbed and no videos of Jeannie. This is really sad.
damn, i only joined the patreon to actually see if the broke up, and damn. Its true... Thanks for all the fun videos you guys have made. You guys were the of the reason i was able to pull through my depression and suicidal period of my life. Thankyou so much.
Can't believe I'm so late but I remember the first video of Jeanie being involved in the content and I'm pretty sure it was a vlog. I've adored you both the entire time and as sad as it is I hope nothing but good comes in the future.
I know I got to the party really late kind of missed this video. Just watching it over cause I miss Jeannie’s theme song at the end of every video but I guess I’m gonna have to open up a twitch account just to watch her. Best of luck to both of you .
I'm confused tho? like I could swear you guys posted a video after this where you regrettd the decision??? either that or I've mandellad into another timeline or something idk x.x
I do belive they made a video to explain and they talked about regretting it. But they didn't really explain why or what happened. They may have removed it. But from what I read they want to keep it private.
This timeline sucks donkey schlong. I blame YouTube.
Yeah 😭💔
This honestly makes me sad. You guys gave me so many laughs with your videos and made me admire your relationship. I'm a Brazilian guy who's never been in a relationship so i don't know how it is and how it feels to breakup, but i see that today everyone just jumps in and out of dating and never achieves anything but apathy and bitterness. it seems that even a great couple like yours ended in the same situation, even if you say you will be friends. There are not many couples to admire on the internet anymore, and i can't help but feel bad, because that means there's no other choice but to stay single.
Well, I somehow missed this video. Wish you both the best.
Same, the world might be ending
I remember I first started watching Henry when randomly looking for Skyrim guides and tips videos ages ago. I support both of you individually but understand the situation as i've been in a similar situation myself with my kids mother. Looking forward to future content Henry!
Nah man this is lowkey making me not believe in true love as corny as that sounds
Damn coming back to the Patreon to this :(. Like everyone I was building up some content to binge but damn I was wondering why people were saying Jeanie is gone in the newer videos with Kai. Your guys were the one couple that felt genuine… I hope you guys find your peace. Damn this hurts haha
MxR was there before she appeared I started to watch Henry first as a whacky dude that I would like to have as a friend. Wierd enough he met her in a way while he was being him self. This was like the best thing that can happen. Now what I see is just a girl can't really remember what she fell for at the first place and the guy just can't do a thing about it. Giving the space she needs. Let me tell you something brother. I been there before and I been there for your content before yet I do accept that you two made it better. I am married now and with a kid involved I was just hoping the same from you guys so my kid would be watching yours. However lately those cracks were visible, your content were same but the reactions changed a lot. This is indeed sad and all but also growing. Growing to real life level. Teaching all of us that everybody has a phase to handle in their own way. Shoot I been through the almost same and only thing I am sure of Henry there is no turning back. So for the Jeannie don't you worry everything gonna be better for her, leave her at that. You just gotta make your life easier for your self this time.
I really hope you two work things out. I have watched your videos for years now and you guys were always the best part of my day. I was devastated when you were banned on YouTube, but I found you again on Patreon. I know I don’t know any of the details or reasoning for your breakup, but I do know that I have always prayed to find someone that could make me smile the same way you guys do when you’re together.
i can see the pain and heart wrench in his eyes
Omg I'm so late for this... now I understand. I was worrying for a while about what happened with you two, and this finally popped up for me. Well, it literally is what it is. Love you two and stay safe!! ❤️
I wanna hug you guys so bad. I'm so sorry🥺
I was watching you guys for so long that I even felt like I wanted to cry lol😭
i wish i could add that one darksouls gif
Not that my opinion matters that much I'm just immensely disappointed. Really had hope love was a real thing i can see now my hope was misplaced. Hope the best for everyone but this just put me in the hole deeper GG.
I saw the video quite fast but I took some time to catch up. That was unexpected but I'm thankful the relationship itself survived. You have great alchemy and whether it's a loving or platonic relationship, I do feel better knowing you can still rely on each other.
And yeah, of course it does seem like the decision came from Jeannie, but they're a couple, and it's the minimum respect you should give to your partner to accept when things change. If you ever think your partner should be bound to you against their will you are not thinking of them as a partner, it's just your boundless ego talking.
I didn't expect to come back to this😢 I was letting the videos pile up while saving some money, so I wasn't really keeping up with your guys' vids. I hope things go well for both of you
There is a youtube guy that goes by hoe_math that can explain this perfectly. Jeannie is no longer attracted to Henry. He has all of the nice guy traits but few of the masculine bad boy traits. This puts Henry in the friend zone even though he clearly loves her. In the mean time Kai is going to shoot her shot and Henry will eventually give in.
Can you specify which video exactly as he has so many?
Jeanie seems happier where she is now. except no Ein.
I normally like the videos as I go so I remember which video I'm on, but I don't want to hit like on that shit... lol
You can see Henry's heart just break a few times there after Jeannie makes a comment, that was hard to watch... not blaming either said or saying who did what, and they both look torn up, but a few times there... you can just see Henry break. Fuck...
It looks to me as if he's with Kai now... but they're not showing it yet. Why else would they spend so much time together?
The problem for Henry is that no matter what Jeannie says, if he ever does get with Kai she is going to get verrrrrrry upset.
From what i observe, jeannie decided to go. henry is still clinging on... sad to see these two go separate.
That's exactly how it seems to me, too.
I'm team Henry on this one... feel like he kinda got taken for a long ride... karma will decide.
This was the couple that made me still believe in love... I'm not even para social here. I know I don't know them but they seemed like such a strong couple in this world of break ups and temporary relathionships.
So real bro
It took me more than a month to watch this video. I know I'm being para-social, but it really upset me. It was really brave of you guys to put some of what you went through, trying to make the relationship work over the past few years, into some of your videos. It was also really helpful, and inspirational. I hope you guys are okay, and I hope you can both find ways to be happy.
I also stopped half way. I’m going to process this and continue it in a few days…
You 2 need to do what's best for you
Im confused have yall broken up or naurr?
they will find each other again. someday.
So sorry to hear this. I feel for you both.
I literally just renewed patreon to watch this video. I’m in tears but I wish you guys the best. I hope you guys get back together but just want you guys to be happy.
Best to both. Its crazy to be around the same age, be there before the relationship, and now I guess be here after.
I still adore you two :D and until you two yank the plugs I am still right here for you both!
Wait I thought there was a post about them getting back together, did they take that down?
same I thought that too maybe they changed their minds again.
I not taking sides, I love both of these people, but watching that... IDK know if Jeannie wanted this at all. She was holding back tears the whole time. And Henry was just like, we'll always be soul mates...
I got the opposite impression. With pointing out Henry forgetting the "platonic" part when he said soul mates, they were both obviously fighting back tears, and that kiss at the end. Clearly he isn't ready to let go. Regardless I don't this is easy for either of them, and no matter who called it off, if they weren't happy then that's best for them both to end it. I just hope they both succeed in moving on or possibly get back together. Sometimes people just need a little space. Only time will tell
They want you until they don't need you (to build a following, live a cushy lifestyle, etc.)
Damn just resubed to the patreon after a year break cuz I wanted to laugh at some funny vids... Wish the best for you both <3
Unhappy news, indeed. Just my impressions, but Jeannie always struck me as a bit of a bleeding heart, a wounded deer, while Henry came across as more grounded and emotionally buffered. He seemed to process relational turbulence with a kind of internal remove, a cooler lens on chaos. Compared to Jeannie, he appeared more self-assured and resilient. Over time, she voiced frustrations about his apparent lack of warmth or emotional mirroring. It felt like she wasn’t receiving the kind of resonance or reassurance she expected from a partner. That said, I imagine it was equally exhausting for Henry to be expected to constantly stabilize the emotional weather, especially if those storms became chronic or emerged from internal struggles he had no tools to manage. Jeannie has, over the years, obliquely referenced taking medications, struggling with low motivation, and having difficulty just facing the day. She’s never been explicit, but the implication has consistently pointed toward mood regulation and sleep. Whether those struggles were a long-term part of her personality or escalated over time isn’t something outsiders can really know. Still, their presence was quietly and persistently acknowledged in the background. I don’t think marriage or children would have changed that dynamic. Both of them often seemed reluctant to take the relationship in that direction, or at least felt it was still too early. Perhaps the emotional foundation wasn’t quite right. Or maybe one was still hoping for something deeper from the other, something the other could not or would not grow into. I’ve also never been fully convinced that she was physically at ease in the relationship. Even when their content leaned into more provocative territory, including the sex dolls or certain particularly risqué Let’s Plays, there was a subtle awkwardness. They never radiated the kind of instinctive intimacy long-term couples tend to develop. I sometimes got the impression that Jeannie felt self-conscious about that, and Henry, in turn, seemed cautious, as if he were tiptoeing around something unspoken. The “platonic soulmates” line, to me, read like emotional copium. It sounded like a label applied to soften the reality of a relationship that had lost romantic viability. What followed seemed to confirm a gentle but complete fading of that flame. Creatively, Jeannie has other dimensions. Her art, cooking, streaming, and musical interests rarely got much space under the MXR umbrella. Even though she’s had a Twitch presence for a while, I’ve wondered if the absence of an identity outside the shared brand took a quiet toll. Walking away from a medical path to commit fully to content creation was no small choice. Over time, if that role didn’t offer the creative autonomy or personal satisfaction she hoped for, it could very well have seeded regret, identity loss, or even quiet resentment. Just one opinion, of course. I always admired their synergy. Their dynamic was distinct and their content kept me engaged for years. It’s sad to see this chapter end, but if the emotional currents were misaligned for this long, maybe parting was the most honest path forward.
This feels more like you're complaining or insulting them, and maybe don't write a whole essay when you're writing a comment.
Please you guys make it work. I hope you guys read this and get back together and work it out.
I have been reading most of the comments about how everyone didn’t expect this to happen because you guys were the best, and in my opinion you guys were amazing, your videos has made each and every view’s days with Jennie’s smile and Henry not being able to tell difference between animals. Crazy enough I haven’t seen your videos in a while so I proceeded caught up on your patreon whiles laughing at all the funny and hilarious videos u guys made, just for my brother to break the news that u guys broke up. I like to give greatest condolences and I am truly sorry for all the videos you guess had to hide that u were broken up. We are gonna miss you
Dam wodie! If ya'll can't stay together. Who can? Messed up my lil world bruh bruh. I get it tho. And I wish yall the best. I hope ya'll not only survive but thrive ya dig that? Keep ya head up. Trouble ain't always.
Dudes, this is sad, but life has a lot of curveballs, and some are good some are bad. Sometimes you need to move away to be brough closer. Or it was a growing pain which was meant to be a pain. This isn't about me, this is about you two. And I support both of you regardless of your personal relations. Please just take care, I am old enough to have rebuilt my life thrice, so I can tell you that you can rebuild and move on. In the end there will be just the happy memories with a nostalgic twinge. This too shall pass.
Look, this isn't really my place to say, but I'm going to say it anyway... I've been watching y'all for decades (?), and practically and every relationship has it's problems. The only reason to break up and not work it out is: A) Abuse. If someone is being abused, they should split. That makes sense, but then staying friends and continuing to make the same content, doesn't make sense. I don't personally see this being the case, but I don't know what happens behind closed doors... B) There is an ultimate goal which they can't / won't compromise on. As an example - maybe Jeannie wants marriage and kids, but Henry doesn't. She has been with him for 15 years (I don't actually know how long, but it's been a long time), and Henry still hasn't proposed (for real... I think he fake proposed once if I recall correctly). Judging from this video, it looks to me like this was Jeannie's ultimate decision (yes, they say mutual, but I don't see it that way). Henry looks and sounds to me like he is in a difficult spot of "If I don't agree to it mutually, she is going to disappear from my life", so he is going along with it. To me, it seems more like their relationship hasn't progressed in 'x' years, so Henry has F'ed up not proposing in a timely manor. So, though it seems like Jeannie was the ultimate decision maker, it was Henry who F'ed it all up, and no matter how much he loves her and wants to be with her, he has not shown the willingness to continue the relationship to where Jeannie would like it to be, and biologically speaking, she only has so much time. No matter how much she loves him and wants to be with him, she can't force him to want her same ideals and life goals, hence this break up. Maybe I'm completely wrong, but everything above, was essentially my same situation, except I did propose, and did have kids. My wife (been married for 16 years now) gave me an ultimatum, saying either we progress our relationship and start working to have kids (that was her lifelong dream, to be a mother), than she will find someone else who would. I didn't really want kids, but I did want her. She wanted 4 kids, I compromised and said 2... We now have a son (age 11) and a daughter (age 7), and though I originally didn't want kids, I LOVE them with all my heart and can't imagine a day without them. Being a dad has been the best thing that ever happened to me, no matter how hard it seems at times. HENRY... if this is you, don't let your fear or reluctance of having kids ruin it all. I assure you, it is worth it.
Idk they did 2 more videos after this which have been deleted and it's pretty obvious Henry ended things. Also Jeannie has said she doesn't believe in marriage and if Henry would ask her she'd say no.
I've never understood the concept of "we love each other, but let's just be friends." I'm 27 and have been through breakups after long relationships (5-6 years). If someone asked me "what do you want," I would answer without hesitation that I want those relationships back. There are countless reasons in this world to give up on each other, and life could hit you with a random meteorite from the sky at any moment - which is exactly why it's important to look for reasons to stay together instead. I don't believe in concepts like "wrong person," "wrong timing," or "it just doesn't work." You build your own relationships. You either work on them or you don't. There's no third abstract entity to blame or shift responsibility onto. I've been watching MxR since high school. I went through my first breakup alongside them. I thought "at least Henry and Jeannie are doing well." Maybe I saw my own relationships reflected in yours. But now that even you two are breaking up - I'm just losing my sense of purpose in life
I feel you man... losing a relationship and seeing the couple you admire also breaking up makes one believe there's no love and that the future is lonely and cold...
I expected this immediately after the youtube drama. They always leave when life gets hard. Not surprised at all.
If you mean that Jeannie might have soured on the relationship when things got hard, that possibility had occurred to me, too. But people are saying there are a couple of deleted videos which suggest that Henry broke up with Jeannie. Still, it's possible the recent hardships put a strain on both of them and the dynamic made the relationship unsustainable.
So your sayyying there's a chance.....
I haven't gathered all my thoughts yet but this is indeed a sad moment in MxR and Potastic Panda history. You both have brilliant chemistry on camera and I will ALWAYS truly with both of you the best, even if your not the best for each other. You've both been through so much with each other that this does seem like it came from left field but you guys have expressed relationship issues in the past so thats probably just my perspective of always wishing you the best rather then this genuinely coming from nothing. I want to say much more but I'm not great at commenting, I've always been more of a Lurker! I Sincerely hope that you guys can still be best friends and work together on content in the future. If not thats fine too, the majority of this community, me included will always support both of you! I wish you both the absolute best possible!!! Love you both (Platonically! lol).
God bless you both
This feels like PrankvsPrank all over again with Jesse and Jeana... but looking at them now, they are still very close friends and love each other to the moon, but knew they had grow as individuals, to be better for the future, even if it meant not being together.
Hope you both the happiness you deserve, but gotta say because it is burning me inside, poor Henry moved back to LA after buying a house in Seattle... He moved worlds for Jeannie, lifted her up every time, feeling for him right now, cs sometimes what a dude goes through for a woman feels invisible...
I wish you both the best. Thank you for all the years of entertainment.
Hey. This is coming from two people who are in the almost same situation. We dated and had been together for more than a decade, and from 2020 we have watched your videos together till today (and will continue to do so). We have now officially split but still hold plenty of affections and am in each other's life constantly, and so we know very well sometimes love and affection alone might just not be enough, especially if we wish only the best for each other. I hope with whatever decisions you will heal and grow in the way you wish to. I know most people won't understand or agree, but as long as you (two) do. Sincerely, best wishes for you two.
What happens to Ein???????
Be honesty, is this Ein's fault?
So is this the orginal break up video I missed, or did they break up again after posting clarity video of getting back together?
Yall do know they are actually broken up again.
Wait, so they broke up, then got back together, just to break up again shortly after?!
Ive notice you two grew distant. But as a Krewsader no choice but to press on sheild and sword in hand.
I wish you both the best
I feel like my everything is over now 😑
:(
I am so confused. and my heart hurts D:
This will not end well, good luck folks
This fucked me up, I was really looking forward to the youtube uploads.
Don't really understand obviously but you both still love each other so I'm confused, unless someone did something badly wrong, I feel like this is the end but one day you'll regret this deeply, I hope not for your sakes but one can hope.
long relationships are hard because people keep putting up with things instead of talking things
I had to watch it in 2x speed, it makes it less sad and more funny that way.🥲
Can't say I'm surprised. It was clear for years it was going to end. Granted I expected it was going to end before the end of 2024, so they made it a bit longer. But if you look at their interactions over the years it was only a matter of time.
Unfortunately I also have experienced finding somebody you love so very deeply, but know for both to be happy ( or happier ) in life, this can't work out. It hurt so indescribably much, and in my case, the relationship was only two and a half years long, which isn't even comparable to your case, so I can't imagine how it felt realizing this. I am happy for you, that you are still best friends, and I really hope that this works out for you two without too much more pain. You are loved
Continuing working together as just friends after the breakup, assuming that the breakup continues, can work if both are on the same page: Both want to stay friends and both want to work together, but if one of you is reluctantly still wanting to be a couple, and accepting the breakup reluctantly it will be a lot more difficult and painful for at least one of you: It's almost like being in a friend zone with one wanting more but accepting less !?
Sad. Well I hope both of you find someone to make you happy, whether that be each other or not.
Do you stay living together? Who will Kai live with?
She's living with her parents, Kai is a friend and does not live with them, you may be referring to Ein, their dog... if they are still friends the other person can visit the dog anytime I assume, i believe Ein is registered to Henry tho.
I am totally confused and devastated. And confused!!!! the love shown in this video almost shows that both of them do not want to part. So who decided it was best to move on? Y'all better find a way to fix this mess or I will crash out!! On both of youse!!!
I am guessing they decided this together. Just because you love each other doesn't automatically mean you are meant to be together. Loving another person and knowing them well and deeply, can mean that you know, for both to grow and be happy in the future, they might not be the right partner for life.
I hope you both get through this. I hope you both will find another that make you both happy. Did you try marriage / relationship counseling ?? Anyway best of luck in your future endeavors. (wait) Does that mean you and Kai are viable now??
but wait didn't they just upload a video saying that they're back together again?......or was that video deleted?
It was deleted, they said they regretted their decision but put another video out saying they indeed had broken up, that video was then reuploaded as a reaction video with a statement saying they have ended things
Sorry to hear the news. This hits so hard for me right now. I was with my wife for 18 years, married for 12. This last couple years has been rough, we were working on it (mainly me) apparently she been playing scenario of living on her own and all this stuff the whole time I was trying to work on us. She says she not happy anymore and doesn’t want to work on it. Awaiting court date to get divorce and gotta sell our house. Yay 2025
Bless you bro, I hope the future gets better for you, and us all
Hope for the best for you two. Don't worry about the fans. There is plenty of content to keep us entertained. It's been great watching your videos. Just give us a heads up when the last one is coming out.
It happens, especially when you're young. Now you both get to explore the world and find out who you are as individuals. I wish you both the best of luck.
And in a few years they will regret this, maybe not tho I wonder if Henry cheated or something, the way she reacted when he kissed her I've seen before.
This isn't something I ever thought I see/hear and I'm like WTF? So they just grew apart after 8 years?
Damn bruh I can’t even watch this it’s just sad af and we can’t understand from the context it’s just like what do you mean bruh you either love someone or you don’t falling out of love is ok but love is love simple
Ya'll take care of yourself. I love you both because you're wonderful people and have a delightful sense of humor and joy. I'm glad you are maintaining your friendship. Please take whatever time needed to heal and process this. God bless you both.
They got rid of the clarity video!
Yes, what happened with the other video where they said they are willing to keep working on their relationship? This is very confusing.
I had thought something like this was going on…. The move and there had been hints… but you guys do whatever is best for you… it’s your life and that has to be first of all…. Hope you return since you are my favorite internet couple, but do what’s best for you
I'm happy that you guys are acknowledging that there are some issues. It's fine to take a break and reassess things. You two are an incredibly awesome pairing -- whether a couple or just friends -- and I'll continue to support you two whatever you do. That being said, I keep forgetting to send you guys something I bought for you... But with Kai having moved out, it's lost a bit of the humor in it.
Yeah yeah I'm the advice guy y'all never want to hear from but, objectively ask yourself why do people have relationships in general, it did wonders for me and saved years of my life from being wasted, oh btw the answer is not the same for everyone so idk what the result will be but it'll definitely be more clear than whatever this is
To Henry: Roses are red Horses eat Hay This has to be asked Why are you gay?
This video boutta be dlelted. Henry I’m am verry sorry for you guys.
Relationships will always have their rough patches. I been married for 13 years and it has almost come to an end a few times. You two just need to identify the problem and find a solution to fixing it. It won’t always be easy but it will be worth the effort. Giving up is for the weak. And when is the baby coming?
What is it with all the "baby" suggestions? If you have even listened a bit to the sources of their current problems, you would know that would be about the most stupid thing they could do at this point. And that is besides outside expectations/pressure being the most invalid reason to have kids, ever.
Never stop improving because you to belong together. It's very nice seeing an exception to the rule. 10+ years 99% of people NEVER make it that far and seeing that brings me peace.
Wait I was away on a vacation for a week and all of that happened and I didn't get to see that video!!
Don't beleive them, Jeany is dating kai & henry is actually 5 badgers in a human suit
I fucking KNEW IT
God really said. O really have some flash backs and remember.
Sounds to me like two actually mature adults looked across at each other and found more reasons to love each other. That silence when the other's talking? Use it to really listen, and everything will be fine.
Every relationship has its ups and downs. The downs can feel like it's not going to work at times. Relationships only work when both sides give their best efforts to make it work. From what I see from the glimpse you give us in your videos you guys are in a really good relahtionship and it would be a shame if it every fizzled our completely. Work hard, play hard, and build strong connections. Enjoy the little moments. Create big moments and grow together.
I want to be optimistic and hope this is real and genuine. Please don't think you guys have to stay together for our sakes. Be true to yourselves, if it isn't working don't force it. I too have the feelings that you've described about someone. It's why I haven't moved on or feel like I would ever be able too. **black pill take** wow bro that's some real simp shit. **guy is the background...ohhh he gottttemmmmmmmmmm...I'll see myself out, lol The real questions always are can I live my life without ever seeing this person again? Do I want this person in my life, not because what they give me but how they make me feel?
Glad to see you both want to make it work. This is a good lesson that relationships are hard, and need work from time to time. What's impotent is that you keep at it, and get through the rough patches. That's what keeps a real long term relationship going.
I've had similar experience with my current gf. I certainly felt dumb after I had my realization! I'm happy for both of you and like always I wish you the absolute best in life! Stay positive!
Henry. You understand now., so the time has come. Go buy a ring. You are a fool if you do not, and you will always regret it.
Yeah, a ring isn't going to solve a breakup.
Its that homelife that has you guys like this.. most couples have time away from each other throughout the day and actually earn the time to be able miss each other... I didn't see the first video but gathered as much from this one and from the time I've been w you guys on youtube ever since the rona days... in essence you're living that married life– but w nothing to pull you away from the home (in other words a standard job/career) that would create some temporary separation throughout each day— there's complacency, like Henry was touching on... all in all this is just me spitballing assumptions that I have no idea in reality to be true— but take it as an observer's point of view (as visible as that may be) it's crazy tho I never imagined paying for someone's patrion, and the first time I cave in and go for the ones that were there w meh during them rona times... a week or two later they wanna breakup! Lmfao smfh lol take care you guys and thanks for it all...
Are they broke up or not? I'm so confused
we will never know. but they decided to at least pretend they are staying together for their characters on the Mxr Plays show that we all pay for on patreon.
Well now that was a rollercoeaster of emotions ahahaha! I'm so glad you guys managed to figure things out! I've been married for 15 years now, so I can definitely say it's not easy but if you're both still willing to work things out and keep communicating, ya'll will be set for life! The best of luck to both of you!
Way better video than the previous. Upgrades looking good.
Rollercoaster of emotions. Please just freaking get married so I will feel better. Yes this is selfish, but after that sad video, my emotions have become distressed.
You've given me the biggest FOMO ever, since I missed the first video, and i don't know the details, but I'm SO happy for you and I wish you best! Love and hugs! ^^
Bro really hit em with the got'em. Glad you're back together. 😁
I am glad you worked things out but I really hope you did it for yourselves and not for us. That being said, I hope you grow old together.
Soooooo.... after the first videoi thought if they cant doo it no one can... Now they practically saying haaa pranked ya.... Well now i dont know how to feel :D
I don't usually comment on stuff, but I've have enjoyed your content for many, many years now. I'm sorry to hear you're struggling as a couple. This may be (well it is) a little weird and para social, but if you have any friends who like you combine a romantic relationship with a working relationship, have you considered reaching out to them about having a chat how they make it work? I grew with parents who have been married for over 50 years now and who spend 35+ of them running a business together seeing each other nearly 24/7. Relationships can be hard anyway but when you also work together they can be even more complex, I've observed this up close for most of my life. And I know a large part of why my parents are still together after half a century is because they got very good a separating work form love where they had to. Hope you'll work it out together and manage to make it work.
Didn't see the first video. I support you both on any decisions You all MakeI. love you both to death and don't want to see ether of you go anywhere in any way shape or form. But I will support any decisions you all make. Other than that, this is a very lovely video and heartfelt. You got a 36 year old 6 foot 1 400 pound man crying.
"This is what heaven feels like" bro? Yall got me crying at 2am on a friday.
I'm happy for you guys.
I'm very glad right now that I missed the first video.
As a Jeweler, I will make the rings, im glad you guys are doing better, life can be up and down but what matters is you two have both each other and us, and if there is anything any of us can do, let us know. I will make rings if needed btw
He needs to be asking the question. Or her..
I didn't see the video, so I honestly had no idea what was going on.
They went public about their breakup, then immediately regretted it.
I call ring bearer!
I keep watching the first 15 seconds over and over :)
I think this is a common thing. It's like cold-feet. You're brain freaks out realizing this is THE PERSON and you spaz. Same thing kind of happened to my wife (GF at the time) and I... not to that level but we did our drama for sure. But been together 14yrs so yep.
I am so happy for you two and I totally understand how hard it can be. There was key point in this video that I think is most important and that was how you can bring joy to your partner with the simplest gestures...focus on that and make that your mission. You two weathered many storms and there will be more, but focus on the joy and love you bring to each other and you'll have a wonderful life together.
Making it through hard times gonna make yall even closer
Congrats on passing the Roommate phase. It's something my wife and I had to go through too. Passion ebs and flows but as long as you can keep an eye on the bigger picture you will both be ok. Also, Roommate phase comes and goes too so it is important to communicate that when either of you are in a low point.
I just want to say that I recognize these feelings within my own relationship; feeling frustrated when your feelings don't align, feeling misunderstood, feeling not respected by my partner, feeling like we should give up and find other people, but at the same time still finding happyness, feeling joy, feeling this feeling of 'wanting to be together', you say a lot of the things we feel as well. relationships are hard, they are work, they don't stop demanding atttention and work, I love my partner even though at times we fight and get angry, but in the end, I love seeing her in the morning, I love spending time with her, and your story really hits home for me. I always thought you guys were this this perfect couple to aspire towards, that i was wrong and me and my partner weren't as good as you guys, but seeing your own struggles helps me realize again that relationships are not binary, that they are not just a match or not, that we need to spend our energy on our relationships, so I guess I am at least grateful for this raw and real peek into how you guys are doing... love you both, for real!
Take it from a guy who has been married 21 years, yep I know I'm an old man! But sometimes a break is good and the fact you have gotten back together with a renewed sense of clarity but most importantly love is something you should both treasure.
clearly ive missed something
Bro, if yall post a normal reaction vid with no context or reference to recent events. I am going to LOOSE it. Everyone probably wants to hear the details and so do I, but in all reality it’s none of our business. However it would be cool to get a little note on how things are going as I know the 12 hours before the above clip were kinda chaotic. I hope the outpouring of comments offered some “clarity”, or at least a nudge to you guys as well. Your heads are probably whirling with everything going on. But when your thoughts are gathered, if you provided the krewsade with a small update we would be fully put at ease.
I think we got entirely enough information. This is not a soap-opera, this is real life. Also, tone it down a notch, you sound more than a bit unhinged. Some self-reflection may also be in order.
Kinda reminds me of the lyrics to I'd Rather. ❤️
Post Nut Clarity? :P
I have never commented. But I'm so happy you are back together!
I understand everything you were saying Henry, when you guys were on YouTube you were my favorite youtubers, I have so many happy memories of me and my wife watching your videos together. She divorced me and your videos since then were bitter sweet, then you got banned and that was even more sad. I often look back at those memories and many others with sadness and regret, but also happiness. she used to sing along to the dig a tunnel song at the end of each video. I am not the one that chose the divorce and I didnt want to go our separate ways, but she did so now im left with regrets and what ifs
We have been fooled, bamboozled, hoodwinked, duped, and served a cold plate of betrayal with a side of confusion! I am truly gobsmacked!
so . . . I DON’T have to “ parent trap “ you guys?
As long as you two are happy, then we are happy ❤️ very happy you got clarity 😁
Unfortunately, I must have mist that video. But I can wish you all the best in the future Henry and Jeannie (Kai)
Meanwhile I’m in the process of getting a divorce and trying to find my own place 👍
Well, best of luck. This is, in a way, a second chance. Sounds like people unhappy with their marriage or ending it are now a majority. But seriously, what can you expect when you replace wanting to stay together with a legal/religious construct? The whole idea does not really make much sense today (it used to be so that women could depend on staying supported while raising the children...), but it still has mountains of false expectations and propaganda and hallucinations heaped on it.
Don't really know how to word this properly, but happy you two are happy, and I hope that you can get through this rough patch. You two are great, whether its individually or as a duo, and I wish you all the luck and happiness you deserve, which is a LOT, regardless of whatever happens.
So glad for the clarity! Henry, I'm now 60 and gonna tell you almost the same thing I told my son when I met my daughter-in-law 10+ years ago. Jeannie is prettier than you, a keeper, a pure soul, and puts up with you. Believe me, a treasure like her comes once in a lifetime. Lost my wife at 41 in 2016 and let me just say in closing-the best ones are irreplaceable and to me, Jeannie fits that bill. ❤️❤️❤️
I think its normal for people under stress to sometimes make bad choices to just get a break from it all, even if they are worse off long term. Good to see you guys worked things out. You are good together.
Give her a ring and a baby shitheal.
That would probably the worst mistake possible. They will not make that.
I had no idea what was going on. I heard “break up” and my heart sank. I’m really glad you guys were able to look introspectively into yourselves and what truly matters to you as individuals and as a couple. I’m so very happy for both of you and I love you both ❤️ P.S. Gaddamit, Henry, put a ring on her!
so it looks like half the fan base is just happy and believes they are back together. the other half thinks that this is a lie and they are pretending to be back for their characters sake, or it was all a prank of some sort. and a small percent are pissed to have their emotions played with in such a whiplash manner. THis was a very confusing and sad moment in the lore of MxR
Real life is often messy, if someone gives you even a limited glimpse into their real life... It won't go to an optimal script. But its that limited glimpse that attracts people, interacting with the genuine people you can feel a link to. In short, have reasonable expectations, its fine. Hopefully things go well for them long term.
Spent the last 24 hours revisiting how long I've been watching you both, and wow, my email notifications took me back to 2020. Half a decade of watching you both go through thick and thin. Sometimes things change, and sometimes we all need to take that step back to revisit and obtain that clarity. I'm so happy that you both took that step and decided to give it another shot. Regardless, I am so proud of both your journeys and what you have both achieved up to this point, doubly glad that I get the chance to see it continue. Love and Happiness to you both. - FateRyo
I didn't see the original post and glad to see that you saw clarity and are staying together, you two are a great couple and seeing you not be together just doesn't work with the universe, so keep it going you two! Love you both!
You played a game of emotional chicken and thankfully you flinched.
I didn't see the mystery vid, and maybe I'm blowing smoke here, but I will say that the closest relationships I have with others (SOs, friends, family members, co-workers, etc.) were all born from knock-down drag-out hell-for-leather word fights. Took me a while to learn that conflict represents a chance to set boundaries, build bridges, or reset priorities. If both of you can keep that in mind, I think you'll be alright.
Henry: "Grown-ass adults" compliment Me in a helmet and tighty-whiteys: "Thank you kind Sir!" *Tilting helmet
This is what true love looks like. I'm happy for you both! Never take it for granted!
I'm glad I missed the first video and happy you guys are working it out . The joy yall bring is amazing
Glad to see you two are working it out. Go Team Henreannie!!
Any struggles you guys may have, it is better for you both to have an honest discussios with each other on how to overcome them. Both of you have the right to privacy and shouldn't feel any pressure to reveal anything you guys don't feel comfortable sharing. I pray you guys have a bright future and are able to move past any issues.
Definitely gave us a heart attack LOL but I'm glad you both are working through it together! Things definitely get tough, so I totally understand. Good luck with everything, and you have amazing communities to help support you!
WHY AREN'T THEY MARRIED YET!?!? The reason why you guys have so many wholesome fans is you guys are so wholesome, you guys are positive energy people, and those little joys you talked about enjoying, we also enjoy seeing from both of you...
Because that would be really, really stupid? What would marriage add? Nothing. What would it take away? Possibly a lot. Just because something is an established pattern does not mean following that pattern is a good idea. People marry and have children to conform to outside expectations. And then they find they are unhappy.
People were saying that Jeannie is going through something but didn't clarify, so im guessing this may have been the reason. 🤨
A surprise to be sure, but a welcome one? I didn't get to see yesterday's video, so this confused me slightly. I only saw the notification for both videos and clicked on the first, but it brought me here. But it would be weird if you two did split, like who would get the Krewsaders, who would get Ein and who would get Kai? Also only got Patreon because you two. First ones I subbed to.
You guys are the only reason I have a Patreon and I was just about to cancel it because of that video. I love you guys and still remember the Youtube days and its the reason I'm here.
A lot of times, the issues a couple has when looking from the outside aren’t as big of a deal as you make them out to be. I don’t know what issues you two are having just try to remember, It’s you two vs the world. Have that partnership and seeing things through is a rare godsend on this evil world. Stay strong and all the best!
Crap, I missed the last video because I am traveling so I have no idea WTF you are talking about....
I still wish you both all the best all the same.
bro you gave me trauma flash backs for nothing???? but all in seriosness I am so happy that you guys are ok you guys are my everything Ive been watching you guys all the way back when henry first met jennie.
Glad I missed the video that got deleted... I only want happiness for ya'll!
Jesus, you guys scared me for that. I really enjoy the both of you and happy you guys are together. I don't know much about relationships since I'm not in a relationship but I'm so glad. I enjoy you guys channels so much and been watching them ever since. I don't want another painful event for anyone, I know everyone is going through really rough times this year but I hope the best for everyone.
There seems to be a slew of comments under this one talking about therapy. I know yall have done it in the past but it really seems like a good idea now. Really delve into this and use it to grow. Honestly, yall could probably move on happily ever after, but consider using this opportunity to unpack and understand eachother as deep as possible. Psst. Henry….give yourselves a year for reflection and growth, then take Jeannie to Korea and propose. Even if she doesn’t like the paperwork side of it, do something special. I think she missed the fireworks last weekend.
Proposing would be about the most stupid thing to do and comes with a high probability to failure. But I think they both know that. Just because something is an established pattern does not mean it is a good idea. And doing it to satisfy outside expectations is a really bad reason.
I am so glad and happy ! I found you two on YouTube in 2019 in April when I was very down (depressed actually as my brother {the oldest sibling of 6} and oldest sister both died in March 16 days apart and the COVID shutdowns keeping us all from gathering ) . You guys helped me a WHOLE lot in getting thru that . A.K.A. klymar8 and Sir SpaRhawk
Was too heartbroken to watch the first video especially seeing the comments. Glad I don’t need to.
Went from seein "hey we have really bad news" to " so about that". As long as yall are happy together thats the important thing. I wish you two the best of luck. Smooths roads feel nice but leave little to remember
🤣You guys ARE fucking stupid! Quit using my hearstrings for bungee cords, dammit!😤😉 "Stop it! Get some help!" - Lord, gimme strength!🙏 Love you, you crazy, mixed-up kids!💖💖💖🥰🌈✨🌹
ALL HAIL THE PANDA QUEEN AND THE LORD IMMERSION! United in love again (still?)!! It's been said elsewhere, but you guys were the first account I ever financially subscribed to and I'm on Patreon basically because that's where you guys are. I'm don't like to give relationship advice because I've been useless at them. But invest in one another above and before all else. Time, energy, emotions, spiritually, everything. From Cape Town, South Africa, blessings and peace to you both.
I know it’s redundant but I just wanted to say how much this channel and both of you, no matter what occurs, means to this community. I genuinely only got pateron for you, I don’t use this app for anything else and I never intended too. Things get complicated and I don’t think anyone here would hold resentment towards either Jennie or Henry. I don’t know where I was going with this and of course I don’t expect reciprocation. Just wanted to say something
Hello Henry & Jeannie, while I recognize this is definitely not the best way to jump into the conversation, I feel obliged to let you know that I'm couples therapist myself. I would gladly give you two some pointers, especially on what kind of help you need, free of charge. I do live in Turkey though, so mind the time zone difference, and we can easily arrange something like a "discovery session." Most clients really have no idea how they feel in situations like these, and I'd be happy to lend my expertise to achieve some clarity. I do really wish I watched the previous video though, probably would be much more informative on my end.
It's not a failing to seek help from external sources if you guys are struggling. Maybe seek couples therapy, getting an outside unbiased observer can help you guys resolve issues that bother you guys. Because even if you both deeply love each other, it doesn't mean there arn't issues that need resolving. Even if you guys can resolve this on your own, it might be easier with outside help. I know I've personally helped my best friend through relationship issues with his wife, they were ready to get a divorce, a fresh perspective helped them out a lot. Sometimes its really hard to express our frustrations without the other person going into defensive mode because it feels like an attack, when someone detached is there to temper things, they can be heard easier. Regardless, wish you guys the best, keep on keepin' on.
Relationships are hard. It's work to keep things going sometimes, but I think as long as you see the value in each other person and your feelings are, mutually, more than just friendly, you shouldn't give it up. It might be worthwhile to seek some professional relationship advice because whatever prompted you guys to take that initial break might have seemed like a considerable dealbreaker or wall between you, but if you had some expertise to take a look at it, you might find it's not really that concerning at all. It can be very hard to figure out solutions to problems you're in the midst of, and a third party can be helpful (if they're professional and considerate).
This has been a strange 24 hours. I spent most of yesterday wondering why I was actually upset that two people Ive never met had decided to break up. And then today I’ve been in a great mood once I saw you’ve decided to keep trying. Remember “trying” is the key word. Relationships die when 1 or both people stop trying. I really hope the best for both of you
Wow what a 24 hours. I can't begin to explain what a relief it is to hear this wonderful news. Relationships aren't always sunshine and roses and its very apparent you two kniw this, but the care, respect and love you have for each other will prevail above all else no matter the circumstances. No one knows the full story of why you thought it was best to separate and I think that's for the best. It's not for us to analyse who did what or why x happened, this is your life, this is your story. Just enjoy it, hold onto those that bring you joy and happiness and be grateful for everyday you get to spend it together. Love you guys sincerely x
So Henry is the rebound from Henry. Checks out
Token old man here... That video yesterday was painful to watch simply because it's been a couple of decades since I've seen two people try that hard to convince themselves they didn't want to be together, but it didn't feel like my place to say anything. Some advice, with only a few exceptions, just about every relationship goes through a slump between 6-9 years, it's pretty normal. Most of the time it's because you've been together so long that a lot of things start to feel routine and romance starts to fall by the wayside. You also kind of fixate on the bad or annoying traits in the other person which leads to resentment. No one is perfect, but they can be perfect for you. Best thing you both can do right now is remember why you two got together in the first place, remember how you felt about the other, and don't be afraid to act like "newlyweds" again.
Awh, y'all made my day with this video.
I'm so happy you guys are together again, May The internet's best couple alway remain together and Krewsade together
Sounds like you just needed the finality of "We're over" to realize you don't want it to be.
Be good to each other. You don’t want to do this repeatedly.
Man. What a roller coaster lol. I usually never care about stuff like this from people I follow. I dunno why, but this really affected me. I’m so glad you all decided to stick it out. We all know you are soulmates, and I’m glad you all realized it too before it was too late. I would really like to know what brought this about, but I know it’s not my business. I was just way more invested in your relationship than I knew lol.
YUS!!!!! Love prevails mother fuker! Lets Gow!! Love you guys
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man i didn't get to se the video can some one give me short version of what it was. i only know that it hade someting to do with breaking up
They had resigned themselves to being great friends and "Platonic Soulmates" but not a couple any more.
I find it crazy how much I've come to love you guys. I never would've thought that the news of you guys breaking up would have made me so profoundly sad in the way that it did.. We live in a such a disposable culture where the mindset is geared towards quickly discarding things - whether it's gadgets, clothes, or even relationships - when they are broken or inconvenient. I'm glad to hear the decision you guys have come too. If it counts for anything I've always thought you two made one of the best couples, and I've been here from the start. I love you guys
I spent almost most of my adult life watching your videos and they've brought me and so many others joy. Feels like an emotional rollercoaster... Mom and dad are now back together ❤️
Hearing the two of you get emotional about each other and your good memories is making me feel emotional, tearing up even. I am so genuinely relieved and happy for the two of you. What you two have is beautiful and I hope you know that.
Thanks David! Saw Clarity.
I'm glad you two are willing to work thru the hard times together. The fact that you guys commicate your feelings and strive for greatness in eachother is amazing. So glad to hear that the dynamic duo is back together. Much love
I am so glad to hear you two figured things out. I was considering writing something yesterday after thinking about how this was likely a mistake but then again, I don't know the whole story. I'll share the thoughts I had now to hopefully help reassure you both. Marrying for love and romance is still relatively new when you take into account the whole of human history. The feelings you first get might fade over time but that initial reaction is there to bond you two together. You two have something great, and making sure you got through the transition period while leaving YouTube is part of the reason I've been supporting the both of you. Money problems can be a relationship killer and you two stuck it out, that's saying something about your loyalty. Thinking about it, someone who truly knows and loves you... who's there to walk with you through life and create future memories with, even when things get uncertain, it seems you've already found that. The internet makes it easy to look at other people and feel as though your life is lacking but you're also only seeing the part that they're showing you. So let me be one more voice reminding you that, from where I stand, you are fortunate. Take care and cherish one another. There's quite a few of us here rooting for you as you can see.
fuck now Im crying. I have been looking for what you guys have right now so dont let go of each other. Its hard out here haha
Yeah!!! I love you two
I can’t even find the video. Did they take it down
Yeah, right before posting this one
good thing I didnt watch that vid. Henry dont let go of Jeannie its the dumbest thing you can do and Jeannie be patient with Henry I know he tries hard.
Love bears all things, Believes all things, Hopes all things, Endures all things. Love never fails!
This is that part of the movie where you learn the character you thought had died is actually still alive.
So what your saying is, the best thing you could have done for your relationship was to upload a breaking up video.
Breaking a few things is a way to realize just how much it meant to you. Best of luck to both of you, and whatever that future holds for you.
Regardless of where your paths lead, please focus on your own personal mental health, both of you, and everyone else in their team. You can't fill someone else's cup of your own is empty.
imagining Henry looking at her as she's just happily munching on this cookie going "why did we buy the fekin cookie" makes me laugh
You two breaking up felt like a huge mistake. You two clearly cared very much for each other and have spent many years together now. But what would have been worse would be to have tried to still be friends. With how much affection you two had for each other, staying in each others' lives in a non romantic fashion would have prevented either of you from truly moving on and sabotaged any future dating attempts with others. As for how fast you changed your mind, I think that's a good thing. Often, bottled up feelings only need to be let out in order for clarity to come. It is excellent that the matter was resolved immediately and that both parties agreed so quickly. I'm glad for you two.
They did not change their minds fast. This took "many, many months" that they were broken up. The thing that really happened is that making it official much later caused them to think about it again.
Never been so happy to have gotten got
Think i completely missed that video not even notified or appeared on Patreon. So glad you guys are together still. I am an older guy basically widowed young . Yes when you have a good thing don’t give it up . It is so clear you guys have a good thing.
Sooooo about the "jeannie didnt get to see the comments" So, she is trapped with Henry. This is a fucking joke
Glad to see you 2 back togther! Life can really be a rollercoaster. I just wish the best for you both, what ever life brings!
Mate, you can't do this to us! If you upload another video tomorrow reversing again, I am gunna LOSE it! Glad for you both :) The world makes sense again.
So happy you guys are trying to work things out! Wishing you the best on future endeavors
Holy shit. Wtf did I miss?
I can’t lie I pressed on this video thinking it was the video from yesterday and I just wanted to soak it all in again to really let it sink in and then you hit me with this lol
Thanks for the mind fuck. But honestly glad you worked it out. You two belong together.
Did anyone else feel this was like watching Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind? I completely got that vibe from the start. FYI Henry, you just stopped a million man march to LA of guys going to ask Jeannie out.
Glad things got worked out, watching you goofballs together has been a great downtime activity. Also, all the hugs for being so honest.
I'm glad you guys decided to stay together
ive had more emotions running through me in the last 2 days than an entire year first year of nursing college.
I dunno if this is serious or just a really bad prank. I missed the video where the drama happened. So if they had a serious problem and worked it out, cool. But if this was prank like they said, then like wth? It is kinda cruel as prank.
No mate you could see it in their eyes and hear it in their voices. It was a difficult watch with soo much emotions there was no way it was staged or faked. I'm so glad for them both like everyone else in the comment section (except the ones hoping to date jeannie) but she's already found her soul mate 😊 so keep searching elsewhere guys!
Mom and Dad are staying together! The children can stay under 1 roof again :D. Hope the best for you always. I'm glad you 2 decided to stay. Struggle requires sacrifice. Success requires sacrifice. If you struggle while striving for happiness and love, it means you are doing your best and trying and not giving up on each other. You're moving forward together. Much like learning a new skill or concept, if you struggle in the process while learning, it means you are learning it. Once you overcome the struggle, it feels pretty damn good, learn from the mistakes for future situations, and can continue to move forward together. Any relationship will have it's ups and downs and getting thru both demonstrates how strong two people are, especially in the roughest of patches. It's in the hardest of situations when someone's love, trust, loyalty, and character really shines. And I hope you two continue to exercise that like Henry works out his hand while recording and Jeannie goes ham on her work outs. As Caesar said in Planet of the Apes, "Apes together....stronger."
Really confused - did you break up as a really late April Fool's joke? Was there a video? No video, it never happened.
It happened a day or so, but then they pulled the video and made this video to explain more about it.
I went from The Darkness:I believe in a thing called love to Queensryche:I don't believe in love then back to The Darkness:I believe in a thing called Love All in 2 days
Well, clearly I missed out on some big news! Whoa. What happened?!
Glad to hear you two worked it out a bit and that you'll still be together. I just hope that you'll be able to ride it through the rough times no matter what.
don't ever fucking break up again!
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.
That’s great news, you both ROCK! Wish you both happiness, and good fortune! Keep digging those tunnels!
Whew! The emotional whiplash! Im glad you figured it out! Kai doesnt have to choose who to live with, now😆
Kai could that child that wags her finger at both of them and repeatedly says "Mom....Linda, Linda. Listen, listen." And gives em both a kick in butt (Henry in the nuts for added dramatic effect) and tells em like it is, how annoying it'd be to have ice cream at 2 different times just to enjoy both their company, it'd more expensive for them, and to stay together. (The real deal is she gets double the ice cream in 1 sitting).
We love y’all too.
good to know everything is okay with you guys...
I'm happy for you guys; I've been watching since Henry was doing Skyrim mod videos out in New York, before moving to LA. It was fun watching you guys meet and couple up. All the ups and downs you've shared with us over the years have made me feel like a proud dad watching you grow. I wish you all the best, and I hope you continue to support one another.
I know that 99% of these comments simply say that they are glad you aren't breaking up, but I need to say that you both are ASSHOLES for screwing with people's emotions. How dare you pull something like this on people who have been with you as loyal fans and have stayed loyal to you through all your ups and downs? How would you feel if your parents announced to you that they were breaking up, and they said it with a straight face full of sadness, and then the next day they told you it was just a prank. Wouldn't you be pissed that they screwed with your head? I'm very glad you are still together but so pissed that you wanted to screw with your loyal fans just for shits and giggles. To me it just shows how little you think of your fan base to pull something like this
Way to make it about yourself. Those are real people with real life problems like everyone else. They have to figure it out along the way like anyone else. If you really thought this was a prank you haven't been truly paying attention to their videos over the last couple years.
It's been, what, 6 years now? That's NOT easy to walk away from. I was hoping it was all a cheeky way to announce engagement or even propose in the video.
This is what happens when you wait too long to get married.
Bullshit. Getting married is just catering to other people's expectations. It is a trap. And many, many people are miserable because of it.
Damn nutty kids... You'll figure it out. That's life. Just go with the flow.
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Glad to see you are both happy now.
At this point you guys should just commit to the bit and upload that other video in April 1st.
We love you guys , I want to see you guys have a family and grow old together 💖
What the fuck
I'm so glad you have reconsidered.
Henry got what Dom was trying to say. ☺️ Thanks for being part of our family, and sharing this happy news with us!
Tat was the fastest "What?!?!" "oh ok" moment ever
No heaven on earth just be honest with each other
When you've been with someone for a long time and realize that 1) you're actually happy with this person. and 2) how toxic the dating pool is after a certain age.
Goddammit, guys! I get it, though - sometimes you need to take a step back to see things more clearly, and I'm glad you got the opportunity and were both able to see the value of what you had. It had to be a helluva read through the comments - there was a pretty big range of reactions! Anyway, I'm happy for you guys and wish you the best. You're going to hit the occasional bump - remember these moments when you do. Also does anyone know what the opposite of a dick-punch is?
Flap smack?
Woo I feel better now lol
My heart is not your plaything! No in all seriousness, I just hope for both of you to be happy, whatever form it is in.
Well, good. I think the reasons (such as we know) for the original decision were and remain valid, but there is always more than one approach to deal with a serious problem (the stifling of growth of the other in this case). I think you found a much better context to work on that now and one without the dire side-effects. Making decisions of this type is hard and getting it wrong is part of the process of learning to do it. The important thing is that if you realize you got the solution wrong, you fix it. And you did. And I think you are very much aware as well that the original problem does not go away and needs to be worked on. I am confident you two can do that successfully.
Am happy for you guys that you found each other again. Sometimes you don't know what you have until you almost lose it.
Emotional roller-coaster to say the least. I wasn't going to watch this video originally, but I said why not let's see what happens, and I'm glad I did. I'm overjoyed to hear that they're staying together.
FFS 🤦🤣 how dare you! Ahhh whatever I'm glad it was a PSYYCHE!! Henry probably saw all the comments of guys realising Jeannie was single 😉🤣 jk! Glad my fav couple got it together! Ps. Better not be a video tomorrow saying... Actually!!!....
Supporting you whichever way you go. One thing that is underrated is seeking therapy, either alone or as a couple to work out whatever you are going through. I’m not sure of your situation, if you want it to work out, you need to put in the effort. But sometimes it just doesn’t work, but it’s better than not trying at all. Appreciate that you are open to sharing these details from your lives!
Post-nut clarity is strong with this one 😊 I could write a whole ass article here, but this isn't about me - it's about the two of you 🥳 So, in short, I'm just incredibly happy my faith in humanity has been restored. I wish you guys all and everything good.
I don't know what problems you're facing in your relationship. Everyone faces them and I'm sure some of them are very hard. But clearly you guys love each other so much and have such a connection, breaking up would have been a mistake. As someone who's spent 50 years mostly alone, trust me the kind of connection you have isn't something you can just count on being able to find. Both of you should fight to keep it with all you're worth.
Joined back hope they can become stronger together as a couple after this oops.
There is no need to apologize for yesterday's video. If posting the video and receiving the community's support was a catalyst towards reflection upon the relationship, then it was a necessary and vital step towards your reconciliation. We have no complaints, nothing but love.
I approve of this whiplash :D
I am so glad they decided to stay together, I know you don't get to see the whole story from this side of the screen but it is clear through the vlogs and videos that they do care about each other a hell lot
Y'all just kicked this old man right in the feels! Henry, your words made me rethink some past relationship decisions I made. Jeannie, you don't ever need to apologize to us. Always you both the very best!
i swear you guys announced your split months ago when the mxr youtube channel was up
You guys are amazing, wishing you all the best and all the hugs in the world. You've got this ;)
K I'm not gonna lie when I got the notification for the bad news video I thought "I can't deal with bad news from these kids, this sounds heavy" I had a feeling it could've been something like this. I finally mustered up the courage to watch it this morning but it wasn't there, just this video. But I'm definitely glad you guys had some clarity and a new perspective to look at the relationship with. Life is a whole lot, very often! It's fantastic to have someone you truly trust to live it with! Something we all have to remember is that a truly worthwhile relationship requires sacrifice, patience, and faith in each other. No relationship is going to just be easy, but sometimes we get lucky enough to find our person that is truly worth the effort that will try just as hard as we will, but that's with great self awareness of ourselves at the same time. I hope the best for you guys! And I feel really good about you getting a lot of mature and sincere comments on the bad news video! I can't speak for everyone but I make bad jokes, I'll say asshole thing on you guys' joke-y videos... But I definitely care about you guys and I'm totally invested in you guys' adventure. I'm glad you have a community of folks that'll be sincere when it calls for it.
I couldn't find the words yesterday and can't really find them now, so I'll just leave you with this: ❤️ Don't scare us like this again pls, I'm not sure my heart medication is sufficient to handle another blow 😅
I STRONGLY encourage you, while you are riding this emotional high and you are motivated, to seek counseling. Both as a couple and as individuals. I’m very happy you guys are doing better. 🙏🏻
Good news.
Glad you are giving it a second chance and hopefully rekindle the relationship.
Goddam my poor heart. I cried watching that last video cause I knew exactly what you guys were feeling. I wake up and see this update and cry again because I wish I still had an iota of what the two of you have in your life together. I've been watching you both for well over a decade and I love both of you, doesn't matter if you're apart or not. I want to see you both happy and successful. It's clear that your audience adores you!
Yes yes yes yes!!! But yall can't do that to us. We are already broken....good news!!...
Stop jerking my heart around lol that shit ain't funny. The next relationship update I want is an engagement😏
Or a baby? Lol
It’s 6 am east coast. I just woke up from the craziest dream…..
Whewwe core memory achievement 🔓
Glad you two realize what you have and didn't just throw that away. Relationships aren't easy, but at least you realized it before it was too late. 🫶🏻
Damn kids! Be happy! Damn.......
STOP TOYING WITH MY HEAAAAART! XD Also, I'm glad you're staying together. I remember those videos you two filmed where you'd go on a date or out camping and just...you two ARE right for each other. I don't know if this was born out of some worry about the financial situation because YouTube sucks or not, but there's got to be a way.
Now I don't know what to believe...
I've been emotional the last few days, and you guys are pulling on my heart strings but I'm happy you guys seems to have figure it out!
Relationships do require a lot of work and effort, and I know how much you two care about each other. It can take a while to sort out the details, and it might even take some couples therapy, but if you're both determined to make it work, I know you can.
Also PS, please try the old stuff more like humping Jeanie out of the blue and roasting Henry even more other than the these nuts one, i personally feel like that just gave a special childlike spark to you guys
Oh thank god, Jesus, Buddha, Allah and every other god who listened.🙏🙏🙏 Everyone on this planet is born in half, and we spend our lives searching for the other half of us, you found yours. Be happy and love each other with everything you have.❤️
Though i kinda had a panic attack about the breakup of the couple who basically made me believe in Love to this day (even after multiple people left me) , I'm really happy that you guys didn't succumb to pressure and rather chose to reflect on what happened and then finally saw each other from the eyes that we see you from. there's a reason that we all love you so much. there are many reaction channels on YouTube but you guys are the only ones who make us feel something from the inside and every single day make us believe that there's someone just as messed up as us waiting for us to be found ❤️. Thank you for everything and stay blessed.
Glad I'm on Aussie time and extra glad everything is good.
I'm glad you both are working together on your relationship
I'm glad you guys worked it out and its healthy to just listen and enoy what the other person is saying. Also there will always be ups and downs. Like forrest gump says shit happens. Don't forget to take breaks and just deal with IRL stuff. No need to apologize because most of us get of and just watch you stuff and relax. At least thats what I do lol.
Ngl when I saw the initial video I was wondering what would happen to ein and didn’t really know how to appropriately comment about it. Glad everything is going to work out for you guys though
What the heck just happened??? Was it all just a feaver dream???
No. A much needed late re-evaluation of the situation and selection of a better choice to deal with a serious problem. It happens. Especially when you do this the first time, you are almost assured to get it wrong initially. Still, much better to struggle with what to do than to ignore the problem!
Welp I was thinking and reflecting all night for nothing
Thank God, I love you guys. I've been a fan for years and it was so sad seeing that you two broke up. Counseling wouldn't hurt, it may help you two pinpoint your issues and give you ideas on how to work past them down the road.
Thank God you decided to get back together. You gave me a small heart attack.
so glad to hear this. It sure did feel like parents going through a divorce. Been watching mxr since 2017 and you have helped me to deal with my own life struggles. In conclusion never underestimate the power of tempura.
Wtf?! So I am guessing people started unsubscribing and you panicked?
Gfys ahole
HENRY JEANNIE. PLEASE read the entire comments section, TOGETHER. Everyone in here is extremely wholesome and I think it would only make you 2 grow closer to each other and to us. Screen record it and vlog it for your personal vlog. Ignore the few guys saying no is post nut clarity.
I'm gonna give you guys some advice from someone who has been with my wife for almost 15 years. You guys belong together. My relationship with my wife is the same. We can sit in a room together all day her on her tablet and me on my phone. Maybe say 2 words to each other the whole day and it's perfectly okay. Thats the sign of a relationship you to are settled and comfortable in where all you need is each others presence. Jeannie is your peace. She's your reason you work so hard and are able to overcome so many hardships. And henry is her rock. He's her gentle push when life gets hard and her calm when life is chaotic. I know it's easy to feel like a relationship gets stale or things are stagnating but when that happens you gotta ask yourselves. Is there another person in this world you would rather have this journey with. And if that answer is no then you get up and you fight for your relationship. Communication is the solution to 90% of relationship issues.
Oh my god yes. I was so heartbroken to see you two breaking up. And I'm happy you were able to see clearly what you two mean to each other stay strong guys we will always support you two
Great news guys. And having been in a similar position with my wife, we both also had this realization that we shouldnt end things after a decision was made to end it. Relationships are hard, and no relationship is perfect but we work on them everyday, some days it will be 50/50, some days 1 person will need to put in 80 and the other 20 and another day vice versa, keep enjoying those moments together, I fully believe if you really love a person then there is nothing that cannot be fixed
Hopefully having us around is more good than bad. I know having you in our lives is nothing but positive. Happy for y’all’s decision, but please put your mental health first. Don’t get me wrong. I see issues over the last year and no relationship or partner is perfect. The only way you could disappoint us is to come out of this without growth and progress in knowing what you each need and how to give it. So do that. Come back better than ever. And we will be here. Krewsade on.
Ive been here for the Henry since almost the beginning. Ill keep being here till the end.
Midlife crisis averted, now get married and have little Lee's. It is time...
maybe make a pro - con list of what you have together, some times those lists works, other times well, but either way what make you 2 happy makes me happy :3
I very much relate to what you guys said about being so in tune with each other and your connection being so strong that you don't need each other to validate you or what you're doing or saying. I call moments like that togetherness. Sometimes me and my wife can sit together in the car for half an hour or more and not say a word to each other but it's not an awkward silence we're just both so comfortable in each others presence that we don't feel like we need to fill the space up with words. Loving someone isn't always easy but that's what makes it love, going through the hard times and the good, together.
Remember, that you two have been in a relationship for longer than most marriages these days last. The butterflies will probably never return, but that comfort and warmth you feel for each other is something that must be nursed and fed. Also, make an honest woman out of her already Henry. Also, also, start breeding him Jeannie.
Dont worry shit happens .things get confusinconfusing in relationship especially when you care about each other as much as you two do . They say betwen love and hate there only thin line and I'm not saying you hate each other I'm saying you get confused one feeling for onother .and it gets hard sometimes too but you have to understand each other and make compromises. Andmost importantly don't let one or few arguments or dessagreements get in your head . My parents are married for 30 + years thr6 sometimes fight . Sometimes my dad just go quiet for whole day but not because me is mad or anything he just that kind of person. So I wish you best of luck
Sounds to me like you guys are in a good position to procreate.
The fan in me is happy that you want to work on your relationship but the cynic in me says that it's just for show to keep us watching.
God bless! Love you both
I, a grown man, you two have me in tears! So sweet and honest. I have to admit I was in a little panic mode when it came out. You do make a great and funny team. Love your sincerity.
They say things happen for reason. I guess you needed to feel the loss to see the beauty in what you have. Hell you actually moved me to reply instead of silently observing! Anyhow happy for you both and wish you the best!
That's great news. Whatever may be the problem, learn from it, grow from it. And for fuck's sake Henry, throw a goddamn ring on it. It's been 83 years.
The most important thing in a relationship is giving happiness. If each of you learn to put the others needs first, you will end up being happy because your partner is happy. Also, communication is the number one priority. Be honest with each other and talk to each other when one of you needs something. Relationships take work and every relationship will have its ups and downs. The grass always looks better on the other side but you’re just trading one person’s issues for another (This does not refer to verbal or physical abuse in relationships. These require professional help and there should be no reason or justification for one person to ever verbally or physically abuse another person).
Not gonna lie, I was bawling when I saw the first video, partly because I was so sad to see a soooo wholesome couple break up, partly as a reaction to my own life, the solitude I currently feel and, if this amazing couple can't keep it together, how the hell am I supposed to manage it. I sooo much wanted to know why, all the details, but out of respect I controlled the urge to post anything and just took it. After this video I feel so much at peace, like the balance in the universe have been restored and I have faith again. I wish for you two the very best life that you both deserve, and I'm sure, as the soulmates that you are, that you may work through all the hardships you may have in front of you now and in the future. Much love to both of you.
Really happy to see you guys back together, but mostly I'm happy to see that you're both happy! I've had that moment myself of "should we really continue this relationship?", only to quickly realize that the is answer is YES! Been together 11 years now 😊 Wishing you both many more years of happiness.
We have a lot of love for you guys. You guys are perhaps discovering the hardest lesson - that there is no manual for relationships. It's amazing hearing you two.
These kinds of break ups are actually really common, and sometimes are very helpful like how it was right now. Personally, I believe you two should use this time to take a break from everything else and try to focus on each other again before getting back into the routine, but I'm very happy for you guys regardless💙
Why are you saying sorry? You did what was best for the both of you at that time. Yes we were sad. But mostly we wanted the best for you guys and supported you in your decisions. I believe that our love and respect for you both triggered a realization that you guys have for each other. I'm glad that you are doing better and have decided to get back together again. This is the reason we are here. We love you guys
Well, you two certainly gave me one hell of an emotional roller coaster day LMAO. Glad you're back together and I wish you all the happiness.
Watching the breakup announcement, I noticed that y'all just kept talking about how much you both loved each other and didn't actually have (or at least weren't able to express) a reason for the breakup at all. It got me thinking about how relationships aren't all passion and romance - they take work, and mutual commitment to improving yourself for your partners sake. Maybe y'all were just missing some of that. Maybe you were just thinking about things from the wrong perspective. Either way, I'm glad you decided not to throw away the beautiful and precious life that you have together. It won't always be easy, but looking back I'm sure you'll be glad you stuck it out. Best wishes to you both. P. S. If you two need to take a break from content to focus on each other, I'm sure we'll all totally understand. Do what's right for yourselves.
Love you guys and glad you worked it out. Its hard not to overthink things sometimes, just gotta pay attention to your gut. Don't let all that outside noise make you think what you're feeling isn't enough.
I'm not crying you are 😭
Congratulations on realizing what love actually is. Hollywood and social media make everything think that it's supposed to be butterflies all the time, but really, it's an what you do or feel in those moments between the "picture perfect" moments. You can't recognize the good times without having seen some bad times. I wish you both continued happiness together. You two have grown so much together and I'm glad to have been a small part of that community around you for the past decade or so.
Little afraid to comment now, not knowing what the next upload will be. Just wanna say I love you, your content has made me smile so much, even in times it was hard finding a smile. Thank you for the good times, and thank you for all the good times to come, I wish you all the happiness and love in the world
damn it. I rarely cry, but you two have made me wiping tears from my eye. I would have supported you two separately, but I'm so happy you two are back together. I've been in the same relationship for 20+ years and it hasn't been perfect. No relationship is. To make a relationship work each side needs to work on it and not take it for granted.
Back when I was first getting to know she who would later become my wife, we actually had a period early on where we split up, that lasted only about 2 months, and we came back together, because we realized that we were not only each other's best friend, but that we were indeed soulmates. We just last year celebrated over 16 years being married, and still going strong. It's true what they say, that what does not destroy you makes you stronger, in that we feel that we have grown so close that we are like one soul in two bodies, much like you two must have realized, and that at a fundamental level, being apart just makes no sense at all. My wife and I love your content, because you inspire us, and we had a feeling you two would come to the same place that we have, in unconditional love and strength...together. We love you!
I wish the two of You the very best of luck and love. I hope You both have the best of days together. I'll be With You two As long as You will have the drive to keep making stuff for us and beyond!
.... bruhhh haha
I'm really glad you two are together again, not to make it sad but I literally cried after watching the break up video it felt like one of my best silent supports had gone.
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Man, what a rollercoaster of emotions. To begin with, I am so happy for both of you, and I sincerely hope you get to live a fulfilling and happy life together. You have always seemed so perfect for each other. Your videos have been a part of my life for years, providing me with immense joy and laughter. On the one hand, I did not want it to be true. However, on the other hand, as you said, you both love each other very much, and that is why you made your decision. I do not know all of the details about your relationship, nor do I need to. I can tell how sincere you are when you say that you love each other very much. As others have said, relationships are not easy, and you learn as you go. Mistakes are made, and you do what you can to work through them. You have no reason to apologize to us. Circumstances and decisions can change. It is not as if you lied. You may have given some heart attacks, but what matters is that you are happy with each other. You do not need our permission or validation. Your life is not up to us. Nevertheless, I am elated that you are not broken up anymore, and I sincerely hope you can continue to work through any issues, whether now or in the future. Thank you for all the kindness and joy you have brought to so many lives. Live a good and long life!
Glad both of you are all right and hold on to each other. Whatever happens, I will be here, supporting you and lurking in the comments.
Am I rushing or dragging?
Love is real again
I fw yall regardless it's yalls choice and I'm glad yall are working through your stuff so good luck with that I see how good it is for yall to be around eachother enjoying life later brownies
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As punishment. Both of you must make a punishment game
Well, this is certainly a turn around. It was the last thing I watched before going to work and just got home to see this. Sometimes it takes a mistake and loosing what you had to truely realised what it was that you had and why you had it in the first place. Glad you're unbroken up. Love you two a lot.
Same! The first and last thing in my day!
Hey Its Ancal, might of heard of me, might not. Just if you reading this Henry, i hope you are doing well, i hope Jeannie can recover from the rut shes been in, and i hope the clarity keeps up. You two do be soul mates, and sometimes it takes the edge of the cliff to realize that. Work together, compromise, listen to each other and have patience. I know you will work it out. I also hope peeps online arn't giving you a hard time with all their speculative tinfoil hat bullshit. I know i'm not really in a position to give advice but, maybe make the relationship less public, focus on making dope content yes, but you guy's need time to heal, rebuild. Stick it out and i know you'll be both be back where you want to be in no time. Don't let the clarity be a passing thing. You two got this. Much love
didnt see the first video, but im sure it wouldve torn me up. we only want you guys to be happy, whatever you decide. relationships are built, so if you want a strong one you need a good foundation. talk it out, do what you have to if you want it to work. if you ask me, stop waiting and make this official. not saying the problems will end, but you will be with your forever person. of course, only you guys will know if youre ready for that.
I love seeing both of you together and am glad to see you are figuring things out. do whatever you need to do to feel good and secure be yourselves we will all love you both no matter what
Glad you are back together, hope you are both happy with each other and wish you both the best
Thank God I missed the first video and only had to have my stomach flip for a few minutes as I investigated and found this one. That was really beautiful, and I wish you two the best in your revitalized and rediscovered love ❤️
For a moment I had accepted the fact love doesn't exist but this video shows me that it does. It's clear that you two care deeply about each other and I hope you can overcome every obstacle that you might face. Also it is just so heartwarming that you two are talking about this so openly when you could do it privately, after watching your videos for god knows how long I am too invested in this so thank you for the openness. You have my support and love <3
Well... I don't know if it's the right or wrong decision. I just want you guys to be happy in your own way.
I'm so so so glad you guys are going to work this out. You really are great together. However, therapy both as a couple and individuals is going to really be the thing that helps you through this. You've dug yourselves out of the hole but repairing the foundation takes some help. Love y'all, get some sleep
For extra clarity, going to therapy or even couples therapy is not admitting defeat. Understanding that is the first step to it being able to help
I think the time apart and then the video where you guys spoke out our feelings for each other really helped. I was really sad to see the original but ya know what they say. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Also fuck that guy in the original video who in the comments who said you're better off without Jeannie. He probably can't keep a GF for more than a month if he can get one at all
Just wanted to give you guys all the support and love. Saw the initial video at work, and NGL, was a gutpunch. But I respect you both, and in my mind wished and prayed y'all the best. And then THIS comes out... and I see the LOVE in both your eyes. My wife of 15yrs have been through ups and downs. But I can tell you in the most serious, non-cheesy way: Love and Commitment, Sacrifice and mutually aiming for the best in each other.... I see that in both of you. Call me naive, call me cheesy, but we're both wishing you the best. No matter what the future holds, it's undeniable you both make each other better. Keep aiming for Truth, Goodness, and Beauty together. Always an Honour to Krewsade with ya both <3
Glad to hear hope everything works out. I know I and alot of others just want you guys to be happy. Together or not as long as your posting ill be here.
You are exhausting me. A Finnish officer once told me you can do what is easy or what is right, I don’t know what is what in this case but I often thought of it in my relationships.
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Sometimes you need to hear yourself saying something stupid to realize how stupid it is. Glad to hear you’re still together.
Goddammit guys don't do this too me, I didn't even see the first video, just the title, then this. I know you guys have had your issues but genuinely your made for each other, she softens your cold heart and brings you out of yourself, and you comfort her and make her feel confident and safe. I honestly want to see the other video now but it would probably make me cry 😢
Look. At least uploading that video made you two realize how much you two love eachothet and want to make the relationship work:) idk if couple theropy works. But clear communicatetion does:) try the "it made me feel"x" then you do "y"" thing and remember you two want to be the bedst partner:) "thanks for lisining to my ted tall XD" wish you the bedst of luck:) ps spelling errors course I am dyslexis, not a native English speaker:)
Oh thank God saddest few hours of my life
I remember in the video about jeannie becoming a streamer, she had to clarify that henry isn't talking over her and is just better at saying her thoughts lol Stop being idiots you guys ok <3
So many thoughts... been married 30 years... never apologize to us on the internet for anything - showing your humanity and bringing reality to us is the honesty lacking in the social media space. You don't owe it to us but your thoughts and perspective might help others find their way in their own relationships. Wishing you both the all the best no matter what happens.
Happiness isn’t a right, it’s a goal to strive for! In the same way, love and relationship need constant work. Like a fire that die when left alone, relationships based on love will die out. To keep the fire alive and going, we need to feed. Cause if the fire is the relationship and it’s heat, love, then the wood you need to feed it is but your own sweat and efforts. I’m not trying to be cheesy, I just wanted to say the important stuff. So to finish it all, let me just say this; I am really proud of how mature you are about your sentiments and toward your relationship with each other! I sincerely wish you all the best. Cordially, Sylzar.
Sorry if I’m rambling.
Hey, I'm happy you found some reconnection in this. I do recommend sitting down and talking about what led you to divide in the first place, and discussing what actions you are going to take to prevent that from occurring again. I can see you guys are invaluable to each other, but make sure you are being open about what you will need for the relationship to proceed healthily. I know what it's like ot have been in a relationship for over a decade, And the only way to survive is to talk about what has happened and move forward productively, and not bend too far just to appease your partner for the sake of keeping the relationship alive. I believe in you both, individually and together, Sending my love to you both,
Even though your first video broke us emotionally, I am very happy that this is the outcome. Cherish what you have! Write it down and when you feel unsure go read your notes. I didn't cherish what I had a long time ago and I lost it. I deeply regret that to this day. I can see you two have something special even if it is just a surface level view. Looking forward to happier days. Life is hard but it won't always be.
I've always heard that called a "companionable silence" and it's usually a good sign for a relationship. Glad you guys are OK.
See? My abiding memory of your published time together was the treehouse. Stripped of all the chaos of modern life and you were both deliriously happy together. Coping with a wilderness and cuddling up. You two are supposed to be together. Love the good times and make the most of a beautiful coming together. ❤️
…8…9…10… and… relax. Maybe you guys need a new project together or plan for the future? You’ve had all these years of growth and change together, but since the YouTube {spits} thing, maybe things have stagnated or regressed? Also, you used to give us more insights into your lives, like camping or cooking or showing where you live or whatever, so perhaps that could bring some life back? Anyway, glad you guys are back together.
Been together 23 years, married for 12 years, relationships are hard work. There are times when this is rough, but you can work through it. The gods know I'm not the easiest person to live with. But when it clicks, it clicks, despite the rough patch. So yeah, I'm happy you guys worked through it, even if it took a video and half a heart attack for us, for you guys to realize this.
LOL!!! What???
that examples wow that must be true love
That's great to hear. I hope you two look back at this video and watch it again any time you're in a rough spot to remember all the emotions that you re-experienced! And maybe play it at your future wedding 😛
After about 12 years together including 5 years married, my wife and I both developed new interests that frankly were unappealing to each other. We eventually talked it out and then it was all good. Now it is almost 30 years later from that point and we are still together and happy we worked things out. Good luck!
I'm glad for the clarity you've both found. One step closer to the mature man and woman you are meant to be. Relationships may not be happiness all the time, but they're the most important thing we have. Love IS sacrifice. I pray God helps you through your hard times and gives you peace. It may be odd, but I care about you both and I'm glad for you.
Is it post nut clarity?
Not going to lie, when I watched the first video I was devastated. I’ve been watching you guys for years and have always loved your dynamic and the way you riff off each other. I’m so happy you guys are back together!!!!
Yaaay! No separation depression for Kai, mom and dad are OK! No but seriously, happy for you both and for staying strong in this trying situation, the sun always comes up and a pancake always lands in one way or another.
MXR or not, I hope y'all can find your happiness together. Glad to hear you are both working together on this. Do what's best for you!
You had us in the first half ngl😂. But seriously tho, it's totally ok that you both reacted the way you did, you guys are going through a rough patch right now with all that's going on it's ok to think that splitting up or taking a break from each other would be the best thing to do, couples do it all the time. What's good is that you guys realized that you both love and cherish each other so much and want to stay together and to continue listening to Final Fantasy 14 music together. Seriously tho we all hope you guys the best and we all love you.❤️❤️
My wife and I have those same moments together, where we don’t have to validate each other. And sometimes we need it. The trick is to know the difference when it happens 🤗 I think you guys are headed in the right direction. If you ever start to feel lost, share your feelings, either with your friends, Family, or especially each other. Sometimes couples counseling will help avoid strife or breakups. Good luck and keep on loving 🥰
Not to mention, they should take a week or two off and go away every few months. Going on vacation also helps reset things, as it does become a stale time table doing the same things over and over again. Vacation and getting away from reality and that time table will reset feelings.
Not that i can speak much from experience, but i know relationships that are worth it, aren't always up, they have downs too. How you work through the tough times, makes the good times worth it, wishing you guys all the best,
My partner and I have been together for almost 26 years now. We had met once before and did not remember each other I am was "seeing" someone else (keeping tabs on them as I always knew where they were for their sibling). The next time we met, our eyes locked and it was over. As they left for the night I knew they wanted me to kiss them (which has been confirmed since), but instead kissed them on the forehead and told them to get home safe. Have we had our hard times, if you consider each of us almost leaving at different time, as well as having an affair (online and phone based, not on my part) after which they cried for 2 days; then yeah. But despite it all, we are more in love than ever. We have smart, sweet offspring and the most often heard phrase in our home is "I love you". This was what I never had growing up and all I ever wanted. You must always be honest with yourself and your partner and things will work themselves out. I love you guys and congratulate you on this new stage!
You guys definitely gave me a heart attack, yall are my favorite Youtube/Twitch/Patreon couple. I was at work panicking and pacing like crazy.
I've been subbed on Patreon for a long time but I think this is my first comment. The feeling of having someone who has the same desire to work through both the good and the bad is really one of the best experiences you could have. Even if you do ultimately decide to break up at some point in the future, I'm sure you'll look back at all the times you've had (even this period of time) and be happy to have experienced it.
So glad you guys are BACK! Keep working on your relationship and remember this moment when things get tough. You've been given a second chance...PLEASE make the most out of it.
Been married 20 years, relationships are hard and take lots of work.
This is why introverts have to consider things a while before committing. Reflex judgements always seem cringe after the fact. Good luck you guys. I didn't get to see the first video. That being said there are a TON of weird couples out there, if you feel your relationship is weird, remember that's not a special thing. Be comfortable with your weird. It seems it's taken a while to learn that.
You got me in the first half there
Look I'm just happy you're trying to work things out I'm here I was watching your videos just do whatever makes you comfortable and I hope you guys are both happy
My gf and I have been watching the two of you for years and absolutely love the relationship/dynamic you have. I know this has been said before on here, but I'd like to reiterate that staying together isn't always... or even usually easy. But once you find someone who truly is your partner in life, the downs are well worth the ups. Congrats on working through your problems! We look forward to watching more of your fantastic content and making our own memories 'with' you two, together.
❤️ you guys. Life is strange, it makes you question things, even basic things. But remember, you guys are the ones who have to make the decision together, not your fans. What ever path you guys take, we will always honour your decision and be there if it is needed. It is good to sit back and reflect on what has been and what can be, if you have something very special, you won't know until you miss it, which is what Henry is referring to, he missed her and regretted it. Life is hard, it gets bumpy, hold onto the ones you love.
Oh thank God! I tried to keep it together with my comment on the last video, but internally I was devastated. I kept thinking to myself "if they can't make it, what chance have I?". I love you both regardless, and wish you the absolute best life has to offer regardless, but I'm so glad you're still together!! ❤️
This was a big awww moment!! <3 <3 <3 But on a more real note... It would be more wierd if everything was A-Ok all the time, with no issues whatsoever. Because one or both partners would obviously be lying/hiding something from the other and/or everyone else. Long term relationships by nature is never going to be easy, and in some cases - the hard times can last for extended periods of time. The two of you doubling down on making your relationship work while both knowing that there is something worth fighting for is quite touching. I'm rooting for you two!
Lots of love.
Not gonna lie. That previous video gave me a mini heart attack. I was still prepared to support both of yours decisions but I can't lie and say I wasn't sad about it. I'm glad that you both were able to reflect on your relationship and find even deeper connection and meaning. It feels like this was a huge moment of growth for you both and I'm super proud of you guys! Nothing is perfect, especially relationships, but being able to see the good in what you have and just being able to recognize the love and joy you have for one another is so amazing to see. When you were talking about the private vlogs and how one would bring talking away and the other just sitting there with no reaction, to me it sounded like the one not reacting was indeed reacting, internally, enjoying the moment and enjoying the presence of the other. The one talking away also seemed like they were so comfortable and safe in with the other that they can freely talk and have fun, even without direct responses. At least, that's how it felt like those moments were when you were describing it. Thank you for always being so honest and upfront with your community, and willing to be vulnerable and sincere. You'll always have our support!
Glad that you are working through any issues you are going through. I hope you both the best, Stay happy
goddammit! I'm happy for you of course but what an emotional rollercoaster ^^ guess that answers my question about Hugh and Janice too :P
You both should just take some time to reflect on yourselves and each other. Take a break from videos if you really need it, a week, a month, or even more. Everyone will still be here when you come back. Even if you decided again that it was best to separate, people would have to accept your choices. Don't try to force it.
My faith in love is restored
"Enjoy the little things."
Ok I called this years ago but just to reiterate, they're both gay. And i'm not just saying that in the hopes that senpai henry will notice me and realise we're meant to be together, because I would totally settle for being a thruple with both of them (obviously the ultimate dream is being in a country music quartet with Kai as our fourth but that's a pipe dream [and that pipe is a crack pipe])
For a few hours, thousands of Jeannie stans thought they had a chance...
You're probably not wrong there. They where probably writing their speeches and love poems trying to swoop in.
While its all good that your love for each other is strong inspite of your relationship being challenging the past year, take time to really figure things out. Your relationship has been a sight for sour eyes because we see and feel how you bith love each other. But at the same time, it's never always sunshine and butterfiles. So take your time to continue to strengthen your love for each other. We your fans will continue to support you every step of the way.
It's ok, sometime we need time to reflect on our lives and remember it's the little moments that makes it worth it. Glad you are back together.
As the saying goes: "You don't miss the cow until the barn is empty". Seems uploading that video was what was needed for you to reflect on things. I'm happy for this turn of events and possibly you both come out strengthend together from this. I'm sure there will still be bumps on the road ahead, but I think you will be better prepared to handle them now.
Its the painful lows that make the highs worth it. Guess you both are now going to have to celebrate the 1 week, 1 month & one year anniversary's again lol
This isn't about me, but that's what we're all thinking. Yes it is in a way. You were the main reason why I watched YouTube, I cannot express to you the absolute inner turmoil I experienced for the first few months when I could not watch a reactions video I'd missed or rewatch a favourite, mainly they were vlogs I will admit. I have no money and feel patreon like all essentially ppv sites are an expensive scam. The very second their video went up stating the end is near but if you want to see new and almost uncensored with them, join. I went through the ranks and am one away annually from the max despite my hardships because to me, they are family I actually actively need to spend time with. Whether they had remained together or not I would have paid for 2 patreon accounts to stay with them separately, but in all my thoughts I would long for the good old days of them together, wish them both nothing but peace and happiness, and respected them as I always have. No longer kids, old enough to have their own, what a vlog that will hopefully be for the panda queen to have prince and princess immersion cubs. Thank you both for making this fan and friend happy in the past, the present and here's hoping the future. All my eternal best to you both and neverending positivity with your relationship to each other.
It’s good to hear you’re back together. My fiancé and I were discussing last night and thought once you had time apart you’d be back together again discovering what you had lost. By the way, this video sounds like you are both giving your wedding speeches. ❤️
I'm more confessed now
Congratulations you're in an adult relationship. Glad you decided to work it out.
Yall cant be doing this to me. Stop playing with my damn damn emotions. I wish you two the best but yall scared me.
well, at least kai won't have divided loyalties. Also i was thinking back to the idea that yall had broken up or were contemplating it and the elden ring distraction video. that would be a really odd one to make if you were on your way out. But of course i don't really know the timeline on when you make vs release your videos. Anyways, i wish the two of you the best. Don't let internet drama get in the way of your relationship, but you do have alot of people overwhelmingly invested in your sticking together.
Love is hard sometimes. You have to work on it. You might want to take a break from working sometimes to make time for each other. I lost an amazing woman to my work addiction but I really hope that you two make it.
I'm a little older than you. Your late 20s and early 30s are a difficult time. Now you have to make big decisions about your future. Where should you go? You can't continue living the way you did in your 20s; that doesn't make you happy anymore. Don't push it away. Take your life to the next level.
Moral of the story. Don't be in a rush to make a life event into content. Take your time to process your moments privately first, we can take a delay in uploading until everything is settled. So happy i missed the first break up video that i cant find now. PD: This black Henry timeline is scary...
A wise man once said: "One day I realized that wanting something more from a relationship always made it worse. I killed my yearning every day until gratitude blossomed." Hang in there!
This. This right here. None of us can get ever back what we had years and years ago. I think that may be what their clarity is a realization of. It's a sad fact of life that all relationships become boring or tiresome or hard, and it's up to us to realize that boring, tiresome or hard can be exciting when we adjust our expectations, and learn that the existence of pain that never goes away or changes means we're paying attention to ancient history, and not the warning signs in the road ahead. If you're bored, it means that something needs to change, but if you leave/change relationships because of this fact, you are just resetting the countdown without necessarily understanding that there is something that is supposed to come next. Sometimes leaving a relationship is the right step. It's up to us to make sure that we're leaving a relationship because we cannot progress, and not because we choose not to.
I literally mentioned in the other video that it seemed like you guys were breaking up but shouldn't have. You guys both seemed like you still loved eachother. My wife was also confused by the mixed signals. Well it seems like you guys figured it out, since you are both adults I had no doubt you guys would realise eventually. Congratulations guys, I'm truly happy for the both of you. Sometimes life is just crazy.
I guess sometimes it takes actually saying things out loud (or announcing it to a audience of strangers i guess) to realize when you are wrong about something the question remains if this is going to be a seccond wind, or a dying gasp Best of luck
You guys are my favorite people and you guys are the reason I believe the world is not as shitty as we make it out to be . I'll always be rooting for you guys.
Well that was interesting. I saw the title of the first video at work, but it was taken down by the time i had a chance to watch. Glad you two got things to work out. From our outsider perspective, we never see all the behind the scenes stuff, so it's hard to really understand. Good luck!
Take it slow and figure it out guys, love isn't a cookie cutter shape, it's different for everyone so figure out what works for the 2 of you. You are both amazing people and it's obvious that you really get along well and care for each other. Be kind to yourselfs and whatever happens, the community will keep supporting you both.
Darn dang it guys like I been saying for oh I don’t know 10 years!!! put a ring on it! SMH!!! 🥸OH HEY EIN SICK THEM FOR ME 🐺grrrrr lol like i always said guys i believe in you… i may not able give alll the time but i do try get back on to give just be there for you guys!! You to Kai rest editor MXR team ps please bring back recorder pleeeeeesssse! Lol
I was literally going to type in the last one that you guys may get back togather over time and that it MAY be a situation where you felt like you need to break up...etc... Lo-and-Behold, you post an update video and....your back togather and going to try and too work things out. As long as both sides have agreed with trying and your both not trying to force it through just cause, then deafinitly try.
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This is a very confusing day
Good. If you give up on this relationship, you'll regret it for the rest of your life.
It's ok you guys, sometimes you two just gotta hash it out to realize how much you two have respect, love, and admiration for each other and are ok with what and where you guys are at in the relationship. THANK GOD it took you guys only half a day. :P
Apparently they were broken up for months and only just announced it, but making it public provided a dose of reality. I just hope it's the kind of reality where they both let go of some of what they thought they "needed" from their relationship. If they can do that, they will have a path forward to true joy and love in the relationship.
They break up. I go to bed. I wake up. They're back together. All the best guys, so happy for both of you.
Good. Work it out. Ask for help if you need it.
I called it lol I'm so happy this is were the work begins you two plz do yalls best
I never comment but I have been around since the early days of Skyrim mods. I watched you guys meet, grow up and go through trials that life threw at you. I was sad to see you break up but most of us knew there was something up with your relationship. But this abrupt 180 degrees is pretty jarring. It is your lives and you do what makes you two happy. But I think you need to talk to a professional to maybe work on some issues. My wife and I needed it and we are now celebrating our 12th year togetehr. Hoping for the best.
I agree, though I cannot truly tell them what they need
WHAT THE FUCK MAN You scared the shit out of us! Ok well thanks for that scare, we appreciate being put on our toes
i'm really happy for you both, just remember how hard the year was but how through it all you had eachother. that no matter how bad a day was, there the other was, loving and supporting you. this world is a dark and often lonely place but you have eachother. nothing else matters in the end. hold eachother and remember that no matter the problem This Too Shall Pass,
Well Dang... you guys are just so sweet with eachother, and I love that it's the little things, because it is and that's a good mindset. I'm glad you guys were able to step back and realize those things and come back stronger. You've Leveled Up!!😁👍🏻 I'm happy you guys are working it out and sticking with it knowing that it feels right, and even tho we don't know you personally to a personal level we still support and aim to be by your guy's side as a life time Crewsader💜💜💜 my heart melted^^🥺.... but ya that was a scary moment and watching you both with the earlier vid hurt seeing you guys like that even thoughi understandstand what you meant.... but thank you for the Clarity video😁👍🏻
There's only one way I'll forgive you guys.... Kai boyfriend tryouts when?
You two are ridiculous and I mean that in the best way. Your one in the same practically. You both know that your each others soul mate so now you just need to worry about the little things to keep it going. Your young, take that to heart, many of us meet our #1 way late in life. I love you guys as is, warts and all! We are all flawed creatures. Out there it's scary, in here, we are all accepted into this tribe that you started.❤️🩹❤️🔥🫂
I really like you guys as a couple, and as individuals, but I'm going to need to see some consistency before I congratulate you both. I personally cannot stand breakup/makeup couples. Hope you both figure things out.
This seems like the propper time to tell this. When I first found mxr plays on Youtube, I thought Jeanie was too good for you Henry. You came off as a bit of a dick. Then I watched the video of the trip to the German town. That video showed how much you really loved Jeanie. After that I realized it was part of your act. I truely enjoy your videos. Thats why I followed you to patreon. If I am wrong about any of the above, please allow me to live in ignorance.
Good. Now kith. Also: This is probably some of the funniest content you two have released thus far, just never expected a "to be continued" type of meme. Also also: Not every relationship is gonna be all sunshine and rainbows. Glad you two were able to remember the things that really matter before it was too late 🥲
There are difficulties in EVERY relationship. Deciding to deal with them and move forward or not dealing with them and move on is the difference. Personal growth and maturing as you get older should be a constant. If ever needed, seek couples therapy. It truly can help. You two have been a bright spot throughout the last 4 years with laughter and joy. I hope you two stick it out if thats what you want. You don't know what you have until it is gone. Hoping for what ever is best for you both!
Hey! I tried to dig deeper! You guys better understand that while we are overjoyed you are not breaking up, we are going to be even more upset if you break up again.
hey you dont have to listen to me and don't take it as a insult. but if you want your relationship to last. you have to have respect for your relationship. so if you want it to last please stop with the inappropriate degenerate games like the weird beer pong game or react to porn games or just anything like that. just some good old reaction videos or just fuuny games that make you do stupid stuff. that dont make you naked. most relationships that do last like the people who are married throughout their life are the one who don't put their spouse in a uncomfortable position but i know both of you aren't uncomfortable with it but deep down everyone slowly feels rot in their soul and it will make you go crazy slowly. even if you are completely fine with it. that why you see retired pornstars that are crazy or super depressed you have to have self-respect. even for your relationship but that's just what i believe dont take this serious. its your relationship and there's the 1% out there that can have a working relationship with any problem. But thats the 1% and not the many.
you weird bro
👍🏻 With relationships it is hard to find real love and understanding. I am happy ya'll have this going for you. I will always be a fan of you both no matter what the outcome. Life is a struggle at less you have each other.
In this video you guys mentioned you have private vlogs & I agree with things like that. Not every single thing in a relationship shouldn't be publicized as you run the risk of turning the relationship into something purely for content..
Therapy is not a failure. Don't forget that. I urge you to consider including a professional in some discussions so you can help determine whether your issues are surmountable and whether you're just missing some procedural parts of your relationship that will help you thrive or whether there's some sort of showstopper issue. Not all relationships look "normal" and not all people who are in love are meant to be together. Best of luck, but genuinely please do your best to be the happiest selves you can be. Together or not.
Thank you guys for not forcing me to write some sappy message saying how much your viewers live you. Much appreciated.
Relationships take work. You two have had a challenging last couple years to say the least. Sometimes it's hard to get to the love cos of all the obstacles and it's possible to lose sight of your goals, as individuals as well as a couple. May I respectfully suggest getting in touch with a relationship therapist. Having a mature professional assist in navigating whatever anxieties or turmoil you may be going through can be invaluable. Even if things are going well having a little extra help communicating with each other in a structured setting can be really healthy for your relationship long-term. Much love to you both. Stay true to yourselves!
Dude honestly ts is just… idek
Well, that was a thing. You guys complete each other: it's that easy. You finish each other's thoughts and words. You're yin and yang. Henry, don't fuck it up, but try harder to imagine your partner's reaction before you act (and speak dude)! Glad to see you guys working it out. Some couples therapy could work wonders, too. It's not just for married couples you know. ❤️
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So glad you guys came to the conclusion you're ment for each other. Some of us aren't so lucky to catch that in time or have it reciprocated, best wishes for you two!
YAY!!! I’m so happy you both were able to find a way back that felt right! 🥰 We all know that you both being a couple just works, so celebrations all around, Krewsaders!!! 🥳
How juvenile.
Jesus frikin Christ... istG😂😂ya'll took me on the craziest roller coaster ride😂. But for real, I do hope your relationship reaches new heights💖💖💖
On a totally separate note, who TF is typing away and clicking while you guys talk?
Y'all need to take some time to really figure out why you are together, and why you want to continue being with each other. Away from streaming. There needs to be more to your relationship than streaming. Even if that means stepping away from streaming for a bit. I wish nothing but the best for you, and hope you are truly happy together.
I love yall guys 🥹
Well, today was real fucking Rollercoaster of Emotions. You can't just play with our Hearts like that. I am quite relieved with the Outcome though.
I'm very relieved that is all.
If you guys were already married we would all be telling you it's normal to have periods of doubt and ups and downs. You just need to work through the seven year itch moments because relationships are work.
Thank goodness you've resolved some of your issues and we get to see more content! On the other hand, Jeanie is now off the market, Dammit!!
OK!!!!!! Whew. Cause I saw that vid at work and man I had so maaaaaany questions and wth moments. No embarrassment needed, what ya'll did is quite normal. Couples do it all the time. But I'm super glad you had the mental head space to back up, rewind, and think about the good times and those important moments and feelings. That means you have more good moments than bad. And ya'll are working on it! That right there...... that's more effort than what some others would put in. Having an appreciation for your partner and recognizing the happy feelings you give and get from them is such a good thing. This event was a test, and it showed your deep down your willingness to really be together. Ya'll made it through! Soulmates...........Henry ................................................................................. it's time bruh ......................... you know what to do.
Im genuinely happy for you. Now I feel you should take some time just for the two of you, no camera just exist, and enjoy.
I said there was a chance.
I hadn't got to see that other (bad news) video yet and at this point I don't think I ever will watch it
But, more seriously than my other comment, relationships sometimes need analysis and a step back. I'm glad you guys reflected on all the good things and wish you well with any of the bad things.
It's obvious you guys love each other, and while yes love isn't always enough, you guys now have the wherewithal to comeback and work on what may have been an error in the relationship. Just be completely open and honest even more than you may have been in the past. You have confirmation that each of you wants the others happiness. So are you happier together and can work through any thing minor? Or is there a major desire/issue in the relationship that the other does not wish to be involved with? Some times the people we love are perfect for the time we had with them, but desires change making the relationship incompatible, and people can go different ways as they find more about how they want to live their own life. You can still love the person, and love them enough to let them go have that life. But, if you can share or allow them on their own to fulfill that desire without judgement so they won't resent you for not allowing them the experience there is a chance for continuation. Support each other. Be open with each other and conscience of each other's feelings. Don't shutdown, but do take time to calm down alone, think, and discuss why each felt angered. Don't force an issue if not ready, but do discuss when might be a good time to talk about that issue. If stumbling on your words and saying the wrong thing might be an issue, write everything down, read it, edit your words so they actually say your intent, put it down until tomorrow, re-read, re-edit, and then discuss. Young relationships always jump on each other, harp on each other and/or themselves too quickly. Each of you desires love. Now do each of you see, feel, and know what is important to the other for them to have a happy, fulfilling life? How badly do you want to be a part of the others happiness, and does their desired course in life jive with your desires course? If you can honestly say to each other that their wish is my wish, and we will work together as a team who loves and cares about the other to fulfill the others dreams so that they too can find fulfillment in life, than you guys are on the right foot. I want love for both of you, you both seem to be good people that deserve love... And send some love to Kai. That woman needs some love too. Too many of us depressed sods out there. Sorry for the ramble. Make a good life.
Love isn't just about emotion and feeling... it is also a commitment, a sense of duty towards another being with wants and needs of their own. Emotion come and go like waves, but once you are fully commited, nothing will drive you apart.
How dare you to play with my emotions like that! I was so sad. Now I'm so happy. Never do that again, please. Love you guys.
Happy to hear you recognized you’re enjoying the moment to moment of your relationship. In my experience it’s easy to be so stressed about the big issues in life that you forget why you enjoyed the other person’s company in the first place. Like how a depressed person can feel so strongly “there’s no point” that they forget how sometimes life just feels good. Ice cream on a sunny day can be “the point” too, just like how a nice breeze and calming music with a loved one can be the point of all the hard work. Years ago you two mentioned in a vlog that you’ve been going to couples therapy, and that needing work doesn’t mean you’re not meant to be. Obviously idk the details of y’all’s relationship but maybe a third perspective can help now like it did then. good luck! cheering for you two as individuals and as a couple <3
Henry & Jeannie this morning: We've broke up months ago. Me: Damn that's rough keep y'all heads up. Henry & Jeannie tonight: So we're back together. Me right now: Seriously?!?!? Wasn't going to give y'all my theories as WHY y'all broke up but...so this one time with Kai...😆😅
The wiplash of today. Glad you're happy. I'll still be supporting the both of you. I did find my self wondering what the bluelit thing in the background between you is?
I want more than anything for both of you to work out! Remember the thing that we all want in life is true intimacy, and that’s what you’re describing, Henry.
I cried, I laughed, and now I'm feel a sense of peace and happiness knowing you guys are still working it out in the last 12 hours. Relationships likes yours look so genuine that's its hurts just knowing that you're not a couple. Will always support both of you no matter where you guys end up.
Emm what just happened
A couple of hours ago they released a video saying the broke up. In this video (thankfully) they take it back.
Wait so is mom and dad getting back together? I can't handle this heart attack. I woke up and watch the break up video and now a new video?
8:25 Yea, it feels like you guy's connection goes beyond the 5 senses. U just know the other person's listening to you without looking to see if they actually are because you feel it. Pretty Crazy & Awesome. 8:59 I guess it really is beyond the 5 senses huh.
Now I'm crying, you two big doofuses.
Im glad for both of you! Sometimes it takes a final move to realise what your losing out and what you may be walking away from. I'm happy that you both saw your light. And I can only hope what you are doing now isn't a business inspired decision but one your making for both of your lives and futures going forward.
Honestly I'm glad you guys worked it out. I was sad to see the last episode but figured it wasnt my place to judge or comment on your relafionship. Whatever your status might be, at least I am glad that you're still here making content for us. Thanks Genie and Mark.
Good for you guys all the best
I'm not gonna sit here and pretend like I know what's going on in your relationship, but I hope you two find your peace no matter what that ends up looking like
This needs to be a Movie please
祝有情人終成眷屬.
you two…. playin with my emotions 💀💀 i support both of you no matter where this goes
The first book I ever read by choice, was a Narnia book, 'A Horse and his Boy.' At the end, it talked about love in a way that always stuck with me. It didn't describe it as perfect, but as two people working together. I don't know if that helps, but if you're looking for perfect, then you'll never find it.
Nothing is ever perfect. There's a crack in everything- it's how the light gets in.
I didn’t get to see the clip before this but after hearing the recap, I’m glad y’all didn’t break up. Life is too short to give up on each other and you both deciding to give it another chance is why good can exist in this world. Happy for the two of you and please keep the videos coming!
Sleep on it. Being able to take back a big choice like this is a big deal. It's amazing you have the opportunity to. I'd like to hear more from Jeannie about it, because Henry does yap; but you're getting an opportunity not many couples get to. Last year my fiancee cheated and that led to our relationship falling apart. In the end I was at peace with my actions and what I'd said... She wasn't. I'd not get back together with her now - although at the moment I considered it. Sometimes it feels like there is no correct answer. Relationships aren't easy. But if you can share the load together, it helps.
I'm gonna need a neck brace from the whiplash and I wish you guys the best and hope you're doing things for yourselves and not because of the community or anything else.
Please don't take it as pressure, or as an expectation from you guys, but I've always felt that you guys prove to me that love exists. Ever since the start, from MxR Mods over to MxR Plays, and now sticking to Patreon, I've followed religiously. I know if hard times came, that you both would still do what you feel is best for yourselves, but those feelings of the small things "feeling like heaven", they are the things I chase after. Thank you for talking through things, through ensuring you both are comfortable, and honestly the fact that you questioned if it was right and felt wrong for walking away was all the more stronger of you both! I'm rooting for you, viewer #742014 ❤
Lol weirdest social experiment I've ever seen but oh well all's well that ends well hooray!
Oh god, I had a bad day just because of you guys and the first video, and now I will be able to sleep well knowing that you guys are ok, will work to be better and have a better relationship... I am now happy for, and because, of you :)
Just move back to Seattle, go back to heaven.
