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Hey! How are you? Hope you all have been good!
I wanted to come talk to you guys today about something that I think it’s weighing me down quite a bit. I’ve been feeling really stressed lately, mostly about some real life issues, but great part of it because of creating custom content. I love what I do, and I’m insanely grateful for all of you guys support, but I’ve been feeling a lot of pressure lately into delivering content on time, especially hairs.
As most of you guys know, I used to do mesh edits and mashups of already existing hairs, but what you probably don’t know is that over the past year, I’ve been creating my own hairs 100% from scratch. So something that used to take me 2 days to finish, is now taking double that amount of time, and trying to deliver 1 hair + 1 clothing/accessory per week, it’s just been a real struggle.
I don’t want to change this schedule, don’t get me wrong, I’ll always try to do my best and deliver about 6/7 pieces of content per month, but with Christmas coming around the corner, and a few hiccups from my personal life, it has turned this a bit more difficult to accomplish. I’ve been trying for the past 2 weeks to finish a few hair projects, but there’s something always holding me back, and I think part of it is this stress to deliver things on time and do them good.
So I’m taking this time to write you this, as a way of getting things off my chest. I’ll do my best to try and publish content before the end of the year, but no promises or deadlines are being made, which will hopefully help me feel less stressed and stop this creative block I’m having at the moment.
Sorry for all the rambling, but wanted to let you guys know in advance, and see what you think of it! Thank you for understanding, and I wish the warmest & happiest holidays to you all! 💖
Comments (34)
Hey! just wanted to say you are loved and appreciated and you don't owe anyone your time or mental health. Take as much time as you need for yourself and know that your life and health come first. Do what is most comfortable for you and put yourself first. We love you and will support you here. <3
Hi hun! I just want you to know that if you need to take a break please do so! I’m sorry you’re feeling pressured! We can wait as long as we need to<3 You and your health come first before creating custom content. We will always be here. You should be able to enjoy making CC. Stay safe and Happy Holidays❤️❤️
At the end of the day, your real life, health and family are the top priority. So, no worries on a much needed and deserved break. During this time (especially the holidays) where we realize what is most important to us, I pray for a complete refreshed recovery of your spirit, body and mind. We will be here when you get back ;).
I'm so sorry you feel that way! I want you to know that you are my favorite, and I really love your CC. Your health comes first, take care of yourself 💘 Happy holidays everyone! ✨💝
Take the time you need! Your health, both mental and physical, always comes first! Thank you for always providing us with amazing content and being so transparent with us. Please know you are loved & appreciated :)
take all the time you need <3 your cc is amazing but don't feel rushed. your health comes first <3 will be here to support you always :)
Please take your time and don’t feel rushed! You make incredible content for us all the time and you’re always very transparent about anything you may be facing. You should definitely take time for yourself / to enjoy the holidays — we can definitely wait!
Hey! That's no problem at all. Look at yourself first, because that's the most important thing. Your health and your private life come before everything else. Take the time you need & when there are new hairstyles & clothes again, I will look forward to it, no matter when it will come :-)
Hey. Be kind and patient to yourself. I’m grateful for the content you have given us . We fans will be here to support you. 💕
Hi, so I don't know you, and you don't know me. But trust me on this: your health and personal life should ALWAYS come first. It doesn't matter how many customers you have, how impatient they are, or what your work schedule might be. I'm a Graphic Designer for a casino, and I've been working for 20 years now, so please know that I get it. Take care of you and yours FIRST. Your loyal customers can see the quality and attention to detail in your work, and we'll always understand creative stalls. *Be well*
Lovely, Enjoy the holidays! You desevre to enjoy the holidays stress free. Your health is so important. Please take care of yourself
Your health and well being always comes first. Yes you are a CC but you are not a robot. We appreciate the content you give us, its beautiful but you have to make sure you take care of you or you won't be able to create the content you enjoy sharing with us. Take your time we are patient and loyal. Do what you can when you can. We will be here. Happy holidays.❤😊
You're human not a robot, you have an actual life just like the rest of us. While I enjoy your content- stress is real!!!! Enjoy your time and thank you for all that you have already created your one of my favs!!! Happy Holidays
Take your time sweetie, everyone gets mentally tired sometimes. Your well being has to come first! Enjoy your holidays! ❤
Thank you for sharing this with us! We appreciate every creation, your time, and love! Take as much time as you need! <3
No need to rush things. It'll definitely be worth the wait. I hope you're able to find some peace from the life hecticness. Please remember to take care of yourself first.🖤
I am patient don’t rush I love what you do ❤️😘
Please don’t ever pressure yourself into meeting that 6-7 items a month. 99% of us would prefer you be happy and stress free with less content a month. Please take care! I hope you have a lovely Christmas. 🥰🥰
You are amazing and have such a talent for creating CC (and from scratch too?! wowzers!) never underestimate yourself! don't forget to take time for yourself, and don’t feel guilty about doing it either 🥰 hope you have a lovely Christmas and i know it’s easier said than done but please don’t stress about it! lots of love X
Take it easy with your cc making. I support you. So don't make haste. If there not cc every month, but two or three months it is also fine by me.
Take your time and take care of yourself. Love your work and your mental health come first.
Pray for you and don’t stress out
Wait a minute… You do your own hairs now, from 0??? I’m so proud of you! That’s okay, I understand you, take your time and comeback please! We will wait for ya! Thank u for all.Happy Holidays and we see u sooon. Love u
You’re doing amazing so please don’t stress yourself! We appreciate all that you do! Thank You 🙏🏽
Hello. it pains me a lot to read this text. What you do should always be a passion, you should be free-spirited and happy to create content. Your work is exceptional and I would like you to be able to create hairstyles every day but you are not a robot. you are a human being, who, like each of us, has a life, worries and unforeseen events. I would never stop supporting you morally or financially, even if you post less. what I want is for you to produce quality items while having fun. the rest is irrelevant. people come first. ♡ ♡
Ditto to everything already said…I’m happy to support you and get great content in the bargain…no stress, no worries, no rush!
Honey, your work is beautiful and it's evident you work SUPER hard. You post more than lots of people. Please try not to worry. We're here because we love your creations; you've posted SO much that I'm sure we'll all still be here even when you need breaks or to take longer sometimes. We'll understand <3
You take your time and don’t stress over this , you are an amazing artist and if people want the best then they will learn to wait patiently for it , take care of you first, enjoy the holidays, we will be here ☺️
Don’t feel pressured, if you need to take time off for the rest of the year than go ahead, take care of yourself ♥️
Enjoy the holidays and take all the time you need!
please take your time! burn out is real, and it’s so frustrating! you’re so talented and i’m excited to download your creations whenever they come! you’re the best!
No worries. You take your time :)
Sounds like you need a well deserved break! ❤
You take your time we will be here 💜