During the winter the skin on my balls gets really dry and itchy, I had to ask my Keyholder to let me get unlocked until the skin is healed. Obviously, I was not allowed to jerk off. During this time, my communication with him slowed down significantly. It was as if I was no longer reminded that I'm owned. When I put the cage back on, our communication improved. I love how being locked can make you think of your Superior constantly. It's the best way to improve your relationship with that special someone. If you're a Dom, keep your sub caged. If you're a sub, keep that dick caged for your Alpha. I promise you, it'll mold your mind in ways that you never thought would be.