Hey so just one woman’s experience, take it or leave it - I just told my IRL friend about this and it wasn’t nearly as scary or humiliating as I thought it would be. We actually laughed a lot and I’m really happy that I got to tell someone.
I just never thought I would tell a soul, and honestly sometimes I talk to people online who seem even more ashamed of this than I do. So for what it’s worth, I wanted you to hear one person’s experience. If you have a good friend that you can trust, you might be able to tell them someday. And you might find yourself laughing really hard about aquarium pumps in a Mexican restaurant.
And if not, us internet perverts will always be here with you 💞