Post from Ash and Tanya · May 29, 2026

We recently joined Kate on The Dirty Secrets Podcast, and as always, nothing was off limits. 😅

We chatted about how we got into the lifestyle, the difference between soft swap and full swap, the rules that keep our relationship strong, and why attraction and boundaries matter more than people realise.

We also shared some of the funniest (and most awkward) moments we've had at clubs, including a few situations that definitely didn't go to plan. 😂

If you've ever wondered what really goes on behind the scenes, or you're curious about the realities of meeting people online versus in person, this episode is packed with honest conversation and plenty of laughs.

Go give it a listen and let us know your thoughts 👇

🎙️ Hosted by Kate Shelor
📍 The Dirty Secrets Podcast

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Guests -
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